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 lowrider59
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 7
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Had a live-in for five years. She was 20 years my junior.
It was mostly good, although there were times her craving got in the way.
She would even duck out of work for a quickie sometimes. "That" made me nervous.
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
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Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 1:08:19 PM
Batteries are the answer for any longevity concerns... you can outlast any women with the right sex toys.

OP, have you discussed your concerns with her? What does she say?
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
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Posted: 6/20/2007 2:05:11 PM
There are several possibilities and that is why I asked the OP if he has discussed it with his girlfriend. I can't remember in the OP if he mentioned she has difficulty reaching orgasm. I believe difficulty reaching orgasm is one of the hallmarks of nymphomania or sexual addiction is it not?

It could also be she is young and hasn't got love/need/sex sorted out yet.

Edit: OP hasn't given enough information yet to get a real feel for what might be the issue. HE hasn't mentioned a difficulty reaching orgasm in his posts. It could just be mis-matched sex drives, it could be sexual addiction or another dysfunction like nymphomania.
 ~Juggernaut~
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 16
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 2:36:50 PM
Yes a few and I never understand why people complain about these things ,I had a women once who wasn't satisfied with just me anymore 3 or four times a day so then it became Me and whoever else was there , It got crazy and I said " SEE YA!! " But it had it's moments , I knew another who had an oral fetish in the car and wanted to constantly see if she could distract my driving ? She was alot of fun though.

People complain about the wierdest things !
 Karrpilot
Joined: 1/26/2007
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Posted: 6/20/2007 2:59:04 PM
Did you ever think to cash in on this? I am sure you could both make some home made porn and become rich. Think of the possibilities. My first girlfriend was close to that. And the sex was fantastic. But other than the sex, we had little in common. I would come home worn out and sore. And then go back again the next day. And i left her why???????
 JWA
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 21
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/20/2007 3:22:51 PM

Had a live-in for five years. She was 20 years my junior.
It was mostly good, although there were times her craving got in the way.
She would even duck out of work for a quickie sometimes. "That" made me nervous.


That sounds like a page out of my life----until about a year and half ago anyway. Had met a younger gal at a local club who had to work pretty hard convincing me she was actually interested in someone "my age" but she eventually had her way. We were together about five years as well and the sexual chemistry was very, very amazing. Except for her occasional trips to California for work-related meetings etc there wasn't a single day go by where we hadn't enjoyed one another at least once. Time permitting we'd spend many hours "doing it" and lost more than a few weekends to the best indoor sport ever. She was just as likely to be the initiator and was not a bit shy about a thing which I fully encouraged.

The lunch time quickie was another fun time with her, too. I don't know you could call her a "nympho" but she did have an incredible sex drive, was very high on energy and nearly always ready to go. If my own appetite hadn't been at that level she might have "overwhelmed" me but luckily it worked out just fine!!

Something like this can affect a relationship and it's not always easy or even possible to come to an agreement. Mostly it requires two people with a real interest to be together and stay that way and/or have the same sex drive.
 1Fish2Fish RedFishNewFish
Joined: 9/8/2006
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Posted: 6/20/2007 7:03:34 PM

I believe difficulty reaching orgasm is one of the hallmarks of nymphomania or sexual addiction is it not?

This is incorrect. Any addiction is a matter of perverting something to abnormal levels.

Bioillogical was dead on.

An addict will do whatever their particular addiction involves, despite the negative consequences. They will continue doing so because they are unable to stop.

As far as "nymphomania", I cannot profess accurate knowledge of this condition, although I will assume that it is meant to mean a female who has some form of sexual addiction. These are conditions that are beyond the individual's control.

