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Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 1
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Ok peeps, quick question! What do you think of a guy that has a strap-on and wants you to use it on him...not just do him with it, but he wants to suck on it, and call you daddy while you do him? Im a little weirded out right now, is it just me?
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 2
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:40:29 AM
ummm no its not you - its him. That's pretty gay.
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 3
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:44:45 AM

hmm....ya this is totally normal.

My last three girlfriends all had "strap on vaginas" that they wanted me to wear and call them "mommy"

Seriously....everyone is welcome to their own "kinks"...but man that ones just a little too much.

I would strongly suggest you "run for the hills"...or at least scurry to a dark corner.
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 4
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:46:58 AM
it's an odd request, i'll give you that. i have a story of my own in a similar vein. i had a guy i'd been previously intimate with ask if i would watch and give him instructions on how to suck another guy off...apparently i gave good head and he wanted to be sure he did it right. flattering, but a bit odd...and no i didn't do it. either way, everyone's got their kinks...whether or not you're comfortable with this guy's fetish for sucking off a strap on and calling you daddy is really up to you ; )
Joined: 3/1/2007
Msg: 5
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:54:20 AM
This is one even I have not heard or done before!
 naughty twin
Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 6
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:57:57 AM
Its not as uncommon as you might think. I've had lots of guys ask me to break out my strap on with them. It may just be a fantasy on his part, but if you aren't into it don't do it. You can always tell him the request weirded you out---Good luck
 Fly on the Wall
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 7
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:58:16 AM

What do you think of a guy that has a strap-on and wants you to use it on him

This I'm fine with...we all know men get stimulation anally, so no prob....however....:

but he wants to suck on it, and call you daddy while you do him? Im a little weirded out right now, is it just me?

No, I'm weirded out too....first thing that comes to mind is to wonder if he was abused by his father....
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 8
Posted: 6/13/2007 10:59:09 AM
I think this is an indication of really severe psychological problems - well beyond normal kink. Unless you like the prospect of analyzing this dude, I'd say throw him back.
Joined: 3/29/2007
Msg: 9
Posted: 6/13/2007 11:04:25 AM
Had to read this. Was wondering if you were dating my exhusband. God how I hope I was only kidding. Yes it is very weird. Doing what he asks, just feels way to wrong. And when all is said and done. In the back of your head, you wonder when he will get tired of the strap on version, and go after the built in version. Please if you think you can't handle it. Don't do it, because then other things start going through your head.
Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 10
Posted: 6/13/2007 11:11:34 AM
Reminds me of a Sopranos episode
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 11
Posted: 6/13/2007 11:13:53 AM
Very creepy.

Joined: 4/2/2007
Msg: 12
Posted: 6/13/2007 11:41:46 AM
yea, that's pretty f'd up
 Always smile!
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 13
Posted: 6/13/2007 11:47:03 AM
Sounds like the girl and guy from Scary movie. without the laughs
Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 6/13/2007 12:28:04 PM
i think he may have bisexual tendencies... and may not have dealt with them yet...

if you are comfortable enough with it... hey... go for it... i know a lot of guys like very little anal stimulation... but...

umm....yah... *lol*
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 15
Posted: 6/13/2007 12:29:26 PM
The part of him wanting to call you daddy is a bit over the top, I think. He does have a few problems there, methinks.
Other than that, who cares? It's between 2 consenting adults....
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 16
Posted: 6/13/2007 12:30:03 PM
sounds kinky and if you are not comfy with it then you should not do it... but if you want to try it cool...
not too sure about the daddy issue as it seems like it is something else in there but hey to each thier own!
Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 17
Posted: 6/13/2007 12:31:06 PM
I would say stick him back in the closet where he came from and run like hell....
Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 18
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Posted: 6/13/2007 12:41:01 PM
they might be bi. that, or usually some men get off at women who "takes their manhood away from them" or in other words, he might want you to dominate him. maybe asking him about how he feels about the relationship and give out your theorys.
Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 19
Posted: 6/13/2007 12:43:06 PM
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 6/13/2007 12:43:54 PM
I think this would be something that a guy would keep under wraps for a long time until he was in a long term relationship, bring it up slowly and then test the waters.... if the girl freaked I'd hope he'd keep that particular fetish hidden and just deal.

As for springing that on a date.... I'd go running for the hills! I'd also seriously question his sexuality.
Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 21
Posted: 6/13/2007 12:54:16 PM
I glanced at the Firefox tab on my tool bar while reading this. "Strap on free dating" well isn't that a relief.
Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/13/2007 1:01:41 PM
Sounds pretty gay to me.
 Nick Thinker
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 23
Posted: 6/13/2007 1:14:35 PM
I am not into this kind of stuff, but hey between consenting adults!!! But that means that the OP has to consent too to what this person wants, and since she does not seem too (do not blame her), she should move on, I guess, or even run, like Forrest!!
 Fry Lock
Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 6/13/2007 1:17:53 PM
yup. sounds gay to me. to each his own, and I'm not above doing MOST anything out there, umm, but this goes above and beyond my call of duty.

Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 6/13/2007 1:24:25 PM
WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Unless you are into bi-sexual men; then ummmmmmmm.........and did he tell you he is bi-sexual/gay? Because if not then he's being deceiving is he not? I would not be able to do it; I would slap him with his strap on and leave! What the hell?
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