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Dating someone in a 12 step program (Page: 1, 2 ) Icicle Eyes4989215/9/2019 6:57 PM
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letitialegrande
Oral Sex Disgusts Me (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13 ) torothin319401792/24/2019 7:08 PM
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julystorm22
How do you feel about 'retouched' photos? (AKA. Photoshoped profile pics!!) (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 ) I love chips1301104012/17/2017 12:54 PM
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Saintclara
Do women like men who like Feet? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 ) tips2toes6135003509/17/2017 5:55 PM
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ThePigOfYourDreams
Why is there a rush to meet people from online chat and e-mails? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13 ) ny_lady_13601305288709/7/2017 3:06 AM
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purplerider1200
Sexual conversation ruining long term potential? (Page: 1, 2, 3 ) jesscarmen457110121/26/2017 9:33 AM
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hemingway234
Apparently those Nigerian scammers are using Yahoo messenger now... (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 ) EMT_Chickie293686044/18/2016 12:43 PM
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INDIANFLOWER7
Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34 ) Addicted_2_Chaos838916612/10/2016 5:51 AM
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Lil_poppy
Should men color the gray (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27 ) Loveswood6677197411/4/2015 5:00 PM
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csillagjanos
how long is long enough? (Page: 1, 2 ) michkat574737195/31/2015 5:21 AM
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michkat58
Can you love someone you aren't physically attracted to? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 ) whenwillthiswork26225690522/24/2015 5:36 PM
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oluben
How long does it really take men to commit? (Page: 1, 2, 3 ) someonealmostlegit5075437/19/2014 3:27 PM
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Etritonakin
Avoiding Issues and getting your Man to Commitment in a Relationship! (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ) Inpune10999773/20/2014 7:22 AM
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Toaks91360
penetrating her cervix (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 ) 42 4 U1538573212/29/2013 10:44 PM
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rudolf6751
Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a Hoarder? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4 ) Blk_Archangel7751302812/9/2013 4:37 PM
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Archangel_07
Physical attraction verses Sexual attraction (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4 ) coldreality77146469/24/2013 7:22 AM
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luv_life_now
Over 45 & never married............... (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 ) Discerning Virtuosa219186383/10/2013 12:25 PM
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afitdancer
Fuzzy Pics? (Page: 1, 2 ) Wrandy4231462/26/2013 8:28 PM
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pageforyou
Catfish MTV (Page: 1, 2, 3 ) xoxoNY5946122/22/2013 8:57 AM
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tnt144
Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23 ) krillbee552880152/21/2013 7:48 AM
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Arlo_Troutman
Rushing too fast (Page: 1, 2, 3 ) TL4U6160972/17/2013 6:09 PM
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Mikare
Has anyone dated someone with aspergers? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 ) WillB129275062/13/2013 12:42 PM
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gillb101
why do men think they can use women for sex? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 46, 47, 48, 49, 50, 51 ) vixenette12581400322/12/2013 10:14 PM
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barnabyjames1
Women with multiple cats - sign of mental illness? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27 ) Zong15669546012/4/2013 12:28 PM
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VTECturbo
Please bring back "Track This Thread"  Discerning Virtuosa88581/29/2013 7:47 PM
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nimbletows
Whose house do you sleep at and why? (Page: 1, 2, 3 ) CynthiaMw72665712/29/2012 9:56 AM
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CynthiaSM
Anger in a relationship, or in life in general... (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 ) redcassandra2121908612/20/2012 2:37 PM
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Texan_Gal
If a person initiates contact with you on POF, do you expect for them to have read your profile? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 ) purplepalooza1521242612/7/2012 4:36 PM
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WolfSpirit29
Emotionally Unavailable = Scared (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 ) caramelsweetness22212748410/17/2012 10:38 PM
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Finding_Something_New
Why does the guy always have to initiate the date and relationship? or at least most of the time? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 ) Innocent06337366919/8/2012 1:18 PM
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popcultureloverguy88
Never been married, no kids. Is this a red flag? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19 ) nbl642450437498/10/2012 6:50 PM
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AriesLooking192150
Why do people not tell the truth upfront? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ) faith2565118104608/7/2012 9:24 PM
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BrookfieldGentlemanTom
S/he has no health insurance. Dealbreaker? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 ) Ready_Real201156937/9/2012 1:16 PM
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ladyc4
THEY SAY "YOU'LL FIND 'THE ONE' WHEN YOUR NOT LOOKING...DO YOU THINK THAT'S TRUE? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 ) ryantyler158127356/5/2012 9:39 AM
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sddude
Pornography (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 ) allamericangr1140107545/25/2012 8:50 PM
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thel0grus
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN?? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30 ) marcus18181742781465/23/2012 11:41 PM
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It_might_be_good_if_you
Do older women still act as feminine and older men as masculine? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4 ) Glenoran17971915/14/2012 6:08 AM
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geoweb
Ever been asked,"Why aren't you married?" (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 ) NORTY01197173605/4/2012 4:59 PM
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SONNI100
Is "taking things slow" really necessary after the age of 45??? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 ) purplepalooza161112355/4/2012 7:07 AM
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Zip999
Waiting to have sex, a deal breaker? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4 ) techgirl278178184/20/2012 3:15 PM
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7thour
When someone points out that "you're old".. (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 ) RDtoo483627094/19/2012 12:04 PM
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TraveliciousGuy
Am I asking too much? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ) daltexjack10776944/17/2012 8:29 PM
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starfishgazer
In the wrong place to find the right man (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ) illogicalove11080684/7/2012 9:45 PM
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Discerning Virtuosa
sex before marriage for people over 60, looking for a new partner (Page: 1, 2 ) jacklondon153633106353/23/2012 10:06 AM
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charterbooks
I burned my bridges with a narcissist (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... , 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 ) Pathnine260252013/21/2012 9:29 AM
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blueceleste
Just Me...Or are men becoming more Passive? (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 ) Finding_something_new219210073/4/2012 11:54 AM
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onehalfofone
"Are you a hot blooded/passionate woman and love to kiss?" (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ) Sabrosura089111107053/3/2012 8:26 PM
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2012pc
Speed Dating for Seniors (Page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 ) Ode2WestWind166148753/1/2012 3:50 PM
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Luv_Lyfe
Talking ....way too much! (Page: 1, 2, 3 ) plays_outside6956162/24/2012 6:05 AM
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WinterIsComing80
Importance of a wedding to a marriage? (Page: 1, 2 ) 24degreeangel3919622/6/2012 5:38 PM
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