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 rentahusband
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Squirting...can this be learned?Page 1 of 20    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20)

Thanks KK and VonErik I'll begin my studies this evening...and believe me, I'm very studious so I'll keep at!!


Just make sure you wash your hands before you come back for a report on your progress else your keyboard will get all sticky lol

(sorry, I just couldn't resist...I just HAD to say something lol sorry, my bad)
 DAVE632
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Posted: 4/27/2008 10:33:18 PM
TRY reading this thread. There is a bunch of fluff and banter but there are also some terrific posts which explains how it works and how a woman & her partner can get there - over and over and over again.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

THE TECHNIQUE

Quick Backgrounder

The G&A Spot(s) are a bunch of nerve clusters which trigger endorphines (natural painkillers) during child birth. These nerve concentrations are below the surface and protected. The clit is not protected and the nerves are right on the surface. Any guy who tries to handle a clit roughly usually gets a heel up the side of his head. The GSpot is different. Once it has been triggered you can NOT treat it like a clit. Beat it up! Guys have been taught to be gentle with "that " area. Yes for the clit. NO for the G&A's.

Basic Technique ideas:

#1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.

#2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded.

At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.

One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her.
 man4u2xplor
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Posted: 4/29/2008 10:22:18 AM
This is the person (and video) who taught me what it takes to make ANY woman squirt.

As soon as his video came out the industry was literally FLOODED with new porn videos all using his technique. What he shows is not porn, really, it is an instructional video but it has worked for me in all cases. CAUTION: ADULT CONTENT.

http://www.ideagasms.net/how-to-squirt-video/

If you want to learn, this is the video to teach you how.
 FBfan1027
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Posted: 5/13/2008 7:39:54 AM
For the Man:::
Well its really simple...It is just TONS of Clitoral Stimulation....licking, sucking, rubbing, massaging it....You could use a vibrator and hold it directly on the clit..and go from going down licking and sucking the clit for awhile then alternating to the vibrator and if you dont have that just keep stimulating it as best as possible...Then alternate fingering her..the g spot is located just inside the vagina when you place 2 fingers inside and you use the "come here motion" with your fingers but you just press upwards until you feel a tougher spot than the rest of the vagina that is the g spot..you will press down slightly on that and slowly move your fingers back and forth while going down on her.

For the Female:::
Tons of Clitoral Stimulation...All you have to do is get a vibrator...or if your that good with your hands which i feel is uncomfortable as hell..i use a vibrator..You locate your g spot (the g spot is located just inside the vagina when you place 2 fingers inside and you use the "come here motion" with your fingers but you just press upwards until you feel a tougher spot than the rest of the vagina that is the g spot)then while stimulating your clit..well lubed i may add..just rub and massage and touch the hell out of it till its so sensitive you feel like you cant touch your clit anymore...then you will be ready to squirt!! Using your vibrator you just do that simultaneously sp? with you rubbing your clit..and if you have a vibrator you can use that on your clit as well..what every you prefer...and whatever feels the best...and go from there...just make sure you make your clit as sensitive as possible and let your vibrator or fingers focus on your g spot!!! Happy Squirting!! :)


It worked for me that way when my friend first showed me how to do it...and he was damn good at it....Now i am trying to share with others so they can feel as good as I did :)

need anything else just ask :)
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 FBfan1027
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Posted: 5/13/2008 8:03:23 AM
I would have to say that i met this guy Steve(one of my best friends) He told me from day one that he could make me love him and i wouldnt have to sleep with him nor be his gf just give him one night and we would be friends forever ;) haha funny thing about that he showed me how to squirt!!! He is amazing!! He will go down on me for about 45-1 hr of just straight licking, suckin, on my clit! THats it...then he would bend me over his bed and finger me wildly until i squirted all over..he has a way of doing it HE KNEW WHAT THE HELL HE WAS DOING!!! Then he would lay me down on the floor and use a hand held massager that he got at linens and things....it was a must have looks like a back massager works as a sex toy!! Awesome and easy to hide...just dont let your kiddies or guests find it :) and he would use just that on my clit and that was it...i would squirt so much from just that...then i would get to a point where i felt like i was right there and i couldnt get off...and he would stop the massager and go down on me again and finger my g spot...then go back to the massager directly on my clit and it worked wonders!!! He would get me off 30-40 times i kid you not in about a 2-3hr span!!! He Is A God Send!!!

