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 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 1
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?Page 1 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
I have mostly male friends, and some of them have told me I can't have sex with a guy right away because then I'm not girlfriend material...what the hell does that mean? I am not 19 years old anymore, and I know what I want. Playing a game or hard to get is bullsh--. If I sleep with someone, even if it is right away, it's because I have felt some kind of connection, whether it be just INTENSELY physical or just that kind of feeling like you've known them forever (and, no it doesn't happen all the time and I know the real thing when it does) and I'm not ashamed to go with it...so what gives with you men? Do you really go along with the cliche that there are women that you marry and women you just f---? I have more integrity than that. I have always believed that if I was myself--honest and caring--that the man would see who I really was, see my heart, and that would be all that mattered...(plus the really great sex...lol)...
 Thrullas
Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 2
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:04:05 AM
HMMM - I believe that i would have to say - I believe in the cliche about women you marry & women you f***. But as i'm getting used to this whole singles thing again - it's getting difficult.
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 3
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:07:37 AM
Gee, thanks...I feel better already...lol
 bailey_rayne
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 4
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:07:47 AM
As old as I am....Ya just dont worry about shite like that anymore.......Id never marry again anyway...So I throw caution to the wind...and have myself a ball....( literally ).......
 nc_galla
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 5
 Thrullas
Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 6
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:09:40 AM
So far thats only 1 man opinion tho
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 7
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:13:02 AM
Bailey---you're my hero...lol

I also don't care if I ever get married again, but I don't want to lose out on a great boyfriend 'cause of something stupid like that, ya know...
 7times
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 8
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:18:33 AM
Oh god not this question...

the men who told you that just haven't had the woman say yes right away thats all.

I don't judge someone by how quick they sleep with me, hell there is nothing wrong with just sleeping with a person... Damn, people lets get over the whole how dare I attitude and freaking enjoy life.
 Thrullas
Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 9
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:19:43 AM
M...MM...MMM - MARRIED AGAIN <----- Not me
 mikelgreco
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 10
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:20:52 AM
Bailey---you're my hero...lol


I get a kick when I see other women say that about Bailey.

LOL

So where the hell is Salem is what I want to know???

-mikel
 76131cpl
Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 11
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:24:22 AM
One of my best friends slept with his wife on their first date, and they've been happily (far as I know) married for 15 years.
 brawny33810
Joined: 2/20/2005
Msg: 12
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:25:44 AM
Have a good weekend Mike?

ot: They better sleep with me right away........
.........or there ain't gonna be a relationship!
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 13
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:26:35 AM
Mike---Salem is a sleepy little town in Ohio, very quaint with lots of white people...lol...and outside of Salem---just cows
 Thrullas
Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 14
 teamgreen
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 15
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:28:00 AM
i'd have to say that they're woman for f*ck and woman you marry! those are my two cents, as well it could go the same with the opposite sex!
 mikelgreco
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 16
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:28:33 AM
MEG

You poor baby...OK, how about you come to NYC and I'll show you around the Atlantic.

Now that's a big pond...lots of fish there.

LOL

-Mikel
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 17
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:32:23 AM
Yeah, my brother lives there, but YOU CAN'T SMOKE IN ANY OF THE DAMN BARS ANYMORE! That is such bullsh--! Not to get off-topic...lol
 mikelgreco
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 18
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 11:36:05 AM
Ohh don't tell me your a smoker???

DeAL BrEaker...

damn and I thought I had a catch...ohhh back to fishing.

LOL
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 19
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 12:15:05 PM
Whateva, whateva...I dooo what I want...(Cartman)

Eh, whatever...that's what the patch is for, I guess...

Awfully**** for someone quoting Quentin Tarantino (loser) and dead painters who were overrated...lol

J/k...
 megwriter
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 20
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 5/31/2005 12:17:22 PM
That was weird...this site bleeped out the word c o c k y ?? What gives?
 social dragonfly
Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 21
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If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 2/19/2006 4:20:52 PM
megwriter . just make sure that once is never enough. that they'll always want more lol
 Alpengeist
Joined: 1/30/2006
Msg: 22
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 2/19/2006 4:25:26 PM
doesn't ruin chances with me, if she is good in bed and still cool afterwards, I'll always come back for more.
Eventually it is her mind that keeps me around, how soon we had sex, I don't even think about that.
 The-Callebrese-Kid
Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 23
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 2/19/2006 4:26:28 PM
Taking the challenge away from guys/gals is no fun . Most people i know would think that way. If i was with someone that would give it up the first night to me , without me having to work for it the thought i would have is " If she gave it up to me, then who else did she give it up to". For me , this would raise some trust issues . I'm not namecalling anyone but how can i take a woman seriously when she'll throw down the first night, unless of course we're talking about an open minded swinging party where everyone is strangers , then that's a different story.
 HUNflower
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 24
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 2/19/2006 6:19:18 PM
This is a biggie for me. Man r all over me all the time. Now, it's GOD DAMNED HARD to resist if they r hot!! I mean come on now guys, give us a break too. We r human and sexual just as much as u if we r touched by attractive likable males. But if I do give in on the second date let's say, it doesn't mean that I'm a slut.... I just like him and desire him. I don't want him to leave afterwards... But they always do. Or it's just a friends with benefits type of a relationship afterwards. Personally, I hate to wait, but I have to. And that's cause of the guys who think that woman who give it up fast r possible sluts. This just happened to me actually. I met someone, I was the one who hit on him and asked for his number. He liked it. Than on the second date, he was the one who just came onto me totally out of the blue, I didn't do anything to provoke it. I even pushed him off, but when a guy keeps on going and it feels god damned good how the F and why would u resist? WHy is it always up to the woman to control themselves? WHy can't u guys just be more respectful and not come onto us on the second date or whatever but take the time to get to know us. If it's a test than screw that! I don't need to be tested for anything. If u guys don't trust us from the get go and feel u have to do this for some reason, than yeah, u guys can take a hike in my book. Cause if u don't trust us, just don't come onto the woman u r with. GEt to know her first to see if she would be the type who actually would sleep around. Anyways, to finish my story, this guy kept seeing me for a month before letting me know I'm just sex to him cause I slept with him on the second date that I didn't even provoke. I was so insulted!
 motherbear
Joined: 11/29/2005
Msg: 25
If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship?
Posted: 2/19/2006 6:33:35 PM
I have just decided to have sex if I love them and that would be after knowing them for awhile. I didn't want a long stream of men coming and going by me just for sex. It really is too much of a letdown to have it over once the sex has occurred or to have the interest level die off so if I do sleep with a man, which being single is something I only think about now, it is because we have decided to have a relationship that included love, sex, and friendship. Physical connections are a dime a dozen and happen all the time, should we act on them just because they exist? I dont think so. I'll wait for the real deal.
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