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 satx78218
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After more than half a century of debate and bedroom exploration, a row about the location of the fabled G spot may be settled at last, the British weekly New Scientist says.

The G spot, named after a German gynaecologist called Ernst Graefenberg who first mooted its existence in 1950, is said to be a highly sensitive area in the vagina that, when stimulated, gives a woman a powerful orgasm.

But where the G spot is located has been clouded by evidence that is subjective or downright contradictory, and some experts have even concluded that it does not exist.

The answer, according to Italian researcher Emmanuele Jannini, is that, yes, the G spot does exist, but only among those women who are lucky enough to possess it, New Scientist reports.

Jannini, of the University of L'Aquila, used ultrasound to scan a key vaginal area among nine women who claimed to experience vaginal orgasms and 11 who said they didn't.

The target was an area of tissue on the front vaginal wall located behind the urethra. Tissue was notably thicker in this space among the first group of women compared with the second, the scans revealed.

Jannini, who reports the research in full in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, says the evidence is clear: "Women without any visible evidence of a G spot cannot have a vaginal orgasm."

"For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has a G spot or not," he believes.

Some experts question whether what Jannini calls the G spot is a distinct structure or the internal part of the clitoris, whose size is highly variable.

Others say more work is needed to confirm Jannini's belief that the G spot is missing in women who don't experience vaginal orgasm. The G spot could be there in all women, but with differing degrees of sensitivity, they believe.

Women who do not have a G spot should not despair, according to the New Scientist report.

"They can still have a normal orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris," said Jannini.

http://rawstory.com/news/afp/Scientists_row_over_G_spot_nears_a__02202008.html
 Theonly1!
Joined: 5/1/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 11:03:58 AM
What's the difference between a golf ball and a G-Spot?... I'll spend 10 minutes looking for a golf ball!...
 satx78218
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Posted: 2/21/2008 2:36:08 PM
Should we ask POF to put new checkbox filters on profiles, like "has G-spot" and "must have G-spot" ?
 packagedealx3
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Posted: 2/21/2008 7:22:06 PM
Heathen, has it occurred to you that you just happen to have been with women that had them and have not encountered those who don't?
 Altara
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Posted: 2/22/2008 7:17:33 PM
I KNEW I got ripped off! lol None here I'm sure...
 Boricua Papi
Joined: 10/8/2007
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Posted: 2/22/2008 9:31:57 PM
Sorry to disappoint you but the G-spot is in Sexology what the unconscious is in Psychology: NOT PROVEN. It only exists in porno and freak magazines. There is not magical spot of ultra orgasm inside of the vagina except the normal sensitiveness of that whole area.
 Blonde_charm
Joined: 9/18/2007
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Posted: 2/23/2008 10:10:56 AM
I have gspot driven ejaculations. It exists but I agree with the scientific community that not all women possess it or some who do, don't have the same results who have a more sensitive one.

Bottom line, who cares really. Get to know your own body, figure out what works for you and spread the word. Otherwise you end up going through life frustrated and bitter.

And for those like Papi.... ignorance of the female body is a turn OFF!
 Boricua Papi
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Posted: 2/23/2008 2:41:17 PM
Happyrebel
The G-spot have never been scientifically proven to exist. What you have found(and many women like you) are just certain areas of the vagina that produce upper levels of pleasure. This is not a magical pleasure spot or a meaty area that you can touch or feel. These are just sectors of sensitiveness that are connected to your brain. The so called "finding the G-spot" phenomena is not such but it is just in the mind of the person. In other words, you find what you want to find or what your brain want you to find. Please find a serious peer reviewed article or scientific research that have proven without any doubts that this magical pleasure spot exists; and if it indeed exist explain why all is matter of finding it. Something that exists inside your vagina can be found right? So why only certain women are able to "find" this thing? Sounds more like subjection than real and objective finding.