But personally i started to recently get into playin with myself and taught myself from steve's teachings how to squirt on my own...and i was so shocked the first time i did it...i remember texting him and sending him pics. I was so Proud!!

I have only squirted by myself....i only did it once and had the balls to do it when an ex....i thought it would freak him out if i did it....I told him i wanted to show him something and when i did it he flipped out....was so shocked and turned on at the same time i think he came right there :) I was so excited that a guy could get so turned on by this!!! But i have only done this for him....No other guy has gotten lucky enough to experience it with me :) Except Steve that is :) and we dont even have sex!
 Blonde_charm
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Posted: 5/13/2008 11:11:25 AM
I think you can be open to learning it but only a few women have the capacity to do it. I started squirting at 28 and have never looked back. I have an intense amount of control which took a few years to figure out.

The idea is to relax, enjoy... and don't fight the feeling of pushing (similar to that of urination)... trust me, its not urine!!!

Oh... each squirter is different. Many have posted it has to be clitoral stimulation. No way for me!! Fingers, a certain toy is what brings it on. If I do it once then everything will set it off. My clit is so super sensitive I don't ever use toys on it. So you have to figure out what works best for you.
 OhioIrr
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Posted: 5/13/2008 7:22:22 PM
Personally, this is a HUGE turn on for me!! Better believe that I am researching the subject so that I can give this gift.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/18/2008 5:50:22 PM
I'm with vonEric on this one. The "expert" who claimed it can't be learned mentioned the clit. That to me simply proves she has no idea really what she's giving "expert" advice about. Sorry.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

This TECHNIQUE has been performed by yours truly on a few select women who have never had GSpot orgasms before. Each and every one of them were in their mid - 40's or older. Each one not only had their first G-Gasm using this but enjoyed massive multiples as well. The feedback suggests that the Technique has worked suck-cessfully on thousands of other women who have never experienced it before. This is a good thing.

Obviously stimulating the GSPOT to produce G-Gasms has NOTHING to do with the clit or how delicate and OVERsensitive it can become during stimulation. Even a very soft tongue movement on clit right after an orgasm can be waaay too much for many women. The G SPot can be pounded again and again and the resulting orgasms can all be massive, bone crunchers ... combine some with a good tongue lashing at the same time and, from feedback, women will testify that NOTHING comes close to being as good.

As far as squirting goes .... it depends mostly on a woman's physiology and ability to relax and "let go" during some of these massive orgasms. CAN it happen just through oral stimulation? Of course it can. Just like some women can cum just from a good KISS. They are all wonderfully different. It does NOT mean however that just because they haven't achieved it, found it or been with a lover who knows the techniques that they can't LEARN. That's plain silly. We learn all our lives - if we're paying attention. If we are in here reading and learning presumably we - some of us at least - are paying attention. Besides a bunch of really really good orgasms should be the prize - not an ability to flood the basement. Be careful what you wish for!!

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I'll ALSO vote with Knitten on the emotional plusses to great sex. Crazy monkey sex with a stranger can be fun especially if you're young and too dumb to know there's anything BETTER. I loved the fact that I could tell the mood of my woman (and act accordingly) just by her taste. You just don't get that unless you're in a long term committed relationship and communication and paying attention. Everything else can and IS fun. That can be GREAT!!!
 DAVE632
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Posted: 5/23/2008 11:12:02 AM
GEM has some good advice except that it is HARD (no pun intended) to get just the right angle, depth, rhythm and maintain the required wood (if you're a little older) and not cramp up when you're attempting this with intercourse. The other obvious stumbling block here is that an erection can not put sufficient downward pressure on the GSpot area during intercourse. Many GSpots are "over the ridge" too in other words slightly recessed above and behind the top of the pubic bone. The erection not only needs a bend to it but it needs to be able to exert a downward (or upward depending on position obviously) on the GSpot. This a much desired goal of making love but for MOST of us it is physically IMPOSSIBLE. IIt has NOTHING to do with the SIZE either. Just the angle and the amount of pressure needed for it to work "around the corner" so to speak. It's a BLASST to be able to do it for / with her if you can using just that one piece of equipment however do NOT expect too much success there. Fingers, Thumbs, toys ... MUCH better chance of having to scrape her off the ceiling.

For most of us especially ones who know the feel (hard to find the "ridge" by feel using an erection) of the GSpot, how it is reacting to various directions, speeds and pressures it is FAR more efficient and productive to use fingers or in the case of the Technique described in the TRY THIS thread (link earlier on this thread) - THUMBS. You can feel where everything is. You can concentrate on HER reactions.

