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 Theonly1!
Joined: 5/1/2007
Msg: 2
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That's not how they do it on the porns I watch and they are professionals!
 rodstang
Joined: 9/27/2007
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Posted: 1/31/2008 11:06:37 AM
i find most women unless its just wild mister and misses smith raw sex love soft slow sweet kisses much like you described with just the very tips of my fingers running over thier sensitive skin,exploring thier body pulling them close ..in fact i have the strange urge to kiss you now
 KTDID78
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/31/2008 1:04:32 PM
OP you're right on the money, however I have to add that a gentle touch with fingertips or nails on the back of the neck or on the scalp while kissing is just incredible as well!
 greenchair
Joined: 10/13/2007
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Posted: 2/2/2008 2:08:25 AM
Ok Kayliecat, now I totally want to make out with you. ;-)
 NNJGal
Joined: 9/8/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 2/13/2008 3:33:52 PM
Kaileycat,
Very good directions. My only suggestion is that you add diagrams for visual learners. I'd also like to add my two cents: NEVER underestimate the power of a good kiss. It can make the difference between a strike out and a home run. I've had this discussion with all of my friends and it's unanimous. We all believe lousy kissers probably make lousy lovers. None of us knows for sure since we've never dated a bad kisser long enough to find out.
 eroch
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 2/13/2008 4:02:02 PM
I've always been told I'm an excellent kisser. What the OP wrote described me to a T. Be slow and deliberate. Take control, but be sensitive enough to how she's reacting and go with it. It should be a seemingly natural motion with no perceptible feelings of force or collisions if you got it right. Just a feeling that the kiss is flowing smoothly and naturally. Mmmmm
 Blonde_charm
Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 50
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Posted: 2/24/2008 4:36:11 PM
Good god, if I followed the OP first post I would die an old woman!!!

Why is it that someone thinks they have the key to the ONE and ONLY way of doing things?????

Don't suck my tongue, don't choke me, don't friggin bite my lips.... its soft, sweet and yes like making love. I don't let anyone nip on my clitoris either!!! Ouch.
 chitown gal
Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 2/25/2008 10:38:37 PM
Serena you say you're too busy to kiss on the lips because you're too busy thinking about what else is to cum. You're missing out on a lot of fun and incredible hot sensations! As s/o else said here, you can have an orgasm just from making out! I have had small ones, not as good as the regular kind from just hugging or thinking about what I did with a partner. So maybe I'm a bit unusual. But re-think your interactions with your partners. You will be glad for it.
 chitown gal
Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 2/25/2008 11:21:19 PM
UGH! IMHO Kylie and Odd, sucking on tongue is like sucking a big fat worm. Gross! I had one fellow who had a very unusual way of kissing. He would cover his teeth with his lips then give sort of bouncing kisses with some tongue. I tried giving him lessons to no avail.
I like to suck on a lower lip, enter the mouth with my tongue, slowly exploring the innards of my partners mouth. If you've been intimate or kissed with tongue more than a few times over several dates and it has become routine, then I like to flick my tongue inside other unexplored areas of the mouth like the space between the gums and teeth. Try it! you might find your partner a little put off or they might start enjoying it. Run your tongue down that area and lightl flick some of their teeth. Mimicking what your partner is doing is especially important. Most whores don't allow kissing because it's too intimate. Doesn't that tell you something?
 flyingiguana
Joined: 3/4/2008
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Posted: 3/27/2008 10:02:32 PM

So...no Lizards, no T- divers, no Worms. Oh, and no (slobbering) Dogs. ANy other animals need to be avoided?


hey now! some lizards know how to kiss!
 clasact
Joined: 1/18/2008
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Posted: 3/31/2008 7:39:04 PM
EXCELLENT post, just excellent! I nearly "fell" outta my chair -grins- That is THE way to do it. Been there, done that and am thankful for every moment. -devilish grin-
 matchlessm
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:24:58 AM
I more or less agree with RandomEntry. Tongue kissing's great, and I like it a lot. But unless the woman I'm with is really good at it, I tend to want a change of pace after a while.

I also like to kiss her lightly and sort of teasingly on the side and back of the neck, again and again, maybe moving my lips to her ear for a moment, or to the tops of her shoulders, or to the other side of her neck, or her throat, or even her hair. Just for a moment, I might quickly kiss along her clavicle, maybe letting my hair brush against her skin. And then quickly come up, meet her eyes, and kiss her mouth as my hand cups her face. If I'm really attracted to the woman, all this feels so good I don't want to stop--and I also don't want to do anything more quite yet. Just kiss and hold her.

