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 nexthyme
Joined: 9/12/2007
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Wrongway, no matter the # of kids, dating can be a challenge.

You are very correct at NOT wanting to bring a gal around your kids until you know for sure that things are at least going to work for a while.

So people don't agree, and have no problem bring people in and out of their childrens lives. Personally I don't agree doing things that way.

No, can't keep them a secret, why some people suggest this is beyond me... The only worse shock to give a person would be surprise by the way, I am not the gender you think I am.

Patience, you can find someone that will be into you and your kids. It takes time, and if it takes 15 yrs, well then it takes 15 yrs. I have been divorced for 7, my youngest is 12, and the other two are grown up, I'm still looking.

You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, and it is just gonna take some time... Good luck...
 am70sguy
Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 3/12/2008 11:45:01 AM
Best to get that information out before you even consider getting out for a meet. Weed out those not interested right off the bat, the ones you haven't scared off are more likely to be the caliber of person you are interested in to begin with.
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
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Posted: 3/12/2008 9:26:22 PM

So am i supposed to just keep them a secret...

Keep your kids a secret?
ABSOLUTELY! Women love that.
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