When we are enjoying ourselves we DO tend to pay more attention to that than how she is reacting so if your partner is concentrating completely on YOUR arousal then, IMHO, things will work out much better. Once you and your partner have managed to do this many many times then switching to intercourse and trying to become proficient at GStim with that method is certainly a fun and rewarding line of "research."

Ladies who are trying to get there by themselves will discover one unfortunate fact. The G-Gasms are usually SO DAMN GOOD and so exhausting that you simply run out of steam. You can NOT continue if you can barely breath so once you know the feeling it is best to have a partner (I know - easier said than done - why are we all here anyway?) do this for you because they will be able to take you much much MUCH further than you could ever get by yourself.
 OutMind
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Posted: 6/3/2008 7:27:20 AM
Wow,

I can't believe all that I have learned on this thread. This is awesome.
 man2054
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:50:08 PM
Samra, It is possible to teach yourself how to squirt. I've had the pleasure of being with a few women that were able to achieve it. It's a amazing thing to watch a woman when she is having this intense orgasm over and over again.
 DAVE632
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A-SPOTS too
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:44:43 PM
It is very sad that not only many doctors and specialists like OBGYNs DON'T have a clue about the G-Spot (or A-SPOTs) but many sex experts and researchers don't either. How the hell are couples supposed to discover this amazing (for most) sexual adventure if the so called experts are still undecided. There are lots and lots of scientific research papers posted on the TRY THIS ( http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892) thread on LIT and some of the funniest ones are from DOCTORS like Dr. HINES who says there is so little evidence to support the existence of the GSpot that he likens it to the Sasquatch or Loch Ness's munster fishie. Hahahaha ... they don't have a clue! It IS sad but get used to it. To discover the REAL workings of the G and A Spots just keep reading some of the good threads and do as much HANDS ON (or thumbs IN) research yourselves.

""I found it sad when I asked my young 30ish female obgyn about what I was experiencing and she said she had no clue-that was only 2 yrs ago. If the ob's don't know about it, seems to me as though we're in trouble. I had to resort to the net. There's lots of info out there and lots of diagrams to help find it. ""

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There is another SIMILAR area - the A-SPOT - that can also be triggered. It's very similar to the G-Spot however it is located on the posterior wall of the vagina just under the uterus. It is much deeper than the GSpot and because many women have a "tipped" uterus it is VERY difficult to reach and almost impossible to properly stimulate with an erection / thrusting. That's the bad news ...

""Oh,I forgot! I can squirt amazingly when he is in my ass! ""

The GOOD NEWS is that anal sex, if the angle is right, WILL stimulate the ASpot and will lead to, just like the G-Spot, amazing and repeating A-Gasms. Lots of women experience massive A-Gasms during anal sex (again, IF the angle and the buildup is just right) and some actually feel guilty about it. The possibilities should be discussed prior to attempts and expectations should be kept moderate until proven otherwise. By "oterwise" I mean you'll both know it because you'll have to extract her head from the dry-wall at the head of the bed. Those orgasms are just as massive as G-Gasms but often completely UNexpected.

ALL the best features - the massive orgasms that last for minutes at a time and can be repeated over and over and over again can be achieved via the G-Spot. Because the A-Spot is farther in and kind of behind things it is MUCH harder to make contact with and stimulate properly so generally learning to stimulate the G-Spot is faster, easier and the results are every bit as good so A-Spots are kind of ignored and again, the so called "sexperts" still don't really know anything about the G-Spot. Mention the A-Spot and they look at you like you just described an alien visitation and you are expecting them to believe you.






 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/6/2008 7:32:52 AM
and I'll add, AGAIN, that according to literally hundreds of emails and IM's regarding G-Gasms, squirting or learning to ejaculate it DOES NOT generally enhance the orgasms. It makes a big mess which is fine if you're into that and doubly fine if your partners is turned on by this but if you're looking for the "ultimate" orgasm(s) via squirting you will probably be disappointed. Don't get sucked into the myth that squirting produces the ultimate O. It doesn't!

From personal "research" and feedback the winner for most women appears to be a simultaneous clitoral / G-Gasm after a series of G-Gasms. Give her a dozen or so G-Gasms and the wait a bit, tease and slowly work up to a G-ing AND a good tongue lashing and if you know her well and can read her body language or with guidance from her, you should be able to time her orgasm from your tongue on her clit AND the next massive series of G-Gasms. It is like the final 2 minutes of a 4th of July fireworks, you know, where everything seems to go off at once and the sky is on fire. THAT'S what her brain will feel like.

