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 phuquemonkey
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 7
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Here we go again

[ It is my opinion that the majority of people who can just f*ck anyone at anytime and are okay with that have problems at a fundamental level. ]

Way suppositious, but at least you said, "In my opinion." Just because you would have problems at a fundamental level if you did something like this doesn't mean anyone else does, unless of course you suppose that they hold the same world view that you do. Some do, others don't.

[ It has been my experience (limited as it may be), that people (both men and women) can have countless meaningless sexual encounters and be very much unfulfilled at the end of it. ]

They could also be very fulfilled at the end of it, unless of course they hold your world view.

[ Some people think it is healthy.... perhaps it is.... for some might not associate sex with love or vice versa... that is their choice. But if you can have meaningless sex with another person and call yourself a man or woman of principles and intelligence... you are wrong in my opinion. ]

I'm glad you keep saying, "In my opinion." If someone holds the view that meaningless sex is not the basis of principle or intelligence, they could be both. Just not in your world.

[ I don't need a religion or a government or my parents telling me casual sex is wrong, I know it in my heart. (this is a general statement not a personalized one) ]

I think you might have gotten that backwards, but maybe not. The comment is most certainly YOUR opinion and certainly NOT the opinion of the general population (although it could be statistically). Casual sex is only wrong within the context of YOUR world view. Those with a different view know, as well as you, that casual sex is just fine.

[ Prime example of the whole 'f*ck buddy' mentality going wrong is when people become jealous at the thought of another person having sex or being intimate with the one they are having intermittent sex with. This happens all the time, and there is a real good reason for that. Sex creates a connection with two people, both emotional as well as physical. ]

Another supposition. Sex may or may not create an emotional connection between two people, all depends on the people.

[ But casual sex just for the hell of it is not cool. ]

Oops, forgot to add, "In my opinion." There is no intrinsic value (i.e. good or bad) in the act of sex. Sex is for the purpose of procreation and pleasure, you can attach whatever value you want to either purpose.

[ Obviously there are people who feel differently like those who posted above me for example. ]

Obviously.

Life's a crap shoot, so roll.

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 phuquemonkey
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 4/30/2005 8:37:15 PM
GP -

I was gonna post something nasty here but I decide not to clutter the forum with a bunch of personal junk. I emailed GP and gave him my 2cents and an opportunity to bury the hatchet. We'll see what happens.

Life's a crap shoot, so roll.

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 phuquemonkey
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 4/30/2005 8:41:28 PM
^^^^^Paperdoll - how can you say that?

Your post in Women who just LOVE sucking****
Posted: 4/30/2005 9:26:48 AM

Hi, my name is paperdoll. I am an oral fetishist.

I love giving head.
I'll give it in the car.
In the shower
On the couch
In bed
At the computer
At the table
In the kitchen


I love being on my knees and sucking. God I sound like a slut.

Isn't oral sex just for fun?

Life's a crap shoot, so roll.

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 phuquemonkey
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 5/1/2005 7:24:37 AM
^^^ 100% TRUE

Jody_Cassidy and kaboobers - may you always make your point so easily.

Life's a crap shoot, so roll.

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 rterrehaute6
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/1/2005 7:30:33 AM
join the club I am also looking for just for fun sex and getting no where. Seems females are always wanting serious lon term relationships. Don't get me wrong if your young and jsut starting out that is fine. But when you start getting older like mid 30 and up sex for fun is just fine for me. I will still respect the female as I always have.
 phuquemonkey
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 5/1/2005 2:36:20 PM
Yo! bailey_rayne - victimize me victimize me

Life's a crapshoot, so roll.

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 phuquemonkey
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 5/1/2005 9:59:26 PM
Someone in another thread suggested that we should only have sex for procreation. are any of you "no sex just for fun" fans ready to embrace that idea?

Life's a crap shoot, so roll.

