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Masterbation...How much is Too Much???Page 1 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
Not wierd at all...and it isn't too much unless it interferes with you creating real relationships or taking care of your responsibilities. I won't list here how often I do it, but lets say it is a bit more than once a day and thank goodness for toys!
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 4
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Posted: 1/7/2008 12:43:35 PM
There is no such thing as "too much"--unless it interferes with the rest of your life: you quit your job to wank off, you stay home to masturbate rather than buy food, you do it in the front yard at 2 in the afternoon, etc. Otherwise, have at it!!
 lalby
Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 1/7/2008 12:52:24 PM
When you walk round the house with no pants on and the curtains are always shut i reckon its time to cut down.Its healthy to masturbate now and then tho.
 3ClubMonkey
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/9/2008 12:32:14 AM
I can't believe there was more to the question than the headline!
 3ClubMonkey
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 11
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Posted: 1/9/2008 7:17:37 AM
Maybe you should change your nickname to: Mister Bating.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/9/2008 9:45:31 AM

when you start using various household liquids to use after the lube ran out. ya then its time to practice some control
Hair conditioner works quite well actually.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 1/9/2008 1:42:00 PM
Men who masturbate too much can't keep it up during their try at intercourse with a real girl. Please men, if you know you are going to be seeing a girl, who you know you will definely have sex with, please don't masturbate for a least a day or 2, or more.
Sure, you guys say you get get off more than once a day . Sure that is easy when you are doing yourself. I can get up to 40 orgasms with a vibrator I might use once or twice a month. With self sexual exploratory, we just do what works for us, and we learn what works, and therefore it is easier to get off. But with a real man, I have to teach them what to do, and doing what I request with your fingers is the first part of it, and that is difficult enough for some guys to comprehend. Erection after you gave me at least one orgasm, would be good too, but then, alot of guys are not able to maintain an erection, because, usually, "they jerked off earlier that day", even though, they knew they were going to see me, and how much I would like to totally receive the complete sexual satisfaction with a live man.
I definely think most men masturbate too much.
Here are some male masturbation jokes:

This one is very sad and very true: My ex said he wanted to see other girls and he did see other girls for $1.99 and $2.99 a minute, girls on cam who do whatever during their paid minutes.
All these jokes are real and true and really have happen in my life, and they are my own original jokes.

Everytime, a guy, I am seeing goes to the bathroom, I have to worry, that they are cheating on me, with their hand.

I was dating a guy, who did not want to have sex with me, because, he didn't want to cheat on his hand.

I actually saw a profile here on POF from a guy who wrote to me. In his profile, it stated, "the only sex he has had for awhile was with his hand", but he said "his hand and him are only friends and don't have a relationship"

Another guy who was chatting with me on the phone, who I already know, said, " he is going to have a threesome tonight", I said "does that mean you are going to use both hands tonight on yourself"?

You can see, I can make humor out of the worst of circumstances.
 LenaAussieUS
Joined: 12/25/2007
Msg: 15
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Posted: 1/9/2008 3:38:41 PM
hahah theres nothing wrong with it, its a natrual thing n hey if the man your with cant do it right then do ti urself haha ;)
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 1/9/2008 3:41:47 PM
I have not had " any REAL men", lately, yes that's true. Just another MAJOR JERK OFF. So sadly true. Very,very frustrating. He knows who he is.
Do NOT lower your sensitivity, men., by masturbating. Some of you last too long and some of you can't KEEP it up. Either way, you are malfunctions, and you know who you are. There is still alot more pertaining to sexual fulfillment than just this, but this is a very major, just as foreplay (you men, giving your lady of the moment, an orgasm , as in my case, by hand, would be delightful, before the main event, your Erection, before insertion of a your hopeful erection. I like to feel you inside, as well, as outside, men. Please men, remember, you guys, proper finger stroke foreplay and proper erectional experience are both of EQUAL, Importance to total sexual fulfillment to us ladies.
An over mastubating male is not contributing to what I seek in a man or real men who can for starters, provide, a loving, sane and caring , and sexually fulfilling relationship, and/ or experience.

