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 nexthyme
Joined: 9/12/2007
Msg: 2
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That or has a steady gf that he's living with...
 The Danger Zone
Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 5/3/2008 1:51:05 PM
^^^Why do people over analyze everything... Just relax and go with the flow... If you really want to know... Get back to his place and seduce him... If he has another woman there, you'll find out pretty quick....

***Do we have the Webcam set up at the OP's new beau's place yet... I'll grab the beer chips...
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 5/3/2008 10:42:59 PM
Very easy.......Just ask to have your date, then suggest that you go to his place.....if he says no.....you have your answer.......and if he says yes......you will have your fun......

Make sure to bring your overnight kit, and something nice to give him if you find out that you are wrong.......and if right........you found out soon enough.....

Just my opinion.......
 MSSUSANMH
Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 5/5/2008 2:13:03 PM
Well have you asked hime what his profession is. You've been out what 3 times now. You say he's single ok but is he single AND dating (someone besides you). Don't jump the gun to assume he's married. If you like him then u need to ask some questions and unless he's just playing the field he should give u the proper answers. Hope this help your dilema.
 floridianfun
Joined: 8/6/2007
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Posted: 5/5/2008 6:23:05 PM
I would have to agree he has someone living with him, wife, gf, bf
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 5/5/2008 6:38:09 PM

He is a 10 in looks.

Im going to READ INTO this - lets see, because he is a ten my crystal
ball says on that tiny bit of information- he must be married. Everyone
below ten is single-
My crystal ball also told me to tell you that if you continue to read into
everything and not ask questions- you will be the only one pondering
your future which means you will be alone-

How the hell do we know what he is- ask him for Gods sakes. You see him,
you interact with him- what do YOU think- or better yet dont THINK, ASK him.
If he is married he will probably lie but now that is another thread for another
day, yes?

Good looking, single, two kids, only calls you from going back and forth to
WORK- lets see. The man probably needs to pay that child support and alimony.
This could be why he is always on the go- working. something very innocent.
Or he could be very sinister and married. we dont know that.

He has the answers - I can sit here and speculate with everyone else but
really - wouldnt you rather make a decision based on some facts from his mouth
and not ours- Hey good luck- I hear he's good looking.
 bellazingara
Joined: 7/4/2007
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Posted: 9/29/2008 4:45:37 PM

I'm single with three kids & some weeks I don't know whether to scratch my watch or wind my ass.

Oh that was priceless!!!
 davidsauvignon
Joined: 2/6/2008
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Posted: 9/30/2008 6:10:29 AM
POF should make a rule for these guessing games that the OP is required to come back and spill the beans on how it worked out. This is from over 4 months ago, so I would think she knows by now if the dewd had a GF, wife, both or neither. JMO.





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