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 Silver Sharpie
Joined: 8/8/2005
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It's a good thing she told you her plans beforehand. Better to learn the truth at the bar, than to find out after being shackled in her dungeon.
 Vaporous
Joined: 9/21/2006
Msg: 4
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 3:56:57 AM
No that isn't right but that makes for one hell of a story
 cj300zx
Joined: 2/9/2006
Msg: 5
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 4:04:13 AM
Ouch cant blame you for running from that! She sounds like a head case good thing you ran!
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 4:14:37 AM
I think she just sed that to scare you cause she wasn't interested. It worked.
 aspiring_angel
Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 7
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 4:32:29 AM
The words "role play" are frequently associated with BDSM and she probably thought you understood what she meant.

At least you found out before the ropes came out :)

Best wishes ~
 Angelnurse10
Joined: 6/10/2007
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 5:18:51 AM
I agree with Angelyn, I like to spice up my sex life, and I think a lot of guys like women to take control, but when you start to draw blood, I don't think so.
 csod64
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 11
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 6:33:34 AM
Sounds more like a "psycho b*tch" to me, abs. Not all women in BDSM are that violent--but there is a hidden "subculture" within even that where blood "donation" is greatly appreciated. (Not me, dear. I prefer sex the "old-fashioned way".)
 vhdc
Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 12
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 6:37:29 AM
Wow, I hope she cleans the thing up before inviting friends for dinner.
 sun_shine_2008
Joined: 7/24/2007
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 6:49:55 AM
LOL need to clean up my keyboard from the coffee , sigh

I guess next time you will need to ask more questions beofre the meet if sex has already been brought up, kinkt isnt bad but everyone has their own ideas of what they like

OMG cheeze grater and blood, ewwwwww
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 10:08:35 AM
She probably did it to shock you, see what you were made of, see how open you were.

It seems rather hilarious to me at the moment tho...
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 12:54:13 PM
While no one enjoys a bit of bondage and some light slapping around like I do, there are limits.

Digging nails into my back? Awesome!

Drawing blood from said nails digging into back? Pretty effing cool!

Dragging a cheese grater along the "purple headed warrior"?

Time to go... and I would not have paid the check, either.

justforums~
 DaisyGirlKY
Joined: 3/15/2006
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 2:35:45 PM
sounds like one hell of a first date
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 2:45:38 PM
Did you finish Most of your Drink before you 'choked on it & exited'? a bit of "domination" & role playing is fun here & there, but blood-letting of any sort?no, thanks...
 gorrillaz
Joined: 7/2/2007
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 2:54:59 PM

Tied up... $50

blindfolded... $75

cheesegrater rubbed on privates to draw blood... priceless


lol crack up as hahaha
 Noexcuse
Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 29
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 10:06:43 PM
lmao @ using a cheese grater...that's overboard..
 Tigress
Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 31
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/28/2007 10:33:06 PM
You are just lucky you weren't tied up and blindfolded when the cheese grater came out! That isn't kinky, it's sadistic and twisted. You were right to run!

I'm not into the whole tying up and blindfold thing, but one thing I do know is, that you don't EVER need to do that with someone you just met. If you are going to do it, it should be with someone you trust completely, otherwise, something really bad could happen.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 35
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/29/2007 1:28:38 AM

might be a tad less painful than a potato peeler




~OP~ It takes all types. A cheese grater is odd, even for a kink-meister.
 XLchick
Joined: 5/15/2004
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/29/2007 3:10:38 AM
I think she was just testing you...probably meant food blender...lol
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/29/2007 5:06:46 AM
Ouch!! I mean really - ouch!!! Not a fun activity I would ever consider!! I have heard of this before though - some people definitely get into that sh:t!! I love spice - but when ya wanna draw blood and mame someone - that is way over the line!!!!
 PhilMeUpBaby
Joined: 3/9/2007
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/29/2007 2:22:03 PM

She then said what she'd really like to do to me that night was tie me up

Ok, so maybe some guys are a tad commitment-phobic, and some women have trouble getting a guy to stick around for while, but surely this is going a bit far?

She'd said she'd really like to rub a cheesegrater on my privates and draw blood.

Stuff wearing a condom, that's only rubber... for protection there, you'd need something made out of bullet-proof kevlar!

 HSJS
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 49
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/29/2007 3:11:39 PM
HA That was a great laugh! a cheeze grater, I think I once say something like that on, The TV Food Network, with Alton Brown.
 HSJS
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 50
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/29/2007 3:16:41 PM
I got one better than a cheese grater. Did you see the movie; MY SUPER HERO EX GIRLFRIEND wit Uma Therman? She says, "How would you like a chain saw stuck up you ass"?
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/29/2007 9:34:13 PM
There are sites for this sort of thing. But even those people do NOT introduce the subject of hardcore BDSM on the first meeting. In fact, it's a sign that there is something very, very wrong. Even men who go for this sort of thing would avoid such a woman like a plague of locusts.

You did well to get out of there.
 Shasar
Joined: 5/15/2006
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my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/30/2007 7:27:14 AM
Well using a feather is sexy .....but the whole chicken ..well that's downright Kinky ...and as for a cheese grater ....you had a lucky escape
 jimbojangles
Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 60
my date told me they were kinky but it was too much
Posted: 7/30/2007 1:42:33 PM
I wouldn't say it's normal, As a matter of fact I'd say she has some sociopthic issues.

But really, that's why I dig Brittish Chicks
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