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 Fefe_FXDL
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 3
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My guess is that "what happens" would be about the same for both men and women. And that is, you become more consciously aware of how long it's been, and it starts to occupy your thoughts more and more. And if it is on your mind, eventually it comes out in the things you say.

The downside is, the more we become focused on NOT getting any, the less attractive we become to the opposite sex. I think it's a pheromone thing.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 3/28/2008 9:04:06 AM
Not sure if this answers your question or not.. hehehe... I bet my last bf that he couldn't go 28 days without masterbating. Keep in mind this was a long distance relationship.. we lived about 1400 miles apart from one another. We'd set up a visit for him and in a moment of weakness he challenged me and the end result was the bet. Which of us could go the longest without any sexual contact with the genitals whatsoever... no extra rubbing, stroking, touching... nothing. We spent a lot of time talking over those 28 days. The teasing was intense and out of control. He made it 21 days... then the need and the teasing had built up so much that he couldn't refrain any longer.

We spent a lot of time discussing things and one of the things he told me was that during those 3 weeks, he felt himself becoming more submissive (he was submissive to start with anyway), softer, more gentle. He became more aware of things around him and more in tune with things going on in his own body. He became more aware of my moods, and subtle clues. He was more eager to make me happy and do things he felt would please me.

Another man I know just gets frustrated and grumpy when he's denied sex or masterbation. The longer you keep him from it, the less he wants it, but the grumpier he gets.
 missdolly
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 6
What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 3/28/2008 9:08:58 AM
Whatever method used to drain the nut sac it takes.....

A hole, his hand, milking, wet dream.. He should feel better when drained. However, if you're talking about intimacy, that's another story.

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 Ravenstar66
Joined: 8/27/2007
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What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 3/28/2008 11:33:31 AM
Their balls turn blue... and then the guy has convulsions, and a breakdown and has to be committed to an insane asylum

That's what my last date told me anyway




















 wisguyingb
Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 10
What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 3/28/2008 12:08:17 PM
For me, well this April will mark 3 years of no sex. And at first it sucked, but then I just started working more, and getting things done at home. My mind just did not have those thoughts in it after awhile. I actually feel sort of "liberated". Its like a switch in your head is just turned off. All that really concerns me these days is getting my house paid off asap, then buying more property and setting myself up for the future. Sex is really a thing of the past..lol and old fossil memory..yikes..
 Fefe_FXDL
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 12
What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 3/30/2008 4:35:27 AM
I have another theory...men who can't get laid begin to begin to wallow in their bitterness and pent up frustration and then start sending out insulting or threatening messages to women on POF. Check out this initial contact message I got this morning:


If dating is not your thing then what are you doing on this site polluting it and being a lesbians beast.


But let's not forget the nice little message I got yesterday from someone who had contacted me, telling me he liked my profile, and who I then asked for him to let me know exactly what he liked about it...

First message:

Hello: Liked your profile and thought I'd send you a quick message. I'm currently
trying to fight off a dose of flu I picked up in Fargo, ND a few days ago so I'll have
to be brief for now. Have a quick look at my profile and if you would like to talk,
send me a quick message. Take care and thanks for reading.


Since my profile is not the most inviting at the moment, I responded with something along the lines of "Are you kidding me? What exactly did you like about my profile, other than the fact that I would not be interested in you?"

His second message:

Here's how it actually is.

I run a search and briefly look at profiles and save the ones I want to e-mail. I
didn't read your profile but thought you looked ok, not stunning, just ok on your
picture. I then write 1 e-mail and then send it, but cut and paste the same e-mail to
50 other women I have bookmarked. It's a numbers game. I do the same thing in
my job and that's whyt I make over $250,000 a year. The ones that respond get
looked at in more detail as far as profiles are concerned and then I talk to the ones I
chose to further conversations with. In your case after reading your response I see
you are a total **** and I would have absolutely no interest in talking further. I am
out in your back yard often. I know what you look like and if I ever see you out I will
come over and give you such a severe tongue lashing you will wonder what the hell
has just hit you.

Careful how you treat people. You never know what will beite you in your ass in the
future. One last thing, no wonder you are single. Any guy that would put up with
you would be on absolute loser.


When I had tried to answer that one, he had blocked me! (That why I no longer have an exact copy of what I sent him.)

Sadly, boys like those two are NOT the exception. Real men are the rare find.
 fun_42
Joined: 10/3/2006
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What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 3/30/2008 8:36:43 AM
i think he might just blow up...blow up real good
 wisguyingb
Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 15
What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 3/30/2008 8:42:32 AM
I think he becomes wealthy...lol
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 3/30/2008 9:13:15 AM
Hmmmmm........And here I thought all along that if a man goes without sex for to long, that he just turns into a woman and has a "period"...........

Maybe that would explain his "mood swings", "hot flashes", "weight gain", and "attitude" adjustments..........

OT..........Just as most women will take care of it by "themselves", or with the help of their "toys".........men will as well........go figure.......