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 booher1964
Joined: 9/3/2009
Msg: 40
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Posted: 8/15/2011 8:34:33 PM
Well u havent tryed it.They r a diffrence,Ive had fun sex with my wife,well x now so did she but just not always with me,lol.Any way,Thats when u smack that ass,u know.Then theres the kissing,rubbing,and oh yeah,the laying there after and letting her feel well like a woman needs 2 some time.But guys dont let them fool u most like that ass smacked ever now and then.So it dont have 2 b with a new person. And horney women that reads this,Im single now.lol.
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 42
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Posted: 8/16/2011 9:16:42 AM
All sex should be fun, or it's not worth it. Sex should be for fun even in a commited relationship. It can be for others things too, of course. Casual sex is best - I don't want to make an appointment and wear a tux to have sex, just a condom will do most of the time.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 8/16/2011 9:40:09 AM

Totally agree with 'casual sex' being a meaningless pursuit.. made for morons who are afraid of commitment, fear intimacy & are totally insecure individuals.


How about.....instead of "morons who are afraid of commitment".....we be adult about it and say......."made for 2 consentling adults who don't want a commitment"

and.........how does one "fear intimacy".......if they are actually having sex?
Wouldn't one not have sex if they feared intimacy?

insecure? once again......if one was insecure.....they wouldn't be brave enough to find a partner to have casual sex with!!

If you're going to come into a thread just to belittle and demean those with a different opinion......at least do it with some common sense
 ted61
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 47
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Posted: 8/16/2011 1:48:07 PM
It all boils down to to our own biases. " Whatever I believe about sex is good and whatever you believe is "unnatural."

I think you will find the more education a person has, the more "open" they are about sex and sex practices.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 49
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Posted: 8/17/2011 1:15:51 PM
lol OP sure, alot of people believe in just for fun sex. Thats what my whole profile on here basically states I'm here for
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 56
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Posted: 8/19/2011 8:16:41 PM

Some people believe in it, hopefully they are single though!


What?!? Married people can't have sex for fun? With each other, that is. No wonder there are so many divorces!
 Pasionlatina529
Joined: 8/5/2011
Msg: 57
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Posted: 8/19/2011 9:06:11 PM
Giggles posted some great obvious reasons...and it could/can be fun....but definately it's NOT a lasting thing since those types of ppl tend to migrate to lots of people which could lead to other problems...but it's not anything permanent...so I may venture to try it a little IF I like him..but since that is NOT what I really want..I won't continue that.
 1osubuckeye
Joined: 1/12/2011
Msg: 62
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Posted: 8/22/2011 8:45:17 AM
What is with some of you people? Some of you are such tight asses about anything and everything but then will talk about****gobbling in another thread. What is wrong with casual sex? We aren't "afraid of commitment" or "unwilling to be in a relationship".......we just want casual sex....it's called....umm what's the word for it?....NATURAL?
 NOCLOWNING
Joined: 7/21/2010
Msg: 65
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Posted: 9/12/2012 4:30:45 PM
I enjoy fun sex, who doesnt, but couldnt with someone, I dont know. I have fun sex with a F.W.B. every chance I get. Untill he or I meet who we are looking for.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 68
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Posted: 9/14/2012 1:11:53 AM
I do have FWBs for that reason. I still keep in touch w old ones w gf & even wife.now. We're just friends. I need to say hi & talk in between when we get together too
So I do have to like them beyond great sex.
 EastTnGal
Joined: 12/13/2011
Msg: 70
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Posted: 9/22/2012 5:24:36 PM
I love a booty call ... had several **** buddies in my day! It's a beautiful thing!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 71
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Posted: 9/22/2012 5:44:44 PM
a booty call does sound nice right about now ^^^
 SmileznChuckles
Joined: 9/7/2012
Msg: 72
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Posted: 9/22/2012 6:14:34 PM

I'm curious... Doesn't anyone believe in just for fun sex anymore?? The booty call so to speak.. lol.. I have a great life at home but... sometimes lust can be intriging.. and I just can't seem to find a willing partner.. :-(


I get lots of mail from guys looking for fun sex... if you're at all intersted..lol
 SmileznChuckles
Joined: 9/7/2012
Msg: 73
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Posted: 9/22/2012 7:45:29 PM
^^^
meaning i can pass them on to you...
they're the ones I ignore, which appear to be the majority of mail i receive
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