I believe that the terms are sometimes used inaccurately to describe people with very high sex drives. However, in the case of the true addict, the condition will become progressively worse until their entire life revolves around their addiction, costing the addict friends, family, jobs, homes, etc. True addiction, left untreated, can only lead to insanity, incarceration, or death. Being in a relationship with an addict, sex, drug, or other, will take it's toll on the non-addict as well. I do not envy anyone who is in a relationship with an addict.
 Felipeman
Joined: 4/5/2007
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Posted: 6/21/2007 2:23:23 PM
funniest thread ever...
 JDMETRO
Joined: 5/9/2007
Msg: 28
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 6/21/2007 10:21:34 PM
How to handle it -- Tag Team . . . ha.

Joe
 PhilMeUpBaby
Joined: 3/9/2007
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Posted: 7/1/2007 1:39:12 PM
I've been with quite a few nymphos over the years.

They each weren't nympho before they met me, but they were after they slept with me.

*sigh* Ok, ok.... back to reality now....

 Engage-me
Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/1/2007 7:51:35 PM
Short answer: yes. Long answer: This gal was running from a mentally abusive marriage and was acting out. She also had a son by her first love--who dropped her like a hot potato when he found out. Low self-esteem, depression, you get the picture. I was one of the (very few who actually related to her on a non-sexual level.

Oh, she eventually died in a morning-after car wreck. I suspect suicide because she wasn't wearing her seatbelt -- and she ALWAYS wore her seat belt.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 7/2/2007 5:39:46 AM
This is why open communication is the hallmark of a real relationship.
If she is really that uninhibited about sex, maybe you need to talk to her about it, and explore her feelings fully. Sounds like she's using sex to cover up any emotional issues that she has about the relationship.
 wolf-on-2wheels
Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 7/2/2007 1:51:05 PM
Now that sum funny sh*t, I don't care who you are ...Dude are YOU 4 real?
I have the perfect solution for ya, either you can give her my address and I'll break her of that nasty habit of hers ... or you can kill 2 birds with one stone, by PIMPIN her ass out, that way you get the relaxation you soo badly need plus you make $$$ at the same time ...personally I have spent many of years trying to turn women into nymphos and here YOU are whining and crying about it...The marrying her idea is good but Divorce can be costly, I think a years supply of Viagra will be cheaper in the long run and lots of TOYS and Batteries...If YOU need any further assistance then send her to my place, I'll do my best to help out my fellow man ....now YOU might be a REDNECK, if someone yells HO DOWN and you think your sister has fallen again
 FistnCuffs
Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 49
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 7/25/2007 8:08:48 PM
some of the posts here are quite off the mark...nymphomania is misunderstood by most of the general populace
if a woman is multi-orgasmic shes gonna wanna cum over and over again...
if a woman has trouble achieving the big "O" shes gonna keep doin it till she achieves orgasmic state...both these scenarios are gonna give rise...(no pun)...to a female that likes to fukk...
then there is the female that is driven by the NEED to fukk...this one is the real nympho...the other two just like doin it...
my first wife was driven by this need...whether she felt the need to please men or what i dont know...but this kind of compulsive behaviour...whether its the need to fukk...drink...do drugs...gamble etc...aint right...
in her case...evil step dad raped her at age 12...by age 14 she was giving hand jobs in a rub joint on yonge street in toronto...at age 15 she got tangled up with some thug from toronto that had her doin tricks...
i met her when she was 20 or so...and had ran away from pimp boy in toronto...
i was playing in a bar band and she was waitressing...her first words to me was ..."i wanna suck your ****"...hey...no prob...
i was mid 20's and randy as a 3 peckered goat...all was seeminly good...but our sex drives were starting to get out of synch...i lasted two years...no mean feat...but gawd damn...literally draining...she would rather get laid than have a hot meal...i married her after living with her for a year...the marriage lasted about a year...one of her "defining" moments was...one night she swiped my van...a bottle of whisky and picked up 3 of her younger brothers friends...she returned mid afternoon the next day lookin like a drowned rat...and the right side of my van was caved in...after she cleaned up etc...we had a little chat...the essence of which was...she said she wanted to get laid and i was asleep...
yeah ok...w/e...
4 and 5 times a day is all fine and dandy...(in the beginning)... but good god...in reality it does wear rather thin after a while...make all the virility jokes you want...i smile bemusedly while reading them...i think most of the male posters in here would run like little puppies from such a female...(after a while anyway)...
if you think you can "tame" such a female...have at'er boys...
just my two pennies
 Tequila Sunrise1
Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 55
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 7/29/2007 8:57:42 PM
WTF are you complaining about??!!! u put up with it for a yr?! and what is the definition of a nympho? REAL nymphos will seek sex outside of a relationship with just about anyone to fulfill their sexual needs, so be careful about defining her as a nympho by the book..she sounds like she has a healthy sexual drive, maybe you need to get checked..and buy a dictionary
 realdream7
Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 7/30/2007 5:02:49 PM
Personally I don't think the OP is/was bothered at all, he was just baitin' us and looking for a rise and some good entertainment. Notice he "joined" on 6/11/2007 and his profile doesn't now exist. Also notice that his post was his "only" post on this entire forum. Well, hope ye got yer entertainment, OP. Bet yur reading it now!
 realdream7
Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 7/30/2007 6:40:54 PM
Well to clarify...



