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 kitten23xox
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 1
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would you approach her?
 PassionateSeduction
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 2
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 2:02:05 PM
Yea, sure would. I know that she's going to say no just like any other woman would. At least I can expect if from her.
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 3
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 2:27:55 PM
No woman is too hot for me to approach.
but I do avoid those who THINK they are.

I prefer girls above such silliness.
:-P
 es138
Joined: 4/9/2006
Msg: 4
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 2:33:51 PM
This is a great question because I do think most guys would pass on the oppertunity.
I would approach her (given the oppertunity) because the odds are she isn't getting as much attention as one would assume.
 Diana619
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 5
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 4:08:03 PM

Attractive women usually have lower self esteem than fugly fat women who are empowered by that whole "you go girl" feminist garbage


WTF? ^^^ I have never heard that analagy before. Thanks for the good laugh though *mixxalot.
 Roamingsiris
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 6
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if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 5:06:01 PM
No such thing as too hot.

 jd28spot
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 7
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 5:18:46 PM
I've never yet met any woman that was "too hot" to approach (well, unless she's going through menopause....that could be dangerous) but I have met many women that THOUGHT they were "too hot".
 SingleGuy4912
Joined: 7/25/2006
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if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 7:03:02 PM

would you approach her?

If I thought she was hot - yes. If she thought she was hot - no.
 WesternRose
Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 9
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/9/2008 9:31:13 PM
Define hot?...

ME = Mighty HOT!... ( I am a bit pre-menapausal too....lol)
 Hoodoo Man
Joined: 6/25/2007
Msg: 10
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 12:14:11 AM
Of course -- the Lord hates a coward.

With props to my lost friend , Owen.
 HillsideCA
Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 11
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 1:00:09 AM
I'm going to assume that you're talking about yourself...if I were 18-25 or so and you were nearby, I would definitely approach you.

There is no such thing as TOO hot. If you find yourself not getting approached, perhaps this perception of yourself is radiating and guys are reading it as conceit.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 4:32:18 AM
If I had sense, probably not. There are plenty of women who have an incredibly hot body, but don't show it off. So often, "hot" = "showing off your body". Kind of like the difference between the billionaires that live the same as everyone else, and the semi-rich people who only wear expensive jewellery when & where everyone else can see it.

I'm cr*p at playing games and wear my heart on my sleeve. So I'm not good with women who make themselves look beautiful, just so guys will fall at their feet. But when I've met a woman who looked like a model, but didn't act it, we got on like a house on fire.
 Stonefoo
Joined: 6/14/2007
Msg: 13
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 5:51:15 AM
Absolutely!

All the while holding out hopes that she has extremely low self esteem.
Those types are my favorite!
 m409998m1
Joined: 2/18/2007
Msg: 14
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 8:58:24 AM
Stray Cat in message #6 nailed it.

There's a difference between being a "Hot" and being approachable.
People judge by looks, clothes, social status, and features. Looks fade, clothes go out of style, and on any given day, you can loose your savings and or your status.

Behaviors are learned, and opportunities lost all the time.

Atraction goes so much farther than looks in my opinion.
 sbnt
Joined: 1/23/2008
Msg: 15
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 9:02:22 AM
I don't approach anyone nowadays. Seems like too much of a hassle. Since the start of the year, I've been on cruise control. It makes it easier to relax and just be myself, and if someone is interested, all the better. I'm relaxed, happy with what I got right now, and have no desire to have that extra pressure of deciding whether to approach someone or not. It's not that I'm "afraid of rejection", I just don't see the "reward" being worth the "effort".

If I were to approach anyone, I'd rather go for middle of the road.


OP, if you're having this problem on PoF (and here's the profile reviewer in me coming out), your profile indicates a degree of high maintenance with potentially even higher standards. I disagree that it's nearly impossible to describe oneself... that's just lazy and shows lack of thought.

You find it impossible to describe yourself, which shows that you'd probably have a hard time talking about yourself in a conversation. Someone would probably ask you a question, and you'd answer with some generic basic answer. I've come across plenty of that in the past and it just doesn't interest me.

If you're having this problem out in the real world, the guys are probably thinking the same as above, and like how many responded in the thread.
 krookie
Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 16
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/10/2008 10:01:07 AM
Approach? Sure! But it will be obvious in about 2 seconds if she has the personality to go with the looks.
 kitten23xox
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 17
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/11/2008 10:18:07 PM
I can't believe so many people actually tried to answer this question. It's so ambiguous, you can interpret it in several ways.
 ZeroSpazz
Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 18
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/11/2008 10:31:49 PM

I can't believe so many people actually tried to answer this question. It's so ambiguous, you can interpret it in several ways.


Care to expand on that a little more? I am curious to see how many ways you can move that around.
 Remote Control
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 19
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/11/2008 10:35:59 PM
I need two comments to answer your question.
1. Yes, I would most likely avoid approaching her, unless it were to simply say in passing that she looked very attractive at that point in time, without any other comments or awkward silences created by me drooling on her new shoes.
2. She goes in the spank bank, so she's never really gone from my life
 Akutenshi
Joined: 11/26/2007
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if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/11/2008 11:03:28 PM
"Could God superheat a Buirto SO hot, that not even he himself could eat it?"
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 2/13/2008 3:42:31 PM

"Could G-d superheat a Buirto SO hot, that not even he himself could eat it?"
Well, let's look at it from your POV. What something could YOU eat, that you couldn't eat? Nothing.Which is a No-Thing. Which is a member of the empty set. Which is emptiness. So your question is: Could G-d create emptiness? And the answer is: Yes.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 22
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/13/2008 3:56:01 PM
I used to all the time, since my mother (former HS cheerleader) told me that the really attractive women rarely get hit on, so they are typically more single than you'd expect.

So far, I have to say it hasn't worked once, so I don't bother any more. After all, once they've said, "no", you can't check 'em out discretely anymore

 wizardofossington
Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 23
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/13/2008 5:35:59 PM
If a women is too hot I would use a fire extinguisher to cool her off....
 wizardofossington
Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 24
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/13/2008 6:08:53 PM
Oh yes I forgot...."Eye contact", "Share a smile", and then use the fire extinguisher to put her out.
 pandabollocks3000
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 25
if a woman is too hot
Posted: 2/13/2008 6:52:38 PM
Surely too hot girls aren't too hot all the time. If I saw her at home painting the kitchen ceiling in some old shorts and a tee, I would have no problem offering to hold the ladder.
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