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 SweetKristine
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 4
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been there done that....and would again if it felt right :)
 mainegrad
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 5
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/15/2005 11:12:36 AM
Sure, if it felt right. I mean, the mood, the timing, not the sex. Although if sex itself doesn't feel good, do not have it again!
Although, in my experience, guys will not respect you if you do. Won't want you long term.
 myalias
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 6
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/15/2005 11:37:56 AM
no not true mainegrad, maybe in your experience they won't want long term but generally they fall in love, most men are suckers for that stuff.
 mikelgreco
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 8
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/15/2005 12:01:53 PM
I have done it...maybe a few too many times.

I would rather take my time to get to know someone...but sometimes, passion overwhelmes you!

-Michael
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 12
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 12:51:35 PM
Only if we really clicked and I saw relationship potential.
I don't do sex for just sex anymore.
 TonyAlmeda
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 13
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 12:54:25 PM
yes i would, if two people are comfortable why not.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 1/24/2008 1:09:53 PM
No. Call me crazy, but I get to know someone first.
 playful-kitten
Joined: 2/2/2007
Msg: 15
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 1:12:55 PM
I have had sex on the first date. It does happen but not alot. Just everything feels right and i'm excited.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 19
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 3:05:38 PM
Why do people on FORUMS keep asking me this, and not in REAL life????
 Ave Caesar
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 20
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 3:16:15 PM
Yes, if I were asked.
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 24
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 4:17:07 PM
I try not to, but passion has set fire to me a few times, and each time it ended up as a LTR. So I can't say that it's neccesarily a bad thing when you both feel like your blood is on fire and you can see that the other is feeling the same way. When one finds that superhot chemistry going on...it's hard to resist...

I have been a horrible person and asked the evil question..."Will you still respect me in the morning?" Note that you should only do this during the afterglow phase...
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 1/24/2008 9:43:32 PM
RE: First post.


Yes. Why? Because sex is completely awesome? Hahahaha. I cant really think of a reason not to, unless it was that I wasnt attracted to her.
 Smjle
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 35
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/24/2008 10:22:16 PM
No, except in the unlikely event that the woman initiated it because, unless the girl is easy, attempting to seduce the girl on the first date would be counterproductive to getting into her pants. Even if she initiated it, I would be inclined to decline because the risk of catching some disease is many times greater with girls that are that easy. Plus, if they are easy and give it away to every guy they date, what have you accomplished?

My rule is that the man should be a perfect gentleman on the first and probably the second date because nice girls, the girls you prefer to have sex with, need time to become acquainted and to feel that you don't just see them as a sex object.

Initially girls will have the defenses up and if you come on too strong too fast they may keep their defenses up. By taking your time, girls are more inclined to lower their defenses and that improves your odds of getting into their pants on subsequent dates.
 sarasotagal76
Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 36
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 1/25/2008 6:02:27 PM
YES YES I had it on the FIRST date!!!!!

We have ended up dating for 3,5 years. I was not ready to start a family in my 20s and we eventually went in separate directions...
 4408joseph
Joined: 1/10/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 1/25/2008 6:22:51 PM
This really is funny by itself...

I have and would... no biggie..

Many of times the steering wheel got in the way,and was already 10 minutes late for work...LOL

As for the gals that always want 3, 5 or 6 , or whatever the magic number is. I just can't figuire out.

I remember 15 years ago, met this hot chick, so convo moved right to the big "s"..

She goes, "Oh, I don't get intimate to like at least 5 or 6 dates"

I reply, cool! What are you doing monday,tuesday,wednesday,thursday,friday, and saturday this week??

FYI: 3rd date same week..WTF????

Now, funny how many of us worry about sex on the first date and what we are judged for, but can I see a show of hands and times for the ones who had sex on the LAST date...
 creativelust
Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 1/25/2008 11:29:21 PM
umm this is funny not only did I have sex on the first date I lost my virginity on the first date too and it was the first time meeting herlol
 KTDID78
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 1/26/2008 6:48:10 PM
As a matter of fact, as soon as it happens I know I dont want date #2 typically. I think he's too easy I suppose! lol!
 BlahGrim
Joined: 1/29/2004
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Posted: 1/27/2008 12:29:47 AM
Sadly...I have done so about everytime. I agree that it seems to mess up the possability of the relationship progressing in the future somehow.
 CrackedHalo
Joined: 11/7/2005
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Posted: 1/27/2008 10:39:06 AM
I have in the past but like someone said it doesn't make for a future with this person. Would I do it again? Probably not.......I will hold off and keep waiting for THE right one!
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 66
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Posted: 5/9/2008 9:18:06 AM
No; I have self control and I'm not going to screw a person I dont know.
 Divinity
Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 69
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Posted: 5/9/2008 10:33:57 AM
Now.... what would Virgin Mary do....
 Divinity
Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 71
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Posted: 5/9/2008 11:46:02 AM


Okay... Now what would Jesus do than?


 Masked_Hero
Joined: 12/14/2003
Msg: 74
sex on a 1st date
Posted: 5/19/2008 12:07:53 AM
Yup sex on a first date... If I'm feel'n the person I'm with I'm defenatly down with it... I never could understand the point of waiting.. What are you waiting for ?? All of a sudden just because you know a few extra things about a person, the sex is just gonna magically be soo much better ?
 Pythian_babe
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 84
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Posted: 12/29/2008 5:21:06 PM
Yes if I was really needing it Isuppose.
I never have though.
If I had a good tim, and he spend some moeny, and actually planned out a good night and I want to see him again I usually give him head tough.

A.
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 86
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Posted: 1/2/2009 11:27:59 AM

Yes if I was really needing it Isuppose.
I never have though.
If I had a good tim, and he spend some moeny, and actually planned out a good night and I want to see him again I usually give him head tough.


damn girl I'd be happy if you gave me 'dessert' ..the yummy treat .

but not sure s I'd do that on a first date..in a relationship, for sure..all night ;)
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