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 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 2
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if he is hiding it and lieing about it its cheating


now maybe she could join him and make it forplay ... every one get in a cyber pile
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/23/2007 3:14:18 PM
Maybe some see it as not cheating but it is very disrepectful
to your friend what he is doing.
she has every reason to be upset- he is not touching them or anything
but they are getting to see the shit- his shit.
He sounds like he loves the attention from his webcam- maybe he
likes to be watched. Either way he is making her feel bad and thats not good.

Regardess of it being cheating or not and you will get a lot of views
here, he is doing something that is hurting her and if he has any respect
for her , their relationship and if he loves her he will stop.
And yeah it is a big deal when you are in a relationship.

curlygrl~
 Ole Rog
Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 15
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/23/2007 4:34:17 PM
What ya don't know, don't hurt ya.
 SweetSassy
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 18
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:04:59 PM
I think it is cheating in a sense. Why is he not doing the "naughty" with his gf instead of with strangers online? Does he like touching himself watching a woman online more then he likes touching his gf and having her touch him?
 SweetSassy
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 21
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:15:30 PM
RKB.....really? Would you be feeling the same if you found out your woman was having an affair on you??
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/23/2007 5:45:28 PM
esad-

People flirt. When does the flirtation cross the line ?
It crosses the line when your man is holding his dick in
his hand jerking off while he is webcamming some chick who is using BOB-
thats when it crosses the line.

“ George complimented me on this skirt last time i wore it. I’ll make his day and skip the panties today” Is that “two people interacting”?

Any person in an exclusive relationship with someone who needs to act like
this is not happy in the relationship- they are seeking attention from someone
other than their partner. Its disrespectful to the relationship and to the other
person- how would you feel if your girlfriend did this - pretty shitty, dont
deny it either. this behavior hurts from someone you love.

We can not, nor should we want to, control our partners.

this has nothing to do with control-its respect within the relationship that you have
for each other. You dont want anyone else, only the person you are with.

I am pretty sure cheating occurs when her flesh smacks his flesh. Any thing less is a grey area.

cheating starts with intent.

curlygrl~
 Ole Rog
Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 26
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/23/2007 6:16:53 PM
Obviously, If I didn't find out I wouldn't be hurt.
 MetalVixxn
Joined: 4/4/2007
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Posted: 10/23/2007 6:56:03 PM
Hell yeah it's cheating.
 SweetSassy
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/23/2007 7:26:23 PM
So RKB, you're saying a person can do anything as long as they don't get found out, cause if they keep it secret and their SO doesn't find out, then no one will be hurt right?
 Duckman_2
Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 33
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/23/2007 7:45:48 PM
If he has a true S/O, why the hell is he in chatrooms where the women get naked and watch him jack of while looking at them?