Awesome research.

( http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892 )
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/6/2008 3:57:21 PM
Whoa there lass. I'm saying squirting ain't what some have come to believe is THE ultimate O. There is a difference between squirting and G-Gasms. Sometimes they come together and other times they are separate. I never said G's weren't THE best or close to it. You are describing G-Gasms and the state of utter exhaustion / satiation they produce. If you squirt TOO then fine. If ya'll read my thread on LIT on G-Gasms you'll know I've been touting them as the greatest thing since the invention of the wheel !!

Many have posted and IM'd saying they feel like failures because she can't or won't squirt. The G-Gasms are awesome and she can have 30 - 50 or more but failure to reach squirt seems to imply FAILURE. I've said over and over here and in LIT, the orgasms are THE best, most intense and if she's able to orgasm over and over and over again that should be viewed as a HUGE success. Just because she doesn't flood the basement should NOT denigrate the ability to G-Gasm.
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Posted: 6/6/2008 10:49:56 PM
""I'm intrigued, is it linked to much better orgasms/sensations, or is it jsut currently fashinable?""

You might try reading some of the other posts to see if your questions have been answered half a dozen times already.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/8/2008 12:54:32 AM
From Pg #6 LIT FORUMS-HOW TO-TRY THIS :

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892&page=6


For anybody who has tried the GSpot technique and found that it works AND likes a spanking now and then - COMBINE the TWO.

A good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her two to five rapid G-Gasms and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission AND the GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!"

It is awesome.

Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Give her a few more (slower - softer) G-Gasms while you're doing the bum rub followed by lotsa cuddlin.

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Again people, this is for the adventurers amongst us, those who want to explore their limits or over-stimulate their partners in an AGREED UPON scene. For those twits who think this is advocating spousal abuse - get a life!!
 ahhyup
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Posted: 6/8/2008 6:35:35 AM
Yes yes yes this can. It is an awesome moment but getting there can be to much fun.......
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/8/2008 9:58:58 AM
KK ... I think you missed my last piece of advice ... """ AGREED UPON """

Yup, this is probably NOT a good idea for a first date or with a very staid " "ONLY intercourse ONLY on Sat night at 11, ONLY in the dark and ONLY in one position"" kind of lady.

I post in here and on LIT in the completely mistaken assumption that people reading it will use common sense and good judgment. I say MISTAKEN because likely the reason MOST are here is because sometime in the past - they didn't. I just find it somewhat less than titillating to write a short erotic piece as a suggestion to some couples (SOME couples) for cranking their excitement level up a bit and then, like some tort wary pharmaceutical ad, listing warnings and side effects, dangers and probable legal implications of doing this in the REAL world with a partner.

I probably shouldn't concern myself as it's obvious that 99% of posts indicate they are ONLY reading the first one and don't bother reading any of the other posts. Understandable if there are 15 pages but reading the last page might get them with the program and reading all of a post will also prevent hostile reactions based on reading only part of a person's post.
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Posted: 6/8/2008 12:43:14 PM
Don't forget that some of the most modern "research" into the POSSIBLE existence of the GSpot used 13 CADAVERS to look for same. I am NOT kidding here. For some strange reason the responses were less than stellar and the researchers came to such an abysmal conclusion that other researchers like Dr. HINES stated that the GSpot was a certified MYTH along the likes of the Loch Ness munster and the YETI.

Fools.

Other research used University students. They were strapped (euew kinky!) down on gurnies and had probes and electrodes stuck to them and in them and up them and then white coated lab techs (female) ""DIGITIZED"" them. Again there was little to no response from the majority of the test subjects. This is where some doctors come up with the "around 5%" figure. What I wonder is how many horny guys would even get hard if they were strapped down on gurnies with electrodes all over and all IN them and had some MALE lab tech doing stuff to them. No doubt their conclusions would suggest that University males were not nearly as horny as they claimed and they have PROOF.

HA ... fools.

To be accurate I should mention the latest research was using a CATSCAN and there IS now evidence that there is some degree of neurological concentrations in the GSpot area in MOST women studied. The concentrations VARY in size (no kidding? Ya mean women are DIFFERENT?) and they hypothesize that reactions MAY differ based on GSpot SIZE.

