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 airplane_geek
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 4
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I agree with your decision and how you handled it. Let me stress though, for those other people in similar situations that he must understand why.
 romanticbob
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 20
Always talking about the ex
Posted: 6/2/2005 10:45:39 AM
shrimp: Nope! Until the ex is out of the life, there is no new life.
 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 23
Always talking about the ex
Posted: 6/2/2005 11:05:28 AM
constanly talking about the ex is wrong , negative or positive , ythe date should be about both of you , not a third party , he is probably not over it , still loves and hurt .
 SimplyPeachy
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 32
Always talking about the ex
Posted: 10/8/2006 5:58:45 PM
I've been on the receiving side of this and I've come to the conclusion when "we" is used rather than "the ex" the person is still mentally in the relationship ("we"). When they begin to NOT speak of the "we" or simply not speak on the past relationship at all, they have begun to move on. But be aware of the "we"...they are still in that relationship...and NOT with you.

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