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 Author Thread: Parental Critique at Our Age??
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Parental Critique at Our Age??
Posted: 8/17/2009 10:03:04 AM
My parents are out of date. They shouldn't even be together and I think they would've been happier if they ended it long ago. But they believe in sticking it out for their kids putting aside their own happiness. This day and age i think you should learn from experience. My parents don't get that them being together has a negative effect on our lives ( my siblings and I). You have to choose your own way to be happy. I'd probably get better advice from reading the over 45 crowd here or from my own experience!
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Theroomate
Posted: 8/17/2009 9:49:59 AM
So you have a dude and a boyfriend and who is de's?
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Declaring Love when Drunk
Posted: 8/17/2009 9:43:14 AM
Wanna get the truth out of someone. Get them drunk. Did you ask him flat out when he was sober and in person. "What did you mean when you said you loved me the other nite?" Also, many a man has said I love you just to sleep with a woman.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Are there really fake profiles on here?
Posted: 8/17/2009 9:34:32 AM
Yes there are for sure. Had a 48 yr old woman message me to say that her and her friend were setting up their profiles and wanted to know if I could see it. I won't say what their nics were but her friends name was Bambi. lol. I just replied "nope not buying it" .
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 136 (view)
 
$ 460 Dollar Fine ..... Damn I'm A Rookie LMAO
Posted: 8/17/2009 9:14:07 AM
615$ You missed alot of fines that should be. But I can't tell you what they are! Good thread though lol.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
what do you guys get up to on a sunday
Posted: 8/16/2009 2:03:59 PM
Had coffee. Went on pof. Talked to a couple new friends there. Chipped a few golf balls with my neighbour's kid in the backyard. Played with my dog. Watched the jays lose while here in the forum. Won my bet About to watch the us open. Cook some italian sausage with horseradish and hot peppers and a baked potato with butter,cheddar cheese and sour cream.mmmmmmmmmmmm. Cheers everyone
Oh yea, watch the Ticats game tonite
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Second time around
Posted: 8/16/2009 1:32:55 PM
Alot of us here are on our fourth time around or more lol so don't sweat it. Each time it gets better and better and you learn from each one. Most of us at one time or another in these relationships thought they were the one.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Where are the love-help articles for men?!
Posted: 8/16/2009 1:19:30 PM
I'm sure they're out there. When a man finally get's it, and this can take many years, we just don't sit around and talk about it. It's not something you can learn from a book. You have to experience it or learn it through experience and failure. I think people are just plain selfish. Saying and doing the right things are a only a part of it. You have to learn to give more than you expect back. In my experience if you do this with no expectations you almost always get it back. Sounds like alot of work eh. Just like anything in life that's what it takes.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Met someone here briefly- was told he suddenly died
Posted: 8/16/2009 10:16:54 AM
It's true northern. It becomes easy for some to cut here in the forums. If they were in front of you I doubt it would happen near as much. Sometimes it's better to say nothing. Anyhow............RIP
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Is this chemistry?
Posted: 8/16/2009 7:46:57 AM
I would say that's it JH. The rest follows suit after that. Btw keep starting threads. This is a forum isn't it? If it gets people posting then what's the harm.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Stop judging and start loving ...
Posted: 8/16/2009 7:22:25 AM
The more experiences you have, the better you grow. The better you know yourself. I grew up in a negative, judgemental surrounding and let me tell ya...it takes all your energy away and makes you jaded. Once in my late 30s I realized what was put on me and how negative it made me. It took very little time to stop once i knew. It took even less time to find peace and love. My point is it takes no energy to accept people for who they are.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Need some advice please (no sarcasm or rude replies please)
Posted: 8/16/2009 7:04:14 AM
It can take time to get over someone and some find it hard to get those feelings back for someone else. Took almost 3 years for me with my last ltr. For some it's only a year. It's different for everyone. You won't wake up one day and say ok i'm ready. It's a gradual thing. I think this is what's stopping you from feeling it. It's a process. Enjoy the time with your daughter and focus on other things in your life for now. You'l come around, don't worry. Good luck Sweet
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Getting a girl with no relationship experience to open up.
Posted: 8/16/2009 6:55:41 AM
Relax. Take your time. Don't push it too much. What will be will be. I wouldn't tell her about your rule of thumb. She said she was nervous so listen to her. Don't crowd her and let her come around when she's ready. If you make it stressful for her it will just push her away. Give her time between talks and texts...a day or two. Give her time to think. Talk about interests and not the relationship. Be there for her when she wants to talk.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Venting on Facebook!
Posted: 8/15/2009 6:05:49 AM
I don't air my dirty laundry on facebook. I prefer to use it to stay in tune with my friends and family. I keep it positive and light. When i see my kids and some of the younger crowd airing their personal crap on there it make them look immature and I've told them that.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Your personal forum history
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:32:20 PM
lol Vancer. You know you look like Charlie Sheen!