Garnet73,
"The Unconscious" is a proper noun as defined by Freud, not like when someone is unconscious, which is a very different thing. Subconscious which is another proper noun relates to the upper layer of consciousness while the unconscious relates to those instances of consciousness on which the individual is not aware of but exist, e.g. memories, repression, etc. All this is just a theory and have not scientifically been proven yet, neither have the famous G-spot!!!!!
 packagedealx3
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Posted: 2/23/2008 3:54:38 PM
Screw the government thing Heathen, I see a market niche for you. Listen to the women on this thread lamenting how long it took to find it. Can you imagine how much you could make becoming a professional G-Spot locator? Sweet gig.
 Laura Lea
Joined: 11/9/2007
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Posted: 2/23/2008 4:53:31 PM
in response to ALL THAT msg 23: I agree with all said except the part about,,, has to be with a long term caring partner,,, Living proof here,,,
 Boricua Papi
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Posted: 2/24/2008 7:23:24 AM
PolkaDotGirl
Do you think a photograph of the alleged "G-spot" with the caption "The G-spot: pleasure at your fingerprint" is scientific? Come on! We are more intelligent than that. Kind of pleasure seekers and freaks but intelligent! Keep looking at porn! lol
 Boricua Papi
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Posted: 2/24/2008 7:29:04 AM
Do you believe in God? The G-spot is also matter of beliefs and faith, not scientific proof. The clitorix does exists , the G-spot does not. I won't spend my time finding this thing. I will spend my time stimulating that nice clitorix.
 packagedealx3
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Posted: 2/24/2008 1:13:46 PM
Boricua papi there are two things you should consider. Since you have no vagina, clitoris or G-spot I suggest that you might not be the final authority on it and since apparently your style in the sack is wam, bam thank you and I am not going to explore your body to see what turns you on, maybe that is why you are not aware that one exists.

When you want to have a good, healthy, exciting sexual relationship with a woman it is really best to keep an open mind and is there a reason that you so adamantly do not want to know if this exists? If you have an ability to give a woman pleasure and basically make her want to worship you in the bed why wouldn't you do it? Seems a little bit like cutting your nose off to spite your face but, leave the satisfied women to the other guys.
 zangie
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Posted: 2/24/2008 7:38:24 PM
Would like to just mention , that since I've never been pregnant...I don't think that's a requirement...and the first time it happened to me was in my early twenties...but, I didn't know anything about "G" spots or gushing. I was horrified...lol...I even called my mother..lol..
 Boricua Papi
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Posted: 2/25/2008 7:54:26 AM
packagedealx3

I'm a man. Men don't have vaginas, clitoris or "G-spots". You cannot place your whole sexual life thinking on one alleged magical spot in your vagina. This mythical "G-spot" is just doing the work for which it was created: to create sexually frustrated people who, even when they experiment ecstasy and explosive orgasms, they keep on saying that they never find this so called "G-O". Enjoy sex and don't worry about the G-spot. The more you worry about it, the more frustrated you will be. Have you ever wondered why the same physician who invented the theory of the G-spot did not come out with the male version of G-spot?
 Boricua Papi
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Posted: 2/28/2008 6:20:43 AM
Not only of ecstasy a couple shall live but every little lovely detail we find every day to be happy.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 2/28/2008 7:59:05 AM
"..nears climax..." Very Puny!!

Sadly the scientific community has sounded and still does in many cases, like the people posting on this board who have never found or experienced a G-Gasm so they KNOW beyond any shadow of a debate that it is pure myth and fiction. Sad. One guy in particular has posted over and over again that he doesn't know WTF a G thingie is but is also enough of an expert to KNOW it doesn't exist and we should all give up even looking for it. Trust me buddy, one day when you grow up and allow youirself to LEARN something new you'll think differently. When you've just given your woman 20 - 30 - 50 or more MASSIVE G-Gasms (almost impossible with clitoral stimulation due to hyper-sensitivity), she is a twitching sweat covered puddle who can't even walk for 30 or 40 minutes and orgasms spontaneously for several days just THINKING about what you did FOR her - you'll likely RE-think your flippant ignorant and arrogant remarks.

A year or two prior to the article published in New Scientist (which BTW is NOT definitive at all - read it here - ( http://www.newscientist.com/article/...44.100#comForm )) THE definitive study on G-Spots and their POSSIBLE existence was carried out on 13 CADAVERS. As any human with a still functioning brain would tell you, the expected response from these women would be minimal. The researchers apparently weren't aware of this, didn't find any neural concentration and concluded that G's were, indeed, a cruel myth. Another study had a few college kids wired up, strapped down, filmed, probed and otherwise monitored while female (RATZ would've been a great p/t job) attendants with lab coats and rubber gloves digitized areas of their vagina attempting to illicit some response. Again, as one would expect, the "subjects" did not find the stimulation particularly stimulating. Conclusion: The G thingie is a cruel myth perpetrated on the world by horny women attempting to make everybody else feel inadequate.

OK -that's the "official" line o G-Spot research.

