To focus on better serving our members, we've decided to shut down the POF forums.
While regular posting is now disabled, you can continue to view all threads until the end of June 2019. Event Hosts can still create and promote events while we work on a new and improved event creation service for you.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
Well, lets see here... Everything you said about men, women do it too. In your post (for future references for generalizing) just use "why do people", will help you alot.
Here's the kicker, almost everyone lies, I've known some people who don't sooo that's why I said almost everyone. Thing is I think some people lie to their SO about certain things, so they don't hurt their feelings even if they other SO thinks it's crazy, or not needed.
I've been cheated on, looked in the mall and saw multiple women who I could have, (which is what you said, but men) so why sit here and make a post talking about us 'men'?
Anyways, hope things work out for you. Have fun with dating, just don't do what 'certain' people are doing to you, to others.