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 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
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Viewed Me Now a Paid Feature: Please post comments here
Posted: 3/12/2012 10:49:24 PM
horrible decision. i'm really disappointed. something like this makes me not want to use the site nearly as much. and i'd rather have advertisements than this poor decision. you can see how many people you've ticked off, so hopefully you'll see the error of your ways and fix it.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
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Bringing other people on the date?
Posted: 2/15/2010 2:28:28 AM
i had a girl bring along 3 of her guy friends on our first date (bowling) without telling me ahead of time. so...i had to compete with 3 other dudes who already knew her better for her attention. she ended up getting drunk with them and i paid for all our bowling. what a nightmare.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 38 (view)
 
She brought a friend to our date..
Posted: 10/18/2009 3:17:37 AM
dude, i went out on a first date with a girl and she brought 3 of her male friends to bowl with us without telling me beforehand. so...i had to compete for her attention with 3 other guys that already knew her...while they were preoccupied with just getting drunk. *that* was a nightmare.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Can Anyone Relate to Dating a Woman who is Bi-Polar?
Posted: 10/13/2009 2:33:03 AM
dated a gal who later revealed she was bi-polar and taking meds for it...which explained some of her illogical decisions. i'd move on, if i were you. not really worth the trouble.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Confidence
Posted: 10/13/2009 1:48:10 AM
the red hot chili peppers once said: funk is an attitude.
it's all about attitude, i think- be positive, outgoing, confident.

"be the ball", so to speak. i think that's a quote from 'caddy shack'...
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 41 (view)
 
guy/girls who were cheap on date
Posted: 10/9/2009 1:31:26 AM
"He has season tickets & a private suite at the new Cowboys stadium, but refuses to pay a valet. So he parks about 8, 10 maybe more blocks away, just so he doesn't have to pay the $20. Cheap!"

that's a little strange that he's got the cash for a private suite where the pokes play (that's gotta be big coin) but won't pay $20 for valet...however, me, personally, i *hate* to pay for parking and i certainly don't trust valets. i worked with valets at a hotel many yrs ago and later found out that some of them were major crooks- they stole a lot of stuff out of the cars they parked and some abuse your car with the way they drive, so...maybe that's his reasoning. many (not all) valets are punks, thieves and scumdogs.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Fustrated with online dating
Posted: 10/5/2009 2:34:53 AM
very frustrated.

girl 1- brought 3 of her male friends to bowl with us without telling me beforehand. they all proceeded to get drunk.

girl 2- gave me a laundry list of serious medical ailments on the first date, which was a big turn-off.

girl 3- hit it off right away and had great chemistry and attraction. she eventually broke it off out of the blue. she still had issues with her abusive ex's and just wasn't ready for a relationship. very disappointing. i really liked her a lot.

girl 4- saw each other for a short time, then she ended it because "it was too much about sex". 2 weeks later, she "just wants to be f**k buddies". umm, ok?! she later broke it off again and i found out she was bi-polar.

girl 5- i drove 25 miles in traffic because she didn't have a car. i waited an hour past our agreed upon time and then left when she didn't show. she actually got mad with me because i didn't wait longer and vulgarly insulted me via email.

girl 5- a "few extra pounds" turned out to be at least 5o extra (i'm not kidding). when she walked in, i was like, "no way is that her...", which turned into, "...oh crud, that is her". i couldn't even get my arms around her for a hug. that's what i get for not seeing a body shot.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Money, money, mooonney...MOOOONNNNEY
Posted: 10/4/2009 7:17:32 PM
moral of the story: don't have kids. kids will suck the life and money out of you.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
How not to screw it up.
Posted: 10/3/2009 10:59:38 PM
...and take this out of your profile:

"I'm 5 foot, 95 lbs, and very petite. Yes, I do get picked up and slung over people's shoulders a lot and I'm getting used to it. It's also a good way to flirt with me, so you should give it a try!"
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
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How not to screw it up.
Posted: 10/3/2009 10:57:22 PM
don't take candy from strangers and don't go near anyone over 40 who owns a windowless van and hangs out near parks and school yards.

i'd also say that about 80% of guys are liars, dogs and cheats and not worth a damn. however, about the same percentage of "throwaways" goes for women. you gotta kiss your share of toads before you find your prince.

ps- don't get knocked the eff up and ALWAYS make a guy wear protection.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Cell phones and the first date
Posted: 9/27/2009 12:12:03 AM
most people in this day and age are just rude, inconsiderate a-holes when it comes to their phone. people who are tethered to their phone and constantly checking it, as if they were the president of the united states need to get a life. it's getting waaaay ridiculous.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Sensible advice when dumping somebody
Posted: 9/27/2009 12:04:34 AM
"I'm beginning to think a police station lobby is the proper place."

ha!! nice.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Sensible advice when dumping somebody
Posted: 9/27/2009 12:02:45 AM
"My advice:

If you're dumping her in a restaurant or café, never order a hot beverage. Make it soda or cold water."


