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 missmilly1970
Joined: 11/4/2007
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Congratulations! Your obviously a good Mum.

I haven't been blessed with children yet so I'm not sure I qualify???

I figure as long as your son knows masturbation is healthy & that he can approach you with any question (or an Uncle, close family friend or Grandfather) ........... you're doing a good job as a Mum!
 InSydney
Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 3/27/2008 1:26:32 AM
Reading this topic is like walking into an adult shop :)

I had no idea we could use words like wanking on the message boards. Would it be inappropriate to say that this whole subject is a total wank? LOL!
 lok
Joined: 7/6/2006
Msg: 70
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Posted: 3/27/2008 4:04:00 AM
In answer to the question ( the original question )








Buy a people or picture magazine , leave it somewhere to be easily found ( by him ) , and keep an extra box of tissues in the cupboard. I never got a talk by my parents about anything sexual , had to learn it all myself. If anything is said , or bought up , tell him to swap hands occationally ( then say chicks dig guys who are multitalented )

or even get the movie "theres something about mary" , its got a good small part about jerkin the gherkin , might provide him with pointers or something
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 4/5/2008 4:14:38 PM
Of course we do. Every day.

So long as he doesn't do it on the lounge room, there's no problem.

And most of the women I've known do it regularly too.

It's the best way to be in touch with your own body, and at least it's sex with somebody you love! lol
 lyingcheat
Joined: 10/1/2008
Msg: 119
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Posted: 3/8/2009 3:35:19 AM
Huh? ^^^ Sounds like the start of a riddle...

Nine out of ten men wank the tenth. Ones a liar.

The one that's a liar, is strictly hetero.
Two of the men had Weetbix for breakfast and are Bi.
Three took Viagra and four wish they weren't there.

Which one is Wally?
 tarvold
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 3/8/2009 4:03:21 AM
I say maybe let a guy give him the talk... at least the bit about wet dreams and wanking anyway.

I mean, he'd probably already have an idea of what's going on by the time you think he's ready for the talk and it'd just be REALLY embarassing for him to have to talk to his mother about it...
 tarvold
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Posted: 3/9/2009 6:06:43 PM

... what ~luvUlongtime~ said ...


hahaha... reminds me of my childhood...

I skipped a year or so in primary school (through reasons absolutely unrelated to intelligence), and found myself half way through yr 7 wondering what's this "stiffy" thing that everyone else seems to be so fascinated about...

And yeah, by the time my parents felt was right to have "the talk"... I was already well educated on that topic.
 robw23
Joined: 4/30/2008
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Posted: 3/13/2009 1:13:49 PM
jeez mate, that washing up glove sounds a bit savage!!!! u might wanna try laying on ur business arm for 20 minutes!!! when the pins+ needles set in, it will feel like a stranger is helping u to a happy finish!!!
 robw23
Joined: 4/30/2008
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Posted: 3/16/2009 12:31:42 AM
jeez, we are getting a bit deep on here!!!! as far as all men are concerned, its ours+ when we have a shower, we can wash it as fast as we like! yes, all males have a crack at it too!!
 robw23
Joined: 4/30/2008
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Posted: 3/16/2009 1:55:12 AM
right wants not! thats it!!! i,ll stand up+ say yes!!!! jesus h christ! i do at times rip the head off it! less painfull then slamming it in the car door to try+ teach it some manners!!! as the womenfolk know, when he runs rampant, he has no concious+ no one is safe!!! lol
 lyingcheat
Joined: 10/1/2008
Msg: 154
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Posted: 3/29/2009 11:03:43 AM

can some1 please explain why
when i say all women are bytches they come in droves
& when i say all men are wankers ...nobody bats an eyelid?
Beats me. Both comments seem equally vacuous.
 Jan Sobieski
Joined: 7/4/2008
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Posted: 3/29/2009 9:46:56 PM
OP, seriously, leave this one alone. If you confront your son about wanking, that's it, he will never look at you the same way again. If he is wanking in public? Yes, you may confront him then. Is his wanking interfering with his homework? NO!!! Leave him alone.

Also, whatever you do, don't tell him that you asked for advice about his "wanking problem" on the internet. My mum tried that a couple of months ago, we havn't spoken since.
 rocketsOD
Joined: 2/15/2009
Msg: 159
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Posted: 4/1/2009 5:19:36 PM
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Just like fat pigs f@rt and bears sh!t in the woods 'people' .... 'wank'

Men do it more than women, but women wank also..... is it still wanking when its a woman?? Not quite a wanking movement I dont think. More like winking?

Anyway ...... When my son was obviously going through the "wow this feels really good" stage, I had the " Its a natural part of becoming a man" talk and the "there's a time and a place for everything" talk and voila!! No more embarassing moments in public and a happy little chappy.
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 duke2222
Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 162
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Posted: 4/4/2009 7:56:45 PM
Just tell him as he his growing up going through life bookes mags TV the lerning prosses it will all come to him
 greyingred
Joined: 6/12/2008
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Posted: 4/4/2009 8:44:35 PM
nah lego porn presents little boys with too many holes and they might get a fixation on green and don't know about you lot but green women are scarey.