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Your personal forum history
Posted: 8/14/2009 6:25:47 PM
Better they read mine to know what i'm all about. I have written some things I'd like to take back. I am not perfect. I also have messaged people when looking at profiles and then read some of their forum material and realized we are not a match so it's a great tool. I don't go as far as to look at their history but more if we both happen to be in the forum around the same time or the few that are recent in their profile.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Is there any way to get it so i like giving bj's?
Posted: 8/14/2009 5:15:55 PM
mcajack is a sad little man/boy. I've just read his posts elsewhere. He's looking for attention.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Anyone know what will get this smell out?
Posted: 8/14/2009 5:08:46 PM
Maybe they were growing pot in there. Then you might have a mould problem. Could be under the carpet or behind the drywall. Which is not healthy. Oh, I can remove those plants you found out back if you like. lol. If you think it's serious you might have to call a professional to get advice or an estimate and maybe you have recourse with the people that sold it to you.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Is there any way to get it so i like giving bj's?
Posted: 8/14/2009 4:53:18 PM
Don't worry about it. My last spouse told me she never liked it either but that changed with me. We were absolutely crazy about each other and she couldn't do it enough. I think when you find someone that you're truly passionate about you might have a different view. Also, i wouldn't push yourself to do it if you don't want to because the guy won't like it anyway. But hey, you might never like it and that's fine too.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 213 (view)
 
How many is too many?
Posted: 8/14/2009 4:44:33 PM
It makes no difference to me. I'm only looking for 1 more lol.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
open marriages
Posted: 8/14/2009 4:39:50 PM
If you're single then have fun. Once you have a spouse and you start swinging etc. then it becomes a whole new ball game. Some of it's aspects are totally awesome but it is an emotional rollercoaster and can be extremely negative to a relationship. No matter what rules you put in place be prepared to lose your spouse over it. Sounds exciting and it is for a while but then you wake up and realize what you're risking. I would say very few people can make it work.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Is sensuality acquired or are you born with it?
Posted: 8/14/2009 3:20:21 PM
Nothing you've said you like or dislike has anything to do with being sensual. Being shallow probably has alot to do with it. I don't think you could recognize it until you lose the shallowness and vanity. I doubt a sensual person would have anything to do with you. A sensual person will settle for nothing less.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Why do guys in their 20's seem to want it super fast?
Posted: 8/14/2009 2:13:42 PM
marva, they just don't get it! Even though you've hit the nail on the head with your explanation they still can't comprehend what you're saying. You just have to experience it to know. You seem to have found more than one man who can do this for you. I've only found one woman in my life who was as passionate as you seem to be. I wonder if there are too few to be found. Hope it's not a Canadian thing lol.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Why do guys in their 20's seem to want it super fast?
Posted: 8/14/2009 8:20:53 AM
josh sar...Troll much? Your immaturity shines through like the sun on a clear day!
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
A miracle of sorts... at least for me!
Posted: 8/13/2009 6:23:48 PM
I've learned people often tell you what they think you want to hear. I can't begin to count the times i've heard people say they've found the one too early in the relationship and it ends up being over real quick. People have a habit of not showing their true colours for a year or two. It's hard not to fall sometimes for someone who you think is a gem. It's way too early for anyone to know. Be smart and patient and don't ignore any red flags because you want it so bad.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Why do guys in their 20's seem to want it super fast?
Posted: 8/13/2009 6:05:01 PM
marvajanuice hit it dead on...on both of her posts. Just to add to what she said about flippin you and the starting over comment... so true. Guys don't really mature until they're in their mid thirties. Then we learn the advantage of being patient and having the experience to make your partner go crazy. We just become less selfish and realize it's soooo much better with a woman you can really satisfy. What turns me on is when she's turned on.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Parents have a warped view of relationships/dating...advice?
Posted: 8/13/2009 5:28:49 PM
Don't talk to your Mom about you're sex life. You're askin for trouble. Tubes tied at 21, a little weird. I agree with others... get proof. Dude, it's been three weeks. Your first relationship. Odds say it won't last. Have fun and let it run it's course. Don't you want kids?
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Cant cum through sex?
Posted: 8/10/2009 6:10:26 PM
If you're not satisfied then he hasn't finished his job. It doesn't sound like he's interested in trying either. I couldn't imagine walking away from my partner leaving her unsatisfied. If he can't understand how important this is then he is selfish.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Parents have a warped view of relationships/dating...advice?