Just my opinion.........
 night501
Joined: 3/2/2005
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Posted: 4/3/2008 11:12:25 PM
i would have to disagree that mens standards drop the longer they go without. i can honestly say that i havent had sex since i found out i would be a father at 20(5 years ago), and i dont think my standards have dropped, if anything they have slighly risen. Iwill no longer speak to a female to try to get in her pants, i speak to a woman to figure out her personality and see if she is worth it. You never know when one mistake will turn your life upside-down. I have come to the conclusion that if i ever get that call again im probably going to propose. you know what they say "its cheaper to keep her" and its SOOOOOO TRUE.
 sharpshooter777
Joined: 11/12/2007
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What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 4/4/2008 6:36:23 AM
Hey I had to look at your profile to see, you where in your sixties so I want say what i was going to say it would have been very mean. But I will say that at your age I would probaly like long walks a little more than I do now. I'll just say that. At the age I am now I'll like to take that long walk far enough so when her and I get out of range from everyone we can have SEX! LOL.
 sharpshooter777
Joined: 11/12/2007
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What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 4/4/2008 6:36:59 AM
Hey I had to look at your profile to see, you where in your sixties so I want say what i was going to say it would have been very mean. But I will say that at your age I would probaly like long walks a little more than I do now. I'll just say that. At the age I am now I'll like to take that long walk far enough so when her and I get out of range from everyone we can have SEX! LOL.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 4/4/2008 9:40:16 PM
Loses his sense of humor????......lmao......Maybe his sense of reality, but not his sense of humor.......or he would not end up late at night with some that HAVE lost their sense of humor, or something else much more personal.......

OT.......A man without sex is like a woman without sex.....all the same, but just slightly different with how they go about changing that........

Just my opinion........
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
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What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 4/16/2008 12:11:58 AM

What do you think happens to a man after he has not had sex in long time?

gee, I've been told by men since high school that their balls burst, and it's up to me to save them!

Eventually I suspect people find an "off switch" and their sexual being goes into hibernation.
*shudder* don't want to find out if my theory is true.
 interloper555
Joined: 2/22/2008
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What do you think happens to a man who goes without sex?
Posted: 4/16/2008 1:56:23 PM
he howls at the moon starts barking

and youve only gotyourself to blame for this
 interloper555
Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 4/16/2008 1:59:21 PM
then sees the light joins this site

bingo still no nookie tonight

but has hope for the future o
or buys wheelbarrow for his buster gonads ( geordie talk )
 lonesome wonderer
Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 4/16/2008 6:23:16 PM

What do you think happens to a man after he has not had sex in long time?

hmmm, some of us women tend to grow cobwebs while we're waiting for the grapes to ripen again instead of being them there things that sing on a tv commercial.

i don't know how long you guys can go for without having sex but some can go longer than others.
 Scorpianfish
Joined: 4/3/2008
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Posted: 4/17/2008 12:14:24 AM
I was with a gal for a couple of years and the sex was great and often, most days and/or nights. She was cute and I jsut adored her. Love and affection made helped make the sex more often and better is my thoughts. Since breaking up with her my interest in sex has been near zero. It has been 6 months with little sex. After a while my body wants some and I am around single woman who find me atractive so I can get laid. Once every few months is fine for me, unless I find someone I want to date and then who knows. If the love bug bites again and all I could see a revieved sex interest. That would be my point of view
 Lighthammer
Joined: 7/8/2004
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Posted: 4/17/2008 2:25:57 AM
Indeed I have found that, whilst most people our age know that sex without love is a hollow experience, very few of them even know what real love is.
I feel VERY sorry for young people who think that plain sex is the ultimate. That is just so sad..... so UNBELIEVABLY sad

When I consider "the joy of having a nice lady on my arm", as you put it, I immediately think it should read "the joy of having Her on my arm" - for True Love can only be for the One. It seems that having just any lady on your arm, even though she may be nice, is a pretty poor substitute, Donald. Not only that, but She is much more than just "nice", as well...

My solution to the problem of finding Her was to raise my standards SO high that only She could pass.

In regards to the original topic - "what do you think happens....", I can only imagine that it depends totally on the individual, because each individual *decides* what is going to happen, but generally, the longer you go without - the hornier you get.....
 muhaaha
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 4/20/2008 12:24:40 PM
he don't do it he don't do it
 interloper555
Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 8/13/2008 2:46:41 PM
IT CAN BE DONE AVOID ALL INTERNET PORN SITES ECT /JAZZ MAGS

AFTER A WHILE YOU ARE CURED BUT WHEN IT DOES AND WILL REAR UP

IT WILL BE WORSE THAN EVER

I ONCE HAD TO PUSH MY GONADS ABOUT IN A WHEELBARROW
 interloper555
Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 8/13/2008 2:54:13 PM
HAVE WE MET ?

AS I FEEL YOU HAVE DESCRIBED ME PERFECT
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