Ok. Well that's a start ... better than the other crap at least.


What it comes down to is everybody reading these threads should keep an open mind and go read this thread:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

and / or some of the other threads on this subject. Do your own research. MANY of you will be very pleasantly surprised that HINES the so called global expert of the NON existence of the GSpot is ... WRONG!!

It's THERE and it ROCKS.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:20:11 PM
""The field of human sexuality research has been lying to women for years. Only telling you what they want you to hear. Im not quite sure what the motive is. I mean I sure as hell didnt discover all this on my own. It was all found in books, online web sites, and some practical experience. Which means someone had to know this before I did. Im only relaying it. ""

Exactly. I read and read for years. My DD didn't like finger pokin so for years I didn't. It wasn't until circumstances changed temporarily but drastically that I did a little experimenting and discovered that my interpretation of much of this research that I'd read could be applied in a new and wonderful way. When it worked on several ummm acquaintances and then asked several close friends about it did I realize that amongst some of my closest and even wildest friends NONE of them knew about this technique. When I first posted on LIT there was a lot of rude people telling me I was full of it but after 112 pages, 387,000 some odd reads and tons of very very positive feedback it is obvious despite the information being out there, MOST couples do NOT know how to apply it. The Technique has helped lots of couples achieve this and in so doing many report that they have grown much closer and are even more in love than they were before. THAT is waaaay cool. The others who have discovered this, have done their own research and come and post various ideas and testimonials here and on the LIT - HOT TO - TRY THIS pages are GREATLY appreciated. It vindicates our attempts to pass this off as legitimate and often mind-bogglingly great sex. For those who caqn't achieve G-Gasms, I'm sorry. I wish I could type something so EVERYBODY gets there but the variety of humans simply dictates that some will never get there. Life's a bit¢h I guess. For all those others WE are glad to help in any way we can - to explain, to share and to encourage because if / when it does work for you MOST women will tell you nothing comes close to the intensity and the ability to repeat it all 15 seconds later and again and again and .....
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/9/2008 7:05:58 AM
One of the little problems on this site is that if you don't do a QUOTE from the post you're commenting on then when you post your contribution in the middle of a thread several pages into the discussion you just look like you're completely OUT of it.

What are you referring to as disgusting? The whole thread? The ability / desire to ejaculate? What?
 OutMind
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Posted: 6/9/2008 10:00:21 AM

Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity.


Dude, unless you are with a lady that likes spanking or stuff like this, I think this goes too far, particularly the part about not knowing. Also from what I hear from people that are into S&M they have some a "safe" word that when the say stop, it means stop.
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Posted: 6/9/2008 3:38:55 PM
dud, dija miss the ""AGREED UPON"" part ?

Yes, huh?

Also the COMMON SENSE and GOOD JUDGMENT part ....

or my next post ....

""I think you missed my last piece of advice ... """ AGREED UPON """

Yup, this is probably NOT a good idea for a first date or with a very staid " "ONLY intercourse ONLY on Sat night at 11, ONLY in the dark and ONLY in one position"" kind of lady.""

So to sum this up: if you're on a first date with MZ Prim&proper then I agree. Likely TOO far. If you've AGREED UPON a little FIRE added to your love life and the "AGREED UPON " includes HER then much as I appreciate the comment wouldn't it be better left to her to decide. I think the massive repeating G-gasms AND a bit of a spanking is a BIG turn on for many more women than you'd probably dream of. But then there are women with your attitude so we go full circle here and return to the AGREED UPON part. If she expresses violent negativism to the suggestion it would be WISE NOT to go ahead with that particular scene. Just G her.

In PRACTICE I'm not too sure they can even tell the difference actually. There is a blending of the G-Gasms and the spanking. It has been described to me several times as just a series of massive and increasingly INTENSE orgasms with the fun / intensity of some stinging going on too but that's kinda lost in the whole experience.

NOT "too far" in my books but that's why we have the TALK bit first.
 bert72686
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/9/2008 4:23:08 PM
Not sure if "learned" is the right word for it, but I have had a few women who do it with me and claim it has never happend before. Maybe it's just a matter of learning to let go and enjoy it.
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 81
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Squirting...can this be learned?
Posted: 6/13/2008 7:44:46 PM
Another "bump" for the same reason. Not sure why one of the greatest Techniques known to man for pleasing a woman falls by the wayside so quickly in here.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

READ IT. TRY IT.
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