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 Author Thread: Importance of height
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 584 (view)
 
Importance of height
Posted: 5/21/2016 12:28:55 PM

what membership? you paid for a free site? Perhaps you thought that made you look more serious. that would be a fascade.

I paid for the extra features, not to appear more serious... I like to get an idea of how the online thing works so by paying I get to see if the messages I sent are read or not.

False facade would be taking a picture in front of a mansion with a Lamborghini (eww) in the driveway touting what a glorious life I live. That's a false facade.



we all work with what works. My boss needed me (I can say that b/c being retired, I get to hear now how much doesn't get done now, and will I come back), but looking busy was a little bit of effort to keep him from being the Ahole your boss was (tho I probably would have just quit and gone elsewhere if he was really that annoying). I didn't want to waste time explaining how much work I did for him, when all I had to do was fake being busy.

everyone has a different style, and every seat has a fanny to fit.

But for me I found it comical and enjoyed being right and proving him wrong. The day I announced I was putting in my two weeks and going to Florida he flipped. Day before I left for Florida I stopped in to say goodbye and he begged me to stay, threw generous raise at me... quite pathetic of him to personally attack me for wanting to be closer to my mother who had a fully hysterectomy done from ovarian sarcoma. Telling me I wasn't a doctor and there was nothing I could do for her... That's ok... I'm better off. He out right harassed employees. And when he'd come into my bay and whine... I'd throw it in his face that we just spent 15 minutes yelling at each other and for someone who's so concerned about productivity to get his pencil pushing ass back behind the desk where it belongs before he continued to further waste such precious time... I told him to install cameras in my bay if he believed I was goofing off and went one further and said no you'd rather be a cheap prick and assume to boost your ego a little more. You may be a boss but you aren't a leader. Come in the back threaten my job, scrutinize my performance, yet you are the parts and service director, you come to me when you can't get a warranty claim paid and ford is about to make you eat it, come to me when you need help ordering parts for a diesel, yet I'm not a parts person, I can give you the base part number and it be right every time and you can't do your job. You have to belittle everyone here to make yourself feel better now that I know that I'll just ignore you from now on. 2 weeks later I gave him my 2 weeks notice.

I win. I don't get even. I win. I sold my house and have been doing things that needed to get done around my mothers house that she otherwise would pay for, help her out since she can't bend, lift or twist, have an awesome opportunity coming soon job wise, no stress from a micromanaging disrespectful narcissist of a boss. I get to sit pool side or on a beach and have beer as cold as that bosses heart. Now he's got nobody to work on diesels (willingly or as well as me) he looks bad to the dealership since a fellow tech also put his 2 weeks in the day after I did. Karma will get him soon, did for the other scumbag boss I had.


Other bosses that I got along with I made life long friendships with. North of albany seems the dealers only care about management and putting money in their pockets... The boss at the place I worked at prior to that I came very close to getting physical with... I didn't put my 2 weeks in. I came in with a tow truck and towed my box out... He wanted me to sign a piece of paper that said I wouldn't work within a 30 mile radius, or I wouldn't get my last pay check. I snatched it out of his hand, dropped my pants in front of the entire shop wiped that piece of paper across my butt and threw it back in his face and said there's my signature, and I have my check come get it I dare you. Every technician in that shop laughed him out of the building. He liked to get loud and lean into your ear and scream. He also liked cocaine, he'd go on a "road test" and come back wired on "coffee" meanwhile his nose was bright red eyes glossy and hyper as all hell. Was shortly after I left there the techs all ganged up against him and an anonymous call to the sheriffs office, a K9 sniffed drugs out in the demo car he drove, failed a drug test and lost his precious position of boss.

Me, I used to get the guys laughing, thank them for coming in today, get the guys coffee Monday mornings, when it got hot in the summer I'd go get a couple boxes of ice cream bars to pass around and a case of water. Never had a boss do that. Plus help them and teach them how to figure trucks out, show them some time saving tricks etc. never made an enemy with co workers except maybe 2. Only ungrateful bosses I had no problems getting face to face with.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 263 (view)
 
A man and his car...
Posted: 5/21/2016 11:04:09 AM
Nah, what would really make it scoot was the cheater engine I built for the 30 lapper at Syracuse.
Pure stock rules, GM ford Mopar casting numbers only, had a cam rule that varies by track. 2bbl Rochester carbs only, and cast iron intakes only. I used to use the Canadian high rise 294 283 truck intakes, use a wheel cylinder home and hog the venturi from the bottom up so the go no go crows foot would touch at the top of the throat.

What I built was a 509 casting 400 block, 2 reasons, higher nickel content, and freeze plugs are in the same location as a 350 block. It's easy to change casting numbers. What I'd have done is order up new billet caps splay the block to 4 bolt mill the caps down and line hone the block and caps assembled to accept a standard 350 crank. Bore the block 60 over, crower 3 1/4 crank feather weight forged (327) 6 1/4 i beam rods, short skirt flat top Mahle pistons, worked fuelie heads. A custom ground solid lifter cam. The pressure tester was a 72 camaro with a 4bbl and headers. We had a perfect back county road to beat the snot out of it. We'd patrol both directions in trucks with CB radios looking for cops, joggers, bicycles, other cars, and deer. This road went through mountains had hair pin corners, lots of s turns, lots of straight always and one that was 8 miles long. This road all together was 22 miles each way. We'd run our engines in that camaro to purposely try to grenade them. Carried a quick jack, 2 pumps it's up in the air, cordless impact and spare tires in the trunk, tank full of VP, burnouts and donuts til the tires exploded, they lasted to pull steep grades turning 8-11500rpm and take that kind of sheer abuse they wouldn't have a problem on the track. Bring the car back to the shop check valve lash, dwell, and undo the long tubes swap intakes and carbs then shove the engine in the race car. Even with subframe connectors in that camaro, if the tires hooked dropping the clutch at 5000 that car would twist... Had a cracked windshield and it wasn't from a stone...so that little cheater engine in a Nash metro would really scoot. Especially with better lungs instead of fuelies, say AFR BRODIX or the new bow tie heads...

