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 luckyladybug
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 3
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How rough you can be depends on the people involved.

If someone likes it rough, they'll make it clear - and as long as there's open communication about what's going on and how both parties feel, I don't think there's anything wrong with rough play.

I don't like my hair being pulled OUT, or bleeding or bruising for that matter, but sometimes it's hard to find people I like in day to day life who can also be dominant enough bedroom-wise. *shrugs* When I'm with someone else who likes to be slapped, I'll happily back-hand them as hard as I can, and I know that hurts on the face more than I can take - although personally I would draw the line for what I could handle to perform at an actual beating or anything involving blade weapons.
 shadowgirl58
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 4
how ruff can you be?
Posted: 8/23/2005 1:30:13 PM
yikes and GOd forbid
 shadowgirl58
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 5
how ruff can you be?
Posted: 8/23/2005 1:30:49 PM
That sounds sort of sick-like in teh sadist-masochism file...a little teasing with a tweak her and there a soft pinch or a tad nibble may not hurt but what you desctibed-HLIJ
not a pleasant thought or feeling. Hope you don't get your willies off like that?oops double post Y?
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