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 cowboyup2
Joined: 12/20/2004
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I wish I new of a few older women looking for a youger sexual man like myself. To me at a prime time..lol a women that is older than I they really know how to hide there eyes when there looking. You may not see them or even catch them looking, wanting, needing, lusting, for a younger male but I have felt it..lol when one women in line behind me keeped pushing her cart up against my ass. I turn around and everytime she just smiled and turned her head..All she had to do is ask me to go have a coffee or something and I would have took cover from there. I just wish there were more forward women out there. Hell, women take my hand and say "your coming with me" lol thanks
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 5/22/2005 8:01:22 AM
i nearly married a much younger man.

so i think it's fine - just fine!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 5/22/2005 4:35:20 PM
hey, shappy, sweetie, i know we've talked about this elsewhere...! i live outside your driving range!!!! ;)
 Ruby Lips
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 5/23/2005 8:35:15 PM
@bibbear....I feel freakin great about it! Now I gotta change my age preferences. hehehehe

cowboyup2...here is my fav saying....Save A Horse....Ride A Cowboy! Now if you just lived near-by me we'd have us a date.

I just swung by a 39 year-old friend's house to-night to tell him I can't date him. He was some pissed too. Reason...seeing some-one else and it may work-out. Who knows?

I ain't into Viagra either. Lots of guys do not need it. Why go there?
 Elaine 88
Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 1/8/2006 10:13:19 PM
How do I feel about it? It makes me feel great! LOL My exhusband was 19 and I was 27 when we got together. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. I just broke up with a 21 yr old. He was fun and good to look at but way too immature. I'm not entirely sure thats only the younger men though. There is a lot of immature people walking around, no matter the age! LOL
Would I do it again? Hell YES! I just prefer the young ones!
 colormehappygirl
Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/8/2006 10:36:13 PM
I'm kind of afraid of men who are much younger than me. Mostly because the few I have been brave enough to show interest in, have come right out and told me... I was too old. And I have to tell you, that really did wonders for my self esteem.

*SIGH*

The thing is... I DO NOT look my age. Not at all. So, I do attract younger men. But once I tell them I'm almost 32, the "old" stuff kicks in. And it sucks. It really does.

Now, I try to look for men closer to my age. Not younger and not older. So I don't know what's going to happen. I'll probably be alone the rest of my life! I better get some cats!! LOL!!!!!!
 laughing lady
Joined: 6/19/2004
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Posted: 1/9/2006 11:44:56 AM
hi there....I am the older woman dating a younger man I am 56 and he is 46 and as for the bedroom function...there is certainly no viagra and no complaints! I find that people accept the fact of our being together without any comments. It is all to do with the way you present yourself. I certainly don't open a conversation by telling everyone about our age difference. I am told I look young so I guess that people don't even know. I have also dated a man 30 yrs older than myself and found that we had much in common. It does not matter about how old you are it is how old you feel and act.

laughing lady
 doubleohseven
Joined: 3/7/2006
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Posted: 3/18/2006 11:10:45 PM
I have always been attracted to olde women and older women seem to be attracted to me more than younger ones.
I am already 42 and most of the time I´bve dated women that are 10 to 20 years older thn me , so I don´t know what I´ll when I run out of older women, in a few years there won´t be any older women alive, hahahahaha
Gregory

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 urgentpython
Joined: 10/25/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/31/2006 1:49:48 PM
uhuh bring it on experience beats "it hurts" all the time plus I like bouncing lol kisses ladies
 urgentpython
Joined: 10/25/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/31/2006 1:52:27 PM
Blondgreeneyedgal contact me im gonna be in Maine soon I'd love to do dinner
 wowmom
Joined: 1/22/2006
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Posted: 3/31/2006 4:53:17 PM
love them... but... I know the reality. MOST don't want to pursue an LTR. So you have to decide if you want fun in the moment, or more...
 rainy37
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2006 11:22:47 AM
I've done it twice....the first lasted almost 8 years. I loved him dearly and still miss him a great deal. The second lasted not even two years. But age at nothing to do with us breaking up in either experience. If you are both mature and work together it can last forever. I do not see myself with an older man or even one my own age. I'm 38 but look 10 years younger and love every second of it. My daughters guy friends call me MILF. He He He. I love it, so why would I want to be on the arm of an old man. I enjoy life and all it has to offer. Older men never want to do anything beyond drinking and sittin in front of the TV. Not for me. All the women who are in my category know what I'm talkin about and I say here here.
 rainy37
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2006 11:49:03 AM
Hun, A stereotype can only become a stereotype after the majority of people make it so. It is not made up it is lived. I'm sorry you are having such a hard time. I know women that prefer older men. We are all different in our preferences. I don't think you are old, hell we are the same age. Age is a state of mind. Maybe you just need a long hard look at yourself. And by the way, none of us needs to be a spouse to feel self worth. Be happy with yourself and everything else will fall into place just when you've least expected it to. Please don't resort to the couch, you would only be adding to that stereotype and proving it true.
 rainy37
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2006 11:52:03 AM
And no.... I would not throw a relationship away just because I think he's getting old. You're not getting the point. Love is important to me and I would never stray.
 Ratero-park-man
Joined: 2/2/2006
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Posted: 4/1/2006 11:55:02 AM
{Hun, A stereotype can only become a stereotype after the majority of people make it so. It is not made up it is lived. I'm sorry you are having such a hard time. I know women that prefer older men. We are all different in our preferences. I don't think you are old, hell we are the same age. Age is a state of mind. Maybe you just need a long hard look at yourself. And by the way, none of us needs to be a spouse to feel self worth. Be happy with yourself and everything else will fall into place just when you've least expected it to. Please don't resort to the couch, you would only be adding to that stereotype and proving it true}

I agree with most of what you said. I agree with that one shouldn't feel less worth if they aren't married and stuff like that. There is nothing wrong with a younger woman if she wants , to date an older man. I am surprised that this even became such an issues years ago, I mean just be yourself and just be cool.

