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 migivadamsbusted
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 2
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sex=Tom,****and Harry...making love=your special someone, your one and only.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 9
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2007 5:56:03 PM
Background music....sex...Meatloaf...making love...Barry White, baby!!
 scorpio85
Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 14
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:09:07 PM
Having sex is a physical act that is based on the ego. Making love should be a spiritual experience where two souls are connected.
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 17
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:11:10 PM
My thoughts - not speaking for anyone else.

Casual dating = having sex. (I stopped that all together)

Getting as close as possible with someone that means - so very much to you = making love.
 Thudpucker
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 25
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:33:11 PM
Having SEX is an adventure of the BODY.

Making LOVE is an adventure of the SOUL.

Both (either) are a worthwhile adventure.
 Diana619
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 28
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:40:19 PM
Making love is basking in the FFG afterwards, laying your head on his chest, getting as close as possible, kissing, laughing, drifting off to sleep together.

Having sex is.........wanting him GONE when you are done and wondering WTF you were thinking.
 Soul Union
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 29
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:42:47 PM
Making love is when the guy doesn't have to come. - ambitious slacker

> Does that mean he doesn't have to be there?
> Peter.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 34
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2007 7:00:06 PM
Both are like eating.
One is like stuffing your face.
The other is like enjoying a great home-cooked meal with your best friend. The atmosphere and the enjoyment of your friend is more important than your own.
 QTpye16
Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 35
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/6/2007 7:01:08 PM

What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love?


EMOTIONS!!!
 mangos-at-midnite
Joined: 10/18/2007
Msg: 42
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 5:53:30 AM
sex is fast food...making love is a fabulous gourmet buffet

sex is genital centred making love is mind,body and spirit centred

sex is one note making love is the whole song

Its ALL good....
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 43
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:03:43 AM

Who its for... "having sex" is more about your own pleasure, "making love" is about wanting to make sure your partner enjoys it more than you want yourself to enjoy it (and if both people are doing that, its wonderful

That about sums it up completely.
 NancyC123
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 47
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 11:36:34 AM
Freud, that surprises and disappoints me, what you said. Here I thought you were a romantic man, all along!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 51
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 2:05:58 PM
There is a HUUGE difference between sex and making love!
 boisegoodbadboy
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 54
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 3:20:21 PM
"What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love"

c'mere...i'll show ya
 circe 1
Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 55
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 3:21:22 PM
Sex= physical attraction
Making love = physical attraction + emotional connection
 LookingForDeesRight1
Joined: 5/7/2007
Msg: 59
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 4:52:29 PM
In my opinion...'having sex' is Scratching an Itch... Doesn't matter who it is, you just are horny!!! 'Making Love' is actually feeling something! Caring about your partner, loving him or her as you want them to feel loved! And hoping the feeling is returned. Both serve a purpose.
 becca210
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 60
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 4:53:59 PM
When I'm making love, I'm so into my partner and am having such an emotional high...that the particulars of the act are blurred and unimportant.
Having sex is for pure, raw sexual pleasure and every move is evaluated.
Becca
 carolann0308
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 62
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 5:19:42 PM
How much wine you've had?
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 65
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:52:41 PM
I’ve always thought of it as three… fvcking, having sex and making love.

Fvcking is the lust filled, raw, passionate hunger that burns hot and hard.
Having sex is fun, playful, a grand, joyous romp.

Making love is being completely present to your partner each filled with how much you love this person; with every breath, touch, taste being a joining and expression of your love flowing into receiving their love. It opens us up, filling and flooding us with our love. Leaves me awed, inspired and so humbled… wish I had the words.

I believe all three have a much loved and valued place within a relationship; wouldn’t want to give any of them up.
 NancyC123
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 69
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:33:39 PM
Freud,
I've had enough knocks upside the head from you, old man! How do you expect to get some lovin' from me after constantly swingin' that damn club?!
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 70
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:36:15 PM
having sex is focused on the climax at the end

making love is enjoying the trip it takes to get there
 SimplyPeachy
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 78
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/8/2007 9:39:37 AM
Q. What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love?

A. Physical v. Emotion & Soul
 NancyC123
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 80
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:13:40 PM
Freud,
That's better...I'm beginning to feel the love again...
 lot2offer
Joined: 9/25/2007
Msg: 82
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 2:41:28 PM
Making love = you love the person your having sex with

Sex = sex
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 8:56:08 PM
Having sex is just getting off, well for the guy that is. I don't get off just having sex and that get nothing out of it so I don't like to have sex just to please someone else. Now making love is full of passion and fireworks and electricity and u want it to go on all nite. U both get something out of it. I would never want to have a nite of having sex with a guy when if he only got to know me the making love part is so intense for me. The wait it worth it. U get to know about each other and likes and dislikes and u care about pleasing the other person.
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