If you want to read a GOOD description of a Technique that works for most women, most of the time take a look at this (( http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892 )) . There's a lot of fluff but there's also posts from thousands of women who swear that the researchers, as stated above, don't have a frig gin clue what they're talking about. There are posts from guys who have tried the technique for the first time and having found that it actually works, spend all their time now introducing ladies to the wonders of LIMITLESS G-Gasms. BTW this ability to have easy G-Gasms SEEMS to improve with age - possibly the result of hormonally induced thinning of the vaginal wall. Which means once a younger woman is sufficiently turned on her partner just needs to use a bit more pressure.

Women bemoaning never finding it themselves or being with a guy who knew where it is NEED to read this link, educate themselves and climb to a whole new level of sexual satisfaction and adventure with their partners.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 2/28/2008 8:31:07 AM
NO, you're NOT understanding correctly. The area of the G-Spot is ABOVE the pubic bone so the thrusting erection usually slides over it withOUT providing the depth and pressure needed to even stimulate it let alone trigger it into multiple orgasms.

Once a woman knows exactly what it feels like the G-Spot orgasm is about 2 minutes away at any given time. If she knows the feeling SHE can usually position her hips so that there is some contact resulting in G-Gasms. There is a short learning curve but it is doable. Just stickin yo di¢k in and hoping for the best is NOT going to work though. Sorry.

It is a VERY long and frustrating crusade to try and get young guys to understand that some things need to be done withOUT using their di¢ks. Di¢ks don't do much for the clit. That's why God gave us all tongues. G-Spots are hidden, protected and insulated. That's why we have THUMBS. A-Spots are even further up the vaginal wall on the back and are often only bumped during anal sex but that's another black ops mystery that needs its own thread.

 DAVE632
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Posted: 2/28/2008 8:48:48 AM
Dude, I've got 31 yrs on ya. If I haven't learned a few things more than ANY 24 yr old then I'll eat my shorts. It takes a life time to learn some things and some people, sadly demonstrated over and over again in here will NEVER learn because they think they know everything already and aren't willing to even read. A recent survey found that 61% of women polled stated that if they won a lottery they'd leave their husbands. 61% !!! Betcha 99% of those husbands don't know what a G thingie is and don't give a ratz a$$ either way.

A few posts kybosh the concept because after 50 yrs of whambamZzzzz sex they've never cum close to a G-Gasm. Amazing how THOSE people are the EXPERTS in KNOWING the G-Spot is a cruel MYTH, isn't it?

Several women, if you'd care to actually READ, state categorically that it DOES exist and that they've been with guys who knew where it is and how to stimulate it properly and describe it as THE BEST they've ever had. There are a few old f fa rts like me who have found it and are more than happy to share. My TRY THIS thread on LIT (link above) has been read by over 371,000 so far. Go read the women's comments in that thread.

Sexpert? Does knowing something exists before the so called experts have officially discovered it make me a expert. Nope. I just know about it and for some foolish reason, think YOU should too - if only for the sake of YOUR woman !! It took me 40+ yrs to discover the GSpot (for myself ) because the official research was so abysmal and that nobody even today has had the decency to write a book describing what I describe in the Technique I posted. Instead of acting "cool" and dismissing those who might possibly impart some knowledge your way you might try reading and learning something. At the very least the woman in your life will appreciate it and when she wins that lottery she won't kick your sorry a$$ into the street.
 Boricua Papi
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Posted: 2/28/2008 3:48:16 PM
That is why I say the G-spot was created from and for freaks. Some freaks can't find it, some others say it is located 3 inches inside the vagina wall. Others say it is located between the entrance and the clitorix. Others say it is located deep inside and only a large penis can reach it. nonsense@
 DAVE632
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Posted: 2/28/2008 10:36:16 PM
""... When women have that type of an orgasm they usually roll over and get some sleep..."

Now there's an understatement if I ever read one. Believe me. You give her those 30 or 50 MASSIVE G-Gasms that I mentioned earlier and she'll sleep like a baby. There is NOTHING that can so completely and utterly satiate a woman than a whole bunch of G-Gasms. 30% of the posts and PMs on the TRY THIS thread also mention a MUCH closer relationship too. The other good news it also stimulates and releases enormous amounts of oxytocin so not only are they much more orgasmic but they tend to be horny as hell ALL the time.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:42:06 PM
""Borica Papi: I just don't get your deal here. Clearly you have an agenda to "disprove" that the G-Spot exists.""

Like I've said here and on the TRY THIS thread on LIT, I find it strange that the biggest know-it-alls and self professed experts on the NON-existence of the GSpot (and ASpot) are the twits who have never found one, have never been shown that they have one or even had the gumption to do a little simple research and find it themselves so they can show their lovers. ""I have never had a G-Gasm so I KNOW it doesn't exist."' and then for some strange reason they post and post and post about how much they don't know but are henceforth "experts" on what they already know doesn't exist - all in the face of women saying IT DOES. Completely baffling but typical of many of the morons who like to see themselves in print.

