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 daydreamer2121
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 1
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More of a question for the women on here...does anyone else find that swallowing a guy semen is more enjoyable if real feelings are involved? Or is it that some guys just simply taste better than others?

My apologies if this has been discussed :)
 pr0ud p4p4
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 2
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Posted: 10/29/2007 8:07:45 AM
Why would you blow a man if there were no feelings involve. You make it sound like you randomly pick out men to taste there semen lmao
 daydreamer2121
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 10/29/2007 9:25:19 AM
I guess I worded my question a little badly :P
No I do not blow just any guy to test out how they taste!
I've never minded swallowing but never really enjoyed it until recently.
 pr0ud p4p4
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 4
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Posted: 10/29/2007 9:26:58 AM
Does he kiss you after the deed? Cause that would truly be gross.
 dontmakecookies
Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 10/29/2007 9:33:02 AM
Ah, so you're trying to figure out if this newfound joy in swallowing means that you must have deeper feeling for this fellow than others you've known.

It doesn't.

Don't make the mistake of believing it does. Its like anything in sex, its different with everyone and more enjoyable with some than others. But it doesn't necessarily mean you are emotionally more involved than before. The problem with a lot of people is that they think that having really great sex does mean that. The belief you are more emotionally involved can be a powerful and dangerous thing. Just enjoy what you're enjoying and think of it as a great thing about this relationship... nothing more or less.

Also, you're of an age where your libido is starting to come online stronger (for most women). It may be all about that.
 daydreamer2121
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/29/2007 10:06:43 AM
Yes he does kiss me after....
Just as I have no issues kissing him after he goes down on me.
I guess that's gross to some people but I have no problems with it :)
 pr0ud p4p4
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 7
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Posted: 10/29/2007 10:09:18 AM
then tell him to blow himself he is getting the same prize anyway lmao. Just kidding its great your at that stage and you both enjoy it i am truly happy for you. But i would brish my teeth first lmao.
 hotdave73
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 10/29/2007 10:43:18 AM
I've always heard that smoking makes a mans' mess not taste too good. But then I don't puff or suck, so its just hearsay.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:19:27 AM
Being that I'm horrifically sexless in all regards, I'll post from the past. Swallowing is what it is. It's so intimate so I suppose yes, feelings are usually involved. I have done the Monica once or twice in my life ~ it was what it was. I don't place much faith on love or finding it anymore ~ guess I better make the best of what might present itself in the future or just remain a recluse and give it up entirely. I don't judge what others do, swallow, don't ~unless I'm the one doing the actually act ~ I don't care what others do. ***Note: men, eat pineapple ~ your lady will appreciate it.***
 Freya73
Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:25:51 AM
Diet is the key. A man that takes care of himself, eats properly and does not drink or smoke has a better taste to their semen. Not to say there isnt still an aftertaste, but it is not as bitter as someone who does not watch what they eat and drinks or smokes (or both). Case in point.. the little trick about pineapple juice a day before a girl blows a guy is true.

As for are you not finding the taste bad because you have deeper feelings for him? Nope. Emotional feelings have nothing to do with the taste buds. Chances are his diet is different in some way.
 pr0ud p4p4
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 11
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:33:03 AM
I dont i would never ask a women to swallow me or expect her to.
 pr0ud p4p4
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:01:42 PM
You make it sound like a trip to th buffett.
 pissingmeoff
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 13
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:04:13 PM
What I don't get is you don't swallow cause it's gross but yet you expect us guys to shove our tongues up your **** and taste your **** discretions.
Maybe it best not to get a bj and not have to lick ****, lets just have boring missionary sex.
I hate these double standards you do me and screw you, you think all pussy smells and taste good ( well )
 latteplease
Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:08:08 PM
Personally I don't like the texture of it. So if there is a lot I normally won't swallow. But if it isn't a lot I will. Or if I want to turn him on more, I will. Generally when I know he is about to cum I do move my head to the side and continue to rub him on my face and use my hands. Probably not as good for the guy but so far no one has complained.

I kind of agree with the more feelings though. The more I feel for a man the more I want to please him sexually. So I would make more of an effort to swallow.
 daydreamer2121
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:44:13 PM
I definetly did not mean that only females should respond to my question.
I've enjoyed reading the responses from both ...thank you :)
 Carole789
Joined: 10/6/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 10/29/2007 3:56:17 PM
I personally have found diet to be a big factor. My ex husband tasted really nasty, and I loved him deeply for 20 plus years, and he was not my first or last. Some men just eat the wrong food to be asking you to do that.
 dontmakecookies
Joined: 11/1/2006
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Posted: 10/29/2007 5:56:29 PM
Cunning, you're long post above sends her just down the road she's on, and it's an emotinally dangerous one for some people. Her OP and followup response suggested she thought that she might feel that way because she was more in love with him than others before. Why reinforce this thinking (its implicit in what you said, if not explicit)? There are many other reasons she could like it as well.

I'm not saying that you're wrong, but to spend that long explaining it when it could, and more likely is, her typical female libido shift in late 20s or that this guy just particularly tastes good to her... its best to read emotional connections into emotional connections and not the enjoyment of swallowing.

People should take from the thread though, that even if they don't like a particular practice with one partner they may like it with others. Remaining open is a good thing.
 kevbear
Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 18
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Posted: 10/30/2007 1:58:50 AM
i went out with a woman who said "all i want in the morning when i wake up is a protein shake" and told me she could not understand why women did not swallow. and yes your diet will matter.
 daydreamer2121
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 10/30/2007 7:54:39 AM
I appreciate the mild concern for my emotional well being in some of the responses
I am however well aware that sex does not equal love.
 susieq2007
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 10/30/2007 10:05:38 AM
I was married to man I could not stand (abusive, etc.). I REFUSED to even let that THING *near* my mouth, let alone swallow.

I have to have strong feelings for the man to get that intimate with him and then with the strong feelings (hey, let's call it LOVE!), comes the swallowing. If I am in love with the man I want to do what I can to please him. There ya go.
 dontmakecookies
Joined: 11/1/2006
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Posted: 10/30/2007 12:00:05 PM

I am however well aware that sex does not equal love.


I'm sure you do. Bur a spectacularly large proportion of the population doesn't understand that really good sex doesn't equal love.
 InSydney
Joined: 3/14/2007
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Posted: 10/30/2007 11:04:25 PM

sometimes i'd be just as satisfied if not more by ending sex at a blowjob


We need more women like you here in Australia
 justmehere64
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 10/31/2007 2:11:31 PM
love to have the women swallowing ill kiss them afterwards no problem
 dontmakecookies
Joined: 11/1/2006
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Posted: 10/31/2007 7:22:33 PM
sweet*child

I think I speak for many on POF in expressing how much you are appreciated right now. :)
 higgie2006
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 25
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Posted: 10/31/2007 10:40:18 PM
i usually dont swallow for a guy unless there are some feelings. BUT, i just enjoy giving a great blowjob anyways. lol

if i meet a guy and our sexual personalities match, then i'll definitely swallow for him, whether or not i think anything will come of it. but i rarely find guys who click w/ me like that enough for me to do it, unless there are emotions involved.
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