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 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 1
Do men hate it when women they like have kids?Page 1 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
I have two daughters (pics on profile) and it seems that guys who start to talk to me, don't ever call when I tell them that I have two kids. I don't know why, but I find it hurtful that a person would just not like somebody because they have kids. Guys and girls, what do you think?

-Carly
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 2
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 11:39:26 AM
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 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 3
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 11:40:51 AM
BTW i am on my sister michelle's account, my account is cutemommy but it is sorta messed up. she is 19 and doesnt have any kids.
 Spirited_Wolf
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 4
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 12:10:17 PM
why post on your sisters - do your own thing ... and be honest - the right one will come - good luck
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 5
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 12:22:01 PM
because i tried on my account and it wont work, so my sister let me do it on hers.
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 6
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 12:22:15 PM
ok thanks for your input!
 Spirited_Wolf
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 7
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 12:25:41 PM
see you seem really nice - and many people were having problems with coming in here - but it should clear up check out the help area....
 Spirited_Wolf
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 8
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 12:26:41 PM
oh and you could put on your sisters profile that you two are sharing - if you have a pic with the two of you on it that might help too - letting people know you both are using it ...
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 9
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 1:09:46 PM
lol

ok so i am gettin a lot from this

thnx everyone
 SenileGranny
Joined: 7/3/2004
Msg: 10
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Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 1:13:52 PM
I think having kids helps weed out the shallow guys too. If they run...they weren't worth it;)
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 11
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 1:19:31 PM
very true
 jimi77
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 12
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 1:36:18 PM
onehotbabe in your case NO!!! your smoking. but to be honest i think it is harder becasue many guys want to have there own kids not take care of someone elses. I would never be against it becasue i love kids but i would be causious in the begining. kids are ruff in a realtionship becasue the attention is split in your case 3 ways. and kids in most cases still love there dad and think this new guy is trying to replace that. plus kids can be brats that is there job at that age LOL!
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 13
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 1:58:13 PM
lol

thanks
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 14
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 6:41:27 PM
ok thanks once again
 Hortman
Joined: 9/19/2004
Msg: 15
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Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 7:16:37 PM
I do not think that a man who talks to you, then finds out that you have 2 children and stops talking with you is a worthwhile man. If a man truly likes you, then he likes you as you are - with or without children...
 bachelorbrian
Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 16
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 8:06:38 PM
My only advice would be to drop the line in your profile about your children having different fathers and you're not speaking with either. Doesn't sound good and it's not something you need to broadcast.
 jimi77
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 17
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 8:17:18 PM
every women i have dated or known with kids...there kids end up beating on me? not in a mean way but in a playing way.

for example. i meet this nice women she has 2 kids. i go over to fix her computer and she makes me dinner... a fair trade. she mentions that it is her kids birthday tomarow. so i bring a gift for the kid...about 6 or 7. and a girl. i bring her a big pocohantace doll that you can comb her hair and stuff. the kid is so shy.and will barely look at me but mudders a thanks and runs off with the toy. 1/2 hours later she is blocking the door on me laffing and kicking me in the shin. so i tell her HEY! is that your kitty out side and she runs to the window to look and i make my escape! she then looks at me and says HEY!....i don't have a kitty. and persues me to beat me again. ahhh kids you got to love them. she did however make me a rubber band braclett with jewels on it and her mother gave it to me the next day. sweet.
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 18
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/19/2004 8:22:38 PM
true i will

i mean i talk to them, but not like on a daily basis.
 onehotbabe
Joined: 9/17/2004
Msg: 19
 Virgin Lip Service
Joined: 8/24/2004
Msg: 20
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Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/20/2004 9:15:54 PM
Sometimes its kinda scary to meet someone with kids, even if u realllly really like them, the thought of having to impress thier little one can be daunting...but it can be fun too...i know a cpl guys with kids and i just love em!! kids r great!!
 billybob600
Joined: 8/7/2004
Msg: 21
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/21/2004 12:36:06 AM
I don't have a problem with it in the least, but that is probably because I am a kid at heart. There have been a few times where I have gotten along with the kids better than the girl, lol.
 Looking for sex
Joined: 8/3/2004
Msg: 22
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/21/2004 1:04:14 PM
Guys that have a problem with a woman who has kids obviously need their heads examined. So what if they are a reminder of the fact that the woman had another relationship. like they haven't?
I mean get real. Is some moron going to pass up a beautiful relationship simply because the lady in question has a kid? How stupid is that?

By the way, cutemommy, Yes you are. whoever caused you to ask this question was a complete fool.
 JustMe1819
Joined: 12/18/2003
Msg: 23
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Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/21/2004 9:40:50 PM
ok I soooo know where ONEHOTBABE is comin from. I have 3 kids and I am really young to have kids. But its like someone will really like me then all of a sudden they just stop callin because they hear about the kids. Or they will say its not a big deal and we will hang out and spend time together and stuff and a few months into it they are like I cant handle this Im leaving. That has happened quite a few times. I dont try and put my kids off on anyone but I think that if I am good enough to be with you then my kids should be to. I even explain upfront that I am not lookin for a father for my children right now I just want to meet someone. whatever happens later happens. I dont know It just seems like the same old thing. LOL sorry to ramble on. This was just something I know a little about
 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 24
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/22/2004 12:48:43 AM
Yup, kids are always #1
 jimi77
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 25
Re: DO MEN HATE IT WHEN WOMEN THEY LIKE HAVE KIDS???
Posted: 9/22/2004 7:35:58 PM
cutemommy one thing about your kids... there young. that is not as big a threat as older kids. in fact most guys can even get attached to kids that age. i see you haveing no problum with finding a man .. your cute. and so are the kids. if you were around my age i would be all over that, even with kids. my only advise would be look for a kind man that will love the kids as well as you.
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