I will miss that and the snow... There's no mountains or back roads down here... Tons of cops... No corners. Straight and flat...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 577 (view)
 
Importance of height
Posted: 5/21/2016 8:40:51 AM
Haha who honestly does that? I worked at a place back in NY where the boss would walk around looking for problems he was a bitter royal Ahole... I never gave a flying F@ck, I told him where to go and how to get there and reminded him he needed me more than I needed him for fixing his premadonnas come backs. I will brag because I can. I'm one of the best diesel techs from NY. I reminded him of his fix it right first time score going up surpassing ford dealers in a 50 mile radius, and that I produced 50 hours for the week and it was only Wednesday and that I could go home if I wanted I had enough hours for the week, but in his eyes being a Slave driver, I could have hit 100 hours and he still wouldn't be happy. If you hold value, you don't need to look busy for the boss, suck your gut in for an attractive girl or feed her a line that your a SEAL to be more appealing to her, hell no. Sometimes not even paying attention to that gorgeous blonde and being loud rowdy and the center of attention with your friends works better than approaching her. Like I said before, once the membership expires I'm going to delete this thing I have FAR better luck in person than this crap. I had a girl give me her number in a bar, I was just off work covered in grease out with co workers being loud laughing raising hell, making fun of the douche bags with the baby gap shirts and gelled up hair fake tans and huge arms and manicured hands hahahaha. Sally's that probably had office jobs never got their hands dirty, drove leased bottom end BMWs, Mercedes etc. the "alphas" as most consider them. The girl that gave me her number had more plastic in her than a Saturn. And had I kissed her I would probably look like a clown afterwards from all her make up smearing off.

What's worked so far, smile at her followed by a wink, approach her or her approach me. See her outside smoking a cigarette, ask if you can get a light comment on something to break the ice. What really works that I take full advantage of, is the**** meat heads who have 25-30inch steroid induced biceps that get sh!t faced drunk and say the dumbest crap to girls, when they get shot down is when I make my move on the apple of their eye. They get jealous I tell me where to go how to get there. They wanna knuckle up I warn em 3 hits me hitting you, you hitting the ground, an ambulance with you in the back hitting the highway. No need to brag about being a seal or marine etc... Most, not all, but most of those situations played out impressing a girl beyond belief and the drunk getting escorted out of the bar. Sometimes it happened to escalate into a fight. Beauty of guys jacked from steroids and being so muscle bound, lack of reach and darting around avoiding haymakers with a nice jab to the throat or square on the chin they're done. Some times I wind up in a tussle and go home bloody and bruised win some lose some as long as you had fun and have another story to tell that's all that matters I just laugh at all the "alpha" attitude guys strut like peacocks**** and all especially the meat heads. Oh they crack me up...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 261 (view)
 
A man and his car...
Posted: 5/21/2016 6:34:50 AM
Just got back from Walmart, bullet nose studebaker champ sitting in a handicap space. 2 aisles over was a Nash metro with a small block chevy in it! (Too bad it's a TPI 305 from an Iroc, but it has a/c) I'm in heaven. I think I'm guna buy some powerball tickets... There are lots of sweet old cars down here that aren't roached out begging to be built right...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 260 (view)
 
A man and his car...
Posted: 5/20/2016 11:53:10 PM
That's what the geezer claims is in it. I'll have him open the hood next time I jog by. A 390 the way I built in a mud truck would probably flex the body on that boat to where the suicide doors jammed shut!

This state is a GD candy store for me. I saw an old Desoto at the gas station needs a total restoration I had the guy open the hood... 2200 or best offer. I see a 392 hemi. I see a grill that can be spliced into a 50 merc... Ohhhhh just need a model A and a M22 4speed a pair of drag slicks.... Big solid lifter cam, offy high hise with 6 strombergs or Hillborne injection.... Bumbiddabumbiddabum BARAAAAAAPPPP open headers... That'd be the beach cruiser.

The caddys would all be on air ride. One would have gold Dayton wires the other would have the factory wheels. That 53 stainless roofed Eldorado would be poker night cruiser, the late 60s would be regular errand runners. To get an idea of what those coupe devilles would look like... Google stanceworks cadillac. That would be exactly how they'd ride.


And I'd have a sticker on them that says... Oh so your civic can tuck 17s? That's cute...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 256 (view)
 
A man and his car...
Posted: 5/20/2016 4:03:57 PM

Message: apparently Lincoln isn't the only one who wants to tap Matt? :) lol

https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=snl+lincoln+car+ads&view=detail&mid=16D68EEE2DF6C71D055F16D68EEE2DF6C71D055F&FORM=VIRE

off on a side note, I always loved the book "Hot Rod Pinups" by David Perry. Sex does sell a product, and cars were freedom...and a place to take a date when houses were expensive. a fast car, a pretty woman, both make you feel alive and life is worth living. but the car at least you can take apart, repair, and figure it out. no mind of its own. Get the fuel and spark together at the right time, and you've created a life form. we can't birth babies, so here's our chance.

Ya know...if the rebadged fords I mean Lincoln's were anything like they used to be they wouldn't need Hollywood actors to push sales. Seriously anyone foolish enough to buy a new Lincoln should just hand me 50-60k and I'll put them in a ford with the Lincoln badges on them and walk away with 20-30k in my pocket, and sell them a bridge in NY while I'm at it...
I've got my eyes on a grey hairs 61 continental convertible. Suicide doors fat white walls triple white.... When he can't drive it anymore or passes away I'm buying it. Put air ride in it, swap the ol 360 for a 390 set of headers to glasspacks with chrome pipes exiting under each corner of the rear bumper and have quite a sweet cruiser to park on the frame. Oh I love those continentals and the 50s Capri. Got my eyes on a few caddys too! 53 el dorado for 6500 down the street, 59 coupe Deville for 10k, a 66 and 67 coupe Deville project cars for 3k, and about half an hour away is a gorgeous 68 coupe Deville convertible.