Anyone knows how I could handle this? Each time I reject gently her demands for sex she gets it really bad

Ahh that's BS. He loves it.

Well let the discussion continue anyway, it's a valid topic and many good points have been raised here.
I just think the OP was "pulling our leg."
 onetoknight
Joined: 8/16/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 1/17/2008 8:53:31 PM
I do agree with bio boy and Know that sex is completely Not the answer If she isn't getting it from you it could be gotten else where. Trust is a short ride though. I have dated a sexually " addicted" woman for a while and it was great . I thought I would never be happy forever and after several months found her keeping more than Happy at home but anywhere she went. Love your Woman , She is the one who matters. Y not Thay are Y we are here guys. But don't keep a CHEATER.
 demux21
Joined: 1/7/2013
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Posted: 8/7/2013 9:35:20 PM
The thing is yoou are in very good situation but have yet to appreciate it. Nymp's are typically very loyal and althoughhave very strong and active libidos wnat you to satisfy them. The phrase "you never know what you have until it is gone" applies here.
The best thing for you t do is stay in shape, eat well and take care of her. Yes it is a lot of sex but, amn up and expand your ability to satisfy her.
 lowmiles2
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 8/8/2013 9:16:54 AM
"Oh... Peg! Not again."
 the_biggavell
Joined: 7/9/2012
Msg: 64
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Posted: 8/8/2013 8:26:40 PM
Geez... i need to find a nympho...
 pamioakley
Joined: 5/26/2013
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Posted: 8/9/2013 4:37:17 PM
I've only read a few other responses, most of which were from men. I'm answering you from the other side of the coin (female). I was with a needy man for a year. Sexually needy translated into emotionally needy. I have to tell you, I've never had an issue with sex - always loved it. But when I started feeling like a blow up doll, and he started pouting about not getting it daily, I wasn't happy. I'll quote him "if I can't make love to the woman I love who is supposed to love me in return, WHEN I want, I feel unloved and rejected." I advised him to get counseling and we are no longer together. So that said, is she a nympho or is she trying to fill up some space inside of herself that cannot ever be filled? Next question, can we introduce them? :)
 adventurejoe70
Joined: 3/1/2013
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Posted: 8/9/2013 6:49:33 PM
Sure was a lady In the street and a whore in the bedroom or was it the other way around? Was a lot of alcohol present in those days.
 Tsar850
Joined: 3/23/2013
Msg: 67
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Posted: 8/9/2013 6:57:38 PM
Bang her like a screen door in a hurricane while you can just be sure to be safe cause if you think your the only hurricane in the ocean you got another think coming.
 curviest
Joined: 5/28/2010
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Posted: 8/11/2013 9:18:56 AM
Many of the men I've had first dates with have been nymphos lolol...
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