Posted: 8/10/2009 4:53:12 PM
I don't see the big deal here. She's your Mom. She will never stop looking out for you. Sometimes us parents over do it a little. There will almost always be issues with parents or inlaws in the beginning. Smile and say thanks Mom for the advice. The truth is, if you get her pregnant then you will have to deal with it. If she uses you for sex (gee what a dilema) or money (which you don't have) then you could only learn from it. Your Mom will probably let up when you move out. This is your first relationship and it's with an independent girl. Your Mom is panicking which is normal.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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kidney failure in dogs
Posted: 7/31/2009 11:58:30 AM
Couple suggestions...a vetrinary low protein prescription diet to start and there is a prescription medication called Fortekor which increases blood circulation in the kidney's. Hope this helps you. It's worth it for the dogs comfort. I assume you have a vet.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Micheal Vick
Posted: 7/31/2009 5:50:28 AM
No i'm not afraid. If you want to mention Karma I doubt it would come to pass because I said it. More it would happen because he supported something so cruel and bringing on less than optional circumstances for himself. It would be his own doing.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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kidney failure in dogs
Posted: 7/30/2009 9:15:47 PM
I'l check tomorrow for ya. My sis works at a animal hospital
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Does this drive all men nuts?
Posted: 7/30/2009 9:06:38 PM
I't's probably because you're saying it spontaeously and most times if we answered it would probably sound stupid...Some us don't do well under pressure lol.
By the way you look sweet
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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I'm one of those who have wrecked Motorcycle related
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:26:29 PM
3 wipouts in two years when i was 17-18. first doin 70 couldn't make curve...walked away,fixed bike. 2nd hit passenger side door chevette broadside,she didnt see me and turned in front of me. Flew over car.Walked away.fixed bike. 3rd lost it around corner ended up on guys front lawn.Walked away. Didn't have to fix bike.....Sold bike and had kids.It was safer.
My kids are grown. I wanna get another bike now lol
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Crazy Weather Where You Are?
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:21:34 PM
Hamilton Ontario Canada. bin a wet summer ground barely drying. Gardens not doing well. Gonna be hot and humid for a bit...should help I should be a weatherguy
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Are we more skeptical at our age or,,,
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:18:26 PM
Yea we just don't have time to dyck around. If you've had an eventful life like i've had. You get tired of the bullshit and tend to hold out for a no games,no bullshit woman. But in the end, you never know dude
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
favours.
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:14:58 PM
So,you wouldn't normally do this for a friend? It's a bit much to dictate what they do.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Have you ever changed your mind?
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:12:48 PM
I haven't no. Probably thought about but I think I made the right choices
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
So why are a man's hands so attractive to women?
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:07:27 PM
All at once...jkjk But it's true, all my spouses have said that
Oh you can see my hand in my profile
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What about the bed?
Posted: 7/30/2009 7:51:46 PM
There ya go op...first reason you should hold out
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Why are these Talk Show host so popular?
Posted: 7/30/2009 7:03:56 PM
I wouldn't know them to see them. I think i'd rather watch family guy reruns lol.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Micheal Vick
Posted: 7/30/2009 6:59:36 PM
Hope nobody picks him up. I won"t watch him. If he does,hope the defense ends his career.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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What about the bed?
Posted: 7/30/2009 6:54:55 PM
Yes there is. It's your life. Your speed. No problem. Some of us have no problem with it. Maybe it's my age. I'm just as active as the next guy but iy makes no difference how long it takes. It would no doubt be worth it after getting to know someone for a while. If it's a LTR your after then what does it matter,it's for life!
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 7/30/2009 6:47:10 PM
Hmm, gotta be boredom. And like the other guy said, we don't need porn. It's just there. If it wasn't it will still go on just as much lol. And let's face it. not many girls would want to do it as much as most guys. You have no idea how much guys really do it lol. Cheers
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Do some bring out the best in you while others bring out the worst?
Posted: 7/30/2009 6:40:47 PM
Positive attitudes bring out the best in me. Negative brings out...well you know. Anyway simply put. Feel lazy tonight.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Car brake question
Posted: 7/27/2009 12:08:07 PM
If you had no problem with brakes b4 you went in then there's no way he could have guessed that they would only last a week. He's full of crap. Bring someone with you who knows what they're talking about. I doubt anyone here can give you a lesson where you could take the info back to the guy and call him out on his lies...if any. He could tell you anything and get away with it if you don't know. It would be best to allready know what's wrong b4 you go back to the guy. Ask a friend who knows,he could prolly figure it out pretty quick. Get a second opinion next time, Don't tell them what the other guy says just ask to check the brakes cause you're going away. Get a third if you like,it's worth it.
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Can any girl learn how to deep throat???
Posted: 7/26/2009 6:10:42 PM
I personally don't like to see a girl choke and gag. Is this your way of trying to find one?Obviously any girl can...if she wants to
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Kissing during sex
Posted: 7/26/2009 6:05:55 PM
This boy/man doesn't chicabow wow without fresh breathe nor does he without kissing.........up down and all around...yea baby
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 604 (view)
 
Smokers: Would you quit smoking for your dreamboat?
Posted: 7/26/2009 5:49:12 PM
Yes I would....and I should anyway
 northernbill
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Change Your Type-!
Posted: 7/26/2009 2:12:55 PM
Shy girls,Quiet girls,girls with extra pounds.Whether you dance or not!
You Gals rock
 
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