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 bibbear86
Joined: 12/20/2004
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How do you feel about a sexual relationship between a younger man and an older woman?
 komet155
Joined: 4/24/2005
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Posted: 5/22/2005 6:35:48 AM
I think it depends on how big an age difference and how big a maturity difference the man and woman have.

I've dated older women (one was 15 years older) but she didnt act 42, she had an very young attitude and a butt that would not quit.
 AMI4U67
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 5/22/2005 7:04:25 AM
A sexual relationship between a younger mand and an older woman is great.....as long as it stays a SEXUAL relationship but I agree a dating relationship would have to depend on the maturity level they both have.
 cowboyup2
Joined: 12/20/2004
Msg: 4
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Posted: 5/22/2005 7:55:06 AM
I wish I new of a few older women looking for a youger sexual man like myself. To me at a prime time..lol a women that is older than I they really know how to hide there eyes when there looking. You may not see them or even catch them looking, wanting, needing, lusting, for a younger male but I have felt it..lol when one women in line behind me keeped pushing her cart up against my ass. I turn around and everytime she just smiled and turned her head..All she had to do is ask me to go have a coffee or something and I would have took cover from there. I just wish there were more forward women out there. Hell, women take my hand and say "your coming with me" lol thanks
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 5/22/2005 8:01:22 AM
i nearly married a much younger man.

so i think it's fine - just fine!

 shore66
Joined: 5/23/2004
Msg: 6
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Posted: 5/22/2005 9:04:37 AM
A sexual relationship between this older woman and a younger man can be very enjoyable.
 shore66
Joined: 5/23/2004
Msg: 7
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Posted: 5/22/2005 9:08:52 AM

I wish I new of a few older women looking for a youger sexual man like myself



This from a 42 year old guy whose message restrictions are for women 28 to 45 ...

does not compute.
 northyorkguy
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 5/22/2005 9:17:31 AM
i think it's perfectly fine, i have no problem with it since i do love older woman as well,
 Shaps
Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 5/22/2005 9:17:52 AM
Divine -- let's have sex lol
 northyorkguy
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 5/22/2005 9:22:09 AM
where in toronto is a good place to meet older woman, i know of a few, but would like to see what you guys suggest.
 What-if?
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 5/22/2005 10:47:54 AM
I once dated a man 14 years younger than me for 6 years. I was rediculed by a lot of ppl as there seems to be a double standard. Older guy with younger women, everyone slaps him on the back as says "WooHooo, you lucky Stud". Older women with younger man and your called a cradle robber. I think most of the more rude comments came from women my age who's husbands had let themselves get lazy/fat/impotent and they where just plain jealous. Think the most common comment I got was "Can't you find a man your own age"? to which I responded by introducing them to my boyfreind and watching their mouths drop open and their faces turn beet red as he was drop-dead gorgeous and a nice guy. Let's just say after seeing what he looked like all negative comments stopped. lol.
For those wondering why I'd date a younger man is because I've gone out with several older men (40+) and they couldnt ummmmmm function. Didnt know I'm suppose to supply the Viagara.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 5/22/2005 4:35:20 PM
hey, shappy, sweetie, i know we've talked about this elsewhere...! i live outside your driving range!!!! ;)
 squeak365
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 13
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Posted: 5/22/2005 5:23:00 PM
As a woman, I say let's get em........




Hey, we are living in the new millenium....noone should care about age as long as you are both legal.....

Squeak
 RapunzelRapunzel
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 5/23/2005 5:06:36 PM
I used to say no way, but in the last few years I've calmed down and just decided to enjoy people for who they are. There is an 18 year old emailing me from this site. But I just dunno . . . That is WAY younger (I'm 41.) He's the same age as some of my previous drama students. Seems kinda pervy (for me.)

Rapunzel

P.S. I had a Pug in Grad School. His name was Cagney.
 bibbear86
Joined: 12/20/2004
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Posted: 5/23/2005 7:34:58 PM
You know I would hear about thease guys dateing older women and I would say
'your so stupid you are going to her when there are theas wonderful girls your own age
' well after I met this one woman my views changed I think If you like that person and it is not agaist the law in your state to be with them then go for it . I now look at girls from 18 to 50. O and my pugs names are Franky and achellies
 RapunzelRapunzel
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 5/23/2005 7:46:33 PM
Great names!