As long as there is TRUE LOVE then it may work out.

By True love i don't mean dating or using someone for their money or looks, and having either of those things be the primary or one of the primary things that are important there, because thats NOT true love. It goes for both genders, lets all be accepting and love another person for the magic they can radiate from their inner self. We'd all be happier in our dating/love lives.
 rainy37
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2006 12:12:38 PM
I think you have some other deeper issues. Are you a man that has been terribly hurt? Show us a pic. I think you will be pleasantly surprised. There was a time when I felt I'd never search for love again. But I have healed....time can do that. My sister lives in Misissauga, I'll be heading up there for a visit. Ya wanna go on a date? Then you can say you dated an older woman. He He He. Hang in there. There is someone for everyone.
 Sweet Euphoria
Joined: 6/17/2005
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Posted: 4/1/2006 2:53:31 PM
I think age is just a number in most instances. It depends totally on the two people involved. I use to avoid younger men. It seems however that mostly younger men are attracted to me..or men that are far too old. I'm still young at heart and I'm told I look younger than my age so...whatever floats someone's boat. If both are agreeable..go for it. Besides, men have been doing it for years!
 Sweet Euphoria
Joined: 6/17/2005
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Posted: 4/2/2006 6:00:48 AM
And again someone is misinterpreting the written word. I don't date younger men for revenge...lol..infact...I prefer men my age. I just don't discriminate anymore. That is all I was saying. Like men through the ages, I am more willing to accept dating a younger man (30 and above) IF he's mature and we are both agreeable. That's all.
 Fry Lock
Joined: 10/4/2005
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Posted: 4/3/2006 12:52:26 PM
OK, so how do you tell if this particular fellow is just looking for a free education, or is really interested? I mean, I don't want to even meet this fellow unless I know he's not in it for the instructional video; any ideas on how to find out BEFORE going thru with the meeting thing? he's 24 and I'm 38; a week ago this was not even a possibility; the more I talk to him the more interested I am, but I don't want to set myself up for failure.......
 Suley
Joined: 4/2/2006
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Posted: 4/3/2006 12:56:23 PM
i guess in the event of seeing what younger man could in bed i guess u were interested and also it made u feel sexy because u had control and proud dat u could keep up in bed with younger guys
 Sweet Euphoria
Joined: 6/17/2005
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Posted: 4/3/2006 3:17:26 PM
If you're going to post a subject like this, you will get more response from women who are not opposed to it. On average, most women I talk to prefer men their own age or older. I was one of those. As I had said before, I've decided that IF the younger man has the qualities I'm looking for (ie. intelligence, wit etc.) why not? I don't discriminate against men in their late thirties or even early to mid fourties. I would PREFER a man close to my age. Everyone has an age range they consider. Mine happens to be between 30 and 45. I've dated some very immature older men and some mature younger men. Hey, I'm still sticking with men that are over 29!...lol. Don't get discouraged Rabid...there is someone out there for you...maybe more than one. It's the luck of the draw. Hey, after being separated for 7 years I'm still single, but I have faith that one day someone will come along that recognizes my great qualities. I will be honest, I don't see myself settling down with someone too much younger than myself. Just for the fact that I don't plan on having anymore children. But for now..while I wait for Mr. Right, there's nothing wrong with dating men a wee bit younger than myself. Through experience I can definitely weed out what I DON'T want in a man. I can't expect every man that shows interest or that I choose to date is going to be "the one". No one should limit their options...or settle.
 Fry Lock
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Posted: 4/3/2006 4:19:32 PM
ahhh, wolverine; no need to be so negative; if an interesting older guy had shown some interest, I'd be asking for help figuring him out, I'm sure, but "he" didn't....the younger one took his balls out of his purse & made a move...
 Sin*ful
Joined: 3/4/2006
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Posted: 4/3/2006 4:44:28 PM
You are only as old as you feel
 Sweet Euphoria
Joined: 6/17/2005
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Posted: 4/3/2006 4:46:11 PM
I give up...anything I say goes in one ear and out the other...lol. Oh well. So how about all those older men that don't want me because I'm a big girl...or that I have kids...or or or...........See what I mean? Everyone has criterias. You just haven't met the right person. You are only talking a small percentage. How many woman have you really polled. Speaking as a woman, I'm telling you...only a very small percentage of women I know..and I know many...would date younger men. UGH! Maybe women don't want to stroke your ego..and why in god's name I'm trying to is beyond me. Your age is PERFECTcoming from an almost 39 year old Ontario woman. HEY! You could be my younger man!
 Sweet Euphoria
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Posted: 4/3/2006 5:01:53 PM
lol....I've already found a man my age that I'm interested in at the moment. But I'll keep you in mind..hehe. Knowing my track record, I might be knocking on your door in the near future..HA!..lol. I might not be your type either. Don't know if you're mine. Laws of Attraction. Time will tell. I believe in timing...fate and a little luck. Besides, I don't hear many knocks at MY door either. I must be scaaaaaaaaary...BOO!
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