There's a saying I remember an old hot rodder once told me.
Son if it's got tatas or tires, it's going to cost money and both cost about the same in the end. Stick with the ones that have tires, those can be figured out. And when you get tired of it you can always replace it without grief. Plus it won't ask you if a dress makes her butt look fat. Regardless always say no...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 15 (view)
 
How much do you weigh?
Posted: 5/19/2016 2:49:35 PM



I don't have a problem with the weight categories.

I think the problem with weight is that some people weigh more than others but are not in bad Shape. Plus, many people aren't so good at the height+weight combo thingy.

I always liked the proposed outline drawing of body type to select from. I think that'd be best (associated with a title).

(Prepares to catch hell)
That would be abused, like the term curvy. I hear curvy, I think hourglass figure, not obese... Prime examples, Raquel Welch, Kelly Brook, Vida Guerra, Sofia Vergara etc...
I have a problem with those that say curvy when they're like roundish... No, stop, go back change that to a little extra or BBW depending on how big... Like for me idk what category for body shape I'd fit in, I have broad shoulders and a barrel chest wear 32 waist, I think the last time I was measured for a tailored suit I was 42 or 44 around the chest and back 16 and 3/4s around the neck, forgot what shoulders were, but I know I have to get large or extra large shirts otherwise my chest basically consumes most of the shirt. I've always had pretty impressive upper body strength. I'm a mutant I've always been told to be a boxer or MMA fighter due to the length of my arms and by how far I could throw cement cinder blocks, and the 100lb capacity propane cylinders (empty they weighed 70-90 accidentally heaved one through the back window of a truck I thought it was full) Dress shirts have to be custom made, I buy a generic sizes I run into the sleeves are too short, too tight in the neck, super tight in the chest then baggy around my gut to waist... Only luck I have with sized clothes are form fitting Calvin Klein, UnderArmour, and muscle fit Ralph Lauren polos...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 7 (view)
 
my sex wife is wousy, i never get weighed
Posted: 5/18/2016 6:52:48 PM

Message: the only number i'm interested in is bra size.

Bigger the bra bigger the chest. Bigger the chest bigger their heart. I can follow that logic :p
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 5 (view)
 
How much do you weigh?
Posted: 5/18/2016 3:20:14 PM
For the record-172


With that in mind, would it be OK to ask folks how close to a weight you would desire to be ARE you? 5%? 10%? 20%? If you were closer to where you would like to be, do you think it would improve your DATING chances here?

I'm convinced nothing improves chances here... I've been on this for a while 0% success.

Been out one night, last Friday night I went to 4 bars had actual conversations with women. I got 3 phone numbers that night been talking to these chicks and eliminated 2 of the 3 chicks because they are into dope. Never heard of Molly's I figured it was the cheap version of Baileys Irish cream til the "LOL no! Molly, they might call it something else back in NY but you know it's like X"

The other is having a rough time with her man and isn't sure whether she wants to continue with him or not (thinks she can string me along, or keep me to fill a void he created; no way)

Point is I have better luck in real life. Once the premium membership expires I'm deleting it.
Here you can be as open and honest as you want, send sincere messages get maybe one or two profile views a week.
Someone clicks meet me on my page and they viewed my page. I shoot them a quick message. Nothing.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Why do I get rejected by women all the time in New York ?
Posted: 5/15/2016 9:20:55 AM

New York...Where the 5s think they're 10s.

AMEN!

I literally hated all 5 boroughs of NYC. If I had it my way, make NYC it's own separate state... Most of the people I have met (my parents owned a campground in upstate NY) are rude, selfish, obnoxious and have to have the most annoying car alarms in the world that constantly go off in the middle of the night!

To the OP leave the city go upstate. If you can handle darkness at night, the ability to see stars, and not be freaked out by nature you'll do a whole lot better. Try Poughkeepsie it's not country but it's not city either. Try closer to Albany and even more western like the Catskills. I'm glad I left NY the people down here in Florida are very pleasant! Unless they are retired snowbirds from NYC/Connecticut who have a holier than thou nose in the air princess attitude.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Gentleman in the Streets, Beast in the Sheets
Posted: 5/15/2016 9:02:02 AM

I think the answer is much simpler than has been posted so far.

It's simple math.

You want this and that and the other thing, all at the same time? Fine. just accept the math. Each parameter you set, reduces the number of potential mates by a huge amount. Add in the challenge of location, and your possibilities shrink further.

My personal advice is to ignore anyone who tells you to put up with less than you want. Not because you personally deserve it, or anything as silly as that, but because if you (or anyone else) tries to "take what you can easily get," you will resent the person you choose for everything they are not, and you will give THEM a very bad time. It's rude.

But I do recommend that you accept that you will have a harder time finding someone, than those who don't have as many elements involved.

This is actually not a spiritual recommendation, it's a purely practical one. Your chances of getting what you want are best, when you have a positive outlook about life, and about yourself. If you allow yourself to fall in to either depression or anger because you aren't finding what you want yet, when you do stumble across someone who's got it all, you are likely to drive them away by accident.


Answer is even easier. She wants to fill the void the marine created. She's going to compare every dude she meets to that marine. In her mind, he's "the one" and she can't have what she wants, she can't find "him" in someone else. Therefore her perception of reality and comparing Tom****and Harry to the marine... Is going to wind up with a lot of "disappointing" dates or relationships for HER. Because they are not HIM.

O/P move on from the marine. It's in the past. It's over. If you constantly compare everyone you meet to that one guy, you will never find happiness. It's simple you have an unresolved issue from not going further with the marine friend. You want a carbon copy of him and you may find it years down the line or you may not find it at all. Good luck.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 18 (view)
 
where should i go from here
Posted: 5/15/2016 8:41:20 AM

Been on 2 dates with this girl so far.
she is "married" but separated is what she told me. married for 6 years and seperated last year

Until the divorce is final, you are an option. A toy, an ego stroke. Don't get your hopes up, until there are papers that state the divorce is final.



they do live together though. she had mentioed to me her lease ends in july so im not sure if shes still there becuase she cant get out of her lease or what. they are clearly separated though. in fact on our last date she sent a pic of us to her mom who said "omg hes kind of cute!"