Man I have had a laugh reading this thread. Best bits of advice so far...don't even bother. Grew up in single mad catholic mum household with three brothers, two sisters, none of us got 'the talk' discounting my mum telling me to not let boys feel my breasts (and since I am very small they never have lol) and a typical medically dry fertilisation lecture. I discovered upon reading my first porn mag at 15 that I had been wanking before I can even remember...so tried to give up, lasted till next morning so I ceased being bothered. As for my three boys, probably much the same story...and in fact with the older ones when they won't come out of their room I am prone to say "stop wanking and come outa your room before I kill you" works a treat and yet we never had 'that talk'. Here's something funny, might gross some out. Got a plastic friend as an Xmas prezzy...whoohoo.....it disappeared...to reappear in my 16 yr daughters room. Some four years later....she got one for Xmas from boyfriend....it disappeared har har. Payback is fun sometimes and she still furious pmsl. Chill out girlie, better off talking about skills in emotion, action and reaction etc and how to tell the difference between lust and love than him wagging his own tail.
 gingernuts
Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 164
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Posted: 4/5/2009 5:53:51 PM
As a guy who went throu that stage many years ago lol

But still do have a tug Just let the boy grow into it

My advice do not make a big deal of it, as, as a mother some things i believe a boy's should not share with there Mum and this is one, but in saying that good if a Young boy has a open and honest and great friendship and honesty with his mother.

Let him approach you if needed i think many boys wouldnt.

Sexually boys try get it over and done with very quickly as when wanking most sensetive part is our ears " case someone is coming" lol

So it is a natural thing i am sure Mum's know when it is happening.

I do not think buying porn books is a help as, at that stage of life i still think a Boy matures late and really do not know what he is looking at.
End day a womens body is beautiful and sex should be enjoyed, and safe sex if not magnonmous ... so id promote that and be there for my son if was a women if he needed.
 greyingred
Joined: 6/12/2008
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Posted: 4/8/2009 12:08:05 AM
are you sure you didn't mean I have seen men with at least a handful doing it

Some men genuinely do not wank. I spent years trying to catch ex cos he said he didn't. I have three brothers...so utterly and totally and completely sure he lying and the amount of times I tried to catch him just to perve. Nope, never, not once. Wished he had and I might not have had five kids.
 duke2222
Joined: 9/11/2008
Msg: 179
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Posted: 6/19/2009 12:27:54 AM
: It's time to let him grow up and be a man he will play anytime.glow:
 Whatcha
Joined: 11/27/2008
Msg: 182
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Posted: 6/19/2009 7:48:50 PM
Masturbation is as natural as Bee's to honey
It should not be looked down upon and made one to feel guilty for doing it.
Allow youre son to approach you on the matter, or if you feel the need,
Discuss this with youre son in a natural tone, but, if you feel embarrassed youreself then dont, this may send the wrong message across
Have a friend of the family to discuss this with him if need be.
Just remember, when you started masturbating, were you told about it first or did you Discover this?
Dont you still masturbate??
 21_Blessings
Joined: 8/4/2009
Msg: 185
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Posted: 8/11/2009 12:37:25 AM
You don't. You refer to your pastor. If you were any kind of parent you would be telling him not to engage such deviant behaviour.

Teach him to suppress.

Jesus is the way.
 greyingred
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Posted: 8/12/2009 10:18:14 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^

I cannot believe yous lot is still wanking on about wanking....what a a load of wank you bunch of tossers. Aas for the Pastor suggestion....priceless, but suggest that going to a catholic priest would be better....they have centuries of experience in self flaggilation and they wear very pretty dresses.
 21_Blessings
Joined: 8/4/2009
Msg: 192
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Posted: 8/12/2009 11:04:14 PM
Julianx has anyone ever told you you look like the wrestler Edge?
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 202
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Posted: 10/14/2009 4:51:16 PM

You don't. You refer to your pastor. If you were any kind of parent you would be telling him not to engage such deviant behaviour.

Teach him to suppress.

Jesus is the way.

You're serious, right?

Teach him to suppress a TOTALLY NATURAL impulse? Teach him to deny himself and then reap a repressed, dysfunctional human being?

I'm guessing also you actually have no opinion of your own, having to refer to your pastor for permission to scratch your arse.
 tarvold
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Posted: 10/14/2009 11:13:23 PM

I'm guessing also you actually have no opinion of your own, having to refer to your pastor for permission to scratch your arse.


Maybe he has a pastor who scratches his arse for him. Gets awfully steamy in those confession boxes, I hear...
 buggeredifiknow
Joined: 5/3/2009
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Posted: 10/17/2009 7:38:29 PM
Course they do,,,, I have a saying "if it wasn't meant to be played with, it would be in the middle of your back" that goes for men and women :)

Oh and tell him that the ridge at the end is to stop his hand slipping off.

Good luck :)
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