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 Sweetlilmeee
Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 3
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I wouldn't reccomend "group" sex for a lot of people I myself have only been with two other people besides myself at one time. No more then that.

It was an odd situation a girl who I wasn't attracted to, her partner he was Very attractive, and me. I really hated it when his attention was divided between the two of us and generally got annoyed with it. I pretty much didn't want anything to do with her so it all ended very badly, this was a part of a three some relationship that never should have happened.
 pissingmeoff
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 5
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Posted: 8/7/2007 8:10:56 AM
did the MFM a few times with a few diferent cpl's , but not the group * I wish * to for once. Although usually one girl is enough. I rather have 3 - 6 guys and one girl
Just to please her atleast try it once
 kissmesilly
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 2/13/2008 3:41:10 PM
"I think group sex is pretty nasty, it's one step away from being primates.


I was unaware that primates had group sex.....as a matter of fact...I am quite sure they don't.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 2/16/2008 9:38:51 AM

"I think group sex is pretty nasty, it's one step away from being primates.

the last time I heard, Humans are bipedal primates of the mammalian Homo Sapiens.
I've seen people from the group sex community, they're people I wouldn't even want to have sex with on a one to one basis. They're people I really would rather not see naked. Men romanticise group sex as being an orgy with a dozen supermodels. Reality is that it looks like a bunch of really naked sweaty fat people groaning away and grinding bits. *shudder*
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 2/16/2008 11:44:50 AM
It is one of those fantasy things that has the lure of something so out of the norm and forbidden that it will creep into minds of many as something that may be desired......

When quite young and in college, I did try it once and found that it took more work than pleasure to try to be attentive to more than one, and yet have all satisfied in the end. Once there and completed, the fantasy became a reality, and stored in my sexual memory banks for future thoughts, discussion, and decisions, but never done again......

I prefer to spend my time with just one person, and devote all my energy on her and hopefully she will do the same for me. In the end, if you are satisfied with the one you are enjoying, expanding that circle is really not an option, but just more of fantasy to remember......

There was one that I was with not to long ago, that did get my imagination flowing when she stated while having some fun, that maybe what she needed was to have a "tag team" when getting a little tired from not having to go quite that long in some time....... That comment sent me back to that time long ago and far far away, but in the end, I think we both were satisfied with how it turned out.......

Just my opinion........
 harleyridingman
Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 25
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Posted: 2/16/2008 12:18:10 PM
usually threesomes or more someone gets hurt, chances are one of the three has some feelings for one third of the party id rather do the same women three times one after the other then cause animosity
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 7/6/2008 7:50:09 AM
pleading the 5th
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 7/27/2008 2:58:57 AM
For me sex, even "casual" sex involves some type of bond that simply isn't present in group settings. I think it makes for great fantasy; but sex at my house is not a group sport.
 grapevine
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 7/27/2008 5:10:13 AM
My opinion is that there is a segment of the population that this activity is perfectly suitable for - these people have to be very weak emotionally and sexually, not to mention have a complete lack of self-esteem and respect for themselves, and others. These people are animalistic and have no clue what forming a bonding, intimate relationship entails. Reminds me of how dogs behave when there's a **** in heat.
 openlove
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 7/27/2008 3:47:12 PM
I think I better plead the fifth on this one.

~devious grin~
~SIGH~
.... ~Sigh again~
lol
 hotwife4u
Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 7/27/2008 6:01:04 PM
This is the 1st forum I have read that is not bashing the OP nice change.
I have done it and like it a LOT. My hubby and I are in love and love to make love with each other anyone else is sex. It is not for everyone but for those that like it, it can be a lot of fun and a great sexual experience
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 7/28/2008 12:24:25 AM
Some people are cool with it, some are not. Think about it long and hard before you try it; expecially if you are currently in a committed relationship. It's one of those things that, once you try it, you can't "take it back." If you are in a committed relationship; and you see your previously monogamous SO having sex with 2-3 other people; it could have a very seriously negative impact on your relationship.