He needs to be single and she needs a real man that will be loyal to her...
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 39
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/24/2007 5:52:45 AM
looking at any form of stimulation should not be done if the so has a problem with it....and if it is continued behind the so's back IT"S CHEATING Infidelity =lying lying = infidelity bottom line if you lie to your partner about anything ,gambling, where the money goes , sex, where you were at at any given time , then you are cheating the union.... try to justify it any way you want to
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 41
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/24/2007 6:09:10 AM
Ummm... that would be cheating...
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/24/2007 6:12:55 AM
I'd call it " Cheap Cheating ".
A kind of extreme flirtation with no exchange of bodily fluids.
However, if they are willing to get naked in front of a web-cam, then it's a short jump to a real live person .
I don't think it's proper unless they let you watch.
 de4u2
Joined: 9/7/2007
Msg: 45
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/24/2007 7:01:20 PM
na its ok its the new world my friend CYBER SEX get it
 marshw
Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 50
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/24/2007 8:33:53 PM
Yes! Duh!!!! On the bright side, it's no worse than intimate emails, love letters or phone sex.
 chad32hello1
Joined: 10/17/2007
Msg: 59
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/26/2007 9:31:59 AM
I think it is cheating. But like everything else, there are different degrees.
 HereN916
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 69
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/27/2007 6:43:50 AM
why doesn't he ask her (girlfriend) to join in and they can have a virtual threesome!
 judyarlinepuckett
Joined: 11/24/2006
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/28/2007 8:39:49 AM
When people start chatting/webcaming,etc,sometime are there are problems at home,
needing some kind of new adventure perhaps not wanting to hurt their partner,
for some married people maye it's dabbing their foot in the water,
thinking of wanting to be single,
but not wanting to dive straight in.
losing the house,the boat,the car,haha
or maybe feeling this is safe desease free ,relationship free sex,
Real Interaction with a porn movie. haha
another thing about web caming is ,
Unless there are two cams here's another thought.
you never know who is on the other side of the im or cam.
perhaps someone you know to see how far you will go,
or maybe a person under age or the police,
or a sexual pedater.
there may be a safety issue too,
so people that cam need to give thought
to the effect it will have on their life and on the life of others,
just like any decision a person makes.
I really think though when someone loves someone,
and wants to hold on.
they should forgive and move on.
and not throw the past up,
or they should let go.
 orchidtigress
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 74
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/28/2007 10:25:30 AM
Cheating since she did not know about it prior to activity and no agreement was made. It is not the act of masterbation which is unfaithful, it is the fact he is doing it with another person. This also is what makes it different than watching porn. However, if he were watching porn with another person and both were masturbating together- that would be cheating also.

Interestingly enough if the tables were turned and the woman was doing this to be discovered by the man- most men would totally flip out and thier egos would never recover.
 Jac Biker Gal
Joined: 8/18/2006
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 10/31/2007 8:18:01 AM
Yes its cheating! I have been chating to a guy who admits in his profile that he has found the woman of his dreams, yet he was talking about the fact that he spends a fair bit of time travelling around and meets women from here, told me sometimes his partners comes along, yeah rite, then after some more chat where he is asking about my sexual preferences etc he asks me if I like toys or caming, when i say yes i do like toys and will cometimes cam depending on the circumstances he replies with his email address and askes if I would like to cam with him sometime, given I have already made it clear that I was dubious about his being faithful by meeting other women from here in the first instance I have to admit that I was appalled by his suggestion, if his partner is 'the woman of his dreams' wtf is he doing wanting to play on cam with me, he got a suitably worded reply and I've told him not to contact me again. I know my profile is long but I feel another 'don't bother me if' addition is in need.
 Jac Biker Gal
Joined: 8/18/2006
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 11/1/2007 9:52:28 AM
Further to my posting I want to retract what I said about the one particular guy I made reference to, it was a huge mis-understnading on my part, for which I am very sorry.

But I still beleive that is a guy/girl has webcam sex when they have a partner then its cheating, its such an intimate act in its own right that it counts.
 piantado
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 80
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Posted: 11/4/2007 9:52:31 AM
I don't think so, it's fun, and can be very erotic. I'm married, and do it all the time.
Besides, you can do it with women all over the world, amazing!
The best part, if if you cam first, then decide to meet in person, you go straight to bed
Anyone wants to cam with me?
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 83
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 12/3/2007 9:21:29 AM
as i've said a couple (of hundred) times before.. i think that cheating is doing anything that you wouldn't want your partner to know about... it is being underhand/lying/deceptive/hiding something.. it is cheating..

now, if the partner was happy with you camming with someone else... or if they cammed with you with someone else... or at least *knew* about it, then it's not cheating, imo..

would you want them to cam with another without your knowledge? how would you feel? is it okay if it's just watching eachother disrobe/masturbate? what if there's talking together too? what if it involves phone sex at the same time? sending eachother personal items thru the mail? professing love for the other person? would all that be okay with you, if he/she did it without your knowledge? would you feel betrayed?
 gennyisagem
Joined: 8/7/2007
Msg: 85
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Posted: 12/3/2007 9:34:40 AM
Yes it's cheating why would anyone even need to ask this question!!!!
 flormimi
Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 87
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Posted: 1/1/2008 7:38:28 PM
Are you kidding me of course its cheating
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