Weve been talking since february. I know 2 dates isnt much but shes 2 hours away and is in full time nursing school. We are seeing others to.

That scenario, been there dude... Girl talked to me while still in a relationship with her man, wanted to meet at bars, I questioned her on this to which her response was, what I'm not allowed to have friends? Not when you want to meet at a bar and flirt shamelessly and send photos to me... That's attention seeking behavior. The whole sending a pic to mom was for approval. Same if it was from her best friend(s) STAY FAR AWAY because the chances she's easily influenced and can't make clear conscious decisions on her own are very likely especially if she needs encouragement and/or others approval first. And if she's doing this to her husband she will easily do this to you.



I really like her and am trying to figure out what to do. We have slept with each other once (it was awkward cuz i couldnt control it lol) We are planning on going on a third date here withihn the next few weeks once she gets out of school (she said shed love to go on a third date with me)

I did come off clingy once like back in march but we both moved past it


Get tested for diseases, she may give you the gift that keeps on giving. Especially if she's seeing other people. You are not special to a personality such as hers. I've known a lot of people who have done this crap both men and women. They are damaged goods and usually have deep rooted problems that Freud would have a field day with. Or need meds to maintain a somewhat normal life...



Our last date we were talking and she said "i dont want a relationship with you, its not you, its the fact that theres distance right now and with work and shcool i dont have time for anyone" I asked her about it again that night and she said "i have 5 weeks of school left then i dont know what will happen. i dont wanna say yes or no because i dont know honestly. i will say that you are attractive and i do like you though, i just cant promise anything"


That's when you should have pulled the ultimate power play and simply responded with a thank you for the good time it was fun good luck with school and never responded to another word from her.



Last night we were texting and joking around and she called me adorable.

She's got you hook line and sinker. That warm and fuzzy feeling induces a blinding effect to reality. Once you've been screwed over big time a time or too and see the signs being called adorable isn't anything to get hyped up about.




We talk everyday somewhat. Probabblly 5 to 6 days a week we have some sort of contact. I havent discussed any relationship stuff with her since our last date (which was april 20th)

I do think she likes that fact that im not just looking for sex. she has talked before about how guys have just hounded her for sex and when she declines they just forget about her

what on earth should i do


She likes the fact she's got the wool pulled over your eyes. She's got you right where she wants you, a plan B for the divorce or maybe C D E F G.... She's pulling the pity woe is me card for attention, your a "sweet heart" a "nice guy" not a threat to her, she will trample your life just like she's done to her husband. You ought to cut and run before you invest any further into a failing stock... Chances are if you do make a relationship of it... It won't be long before some really sketchy behavior rears it's ugly head... Best advice, cut and run. Good luck
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 247 (view)
 
dump the ole girl and get a newer model?
Posted: 5/15/2016 7:57:12 AM

Dragon, google "Remove broken stud", you might find a tactic that can work on the sensor's remains. and google "easy out", that might be the tool you can use. Should you ever break a bolt off in the future, you'll be glad you have that tool to back out the broken bolt.

Whiskey River is spot on about YouTube. It saved my ass when I had to swap serpentine belts on my truck and couldn't see how the new one went on. you might luck out on a search for a youtube vid, this might be a common shadetree mechanic repair.

keep us in the loop, i'm interested to learn how it turns out.

Never was a fan of easy outs, they do work great for digging a rotten dip stick tube out of a 4.6 5.4 V8 or 6.8 V10 engine block but the best way to remove a broken stud is get a mig welder and a nut, weld a nut to the stud (with the battery disconnected) works like a charm for broken manifold studs that have been broken for a while in the head with rust/corrosion built up around the stud/cylinder head to manifold mating surface. Drilling is a last ditch effort. The drill guides that are available for fords helps but good drill bits to cut hardened steel bolts are expensive and hard to come by. I have a set of drill bits out of MSC that each bit cost 90-200 a piece I call them hydra head bits they are a 3 flute design and turn steel iron stainless into dust on a slow speed with moderate pressure. Your standard DeWalt and even titanium coated bits won't touch some of the things that require drilling, like the exhaust manifold bolts on a 7.3 6.0 6.4 diesel. Or even the hardened stainless (copper color manifold studs) on the 4.6-6.8s.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 246 (view)
 
dump the ole girl and get a newer model?
Posted: 5/15/2016 7:47:39 AM
6.0 and 6.4 Powerstroke cam sensors had a knack of failing and to change one could be easy or a nightmare. If this part has a rubber o ring seal on it going into a cast iron/aluminum engine block, bed plate etc your best option is to get brake clean and saturate the part FIRST before trying to remove it. NEVER use PB Blaster WD40 or any sort of penetrating oil because that causes the o ring seal to swell and you will NEVER get it out without breaking it. Get a 90 degree small pick and scrape the rust/corrosion out around the sensor/component saturate with brake clean twist left to right while gently tugging eventually the o ring will dry up and crack and viola it's out.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 213 (view)
 
A man and his car...
Posted: 5/8/2016 8:50:47 AM


This is unfair to many of the people you are referring to. Many of them put all their time, energy and money into their careers and families. Their car hobby got put to the side for those reasons and I respect hell out of them for doing that. It bis easy to lose the skills and hard to come up with the dedication to do what I do for example. With the performance level of new cars they are a choice that satisfies the urge without having to be a mechanical guru to keep going.
I see the racers who have put their everything into racing and have sometimes wondered how selfish that decision was when they have a family.


