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 Ave Caesar
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 2
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I suppose it depends on whether you just got back from the dentist after having a filling.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 5
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 7:02:20 PM

This guy i'm with always says how much he loves it when I go down on him and I think he might prefer that over sex! I feel he is obsessed with b-jobs, but he says he likes having sex with me too, what does that mean?


It simply means he likes blowjobs. If done right, a blowjob can feel a lot better than intercourse. Nothing wrong with a little bj obsession.
 mangos-at-midnite
Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 6
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/7/2007 5:41:24 AM
but but..I thought a b.j. was sex ?????

what is sex then??
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 7
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can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:36:49 AM
Can a guy like a bj better than sex? Sure, it's possible but I don't think most of us men do, just a select few prehaps. Besides, seems you should be thankful to actually have someone to do this to. The alternative would be being alone like many others and therefore not able to give ORreceive any sort of intimacy.
 sohann
Joined: 12/1/2007
Msg: 10
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/8/2007 6:28:56 AM
i am better than sex
 stephaniezowie
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 12
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can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/8/2007 9:40:53 AM
not sure
but i know a girl can!
 16089216177
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 13
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/10/2007 9:00:10 AM
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 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 14
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Posted: 12/10/2007 7:26:54 PM
A good BJ is far better than having to strap on a two by four for fear of falling in or being anxious over whether or not monstrously flopping labias might take the German's one eye out.
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 12/11/2007 10:13:14 AM
Dreamer,

If a woman doesn't have a sense of humor IMHO she's a good argument for euthanasia. Since you apparently do have one can I ask how effective the kegel exercises have been for you? Is that covered by Massachsetts' mandatory healthcare?

As humorous as my post was meant to be you ladies know we don't have an alacrity to tap a grain barrel. My apologies for any offense.
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 17
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/13/2007 8:33:01 PM
No, once or twice a month is not enough oral-to-completion. I need more than that. I respect your thinking, but I'd need someone more oral. If I'm only coming once a month via oral, then so are you. I'll never put forth an effort if you're doing it because you think you have to during "down time."
 123lbTestLine
Joined: 7/27/2007
Msg: 18
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/13/2007 8:50:26 PM
Hmmm...

Can a guy (or girl, for that matter) like
Ice Cream better than Pizza?!?

WHO CARES!!!

They are Both Fun and enjoyable!
(unless overdone to the point of ridiculousness...)
And they both have their place...

I like both...
While driving, I prefer one over the other...
It is just easier to see, and steer...
Yet, both are Fun! and possible, but not recommended...

Why is it that I just don't understand these questions?!?

Like a restaurant waitress asking, 'Orange Juice or Coffee?'
I say, 'Yes, Please. Thank you...'

The smart, and intelligent ones KNOW to bring Both...
Ignorance will question the answer, not understanding that
'or' also means 'AND'... (unless restricted by 'either' in the sentence)

Why have restrictions on your experiences and understanding?

You are curious, and you are asking, that is good...
Explore your answers, you may end up liking both, as well...

 pdoninwi
Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 2/3/2008 11:01:08 AM
The worst I ever had was WONDERFUL. If a woman doesn't swallow it really ISN'T a bj at all.


Don
 ruloookingforme53
Joined: 1/29/2008
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Posted: 2/5/2008 12:48:58 PM
I imagine like most men he would prefer to have his cake and eat it too!

I expect you like being eaten before (and likely after) he enters you.

It's all GOOD!
 Mosey_Burns
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 22
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 2/5/2008 1:34:17 PM
I like a hand-job better than both.
 Acoriano_87
Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 23
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 2/6/2008 10:25:57 AM
well depends spit or swallow lol
 ChicagoStyle
Joined: 5/7/2006
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Posted: 2/6/2008 3:14:02 PM
I think it means just what he said. That he really likes it when you give him a bj, but he still enjoys havig sex with you too. I don't really see the problem unless you dont really enjoy giving him a bj all the time.

As long as he still likes having sex with you, I would just go with it. Unless you don't really enjoy doing it, then it might be time to talk to him about it.
 northeast25
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 25
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 2/6/2008 9:12:24 PM
I equally enjoy BJs and sex. BJs are great foreplay before sex. It is like having a great appetizer before the main course.
 tooyoung
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 2/7/2008 11:53:10 PM
I thought BJ's was sex?
 smsweendoggy
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 3/18/2008 7:59:16 PM
Like Duh! I prefer to calling it a mouth hug.
 Giantrican
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 29
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 3/18/2008 9:12:24 PM
Blow Jobs are great way to get off without us having to do you aftewards lol. I like it as a starter to sex but not as a finish I dont get off like that, you could be a blow job queen and still it will only work if I havent tapped that ass yet!
 StevenCheese
Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 3/19/2008 1:15:14 AM
I hate blow jobs I love sex. Just my personal opinion. Hate hate hate blow jobs
If they ever scrape me I get really turned off.
 burghboy62
Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 31
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Posted: 3/19/2008 8:38:48 AM
YES INDEED, A MAN CAN GET MORE AROUSED FROM A BJ DUE TO THE FACT MOST WOMEN'S VAGININAL AREAS GET "LOOSER" OVER THE YEARS AND THEREFORE ARE MUCH LOOSER WHEN A MAN HAS SEX! IF A WOMAN USES HER MOUTH, SHE CAN MAKE THE TENSION ANY LEVEL SHE FEELS FIT. IF SHE WANTS HIM TO LAST AWHILE, SHE CAN STAY LOOSE. IF SHE WANTS HIM TO CUM QUICK, ALL SHE HAS TO DO IS TIGHTEN HER ORAL GRIP! HEAVEN!!!!!
 scoutniagara
Joined: 1/26/2008
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Posted: 3/20/2008 4:32:08 AM
There'd be fewer divorces if more women gave their guy blow jobs! :D To answer the original post, YES!
 sonic53221
Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 34
can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:55:22 PM
I know this may sound wierd, but I usually go down on a woman I am with more than she does me! Sometimes if we are just sitting back watching a movie or relaxing, I will just go down on her. Don't get me wrong, I do like getting a bj too, maybe I am different about this, but when you go down on your partner it is a form of affection that should not be taken for granted and reciprocated as well.
If the guy is just sitting back with a beer in his hand, watching tv, then he is just getting his rocks off.
I personally like to try different things in the bedroom (okay, anywhere possible...lol) to keep the spark alive and both of us satisfied.
 sub girl wanted
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/4/2008 7:27:22 PM
oral sex is great.you can be so much more..artistic i love getting and giving it
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