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 funnynsweet
Joined: 10/31/2007
Msg: 1
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My BF says he doesnt like it when I touch his butt too much , he says It makes his feel like a woman... I dont know maybe I suck at it lol ,what do you people think about this??? Is it normal or what??????
 all_dimples
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 2
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Posted: 3/8/2008 9:31:12 PM
I dunno...when i read this my eyebrows turned inward and though, "huh"??
This is above my perception.
 Kazoom
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 3
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Posted: 3/8/2008 10:51:14 PM
Next time your out at the mall with him, grab his testicles instead and if he pretends not to notice... squeeze real hard, he might like that better. Anyway I would not mind if a girl touched my ugly butt at all.
 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 3/9/2008 1:00:09 AM
The fact that he actually made this comment sounds more like a chick than whatever the butt grabbing could make him feel. Do you hold hands, and otherwise touch things in addition to his butt? Now that sounds so much like a question I would ask a woman about a guy grabbing her butt.
 ThymeKiller
Joined: 2/1/2008
Msg: 5
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Posted: 3/9/2008 1:56:58 AM
That's so gay. How does he feel when you stroke his prostate?

LOL
 Kazoom
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 7
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Posted: 3/9/2008 5:27:47 AM
Maybe had him a football and tell him 34G as you pat him on the butt next time, that should work better

boy what if he played center linemen for the QB lol... lots of bum touching going on there lol
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/9/2008 6:34:14 AM
God I love a mans butt!! I love to rub my hands all over - squeeze - kiss and fondle! I would be really disappointed if a guy told me that he didn't like it!! Thank goodness I never came across a guy that told me to stop it!
 northeast25
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 9
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Posted: 3/9/2008 9:31:30 AM
I think most men would like a woman touching his butt, but there are always going to be some exceptions.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 10
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Posted: 3/9/2008 9:50:05 AM
Apparently he was worried you'd rattle his brain

Seriously, not all men like or dislike the same thing. For future reference, don't touch his butt so much, but if there's a next man in your life--fondle him all you want, until he speaks up.
 catman40
Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 11
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Posted: 3/9/2008 9:54:28 AM
<--- likes it when a woman grabs him . also , likes MY GIRLFRIEND to give me a prostrate exam .
 sandra19
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 3/9/2008 10:54:54 AM
he is weird ....haha .if my man wouldnt let me touch his ass i would just say Next! haha...
how can u suck at touching an ass ...come one he is the one with problems ...maybe has some weird thoughts ..prolly bi curious but he wants to come off as very manly so he wont get judged ..stupid men ego and pride .
well if u can deal with not touching his as ..then dont ...But if u like touching him bum bum and u want a healthy relationship then sit down and talk to him about it ..explain him that being touched doesnt make him less of man ..nor weaker . And actually a man that is comfortable with his sexuality is very attractive haha
good luck
 *mandrake*
Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/9/2008 10:58:08 AM
I love having my a*s touched, massaged.....or when she grabs it and pulls me into her as she cums! oooooh that is hot!
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/9/2008 11:34:17 AM
I love touching and squeezing a guys butt
 MissJamille
Joined: 6/24/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2008 1:51:11 PM
How does he know what a woman feels like? I bet he looks in the mirror sometimes and thinks "I feel pretty". Stop touching his butt and buy him some rouge.
 swingpup
Joined: 10/21/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2008 1:53:41 PM
Touch my ass, I enjoy that just please don't stick anything in it.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 3/9/2008 1:54:15 PM
Well, unless I knew for sure that tackling his butt would be reciprocated with joy & passion, I would tend to keep my hands to myself or in my pockets. But then I love to read into body language and when my hands start roaming the firmness of his butt is equally enjoyed.

OP, if my guy didn't like touching his bottom, so be it; I would not push and would respect it.
 Nice2phku
Joined: 2/14/2008
Msg: 19
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Posted: 3/9/2008 2:02:00 PM
What a weird response, I must say. The entire body is an erotic experience for me, and particularly if you grab my butt to get the rhythm you are looking for in sex. The guy has a phobia, which you should respect. If you don't like it, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
 vaxplant
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 3/9/2008 2:44:59 PM
As long as you're not giving me a deep tissue massage at the food court in the mall, game on. ;)

In private - it's nice to know you want me. :)
 sirhugsalot
Joined: 12/25/2007
Msg: 21
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Posted: 3/9/2008 10:56:39 PM
I have a good butt, and I am used to girls I've dated squeezing it. I love it. Your boyfriend probably is insecure in his sexuality and associates your advances with being homosexual, less a man, or whatever. He'll grow up eventually, but you might not want to wait.
 fixitfred
Joined: 11/10/2007
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Posted: 3/10/2008 5:00:33 PM

I am a "Butt girl"

That first pic you have makes me believe that
 fixitfred
Joined: 11/10/2007
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Posted: 3/10/2008 5:22:02 PM
I don't like touching that's demeaning. Now spanking is a different story.
 lightguy2
Joined: 2/19/2008
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/10/2008 5:44:50 PM
I have no problem with my butt being touched by a gf..... after all i'm goin to touch hers too ! so she has to have a nice one too then .....
 Eric2008
Joined: 2/17/2008
Msg: 25
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Posted: 3/10/2008 7:08:01 PM
Probably has homosexual fantasies and is over compensating in order to appear more manly.Could be some leftover alter boy fears.He may have been molested when younger.Those are two common reasons why men have butt issues.
 easyguy71
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 3/11/2008 2:45:24 AM
On the cheeks, no problem. Between the cheeks, no. No licking, touching or poking allowed. I'm an "exit only" kind of guy. But as far as the grabbing, rubbing, biting... that's all part of the fun, no?
 labyrinths end
Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 28
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Posted: 3/11/2008 4:11:01 AM
homophobic tendencies are a turn off for me
its a body
if the guy likes me to touch him lick him whatever - ill do it within reason
i knew of a guy who didnt like his face to be touched during sex - found it distracting
i wasnt about to go desensitising him - i respect their wishes
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