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 Author Thread: Would you date someone from the USA
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Would you date someone from the USA
Posted: 7/5/2009 9:28:10 AM
I'm another been there, done that. She was in California, I'm in Ontario. We met online and chatted frequently for a few years. I travelled to her and we met. She was as great as expected and so we "dated" for more than a year and chatted daily with video chat. We met up a few times during the dating period. Eventually I realized you need to actually have normal everyday physical contact often, like you would dating someone locally, to really get to know the person. Learned a lot from it and learned I will never do it again.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Insulin Resistant People
Posted: 7/5/2009 8:46:49 AM
I'm not sure if glucose intolerance and insulin resistance is the same but it sounds like the same problem happening. I was diagnosed a few months ago (April '09) with glucose intolerance. My doctor prescribed a diabetic class that is specific for glucose intolerance. It has helped a lot and I would recommend it. There are dieticians and nurses that teach the classes. There's only 2 classes.

I exercise regularly at the gym 3x per week but still have to lose 15 - 20 #'s. Whats working for me is change of diet and a small amount of daily exercise. The dietician's are great at recommending how to change your diet and what to eat, what not to eat.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 4/14/2009 3:31:33 AM
I love kissing. To me it's a very intimate act and gets me excited every time. OP sorry he doesn't like it. If it's that important then maybe you should keep looking.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 124 (view)
 
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/14/2009 3:27:25 AM
I'm completely shaved and I like it. So does my gf. We both prefer it that way. It doesn't stop me from changing at the gym.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Swinger Clubs
Posted: 4/13/2009 11:12:31 AM
We used to belong to a swing club. The club, as ForRumOnly says, did not allow sex on site and only let single guys in as a guest or on special nights. There were usually theme nights, they had a DJ and pool table. It was at a local bar that would host the weekly "private party". You get to know other couples over time as the same people, the members, show up every week. We became friends with many of them and generally it was very enjoyable.

Unicityguy I see by one of your posts and profile that you are bi. I am bi and we eventually stopped going mainly for one reason: there seems to be homophobia among the male membership. While approximately 80% of the women were openly bi and bisexual activity among women was encouraged the men who were bi kept it to themselves. I met only 2 other bi guys in the club and there may have been others but it wasn't advertised. I understand this is very common in swing clubs. Hope my perspective helps!
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
MMF THreesomes
Posted: 4/13/2009 10:56:28 AM

My girlfriend and I are talking about having a threesome, she is really turned on with the thought of two men and her, particuallry watching two men have sex. She knows I am bi is ok with that, is it typical that most women have fantasies about 2 men? I am told it is.


I'm bi and I would say of the women that I know many are not turned on watching 2 men together. This includes my partner (who is also bi), she can take it or leave it. In the past I've dated 2 women who liked the idea. For one it was a major turn on. She loved gay porn.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus?
Posted: 4/12/2009 9:41:36 PM
Well my thoughts are I like doing it very much, just as long as everything is clean and I know she is enjoying it. I also like to be on the receiving end but prefer doing more than receiving.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 223 (view)
 
GUYS, do you like seeing ur girlfriend masturbating??
Posted: 4/10/2009 7:42:51 AM
OH yes we love it! watching each other. We masturbate together a lot.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Handling the testicles rough. Yes or no?
Posted: 4/5/2009 8:42:15 AM
Not for me thanks, it hurts too much. Mine are sensitive.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Hermaphrodites and dating(definition:born half male and half female)
Posted: 4/5/2009 7:36:33 AM

A person cannot help the accidents of birth, that should not be held against them.


Exactly what EvilLolli said. If we clicked and the person was my type then for sure I would go on dates and more.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 156 (view)
 
do some guys really like a really big AZZ?
Posted: 4/5/2009 7:26:38 AM
Like lots of others have said it's all to do with your own personal preferences. My preferences are for girls with bigger butts and boobs.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
lingerie
Posted: 4/5/2009 6:29:35 AM
Oh I definitely notice. Sexy lingerie will really heighten my passion. If she stands up and turns around to let me admire it, even better! Weird thing is, then I just want to enjoy taking it off....slowly. Visually lingerie is great and then the sight of a naked body is the hottest.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
sex in warm weather
Posted: 4/5/2009 6:22:40 AM
Hot weather has that affect on me whether I'm on vacation or not. On vacation in hot weather really turns it up :) So I have to say hot weather definitely makes me hotter.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 64 (view)
 
What Makes You Feel Great?
Posted: 3/31/2009 10:59:53 PM
I feel complete. I feel like I'm home. I feel like I'm living with myself.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Waking your partner for sex!
Posted: 3/30/2009 8:06:37 PM

Alrighty..you know it's happened to all of you at one point or another...you are awake..she/he isn't and wham...you wanna have sex...what to do? I can't possibly think that I'd ever be mad if I was woken up to a willing partner..would anyone think this is rude?


