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 cocorico21
Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 4
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please let us know what turns you on that other people think is weird trust me ive heard all time of things and i dont think what you up your fantasy land is weird lol
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Posted: 4/4/2008 6:41:09 AM
She doesn't have an odd fetish...just sad that she has to be tipsy to express it. There are MANY people who enjoy this fetish...but you will find that most are in the closet about it. For some it may be liking the soft silky feeling of the materials on their partner, it may be that they are into the humiliation aspect of it, it may be that they like that 'power trip' that it gives them when their partner's are willing, or there may be a million other reasons (read "I could go on but I am sure you get the point"). Besides the reasons that she may like it, how many men have jerked off with a silky pair of panties or some silk nylons? There are just as many reasons for the man to be getting into it.
It isn't hurting anyone, and obviously you go along...but do you enjoy it? Why not try to discuss it with her and make it a more regular thing...even if you don't get off on it, give her one night a month that is for her fetish. Let her feel comfortable with it because it isn't hurting anyone...and if you find out her reasons for enjoying it, it just might upon up your sex lives to something all new and interesting!
 Laniru
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 8
men in lingerie
Posted: 4/4/2008 7:23:59 AM
I can't speak for anyone other then myself but I think your sadly mistaken to think lots of guys are jerking off with panties or nylons. It's like saying most women masturbate while reading Harlequin novels. Some ppl like it, personally I think it's borderline gay behaviour. Pretending to be a member of the opposite sex by dressing up in sexy lingerie is a sign of deeper issues. But I am not one to judge, if it makes you happy go for it.
men in lingerie
Posted: 4/4/2008 8:21:02 AM
echox, go check out some of the BDSM or cding sites. I am quite sure that you might be surprised by how many folks you will find who get into this...and many of them are on this site as well...they are normal every day people with a kink.
Who are you to judge if it is a sign of a deeper issue or even that they are pretending to be a member of the opposite sex? You are one to judge and clearly stated your judgment in your post. Just because you don't interfere doesn't mean that you don't judge.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/4/2008 9:19:33 AM
No - no - no and just no! I like my men to be men - right down to their underpants!! I just don't find any stimulation in even thinking about men in ladies finery!
 Mirage111
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 16
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Posted: 4/4/2008 11:36:18 AM
could be a passing thing....so indulge her....I mean it is only you two.
 Notinit4
Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 4/4/2008 12:37:53 PM
I like my men to be men too but to each their own...if it turns her on and it doesn't bother you, then go for it! Just have fun!
 Laniru
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 4/4/2008 2:05:37 PM
Post 11: I gave my OPINION, I'll let you know when you can tell me what I can think. The general concensus seems to be if you want to do it go for it. As for men wearing ladies underwear becoming more mainstream, BS, how come ppl on here aren't backing your claims up?
 Mirage111
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 21
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Posted: 4/4/2008 2:25:21 PM
hmm

echox. ladies underwear is more comfortable,better material, more attractive more well put together. They now make boycut for women but in better material(my personal fav).

So, I dont think its BS at all....

anyone have the stats ??
 Laniru
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 4/4/2008 4:08:25 PM
So they make a boycut and the material is nicer, Jeez no wonder everyone is doing it.lol I did a little search. There doesn't seem to be any real numbers relating to the number of ppl that are involved in cross-dressing. In the past women have made up 95% of the ppl that are indulging in this type of behaviour, the reasoning was a male dominated society. Google reports 17 million web-sites associated with cross-dressers and transvestities.(they don't differentiate)

How many straight websites do you think there are? Over 420 million.
These numbers do not include gay/lesbian or any other fetish sites. Another sick fact I learned during this search was child porn is more popular then all the other fetishes combined. I learned something new tonite. I have an open mind and would try damn near anything with the right person, but the survey says most ppl think x-dressing is a little strange. If you can find more info pls post it. I can admit when I am wrong.
 SweetSassy
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 23
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Posted: 4/4/2008 4:28:33 PM
To each their own but for me, no, that would actually turn me OFF if my man wore something like that.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 4/4/2008 5:21:42 PM
Do you not even like Tim Curry's get up in Rocky Horror? LOL

Yeah I gotta admit that was kinda sexy!!! Well after the 400th time watching the movie even Little Nells nipple poppin' was a turn on!!

