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 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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RE: First post.

LMAO... you think oral is more personal than sex? WTF???? Since when? Uhhh hahaha. Id love oral on the first DATE brother. Hell, Id love to GIVE oral on the first date. Amen to oral.
 3ClubMonkey
Joined: 12/10/2007
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How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 1/18/2008 10:40:07 AM
Top 10 most innane topics.

Obviously anyone who would LET another person perform oral ~ like it's a big favour ~ would think kindly of the person, unless they were masochistic, then they'd be loving it.

You just keep proving yourself on first dates bud - lap it up.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 1/18/2008 10:41:11 AM
Syr Sean: LMAO... you DO know you can perform oral with protection right....?
 northeast25
Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 1/18/2008 10:53:59 AM
Oral sex is great foreplay. It's like having a very good appetizer before the main course.
 DDay555
Joined: 12/27/2007
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How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 1/18/2008 12:28:13 PM


How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?


Would you like her to sleep with you again???
Duh... Here, have one on me:

 Godownonme
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 26
How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 1/19/2008 7:44:56 AM
The first time we sleep together? Heck we don`t even have to have intercourse!

What does it make me think of them? That they are a very giving person, interested in making me feel good.

I personally do think it`s more intimate, since it is one person giving pleasure to the other. Even though the more you like someone the more you enjoy pleasing them. Some of my more memorable evenings(and mornings) were just oral without having intercourse. Maybe I`m just more easily satisfied.
 Ole Rog
Joined: 7/21/2006
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Posted: 1/19/2008 10:30:13 AM
Definitely oral sex on the 1st time in bed. If they're good enough to make love to, they're good enough to eat!
 DJMac
Joined: 5/13/2006
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How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 1/19/2008 12:03:46 PM
Oral sex is a part of the whole lovemaking. For me I would have no problems with it, but if my partner was uncomfortable the first time I can wait. I guess it all depends on what turns you and what you are comfortable with. Personally I think oral sex is one of the most intimate sexual acts people can do to please each other.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 1/19/2008 5:52:07 PM
~OT~ If I'm at a place in a relationship where sex is finally going to happen, then oral isn't off limits. But, since I require "relationship" prior to sex, it seems only natural that there wouldn't be any negative thoughts about that particular act. I'm not a receiver, but it would seem to me that whatever works, as long as it's mutually acceptable, shouldn't negate any feelings other than it is what it is. JMO
 Leeanne
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Posted: 1/19/2008 5:57:04 PM
It says they enjoy oral sex and they are willing to please their partner!
Look - whether giving or recieving - when you are in the throws of passion you are in it together - equally! You are on equall ground - so if you are going to point fingers and place labels - be willing to accept that label for yourself!!!
 AncientCelt
Joined: 1/15/2008
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Posted: 1/19/2008 8:17:33 PM
Very Important. Just call it desert after a good dinner. Or hows it go, if you don't eat each others meat, how can you have any pudding ?
 deeya0309
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 38
How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 1/19/2008 8:21:40 PM
amen to that. i have to laugh about this. one without the other?
 Fish-Argh
Joined: 12/2/2007
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Posted: 1/28/2008 8:40:05 PM
Let me get this straight.

I know you well enough to have sex with you, but not well enough for oral sex?

Heh. K, I won't sleep with you unless I know you VERY....VERY....well.
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 4/6/2008 12:41:44 PM
JEBUS!

Don't people talk before they date?

Screw that whole I want to have something to talk about when we meet, I want to know as much about the person I can to tell if I even want to meet them. That includes sexual preferences, sexual activity, sexual health and what kind of breakfast they like.
 StrangerInTheHouse
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 59
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Posted: 4/6/2008 10:31:49 PM
Good oral sex is great, but not that many women do it well. It really takes alot of physical effort from women and I don't know how many women want to work that hard to please their partner.
I've heard the same complaint from many women about men.
I think the main thing is to enjoy the person you're with and enjoy the overall experience of having sex with them. Specific types of sex are not that important as much as the overall event.... and if you both like it and are into it and have fun doing it.
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 62
How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 4/7/2008 8:15:04 PM
sex without oral sex? how could you even think of something like that? isn't that illegal in some states not to perform oral sex on each other?
 matchlessm
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 65
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Posted: 4/7/2008 10:03:22 PM
When women go down on me too fast, it often seems to me they're doing it because they read in Cosmo or someplace that it'll drive any guy crazy. I can sense when a woman's doing that, and it's so mechanical and boring to me I'd just as soon pass.

But occasionally, a woman will go right for it, and yet I can sense she's doing that because she's fascinated and excited. And the thought she's indulging herself in something that turns *her*on, rather than trying to please me, really gets me going. That's true whether it happens the first time we sleep together, or not.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 4/7/2008 11:28:42 PM
Oral sex is part of having sex. If either of us have to think about what we will do and won't do, there's not much point in doing anything.
 kindgent
Joined: 1/30/2008
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 MelloDLyn
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How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 7/22/2008 10:46:05 PM
I would not let someone do that the first time we sleep together. I would not do it either. To me it is a very personal thing and it comes later!
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2008 12:52:55 AM
personally, I find your judgmentalism immature and pathetic.
 bunnyfastard
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Posted: 7/29/2008 5:41:37 AM
Oral sex is always important.
 ozarkguy
Joined: 11/15/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2008 5:55:47 AM
"Well, if you're a senior, like me, then oral sex is the only option, because all the guys that you see on this site, aged sixty, or sometimes young, suffer from erectile dysfunction, so they are forced to please the ladies through this means. "

ALL???? I think maybe you're in the wrong dating pool. Try dating older guys that don't smoke, use alcohol in moderation, workout a few times a week, and eat a healthy diet. Then hang on for the ride.!!!
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 80
How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?
Posted: 7/29/2008 6:07:43 AM
UM-if you are sleeping with a person that means you are asleep so therefore that would be some sleepwalking licking or sucking going on..lol. Honestly, I don't much want to be eaten from any man-but I don't mind going down on a guy. Now, if you've been dating a person for awhile and your first sexual interlude includes oral sex-what is the problem? Hopefully, both parties have at least showered ( the idea some dude just whips it out after taking a dump or not bathing grosses me out to NO end) and if they decide to do some licking or sucking-more power to em.

If I thought the guy had a clue lingually-sure I'd let lick me-finger me-and f*ck me when we first decide to have sex, and I'd happily give him oral sex too. Well, I'd like to hope I'd KNOW the person pretty well before bumping uglies-but that is just me. Honestly, I would think the person was pretty into me to want to lick my coochie-but seeing I'd more than likely knock my knees on both sides of his ears if he tried-it's kinda of a moot point for me. Though I can't ever recall a guy saying-'please honey, don't suck my c*ck because I won't be able to respect you in the morning' as most guys like it and prefer to hold your head down there for days...LOL
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2008 11:18:36 AM

Posted By: Syr Sean on 1/18/2008 125 PM
Subject: How impotant is oral sex the first time you sleep together?


I've never been impotent for oral sex.
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