True like I said with how the new cars are turn key and go, however to use it as a tool to acquire attention or compensate for whatever reason... I'm not knocking those who let a passion/hobby go to improve in other areas. I spent a good 5 years single after college to hustle and pay off a mortgage, acquire just about every tool I'd need for my career (you know Snap On Mac and Matco aren't cheap throw in quite a few SSTs from OTC I wish I had that money today!) have a few toys and race. Wouldn't be fair to get into a relationship with someone and not have any time for them... Not fair at all to someone else to feel abandoned or feel like they aren't a priority and are wasting their time to only spend a few short moments together and feel less than second place to someone else.

I myself don't ever see giving that hobby up. Not that I'd let it consume me to the point where that becomes a priority and family or career takes a back seat to it. I balance everything out. I managed to pay off my house and accomplish a lot on my own and still be able to race however time is a commodity, I don't know how many Friday nights I'd spend awake til 3 or 4 in the morning finishing something up because I worked late Monday-Thursday and had side work as well to support that hobby. Ideally I'd love to build a car with my kid, be it a hot rod for their first car or even a race car. If it wasn't their cup of tea no big deal... I'd try and support their hobbies and passions...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 211 (view)
 
A man and his car...
Posted: 5/8/2016 8:00:54 AM
Want a medal or a chest to pin it on?
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Any fellow racers?
Posted: 5/8/2016 7:27:51 AM
Nice. I was going to build a shoebox nova to run in the 1/4 I built a nasty 427 that I picked up for free on craigslist (loved it when some cityiot would buy up a house or farm and wanted stuff hauled for free not knowing what they were throwing away), traded a KX250 for a Lenco transmission, had a narrowed 9 inch rear end axles and all. Just couldn't get my hands on a nova for less that 12k. Or wasn't completely rotted...

Stock cars aren't much work, it's easier to tune the suspension in on a G body coil spring car than it is to tune the suspension in to make a 9 second pass without boiling the tires off John Force style... What may be more work is body repairs from jamming doors and quarter panels. My motto, not a primadonna. Doesn't have to look pretty, just has to go fast and win. So by the end of a season the body was basically shot and was just about every color but what it was when it left the paint booth... Sprint cars are fun! I wasn't much of a fan of open wheel cars like sportsmans and modifieds I ran pure stock/street stock/hobby stock whatever the tracks call that class, bumped up to pro stocks, ran a few open wheel cars to try it out... Got in a racesaver 305 sprint car and had a ball! They're 500hp gokarts that run on alcohol. Would love to try a 950hp world of outlaws sprint car!
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 209 (view)
 
A man and his car...
Posted: 5/8/2016 7:07:18 AM

Can you tell a lot about a man by the car he drives?


I believe so. Me, I'm a gear head. If I had the money I'd build a 54 bel air coupe to not only go like a raped ape, and look like it belongs on the cover of hot rod magazine, but be as comfortable as my truck. I'm a diesel mechanic I lift heavy things, I have to bend and twist and get into awkward positions daily to work on some of trucks I work on. I have a fully loaded 2014 Silverado crew cab, when my back is killing me, I turn the heated seat on and when it calms down switch it from heated to air conditioned. When it would get super cold in NY winters, I turned the heated steering wheel on. I won't own anything with cloth interior. It will be destroyed however since the day I brought that truck home I kept a plastic steering wheel cover, plastic seat cover, and floor mats in it. I don't do basic bare bones anything, if I'm paying for it I have to love it. I never smoked a cigarette in it, you couldn't tell I was either a grease monkey or smoker. It still has the new car smell and looks as new as the day I got it.

Growing up I either had Cadillacs or pickup trucks. Cars are useless to me, can't haul an engine block to the machine shop, haul a quad or dirt bike, or get lumber or anything needed for house projects with a car. Why a crew cab? My ex asked me that question. The truck I had previous to this one was an 07 Silverado Classic every option available plus a DVD player. Answer-you will NEVER see a minivan in my driveway. If I meet the right girl, and we have kids, I want my kids in something crash worthy, if they spill something on the seats, it cleans up easy. DVD player will keep them entertained. And if I had to pay for it, I'd make sure she had either a fully loaded Tahoe/Escalade/Silverado as well. Seeing how Florida doesn't have emissions I may throw headers and a complete exhaust with tuning and run straight pipes or glasspacks on it. Damn thing is too quiet.

The hot rods I built, the lifted trucks I built, were not only quick, but were loud enough to be heard for miles away. High compression, big Lopey cam, Just like Harley's I don't putt around with loud pipes, I run wide open. Plus it was a great deterrent for deer, never had one run out in front of me. To me, it's not about miles per gallon, smiles per gallon. Plus vehicles can be a form of art, start with a blank canvas and build it to however you want.

However as a reflection of the person, if the car is a roached out clunker and looks like a garbage can inside, run and do not look back-slob, lazy, could care less. If the front wheels are tipped in from ball joints that are about to fall out, the brakes sound like angle iron jammed into a bench grinder, sway bar links rattle pop and clunk, and has a headlight out-broke and won't maintain their vehicle, chances are they don't maintain much else. I found this to be true with a few exes. One had a brand new car just got it the week before we first met. After being together for 2 months it looked like a garbage truck inside, stunk like an ashtray and rotting food, had dents from whacking poles in parking lots. Threw a check engine light once on her from not changing the oil, had to get a VCT solenoid and cam phaser replaced. 12,000 miles on a car 5 months old... I wished the dealer didn't warranty it due to lack of maintenance to teach her a lesson. I always have a lift to use I'd have done it for Free! Nope. I don't have time for that... Could spend 2 hours getting dressed to go out to dinner, couldn't wait half an hour to have an oil change done... Priorities are out of order and no sense of responsibility, makes one wonder if she had time to change a diaper when it came time...