now my advice- breaking up in an email, text or even over the phone is a *much* safer proposition. wait til after the dinner, if you must. who breaks it off in the middle of a meal?!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Giving up due to complete waste of time
Posted: 9/26/2009 12:21:19 PM
"It's all good, bro. Take a break, record another album with the Scorpions, then come back with a fresh perspective. Time for the winds of change."

this was hilarious! i was thinking more along the lines of skynyrd, tho...
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 104 (view)
 
The ick factor ...
Posted: 9/23/2009 2:59:06 AM
"Also she asked me if I had done time."

hahaha...oh man!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
animal antics
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:23:43 PM
i've met 5 dingbats. that's an animal, right? sorta??
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
why woman get mad!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 9/21/2009 3:06:47 PM
...and they seem to love to give mixed messages!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
why woman get mad!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 9/21/2009 3:06:09 PM
because women like to prick tease??
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Inter-racial dating
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:32:34 AM
i've dated, inter-racially. i haven't encountered any problems and i didn't care who liked it or didn't. a pretty girl is a pretty girl and a nice person is a nice person, color be damned. if someone has a problem, that's their problem, not mine.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Let me give you the tour...
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:28:02 AM
i've come to the conclusion that women (w/long hair) just tend to shed like dogs. it does drive me a little crazy finding long, stray hairs everywhere (the bathroom counter and sink is the worst, imo) but it's par for the course and just something you have to deal with when dating someone with long hair. they can't really help it. i'm sure i shed, too, but my hair is so damn short, it's not nearly as noticeable as someone with long locks.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Am I over reacting
Posted: 9/21/2009 9:57:35 AM
OP-
imo, you're over-reacting.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 60 (view)
 
She threw my car into park...
Posted: 9/21/2009 9:53:17 AM
OP- who the hell even thinks to pull out the keys and throw a car into park like that?! she must've thought that up beforehand, which tells you she's a nutjob. i would've either left her there or pushed her out of the moving vehicle. i would've been LIVID had she jeopardized my safety with that stunt maneuver and jacked up my car like that (throwing a car in park at 45 mph *can't* be good). seriously, tho- i would've called the cops on her right there.

"She is actually my executive admin."

ok my man, there's an old saying:
NEVER sh*t where you eat.

this is where you went very wrong. it's one thing to date a co-worker on the same level as you (which still isn't the best of moves). this is a whole other ballgame. you might be looking for a new job soon.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Left me sitting at the table, until the waitress said, he left..
Posted: 9/19/2009 11:14:52 PM
at least he showed up! i had a date set up, drove 25 miles in traffic and waited an hour past our agreed upon time and she never showed, so i split. she actually got mad when i told her how rude and inconsiderate she was and she said i should've waited longer- she said she showed but i doubt it. she never called and she had my number. what a *earmuffs*!

at least you got a free meal out of the deal. at least i saved myself buying a meal...
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 32 (view)
 
I hate liars
Posted: 9/12/2009 2:18:23 AM
i hate people...but i love gatherings. isn't that ironic?

i stole that from the movie, 'clerks'.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
The curse of the Asian Persuasion.
Posted: 9/10/2009 9:40:36 AM
seems like a lot of guys have a thing for asians but for the most part, asian women don't do much for me physically-speaking (there are exceptions to the rule, however). generally, they're very petite and i like me some booty, boobs and hips (w/small waist). latin women- now that's god's gift to man (imo)!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Yes, Sometimes we forget....
Posted: 9/9/2009 11:43:02 PM
i've never forgotten my wallet on a date but maybe once a year i've forgotten my wallet at home and realized it once i was at work. i do keep $10 in my car for an emergency.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Has anyone here gone on 100 online dates?
Posted: 9/5/2009 10:32:19 PM
this topic reminds me of the megadeth song, "99 ways to die"!!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 38 (view)
 
What someone does that really turn you off?
Posted: 9/5/2009 1:22:21 AM
"Talking about oneself in the third person, like George Constanza. (George likes soccer, geroge doesn't like base ball etc.)"

