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 sharizzhere
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 3
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So you are both lying there, perhaps still panting and waiting for the pounding of your hearts to slow down....she's probably mentally re-hashing all the delights in which you two just partook....she is wondering which chapter in that you are re-reading. Tell her truly.
'I was remembering how good it felt when you......'
'Wow, it really felt good when you....'
or
'How the heck do I keep ending up on the wet spot?'
'Who is Frank and why did she keep calling out his name?'
 stc888
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/13/2007 9:58:35 AM
I usually say "come over here ,I want to bite your ass"
or something like "dont talk I just want to reval(sp) in the moment"
 spitfire6844
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/13/2007 9:59:52 AM
OP, just tell her the first thing that comes into your mind when she asks that. Keep it real.
 word nurd
Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/13/2007 10:00:38 AM
It's a question I ask my partner quite often. Not "right after sex", though. I usually allow at least 5 minutes for the spasms to quiet down and the bed to stop spinning.
 8shooter1
Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/13/2007 10:00:55 AM
I forgot to get hot dogs and buns for the football game !
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/13/2007 1:01:31 PM

God, ever have someone say, " So what are you thinking " right after sex.......

I cannot recall any talk but I can recall reaching for a glass of water ...
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/13/2007 1:32:06 PM
Simply reply - 'that was a great orgasm and I hope to have many more!'
I hate it when people ask that too - or ask if they were good - geeze - if ya were I'd tell ya!! hehehe
 csod64
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/13/2007 1:41:34 PM
I don't go for the "what are you thinking" type of question. If it's good I'd ask him where he learned to f*ck like that! Or compliment him in other ways. (It's my understanding that a guy needs to "recuperate" afterwards and conversation might not be the best thing. Better to let him speak first. If the woman is good, it will be evident by how hard the man comes--and how loud he is. At least this has been my experience...)
 makenziem
Joined: 11/10/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 11/13/2007 5:20:50 PM
I never ask.
I find it a little off-ish too.
But I've been asked..
Usually I just go with,
"Hmm.. what do you think I'm thinking of?"
 57LEBOWSKI
Joined: 3/2/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 11/13/2007 6:47:58 PM

God, ever have someone say, " So what are you thinking " right after sex.......

"I was just wondering when you were gonna go home"
 AgelessWonder
Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 11/16/2007 5:22:56 PM
"What are you thinking?"

I was just thinking you better hurry up before my husband comes home!

Now that would get him to start thinking!! LOL
 Caper143
Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 1/5/2008 8:05:11 AM
I hate that question...and I'm a woman!!! I also hate "do you miss me?' when I barely know him...do men really expect you to miss them after a date or two??? what is there to miss???
 3ClubMonkey
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 1/5/2008 10:40:29 AM
Did you want to do it again, or can we go eat?
 sandra19
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 1/5/2008 10:56:35 AM
well when women are insecure about the relationship they usually ask that question ...which sucks coz men dont really kno what say ..and they never really answer what we women wanna hear ..soo my advice for women is to Stop asking that and ...for guy..i guess try to come up with the best possible answer if u wanna keep that special lady feel secure and happy ;)
 musicalgrrl
Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 1/5/2008 11:03:15 AM
"What are you thinking???"

.... sheeesh, I shaved my legs for this?????
 rhodesd
Joined: 4/2/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 1/18/2008 9:34:22 PM
After sex it is far better to hold her in my arms, stroke her hair, kiss her eye brows, etc. To even speak a word breaks the moment. The only exception is to have a devilish smile and say "are you thinking what I'm thinking?" and start up again.
 srvblues
Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 1/18/2008 9:44:23 PM

What are you thinking?


Do you think the neighbors are going to call the cops?
 heartnflowers
Joined: 2/14/2012
Msg: 39
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Posted: 11/10/2012 2:01:26 PM
total bs. when a woman says that, she actually wants to know what you are thinking...no lies. If you're not satisfied, how will she know that you enjoyed what she had to offer or what to do differently.
 Della D
Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 11/10/2012 2:21:11 PM
I do agree with the OP, it's one of the most foolish things to ask after sex, right there with "was it good for you honey"?
These are the type of questions that just make me cringe and surely destroy the most pleasant feeling of lingering aftermath.
 dartmouthjames
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 41
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Posted: 11/10/2012 2:44:00 PM

God, ever have someone say, " So what are you thinking " right after sex.......

I hate this !!! Im not sure why. I just think it's weird.

Guys has this happened to you,

Yes.

Guys has this happened to you, and does it bother you. ?

No.
 aussieblues
Joined: 11/22/2011
Msg: 42
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Posted: 11/10/2012 3:35:43 PM
I asked once...he said something about having to do the lawns the next day...hahahaha...asked and answered...
 pfif
Joined: 8/8/2012
Msg: 43
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Posted: 8/20/2013 2:32:17 AM
When this gets asked, something has already happened.

The easiest was falling asleep together, free of worry.
 JeremyD4789
Joined: 10/27/2012
Msg: 44
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Posted: 8/27/2013 9:24:28 PM

IME, after sex, the mind is clear and my intellect and hers can really break new grounds in thinking, together. After sex I think of global dynamics, the meaning of life, the future of capitalism,


So what you're saying is.....
"Honey, what are you thinking about?"
"How to end world hunger."
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 8/28/2013 4:26:57 AM
No, it's never been asked by me or anyone I was with.
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