As for the whole middle aged group of guys who go through a midlife crisis and buy a corvette, camaro, mustang, challenger... They may not have the tools or knowledge or time to build their dream car. Just be easier to walk into a dealership, pay for a turn key car and be able to put respectable lap times down... Or they just do it to feel young again, or as an attention grabber. That's where Im different. I don't plan on growing up/getting old fat, bald, complacent. One thing I've learned with having flashy or sports cars, you attract very shallow people or gold diggers which I find to be poetic justice in a sense. Even when that wasn't the intent to have something to gain attention with, if the first words were nice car/truck/bike, I'm _____. Nope. However if that was followed up with I would love to go to a car show with you, go off-roading with you, go for a cruise with you, go to the races with you. Ding ding ding. Winner. Shows she's interested in me, has a hobby in common and not what I drive.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Any fellow racers?
Posted: 5/8/2016 5:57:03 AM
Because football, baseball, soccer, and basketball only require one ball...

What do you run and where?
I used to race stock cars, dabbled with drag racing, ran motocross when I was a teenager, ran a sled on the ice drags. Always wanted to get an SCCA license and run either a Camaro or Corvette. Saw a video on YouTube of web slough racing with 850+hp small/big blocks in 16 foot jet boats and would love to give that a shot! After arriving to Florida, I can't seem to find any dirt tracks to race on.

Seems like mud bogging is a big thing down here, might find an old K10-30 or K5 blazer with a cast iron transfer case and build one of my race motors shove that in and try that. From what I saw you can't really rip around... Not many 1/4 mile tracks near me either.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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social media usage made me end it
Posted: 5/5/2016 7:34:02 PM
Social media sucks. I may have used Facebook half a dozen times in the last 2 years, pretty pathetic getting "updates" every 10 seconds due to everyone uploading a picture of them at work with a dull face followed by FML I hate my job or day off from work taking the dog for a walk HMU. Or something stupid to that effect. The O/P may have been stressed for reasons unknown to everyone else but I can sympathize in a sense.... 3 exes in a row spent more time sitting in the opposite side of my living room sitting alone phone out a mile per minute twittering and face booking and texting. Or better yet you walk by and say who's that babe, the screen gets shut off and the phone is placed on its face. Once asleep, I discovered them not only sending provocative messages to other dudes, but photos as well. One even had the nerve to say to her side guy oh I'll send better pictures if the other half comes home late from work tonight. Meanwhile I was working paying all the bills and part of hers that's the thanks I got :) but life goes on.

So give the dude a break... He may have had his heart ripped out by someone and has trust issues or anxiety from that. It's not easy to let go of something like that...

To the OP if she's got snapchat Twitter Facebook all those things, run. If she has the stones to pull her phone out on a date and text right in front of you, get up, say you are going to the bathroom pay your Bill and run. If she can't live 10 minutes without her phone run, if she has to text you all throughout the day literally every half hour on the dot RUN. I find more and more fools that crave so much attention that they legit would have a meltdown if someone didn't respond right away to a text, or didn't see or like a Facebook post that very instant. Actually that rule should apply for both girls and guys...I know a few guys who have to drive their girls nuts with every form of communication god forbid they don't respond and the dudes get even more upset than some girls I know...

Sick sad world we live in... One ex got so upset I didn't respond to her texts I was in the middle of pulling an engine out after just getting the cab of the truck off. Sent her a picture message, well I'll be busy for the next hour tearing this down on the stand. Ttyl gorgeous! After I sent that out. Legit 25 text messages. When the phone call came in... I thought the exorcist was on the other end of the phone! 25 text messages in half of an hour with 2 Facebook posts I was tagged in, first one went like Just LOVE being ignored! 2nd one. Now I'm starting to worry, baby are you okay? A co worker tagged her in a video of me pulling pushrods and rocker arms putting them in order and ripping cylinder heads off and carrying them to the door for the machine shop to pick up. That's when the phone call came...

I have only 2 simple requests... No phone no social media at dinner or after 9pm, and don't you dare shut the phone screen off when I walk by and leave it face down. Or it's done. Ok 3... When I say I'm busy and have photographic evidence to back it up followed with I will ttyl, that means you will hear from me the minute I have made the progress I needed to make... I'm at work, not the brothel, I'm black with grease to my shoulder blades there is no other girl, cant make you happy what makes you think I'd try to make you and another one happy at the same time. (That will get you either a slap across the face, a high heel pitched at your head and stick in the wall when it misses, or a tv remote reach speeds of terminal velocity) use that line with caution...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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What's for Dinner?
Posted: 4/28/2016 4:22:21 AM
If you make a brine for the lamb it will get rid of the gamey taste of it, usually yogurt plain yogurt with a little heavy cream or whole milk I can't remember what else I used it's early... But I remember yogurt and milk killed the gamey taste. I made lamb stew a while back and lamb and mint jelly too.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/25/2016 4:21:25 AM
That opinion, harsh yes, is based on my experience (as are most peoples opinions) it isn't always the case. A few gal pals, 2 ex girlfriends had short hair I can understand getting it cut for a noble cause like to donate it to cancer patients but the girls I knew that had short hair... They literally felt as though it was a waste of time and energy to have long hair. And liked the fact all they had to do was jump in the shower and go without having to do anything with their hair... The one ex literally did not care what she looked like at all, nor did she care much about anything else for that matter as I found out later on down the line. The gal pals that had short hair and I mean short, had it spiked like a guys and they were real tomboys... Doesn't make anyone bad, just my opinion and I apologize if I offended you or anyone else by that...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/24/2016 10:00:37 PM
Haha yeah I guess I am a raccosum.
I'll wait to get a few good action shots. Like me cooking, riding motorcycles/pulling wheelies, at the beach, all that jazz...

When I say I'm a Picasso I mean like one of his paintings... Looks good from afar, but afar from looking good. At least I'm not a buffarilla! (Big like a buffalo, ugly as a gorilla, could make Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles flinch)

I don't know designers either except for Tommy Hilfiger, Ralph Lauren, Calvin Klein, Giorgio Armani(2 of my suits are Armani) I usually wear Ralph Lauren polos, Tommy jeans or American eagle jeans, Timberland boots, or DC/skateboarding shoes (super comfy) but when I have to go to heavens waiting room, I'm sure I will be in bare minimum I love cold weather... If only my parents and sister moved to Alaska...