Whether you are, or aren't, in a committed relationship; you might consider attending a Swingers Club; just to see how you react to the reality of it. Do you, in reality, react like you thought you would when it was just fantasy? Is it more erotic? Less? Arousing? Disturbing? Going to a setting like this can give you some very valuable insight before you commit to some sort of active participation. You could come out of it more excited than ever about trying it; or very grateful you didn't.
 orgasmtime
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 1/1/2009 10:24:51 AM
I love your answer
I just hope that I can get to experiment that some day
Mik
 orgasmtime
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 1/1/2009 10:26:11 AM
for fore play
now you are talking
I love that better than the finish
Mik
how did you implement that
please write me back normally
I am not sure I wil know what you write back this way
 _jay_see_
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 1/2/2009 11:21:09 PM
I'm sure it exists, but it's not like everyone talks about it!

I had a 3some with some hookers once... wasn't too bad. But it's probably better if there's some chemistry to the group. You know? Not just random people.
 _jay_see_
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 1/2/2009 11:43:53 PM

MFM is only a bisexual experience if you make it one. I was in a MFM once and it was absolutely great. Making out with one guy while the other is on my opposite end. You don't even have to touch the other guy. LOL


It would probably still work if one of the guys was bi.

I'd enjoy MFM if the girl and I were both pleasuring the guy.
 suthrnman4U
Joined: 10/3/2010
Msg: 77
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Posted: 11/13/2011 12:07:45 PM
I agree codeout, Have to have ground rules. One I like to lay down is nothing that promotes affection like kissing or snuggling. No calling out names when having orgasms. FULL TRUST and RESPECT a must.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 11/15/2011 11:32:28 AM
Should have tried it when I was much younger,when I had the chance
I really think the idea is very hot,the reality might not be anything special
It looks great in porn lol
 1out4fun2
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 84
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Posted: 8/6/2012 2:55:17 AM
i agree that it can be fun in right situation. id love to see a very well endowed guy bang my partner with me, i think as long as everyone is open to it .. no problem
 FireMon
Joined: 2/27/2012
Msg: 85
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Posted: 8/6/2012 5:35:08 AM
I've had two threesomes (MFF) I was looking forward to that turned out to be "meh" at best, pretty terrible and disappointing overall. I assumed the whole threesome fantasy was just overrated and nothing more than a check mark for the bucket list.

Then I had a series of unexpected threesomes (MFF) with one couple that were ****ing amazing, and sober even. We never thought we'd get along in bed, but we shared a room once on a trip and got started with the intention of just making out and playing a bit, and it led to fireworks. :) It was their first, but somehow we meshed really well and intuitively figured out the mechanics of it. In the course of our relationship, there had been jealousy issues, but none of us felt any at all related to the sex and were all satisfied many times over. ;)

I guess it's a hit or miss situation. Communication is key, and equal emphasis on everybody getting to orgasm at least once. I hope everyone has the chance for such a fun, intimate, pleasurable, and positive experience.
 FireMon
Joined: 2/27/2012
Msg: 86
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Posted: 8/6/2012 5:50:48 AM
Scanning previous posts in this thread, I'm amazed and disheartened by how small-minded so many people on this site are. I thought this was the 21st century, so who the eff cares what consenting adults do with one another? Just because it wouldn't work for you doesn't mean it can't make others happy who are perfectly secure with themselves and honest about their desires. You know nothing about them and their relationships and needs. Why all the judgement and sex-negativity on a dating site? Grow the **** up.
 FireMon
Joined: 2/27/2012
Msg: 90
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Posted: 8/6/2012 4:49:32 PM

You said you had and enjoyed MFF. Would you try an MMF if it came up? Unless your are Bi, it would seem that women would enjoy it the most.


I'm curious about it but would definitely have to have a connection first with the men, at least as friends, to trust and enjoy that situation. I think it would be harder to come by. Who knows? Maybe my next will be FFF. ;)
 milehiguy12
Joined: 5/9/2012
Msg: 91
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Posted: 8/6/2012 4:55:59 PM
Group sex is one of those things that many fantasize about but few actually experience. It can be an incredible time but depends completely on the people involved. If everyone is active and engaged it's terrific, if one or two people sit back and wait for the action to come to them, they get disappointed because people are preoccupied with what they are doing.
 absolutelyokay
Joined: 8/19/2008
Msg: 92
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Posted: 8/6/2012 6:44:02 PM
Optimism is when you believe you are 1/3 rd towards a threesome.
 eigna1962
Joined: 1/21/2016
Msg: 93
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Posted: 11/24/2016 7:13:37 PM
couldn't agree more kissmesilly
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