In summary, male masturbation, over done, KILLS any possible chance with any women , you seek.
In summary, I beleive men. masturbate MUCH TO MUCH.
 bodah
Joined: 8/9/2006
Msg: 17
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Posted: 1/9/2008 4:07:15 PM
How much is too much? Well if we are talking about like an abnormality here, it would have to be pretty constant. Basically any amount that interferes with a normal life is too much. If you leave the office to go do it, do it in public, or have literally rubbed yourself raw, that is probably too much. A few times a day, in the comfort of your own home, go nuts, who is it hurting?
 Secret revealed
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 18
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Posted: 1/11/2008 9:34:31 AM

Men who masturbate too much can't keep it up during their try at intercourse with a real girl. Please men, if you know you are going to be seeing a girl, who you know you will definely have sex with, please don't masturbate for a least a day or 2, or more.



Buy em some "VIAGRA" if ya are skeeered they can't concentrate.o= Oh dayum,you said Masturbate didn't ya? .....
 DJMac
Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 1/11/2008 12:27:44 PM
I dont see why people make a big deal about masterbation. Its a normal healthy thing, and its something everyone does(ok some masturbate more than others). Its a good way to see what pleases and turns you on. Also if you are not in a relationship or seeing someone and you miss sex, I say why not. Everyone sees someone or has a fantasy that turns them on, and there is nothing wrong with going somewhere alone and touching yourself(preferebly in your own home). The way I do is I undo my pants, stroke my penis until I cum, clean myself up and thats that.
 crazyindian69
Joined: 1/20/2006
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Posted: 1/11/2008 6:53:17 PM
Dude, step away from the keyboard with that thing. You might need a 12 step program to get your hand off your dink. You can get rid of the white cane, maybe the seeing eye dog.... If you have to ask how much is too much and you cant stop, well seek a hood to break your hands.
 mvball3
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/13/2008 9:19:58 AM
Not unusual at all I think. Just don't let it replace the real thing, there is nothing like having a partner to pleasure and be pleasured by.
 Go Bucs
Joined: 4/16/2007
Msg: 24
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Posted: 1/13/2008 10:00:10 AM
it depends the timeof day
 Spiritual Tourist
Joined: 11/19/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 1/13/2008 11:28:42 AM
How much is too much?

When Eveready starts sending you Christmas cards.

(That little pink bunny is so-o-o-o cute)
 Ron-burgendy
Joined: 12/22/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 1/13/2008 1:24:58 PM
As i said in another thread, ive jerked it more times than there have been days in the past 10 years. I wouldnt say its wierd, just not normal :P
 motherof1lookin4fun
Joined: 8/13/2007
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Posted: 1/13/2008 4:12:17 PM
No such thing as too much of a good thing As long as it's not interfering in your everyday life then have at it everyone. It's a great stress release and it's also really healthy for your own sex life, if you don't know your own body how are you supposed to let your partner know what you like?
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 1/17/2008 11:15:39 PM
RE: First post.

Whatever that limit is Im sure I reached it by age 9 at most. Yes... MOST. Hahaha, Ive been doin' the solitary deed since as long as my memory. Im pretty sure Ive killed a good third of the nerves on my penis, which is obviously a very bad thing or will be when my sex drive starts to die... if it ever does. Hahahaha.
 3ClubMonkey
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 1/18/2008 12:05:55 AM
I think Michael Jackson said it best!
 easttxmale
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 1/18/2008 1:48:56 AM
I like to do and have people watch on cam. not ashamed all you have to do is ask and i will show you
 kotu1111
Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/7/2008 10:20:04 PM
well after reading that message i would be amazed if EVERY man who comes in contact with someone who thinks like you do doesn't spend all his free time smacking 1 off just to avoid being told they have to "save themselves" for you
 BuzWeaver
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 3/8/2008 5:46:29 AM

Um...is masterbating...the same as masturbating...just asking...can ya clear that up for us... ...don't forget to switch hands...


Masterbaiters catch more fish.
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 3/8/2008 10:55:26 AM
I'm not sure...when you go blind and grow hair on your palms?
 StrangerInTheHouse
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 3/8/2008 3:13:23 PM
When it becomes chafed.
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