But I can say this I have an eye for detail. My ex had what I call a coke bottle chassis. Hourglass figure, and she was tall and had long legs. I spent a total of 10 minutes in JC Penny's and walked out with a mint green and black short peplum dress black heels that had spaghetti straps that ran up her calves and tied in a bow. Went to Kay jewelers got her emerald earrings and a pearl necklace. Found a pair of sunglasses that the frames matched the color of the dress, and nail polish that matched too. Stopped at Coach and hey what do ya know a black and mint green stitched handbag! We went out, she had both guys and girls turning heads... The mint green really made her blue eyes stand out, the heels and short dress really showed off her legs, form fitting dress... You get the picture... Waitresses at the restaurant and 3 bars we went to that night would not stop complimenting her.

She had me do the same for one of her single friends who wanted to make a good first date... But she was twiggy, a tom boy wore mostly black and band t shirts and converse sneakers. Worst part was her short hair, hahaha I made her get extensions put in... Short hair is a major turn off to me, it says I'm too lazy to maintain beautiful long hair, or I want to fit in with the guys. I want a woman not GI Jane... This girl had no body shape to her what so ever she was twiggy, and had short legs, her saving grace was the stop to Victoria's Secret... I eventually found a dress for her it was a coral dress with a longer frilly skirt part which on her went just below her knees, black lace accents and black thin belt. She had dark tan skin and deep green eyes so the lighter dress color really made her eyes stand out. She had her nails and toes painted black with coral tips. She's now engaged to that guy and dresses like a girl haha

I should quit being a mechanic and do that for a living, dress girls up... Just stand in front of me in a bikini or underwear so I can get the shape of the body down, look you in the eyes to get the color and I'd have women look like they're on the way to a fashion show in Milan. You'd be surprised colors that you personally may hate, will look great on you. Example, like my exes friend hated that color coral... But it made her stand out, and with a little help from a bombshell bra gave her a little shape... I did tell her to get depends so it would give her a butt... That and if the guy was a creep and scared the crap out of her she wouldn't have to wait in line for the bathroom just waddle out the door.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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What's for Dinner?
Posted: 4/24/2016 9:14:44 PM
I have a pot roast marinating tonight,made Spätzle tonight. Tomorrow I should have enough time to swing by and turn the crock pot on low fill it with vinegar bay leaves and throw the roast in. By the time I come home I should have enough time to make and cook potato pancakes and rotkohl and cook the Spätzle. So tomorrow night it's sauerbraten.

Last night was lemon pepper chicken with salad and rice pilaf.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Buffalo Wings
Posted: 4/24/2016 9:01:58 PM
PS. WASH YOUR HANDS THOROUGHLY! The oil in those reapers is Potent!
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Buffalo Wings
Posted: 4/24/2016 8:59:51 PM
Louisiana hot sauce lol. That's not buffalo sauce! That's like Cajun flavor.

My buffalo sauce has sent people to the emergency room... Back when Ghost peppers were the hottest pepper to get in the local 100% natural food stores it still made dudes cry. I have since been introduced to Carolina Reapers. Just the odor is enough to make your eyes and nose run.
I make in volume so I get a big jug of Franks Red Hot, 2 sticks of butter, drop the butter in a pot let it melt dump in the jug of franks red hot, take a cheese grater and run a few Carolina reapers across it until the entire top of the sauce is covered in flakes, let it bubble and stir frequently place the lid back on keep on a low flame.

I deep fry the wings then let paper towels soak up the excess oil. Then I fill the large pot with the wings and stir them up for about 5 minutes to soak in the sauce. Then pull the wings out drenched. I leave you with fair warning... If you can't handle hot, do not try this. As stated before the odor from this is strong enough to cause your eyes and nose to run. Do NOT let anyone who has digestive issues or ulcers eat this... A couple tough guys tried my wings and one unknowingly had an ulcer... He was vomiting blood. The other had something happen to his intestine from it causing the intestine to twist... Me I have no issues with it after making it a few times my eyes and nose aren't irritated anymore. However the first time I made the sauce and took the lid off the pot... It was like getting Maced.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Tips for drinking more water
Posted: 4/24/2016 8:40:09 PM
You need to get yourself some Poland spring brand water. That is the best tasting water in my opinion.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/24/2016 4:37:50 AM
Bwahahaha myspace... That was the sh!t back in high school.

Well dressed isn't a problem. Lighting and angles are... The best photos of me, I think, are taken at night with a super bright flash like the one in the race car.
Never been vain enough to get my nose fixed, it's been broken three times all I've ever done was move it back into place and let it set. It's grotesquely large in my opinion, sticks too far out... And the dark bags under my eyes make it seem like I have beady little eyes... In my opinion I look like a cross between a raccoon, and opossum.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/24/2016 4:27:54 AM
NJ, I planned on it. There's a lot of potential for good pictures down there especially if my sister brother in law and I go out on the bikes together... I enjoy writing in general. I was great at it in high school and college. I even helped friends write essays for grants and for classes. I also wrote poems for some of them to give to their girlfriends for valentines day. But when it comes to writing about myself, it's hard to do. On one hand I want to brag about accomplishments, yet don't want to come off as pretentious. On the other hand I don't want to be as humble to seem like the average Joe... It is the internet and beings everything is in text you don't get the full effect when reading. Like text messages on a cellphone, could be talking to someone and you respond with a simple great, they take it as sarcasm like you are rolling your eyes.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/24/2016 4:14:39 AM
Rice burners are those little import cars, you know like-Honda civics, etc that kids buy up and throw huge spoilers, and huge exhausts on. Sound like a duck farting when they go down the road...

I will definitely give that a try and see what happens.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/23/2016 8:05:20 PM
How about assistant in anarchy?
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/23/2016 7:45:51 PM
Thats what I'm looking for though... What's another way to phrase it? When I say "partner in crime" it's just that. Like roll up to a stop light and there's a mustang next to me or rice burner I want her to give me the evil grin and say go for it, not someone who's going to freak out about everything I do. I want someone who's going to laugh with me hell, even at me! Not blat and demand I change or grow up as some of my exes have demanded. Couple exes of mine constantly whined and wanted me to change after 5-6 months of being together... Like really that's what attracted you to me and now the honeymoons over time to change into your ideal Prince Charming? Nope...