Considering the level of knowledge re: G-Spots amongst the experts and sex therapists it is NOT surprising that many, many OB-GYNs don't have a clue. There was a big discussion over on LIT about G-Gasms during PREGNANCY. I've warned women AGAINST that for a couple of common sense reasons. As the women who DO know about G-Gasms will testify, the G-Gasms are a PUSH OUT muscle contraction whereas clitoral orgasms are a suck in muscle contraction. To me it seems obvious you do NOT want to trigger a bunch of PUSH OUT muscle contractions before the baby is due. Do that and you're liable to give birth to a premie and it'll cost you thousands in un-wanted and un-needed medical costs not to mention the health dangers to the baby by being born a few weeks/months early.

Following that discussion on LIT a number of women went to their doctors to ask if G-Gasms during pregnancy was OK. The doctors didn't know the difference between G and Clitoral orgasms so they all said, "Sex is fine during pregnancy." They came back and posted that their doc said OK. Sure SEX is but again ... DON'T do G-Gasms if you're pregnant unless you want your Bambino NOW. I know. There's no scientific basis for that but commons sense came long before research and to me is a helluva a lot more relevant than some researchers conclusions. If a doctor does know the difference I can't see him/her advocating strong push out muscle activity that COULD signal the body that it is time to deliver. Sadly the docs don't know so just be careful and don't screw around with that until after Jr. appears on his/her own.

BTW there IS research that indicates stimulating GSpots and nipples produces the largest amounts of OXYTOCIN and other hormones which helps the MIND re-adjust after giving birth by helping to avoid post partum depression AND it speeds the skin and muscles into regaining their previous state prior to being stretched by the pregnancy. Even though they may not feel like it initially women who have just given birth SHOULD muck like finks to return to their happy, horny former selves. G-Gasms are just a way of increasing the number and intensity of orgasms and hence the amount of oxytocin produced. It's a dirty job but if ya really really love them you should do your best for her, OK?
 DAVE632
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Posted: 2/29/2008 4:53:29 PM
""its a little spongy and soft till it gets excited -then it puffs up like one of those puffer fish you see in the ocean then rub on her inflated little puffer fishie -she will go crazy. ""

Wouldn't "dating" be a whole new ball game if women's anatomy was like your cute little puffer fish. Thanks for that NIGHTMARE!! Lordy ... I may never have sex again. Those Puffer fishies have SPIKES all over them. Can you imagine if women had some spikes in there. Once they were aroused the spikes hardened and poked up and backwards like some fish (like some sharks and skates) and they won't let you out until all her eggs are fertilized.

AAahhhhHHHH!






WTF happened to the discussion on GSPOTS ????
 gtomustang
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Posted: 2/29/2008 7:28:37 PM
OK, let's stir the pot...who hear knows there is more than one G-spot, and where they are located?
 DAVE632
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Posted: 2/29/2008 8:15:07 PM
""OK, let's stir the pot...who hear knows there is more than one G-spot, and where they are located?""

Already discussed here and more extensively on the TRY THIS thread on LIT .

Generally the GSpot is best known. There is the ASpot which is on the posterior vaginal wall just below the mouth of the cervix. This is the spot that is usually stimulated during anal sex. The resulting orgasms can be a huge surprise to many women and also cause guilt for having enjoyed such a perverted act. My answer to that is: if you weren't meant to have orgasms from that or anything else done to you - perverted or otherwise - then you wouldn't have any nerve endings there, right? OK!

Many claim that the actual mouth of the cervix is festooned with enough of the same kind of nerve endings as the G/ASpots so that with the right pressure and rhythm it, too, will trigger a virtually unending series of massive orgasms.

Finding any of these "spots" is not generally a problem. The woman has to be turned on for the areas to change and be recognizable to the touch. Once that happens then there's magic when you get rough. Men are taught and warned to be very gentle down there. The clit is super sensitive so don't use much pressure. The G and A Spots are different. They NEEED to be pummelled to some extent. The other magic is that once your thumb or finger or toy has triggered a massive orgasm ... you can do it all over again OR just keep doing what you were doing before AND SHE WILL KEEP ORGASMING!!!

Many couples have found the Gspot by accident, had a wonderful orgasm but have difficulty finding it again and repeating that success. Read the TRY THIS thread on LIT (HOW TO section) and find out how to do that for your woman EVERY NIGHT you're together.
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