I never complain. I love it and so does she.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Fetishes
Posted: 3/28/2009 8:47:15 PM
I like big women.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 177 (view)
 
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/28/2009 2:03:01 PM
Hot passionate kissing always gets me hot.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
favorite type of sex
Posted: 3/28/2009 1:57:27 PM
Giving orally does it for me.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 144 (view)
 
If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex?
Posted: 3/24/2009 7:57:44 PM
I have the perfect partner and when we first started out it was every day and many times it was twice a day (morning and night). That has leveled off to 4 or 5 times a week. I'm guessing, I really don't keep track. Sometimes more sometimes less.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Watching women masturbate?
Posted: 3/22/2009 3:16:30 PM
I think it's hot to watch her masturbate. Even hotter to watch each other.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
I was wondering....anal(play) sex.....is this the 'norm' for casual(sex) dating now?
Posted: 3/22/2009 3:14:05 PM
No big deal to me. If the subject comes up and she's interested then I'm all for it.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 108 (view)
 
I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969.
Posted: 3/21/2009 12:03:36 PM
It's not over rated for me. I love 69. It's my fav.
 biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Do men really like 'hard to get' women?
Posted: 3/19/2009 2:38:17 AM
Okay, folks, here's my question...

I recently read a very good book (STUPID title, but great book) called Catch Him & Keep Him -- it's an eBook. The premise of the book is this: men do NOT want to be chased by needy, possessive, clingy women. They want to be the pursuers, they want to 'win' a woman.

The advice the author gives is for women to date many men simultaneously (NOT sleep with them, date them), and to be honest that you're playing the field. He goes on to say not to be too available, not to be demanding about getting time with him, and basically to keep it lots of fun, playful -- an non-sexual until you 'get a commitment'. The theory being, if you sleep with him too soon, he will never be committed to you emotionally.

I totally get and understand everything this author states, but the last bit sticks in my craw a bit...so guys, tell me -- if a woman sleeps with you early on in a relationship, is it possible for you to develop real feelings for her, or is she always going to be a f*ck buddy in your minds?

I really want to know what guys think about this...


For me, yah I don't want to be chased by someone needy and possessive. Thats one end of the spectrum. But on the other end of the spectrum I don't have the need to 'win' the woman who is playing hard to get. If she is telling me she's playing the field and she's not that into me then I'm moving on. If she doesn't show any interest then what signals do I get that I should continue to spend time with her. Just my 2 cents. Also I'd be interested to know about the guys who like to pursue and 'win' her. Once you've won her, what's next? Do you keep her or find someone else to pursue?
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Masturbation=cheating
Posted: 3/18/2009 3:35:59 AM

I was resently talking to my sister and she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate, she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex. Even when I am a relationship and the sex is great I still feel the need to take care of things for myself from time to time, I even find it a turn on to watch a guy "take care" of his needs. I just want to know are there other people out there who think like my sister, do you agree that masturbation is cheating?


My ex tried that attitude on me once. Geez. Thats the ultimate in jealousy and control if you ask me.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 194 (view)
 
Do women enjoy masterbation and being watched?
Posted: 3/18/2009 3:25:59 AM
I know one woman who enjoys being watched. We watch each other all the time.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 305 (view)
 
Is it ok to have a friend with benefits.....???????????
Posted: 3/18/2009 3:23:56 AM
As a couple we used to have other couples as friends with benefits. It's the best because you have each other for the relationship part plus the benefits of other friends.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
masturbating neighbor
Posted: 3/15/2009 9:20:20 PM
I'd probably get myself off with her and make lots of noise too hoping she would notice.
 BiBoz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 295 (view)
 
at what age was sex the best?
Posted: 3/14/2009 8:04:41 PM
It just keeps getting better and better as we get older.
 BiBoz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Is it normal to be sexually excited the majority of the day?
Posted: 2/22/2009 8:59:14 PM
It's normal for me on most days. What's normal for some may not be normal for others.
 BiBoz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 104 (view)
 
When should a woman tell her potential lover of her fetish?
Posted: 2/22/2009 8:37:59 PM
You should be up front when you feel the new relationship is going to the next level.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 355 (view)
 
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/15/2009 7:22:02 AM

Of course sex is important - it's the connection between two people who want to share their most intimate selves and i want alot more than a hug & kiss goodnite - I can get that from my Son, a friend, relative etc.....I believe it keeps you young and in touch with each other.


I totally agree with missfee1 and to answer the question, sex has always been important to me. It's just an important now at 53 as it "once was". Fortunately my desire has never gone away. I have no idea if it's true but I like to think a healthy sex drive has kept me feeling and looking younger than my age.
 Biboz49
Joined: 12/28/2008
Msg: 195 (view)
 
Sexiest occupation (job profession)
Posted: 1/31/2009 7:52:03 PM
Women in uniform....cops, ambulance attendants!
 
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