Wait - or was it just the pelvic thrusting?!?! :)
 Tim61
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 4/7/2008 1:43:55 PM
well id love to hear about your so called weird Fantasies Crazygirl im all ears you have got me thinking now lol

Tim
 Dr. Gazebo
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 4/7/2008 2:44:46 PM
"borderline gay behaviour"

Well, not quite. Time for some education!

Gay = attracted to men sexually
Bi =attracted to both genders
Cross dresser = a heterosexual man who has a fetishistic love of wearing women's clothing
Drag queen - a man who performs on stage as a female artist
Transsexual - a man or woman who has gender dysphoria

Borderline gay behavior! OMG ...NOT GAY! Anything but that!

Sorry, but i had to take you to school.
 seriously_submissive
Joined: 10/26/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 6/16/2009 12:39:09 PM
Peacethx, thanks for educating those that do not know. I am a crossdresser, and I am not gay. I have not gay tendencies, I have no desire to be with a man in any way sexual. I find even the thought of it quite revolting. I do however enjoy slipping into fine lingerie. I do wear panties 24/7, and during the winter months nearly always I wear either stockings or pantyhose. When I am at home, I enjoy wearing a bra, and often dress in skirts and blouses. None of this makes me gay. It does however make me a crossdresser. Again, thanks.
 BaldyisBeautiful
Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 6/16/2009 12:48:45 PM
I'm a lumberjack, and I'm okay.
I sleep all night and I work all day.
He's a lumberjack, and he's okay.
He sleeps all night and he works all day.
I cut down trees. I eat my lunch.
I go to the lavatory.
On Wednesdays I go shoppin'
And have buttered scones for tea.
He cuts down trees. He eats his lunch.
He goes to the lavatory.
On Wednesdays he goes shoppin'
And has buttered scones for tea.
He's a lumberjack, and he's okay.
He sleeps all night and he works all day.
 Yankee_Girl
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 34
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Posted: 6/16/2009 1:33:38 PM
The only lingerie I want to see a man in is some boxers and a plain white t-shirt.
 js6seaj
Joined: 6/2/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/16/2009 4:22:14 PM
I like women's clothes, but not all men do. If you want to wear it fine if not fine as well.
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/16/2009 4:48:29 PM
My ex put on my pink night shirt for a joke once and I screamed at him......................so I don't think a man wearing lingerie in my house would go down very well (no pun intended...........lol).
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 8/27/2010 4:19:38 AM
i was in a relationship several years ago with a sexual dominant woman who liked for me once in awhile to dress in lingerie and stockings.

it does not bother me to do something like this as long as its stays in the bedroom.if your with a woman you love and she wants you to do this once in awhile then why not?

 nancyxoxx
Joined: 8/5/2010
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/27/2010 4:52:55 AM
op reading your profile you r looking for intimate encounters and are the one wanting to dress in ladies undies. Are you trying to find intrest by blaming the mrs. lol..
 cherryyblossom
Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/27/2010 5:47:13 AM
men in lingerie is so embarrassing. i wear nail polish and women's outerwear, but i need to keep my boxers as inner wear. in fact, wearing the wrong undergarments can affect your genitals' health. that is why is complicated for women to choose the right bra size or type of panties. the only time i wore a bra was when i dressed as full fledge woman in Halloween 2008.
 wolftxusa
Joined: 5/6/2010
Msg: 40
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Posted: 8/27/2010 9:22:20 AM
OP, are you saying my tighty whities aren't lingerie enough?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 8/27/2010 2:27:54 PM

it does not bother me to do something like this as long as its stays in the bedroom.


Ummm, this site reaches the English-speaking world, and then some. I'd say you just outed yourself, Dude, slightly ahead of the repeal of DADT. lol


when i was a teenager and yes it was my girlfriend that asked me to do it for her (more out of experimentation i think !)


I'm, uh, in the over-40 group, as are most of my friends, and alot of us are still experimenting.


We only live once don't we !


'Zactly!
Years ago, before I graduated from marriage, I was taking some heavy harpooning from my spouse, in the bedroom, about my ballooning girth. Without saying a word, I opened
her bureau drawer, snatched up a pair of her panties, and slipped them on. No more harpoons got launched, but there was no sex that day, either.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 42
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Posted: 8/27/2010 5:49:20 PM
What if a man doesn't wear underwear at all? I really feel left out in this thread.
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