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 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 4
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He's clearly not over her, and not ready to be seeing anyone.

You deserve to be with someone who can give you a real relationship, and not treat you like some dirty little secret.

Until he's gotten his life in order, you're not going to be happy with him.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/18/2008 5:35:53 PM
"most people do not know hes divorced...he does not tell anyone..hes employed in a public position and thinks people will frown on it!"

He's more concerned about appearance than honesty. People will find out he's divorced eventually and he'll be looked down on even more for trying to hide it. Not MY idea of husband material at all, doesn't seem he gives a whit about you or your feelings.
 smiles0527
Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 1/18/2008 7:01:01 PM
It is clear that we all seem to agree that he isn't in an emotional place to "be available " to anyone........maybe it would be helpful for you to look at what you are getting out of being his "sounding board." One of the questions I ask someone is "how long have you been divorced?" If it is a short period of time, beware................do what is good for you and not to put so much energy into what is good for him.
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