I usually starts caressing her face or hair with my hands as I kiss her, and when I really get into it I may start making low little sounds to her, or whispering how pretty she looks, or how good the hint of perfume on her warm skin smells. I may like to adore her by stroking her hair as I kiss her slowly and gently all over the face-- eyelids, nose, cheeks, forehead, lips. At some point, my arm or hand may brush against one of her breasts, as if by accident. Usually, the woman will begin at some point to kiss me back very passionately, and that really turns me on. Can't help it, I'm not thinking, I just let my attraction for her express itself. And if we really do it for each other, I can kiss like that for hours.
 matchlessm
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 4/1/2008 11:08:04 PM
Thanks, Kaylie, you just made my day! And if I should ever go back to the Old Dominion . . . .

Seriously, I was just trying to recall what I used to do, and then put it into words. I don't like the idea of "technique"--if you're feeling affectionate, everything just happens. Of course, practice can't hurt, and with someone attractive, it can be so much fun!

Mike
 smiles0527
Joined: 6/20/2006
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Posted: 4/5/2008 5:42:41 PM
What a perfect description of a great kiss!!!!!
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 78
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Posted: 4/6/2008 1:03:23 AM
oh my, you are right on target with this one...i really don't think you left out a thing except asking me for a kiss...:)
 The Danger Zone
Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 81
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Posted: 5/3/2008 8:43:59 PM
Wow!!! A page out of the Galmanual accidentally posted in the public forums.

Great thread.... Now, I only need to practice... Looking around for volunteers...

Maybe I can practice when I find my sweatshirt....
 WesternRose
Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 5/4/2008 1:11:20 PM
For Gosh Sakes.... DO NOT OPEN UP YOUR MOUTH like you are at the Dentist...and SWALLOW her/his face!

YUCKY....YUCKY...just way too much saliva and I don't need my makeup washed off my face...and my pores cleaned thankyouverymuch!

yes...for gosh sakes...don't open up you jaw like you are a shark going in for the kill.

keep your lips together...not clenched...just closed...and a soft but firm kiss on the lips should do just fine....just see how that feels and relax....let the other person participate...don't try to suffocate.

good luck everyone.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 7/14/2008 6:35:35 PM
Just a few additional techniques that may prove fun.

1/After her lips are slightly moist, pull your lips about 1/8 to 1/4 inch away from hers, and suck air in moderatly to rapidly fast. This gives a wonderfully sensuous cooling sensation.

2/Occassionally back up to just feather light, or lighter, pressure with your lips, and then slowly brush your lips across hers, and maybe across her cheek. Feather light brushing of your lips across her closed eyelids is also a wonderful sensation. Then maybe kiss her forehead before you work your way back down to her lips.

3/Every now and then when you are feather light kissing, just barely tickle the corner of her mouth with the tip of your tongue. I can't explain this sensation, but it feels wonderful.
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 7/18/2008 12:12:04 AM
I miss being kissed... even if they do it wrong!!!
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 3/18/2009 5:19:18 PM
Thanks for bringing back this old thread and reminding us that a good kisser is born, not made, and that a great kisser comes from learning how to be that much more than good..........

An awesome kiss is as much foreplay as slowly touching ones body or caressing each others genitals.......it is all good, and all so necessary if one is making love and not just having sex.......

Just my opinion........
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 3/18/2009 5:32:02 PM
I've said it before........I'll say it again.......

A Kiss is like a story in a good book........it has a beginning, a middle and an end.
There should be romance, drama and intrigue. And it should make u want to read the next book!
 GWSmith
Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 104
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Posted: 4/6/2009 8:19:57 AM
Kissing? It starts with the lips... don't pucker them like an ape posing for a funny picture so they can get a banana, I just let them relax.. my kisses don't just come from there though its all in the body too for a real affectionate kiss I want to hold them close, firmly but gently. Be gentle and slow when it comes to tongue action, its relative speaking of course since a usual kiss is only about 5 seconds long but you know what I mean... I open my mouth just a little bit, let my lips part and caress her tongue soft and sweet, let it linger only a second and then pull back the same way I started. I'm a teaser, so sometimes lick her lips whenI'm done; its so much nicer than biting them... and occasionally I place the classic peck on her chin or cheek before I let her go.

That's how I usually do it.
 Beach_982
Joined: 12/1/2008
Msg: 110
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Posted: 4/11/2009 5:47:34 AM
Now the real test of a genuine partner is someone who will do all that a couple of minutes after you've vomited!!
 broccolina
Joined: 2/21/2009
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Posted: 6/19/2010 10:34:31 AM
OP
Bravo!

I just had to bring this post back up, though I'm pretty sure forumers are awesome kissers
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 116
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Posted: 9/23/2010 1:14:31 PM
^^^^^^^
This is putting the sensualness back into sex, we need more of that all the way around so lets not stop with the kissing

I could not agree more I have not read all the posts but agree with this statement.
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