I once adopted a Greyhound from the track that had a bad lower leg so I named him "Achilles." But he was violent, almost tore the throat out of my other dog. Had to take him back.

Rapunzel
 bibbear86
Joined: 12/20/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 5/23/2005 8:06:30 PM
Thank you.

Rapunzel that is a beautiful name it makes me think of knight and all the midevil era.
 Ruby Lips
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 5/23/2005 8:35:15 PM
@bibbear....I feel freakin great about it! Now I gotta change my age preferences. hehehehe

cowboyup2...here is my fav saying....Save A Horse....Ride A Cowboy! Now if you just lived near-by me we'd have us a date.

I just swung by a 39 year-old friend's house to-night to tell him I can't date him. He was some pissed too. Reason...seeing some-one else and it may work-out. Who knows?

I ain't into Viagra either. Lots of guys do not need it. Why go there?
 kermancutie
Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/8/2006 6:50:16 PM
how daring. i refuse to take the risk!
 g.luli
Joined: 11/21/2005
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Posted: 1/8/2006 8:18:56 PM
Seems to me that only younger men seem attracted to me, other than the hopeful geezer. I've dated a couple men around my age and they seem to be more interested in JUST sex, and not much into doing other equally great FUN stuff! It's like they need to get in their last licks in (no pun intended) before the machinary putz's out, y'know?

I am a firm believer in personality and if a person takes care of themsleves, so age is not a pre-requesite, but you young guys.........you tend to be the ones that can "keep up with me"

I don't have any prob dating younger guys. i have to be honest that I toss around the idea that THEY are gonna get tired of my intellect, older body, kids, and well, feel inferior in the sex knowledge dept But, keep trying.

Go for it Ladies!
 soulman141
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/8/2006 8:27:28 PM
I dont suggest it.....I am just comming out of an eight year relationship with an older woman. Mind you we did have some good times, and brought an awsome little boy out of this relationship, ultimately we denied eachother true and balanced growth in a relationship fair to one another, basically she foud religion and i have not. In this case anyway.there is 13 years difference between us, and i am not where she is at, yet mind you, in a spiritual path. And it goes deeper from there . i wont go on about it. But who are we to get in the way of true happiness for oneanother by staying together in an unhealthy relation ship and and watching all the possible "soul mates" walk by?" Does this sound ridiculas? So now i try to build a new life, and she goes on he rspiritual journey..Good for her though, really , im happy.
 Elaine 88
Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 1/8/2006 10:13:19 PM
How do I feel about it? It makes me feel great! LOL My exhusband was 19 and I was 27 when we got together. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. I just broke up with a 21 yr old. He was fun and good to look at but way too immature. I'm not entirely sure thats only the younger men though. There is a lot of immature people walking around, no matter the age! LOL
Would I do it again? Hell YES! I just prefer the young ones!
 SweetGreenEyes
Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/8/2006 10:17:16 PM

older women younger men


Been there, done that

will never ever do it again

He won't go away. Sending constant emails about how much he loves me and joined forums I belong to and spammed up the boards about his love for me.

Funny thing, I swear he lives his life here on the net. He has yet to pick up a phone and actually call me.


 colormehappygirl
Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 24
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Posted: 1/8/2006 10:36:13 PM
I'm kind of afraid of men who are much younger than me. Mostly because the few I have been brave enough to show interest in, have come right out and told me... I was too old. And I have to tell you, that really did wonders for my self esteem.

*SIGH*

The thing is... I DO NOT look my age. Not at all. So, I do attract younger men. But once I tell them I'm almost 32, the "old" stuff kicks in. And it sucks. It really does.

Now, I try to look for men closer to my age. Not younger and not older. So I don't know what's going to happen. I'll probably be alone the rest of my life! I better get some cats!! LOL!!!!!!
 -Aussie Buff-
Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 1/9/2006 5:04:50 AM
Whatever makes a person happy i say

Personally not my style or preference
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