you wouldn't like rickey henderson (ex-baseball player) then. rickey henderson loved talking about rickey henderson in the third person.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Why are girls so fickle on here?!
Posted: 9/4/2009 11:53:30 PM
OP- probably 80% of men and women are flakes and/or a-holes. that's just the way it goes. you gotta separate the wheat from the chaff, as the saying goes. it ain't easy...
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Rules
Posted: 9/4/2009 11:17:33 PM
don't date druggies, smokers, alcoholics, staunch republicans or religious kooks. those are my basic rules. oh yeah, and don't date someone who was born a dude. that's an important one for me =P
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Is being added as a favorite an invitation to e-mail?
Posted: 9/4/2009 11:13:52 PM
i got tired of typing out thoughtful emails to women i was interested in and rarely getting a reply, so for the most part, i just add them as a fave to let them know they caught my eye. if they're interested in me, aswell, they'll probably send an email.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
The infamous disappearing woman, or is it just something about me??
Posted: 8/31/2009 11:03:24 PM
maybe she's been busy with her transgender operation from the doctor's appointment that made "her" late for your first date.
haha, sorry. i'm a jerk. couldn't help myself =P
hope it works out.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
The General Lee... on a Date...
Posted: 8/31/2009 10:56:04 PM
the general lee was cool enough when i was a kid but now would come off as too redneck-y (especially with the confederate flag on the top). the coolest car from my youth was the starsky and hutch ford gran torino- that cherry red muscle car with the white swoosh racing stripe down the side. what i find funny now is that starsky and hutch were undercover cops...how could you NOT spot that car from a mile away if you were a criminal?!?! ahh, the magic of hollywood and tv...
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
The Night that Didn't End so Well.
Posted: 8/29/2009 11:15:24 PM
i HATE people who are a slave to their god damn phone. she sounds like a dingbat, anyway. cut her loose- you can DO BETTER.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Did you ever have a playfight with your date?
Posted: 8/29/2009 12:19:46 AM
i like to playfight in the nude and get slapped in the penis. is that weird? i'm kidding. i prefer to be bitten in the genitals.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
after muh date, what's next?
Posted: 8/29/2009 12:16:50 AM
time to bump uglies! giddy-up!!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 40 (view)
 
What do I do?
Posted: 8/29/2009 12:15:26 AM
OP- can't you file a restraining order for harassment??
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Probably a man?
Posted: 8/28/2009 1:09:44 AM
just be thankful you avoided the dreaded "tranny surprise"!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
White guys dating Black girls?
Posted: 8/27/2009 1:32:11 AM
"Why would you make MUSIC a dealbreaker? Weird."

as someone who's attended over 400 concerts and has around 900 cds, music is a BIG deal to some people. i thought it was funny your name was so close to music icon jimmy page (paige). =)

and landra should get her own tv or radio show to host!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
What someone does that really turns you on?
Posted: 8/26/2009 2:54:42 AM
when women do stuff they shouldn't be doing...like voting and working outside the home in the business workplace *drools*

i keed, i keed!
seriously, tho- girls walking the streets for money- HOT!!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 29 (view)
 
whats wrong with her or is it me....?
Posted: 8/26/2009 2:42:11 AM
OP, you could've had some serious ass that night. she was giving you room service. in the morning you could've looked her in the eye and said, "i'm going to divorce you...if i decide to ever even call you again".

i keed, i keed!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Googling Before a Date ?
Posted: 8/26/2009 2:38:34 AM
the title of this thread (should i google before a date) reminded me of 'there's something about mary' when chris elliot convinces ben stiller he needs to masturbate before a date or else it's like "going out there with a loaded gun!". i guess i tend to think of "goggling" as another term for masturbation... =P
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
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White guys dating Black girls?
Posted: 8/26/2009 2:35:46 AM
for me, the smoking and weed would be deal breakers. the crappy taste in music would be annoying. you might have some fun with her for a short time but i don't see this lasting all that long. for the record, i dated a black chick but she was a devout jehovah's witness...all religions are annoying to me but that particular one is pretty obnoxious. i also dated a half black/half puerto rican girl and she was really cool but had intimacy issues due to abusive ex-b/f's.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Older men for the younger women
Posted: 7/29/2009 2:39:30 AM
i generally date a fair amount younger than myself. when women get close to 30, their clocks generally go off and they want to get married and have babies.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
creepy men/women on pof who just want to bug you
Posted: 7/29/2009 2:35:04 AM
"3) want to watch me jerk one out, i will pay you."

haha, this one gave me a chuckle. was he going to pay you via paypal?? and seeing "jerk one out" is so...romantic! he had to ruin it with the "i will pay you"...what a jerk-off =P
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Dating cliches
Posted: 6/26/2009 3:28:57 AM
seems like 90% of women say they have a "sarcastic" sense of humor. i rarely see that to be true. and most women seem to like scary movies (i don't). the "no games" thing is an all-time classic and usually a big, fat lie =)
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Did he really forget his wallet??
Posted: 6/26/2009 3:25:29 AM
man, this is an awesome scam. i'll have to remember to "forget" my wallet next time! =P ingenious!
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 613 (view)
 
does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do?
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:01:50 PM
smoking is a HUGE turn-off. it's a deal-breaker.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Another good one
Posted: 6/12/2009 10:34:59 PM
the 3 women i went out on dates here all turned out to be pretty flaky, unfortunately. i've gone over this before and don't feel like re-hashing but yeah, 3 for 3 in the flake department so far. ugh.
 thwipp89
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 342 (view)
 
Has anyone NEVER had a ONE NIGHT STAND?
Posted: 6/12/2009 12:26:37 AM
never had a one night stand. i came close once or twice. i'm not opposed to them but i would say it's not really my thing. i'm not a love em and leave em type of guy. it's not really what i'm looking for.
 
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