As for pictures. Guess you could say I'm a Picasso. Look good from far but far from looking good :P
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/23/2016 2:20:52 PM
Ahh I see what you are saying with the opener... Yeah NY taxes suck though, what I pay in property taxes I could pay my mothers and sisters and have some left over hahaha. Don't get me wrong I like what I do but I'd like to try something new and I was being funny with that... Because one day inevitably, I will wake up with more body pains and barely be able to move, lifting bending and lugging around heavy cast iron stuff will get me...

I always tell the guys at work when they're down on hours (flat rate sucks) to man up and do more diesel work or try something else... "But everything has sucky parts. Like being a proctologist, you are surrounded by ***holes all day, could be a gynecologist but have tunnel vision after a few years, elevator operator but that has a lot of ups and downs" that usually gets them laughing and in better spirits. Used that on my ex she nearly fell over laughing...
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/23/2016 11:32:44 AM
I don't have a type really, anything but jerry springer or Maury ghetto/white trash. I've dated quite a few different "types" of girls, really what I'm looking for is someone with things in common, mentally stable, ambitious and knows what they want and to have a good time with. I know it screams I'm redneck however I don't dress the part, you won't see a Stetson on my head, skin tight wrangler jeans cowboy boots and flannel shirt on. Or a bottom lip packed with Skoal or Redman.

It's the closest stereotype I can associate with. Because there aren't many people like me... I can be loud, I usually get people laughing effortlessly, I'm the hold my beer and watch this daredevil type... The rebel, rowdy and life of the party, the veteran with scars and stories to prove it (not military had my fair share of exchanging words and fists) yet I'm refined and sophisticated as Bruce Wayne... Have the fancy suits, the diamond and gold jewelry, drive top of the line (if it's not a Cadillac it's a fully loaded truck) and while I am selling my house in NY it is no mansion but the granite counters I put in, the stainless appliances, the hardwood floors, and the fact it's 20 feet from a lake...

However
I'm that lush who spent 3 hours cooking her favorite meal, there's a bouquet of flowers on the table next to her favorite bottle of wine... Or a dress with heels and a necklace that I picked up with a note that says be ready in an hour were going out just because... (I've spoiled everyone I've dated not with just monetary items either) not saying everyday is valentines day but I like to keep being a romantic a surprise for the girl to find out about... So that's definitely not going up haha.

I'm that box of chocolates mama told forest about. You never know what you're going to get.


I will definitely get to it though! I do like the image of bikini tops and daisy dukes running haha.
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/23/2016 10:15:00 AM
Thank you! Yeah details are important to me that's why I put specifics for interests. To say cars in a generalization, can mean I like all cars which isn't the case. I can't stand tuners/rice burners you know the ones with trash can mufflers that sound like a duck farting when they go by... Usually have a tacky spoiler etc... Nor do I car for Lamborghini Ferrari Maserati the high pitched whine is annoying. Hot rods and restored muscle cars and lifted/lowered trucks ( rolling works of art with raspy V8s) are what I'm into.

Same with traveling road trips and adventures. Hell a trip to Walmart can be an adventure, you never know what you'll see/witness in Walmart... Here in NY there are tons of adventures to go on. Hiking trails, waterfalls, lakes, springs, and then there's gods country-the Adirondacks. Traveling because some people may get car sick or can't stand road trips. Some people prefer to fly. I'm game either way unless the pilot of a plane decides to be a douche and fly at that certain altitude where your ears feel like they are going to explode for an extended length of time.

Photos, I'm not photogenic and the hobbies I enjoy doing mostly require 100% concentration. Can't take a selfie pulling a wheelie on a Harley, or while flinging a race car sideways over 100mph, or jumping a quad/dirt bike. The best photos of me are usually taken by other people... Once I'm in Florida I'm sure my sister and brother in law will get tons of good ones of me!

Messages, yeah I typically keep them short talk about something we have in common, followed by something funny, then asking questions about things is noticed. Like a picture of a party, what was the occasion, where was it, I couldn't help but admire that amazing smile looks like you had a good time... Something like that... Or ask them about what Florida is like what is there to do for fun (say they have very little about them or interests)

And I agree, I read everything that is put up. May miss something important or unique fun cool etc if you don't read. I've noticed a few profiles where kid status says none or left blank with no answer, but halfway through reading "about me" mother of 2-3 kids (yet never married yeahhhhh about that nope) I agree completely. Not that I require 100% of someone's attention but if it's too long what does it take all of a minute or 2 to read? I forgot, that's right we live in the digital age where everything needs to be instant or fast or quick.
I will adhere to the advice thank you again!
 NYNewtoPSL
Joined: 4/9/2016
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Would like assistance please
Posted: 4/22/2016 3:51:49 PM
I'm all so new to online dating, and am a week away from the big move to Florida. I would appreciate any and all help opinions and brutal honesty. I look at it as constructive criticism. Now I have had Zero luck, I get no profile views. No messages. I have sent messages out and they haven't been read. I've been on for about three weeks to a month with 0 luck. The messages I have sent out are quality, not a hey you're cute or hey what's up? Maybe I went over board with stuff on my profile or didn't put in enough? I look at it as if you are trying to sell something, you want to represent the product accurately, explain its benefits over the competitors product, or just the highlights of the product... I view someone's profile and I read everything they have to say to get a general idea of who they are and see what we have in common. I'm really starting to wonder if online dating is just a scheme, how can there be so many active users in the area I am moving to, when there isn't a single profile view or read message. Never mind responses, because there are none. Just the fact they are unread... Makes me wonder if these are real profiles/real people, or the fact I'm not in the area presently, or if it's something against being from NY and moving to Florida? Idk...
 
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