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 Author Thread: Mens Cologne
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Mens Cologne
Posted: 1/18/2017 5:04:12 PM
Arimis.......
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Is he just a busy bee and will come around or wasting my time
Posted: 1/18/2017 4:48:57 PM
The LADS will never own up......sounds like he is so "busy" because he is married or in a relationship. Don't feel badly.....went down that road myself years ago.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
best dating/relationship advice you're ever gonna get
Posted: 3/16/2014 3:48:50 PM
Unforgettable...Nat King Cole.....
 rere1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 58 (view)
 
When to kiss
Posted: 12/24/2013 6:42:40 PM
WHEN TO KISS???????....My most memorable and best was just as we even met, this gentleman asked if it would be OK with me if I was willing to share a kiss meeting for the first time.....mind you we talked for months. In fact, we had two.....so European.....one on each cheek....after supper he got one on the lips when we parted to go home...after a year...he still gets those kisses, anytime he wants....JUST ASK!!!!!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
What is happening here?
Posted: 12/23/2013 5:00:39 PM
Time to learn how to cast your line a bit better......
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
HIDDEN DESIRE
Posted: 11/2/2013 11:43:19 AM
Thank you Caribbean! Made me bust out laughing.......
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
working on the road
Posted: 10/15/2013 4:56:21 PM
Been down that road....too many times, BUT it depends on the relationship... if it is GOLDEN...and what you bring to the table when you are there...and not!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Is my friendship over with her.
Posted: 10/15/2013 4:31:29 PM
Move on Sweetness....hopefully you will find someone who appreciates you....as we age, we acquire more "problems" , I guess we have to find others that are willing to put up with each others "problems". Guess what, we all arrive there...
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Sex is overrated???
Posted: 10/15/2013 4:19:32 PM
Rock on....someone keeping my toes curled is a nice thing........especially if I get along with them...
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Love someone, great sex, but no physical attraction??
Posted: 8/4/2013 5:25:58 PM
Thank you Igor......you have said it best....
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Did this first date go okay?
Posted: 8/4/2013 5:13:12 PM
Guess you might just wait and see. We seem to be so impatient for immediate results. Yes, some of us have to get up early the next morning and cipher out what happened that day. It doesn't look bad at this point . The fact he made some physical contact should say something. Good things come to those who wait.......it may be marvelous!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Over 60??
Posted: 7/19/2013 6:40:04 PM
Vannilli....you and your girlfriends are SO wrong!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Over 60??
Posted: 7/19/2013 6:38:03 PM
Bummer, about the spoiled comment, it is kind of closing the barn door after the horse is gone? Keep looking....she is out there but, you may be so right that she is too far away.....but are you willing to take that chance? Good things come to those who wait.....don't despair......not everyone is looking for a younger man.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Over 60??
Posted: 7/18/2013 4:39:23 PM
NH man.....you got it right.....just keep moving forward! We are out here but you just have to keep trying. Met a great gentleman on this site and having a wonderful time. Over 60 is proving to be a lot of fun!
 RERe1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Will he change?
Posted: 6/22/2013 5:20:27 PM
Sadly, no he will not.....still having e-mails from my ex wanting to come back after many transgressions. Now he is dumped....if you only knew of the games he played to kick me out of the game and now wants me back. Be good to yourself and let him go......
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
We don't use condoms anymore.. But she keeps her stash
Posted: 5/28/2013 6:25:36 PM
Yes, I have an answer....if she gets a yeast infection, she can pass it on to you. I hear it is not a nice experience for either sex. Plus, condoms cost money.....never know when you might need one. Perhaps, a friend in need of one? Relax......reading too far into this one.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 79 (view)
 
scent of an older man
Posted: 5/27/2013 5:34:47 PM
Did you ever think it may be you?......
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Solo traveling over 50
Posted: 5/26/2013 8:10:41 AM
Try Caravan tours. They will mail brochures or check them out online. They were recommended to me as they have tours for singles as well. I haven't had the opportunity to try them yet but I understand how you feel about travelling alone...nice to share the experience with someone. Happy Trails!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
womens view please
Posted: 4/28/2013 4:43:09 PM
Life isn't about tats......what are willing to give to the relationship? Peace...
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Why do Men of a Certain Age HATE Facebook?
Posted: 4/7/2013 6:33:53 AM
I am surviving just fine without it.............
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
You Only Love Once ???
Posted: 4/6/2013 5:38:51 PM
NEVER!!!!They do want a posting this short. Love the one you are with...
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
No talking...?
Posted: 12/25/2012 5:39:34 PM
I think you are so right about your gut feelings. Eight years is such a long time and by now there should be some kind of connection. Maybe she has another agenda that she has not shared with you. Your feelings are probably genuine and on the money. Don't get a hold of her for a couple of months and see what develops. The proof will be in the pudding.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Tonight my world came crashing down... please, i need some advice :(
Posted: 12/8/2012 9:58:33 AM
Hmmmmmm........doctor, lawyer, injun chief? Cheers!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Needing Advice..from both men and woman
Posted: 12/8/2012 9:39:42 AM
Unfortunately, I think you and your friends have said it all. I fear this repeat itself over and over again until she gets it......either that or smacked with a 2X4 to wake her up. Keep trying, nice to have friends who care.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
too good?
Posted: 10/21/2012 3:05:53 PM
Sounds like too good! Mine lasted for 10 years while I raised his autistic son from infantcy. A pinnacle in my life.....his son won't even acknowledge me as "significant other". Bummer....took my Mom for a bunch of $$$. be vigilant!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Communication lost with my fiancee
Posted: 9/30/2012 5:41:32 PM
Seems to me if you quit communicating there will be no communication. Good luck.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Why Does Our Society Look Down On Unemployed Men So Much?
Posted: 9/30/2012 5:36:31 PM
Well said! You summed it up quite nicely.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
withdrawal into the man cave or over?
Posted: 9/2/2012 12:51:59 PM
Perhaps it is only your half of the equation that perceived it was SO GOOD. Think about it.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
The Last Post You Need To Read About Attracting Men
Posted: 8/11/2012 8:03:17 PM
Perhaps the "humus" forum?
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Vietnamese Pho Love and other Vietnamese food love
Posted: 7/7/2012 5:27:59 AM
I live in Windsor, just across the creek! There is a restaurant called Pho Saigon on Howard and Edinborough. There are other Vietnamese places here as well. Hope this helps.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Is there an effective way to weed out cheaters?
Posted: 6/2/2012 6:37:37 PM
Thank you Igor.......bippity bobity boo! You said it best! Unfortulately, I have been down the garden path......
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 30 (view)
 
BF womanizer and friend to all
Posted: 4/22/2012 5:16:13 PM
Sounds like a bunch fo monkey business.......open your eyes!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Do pets make a difference when considering a profile
Posted: 4/22/2012 5:12:07 PM
Yes, they make a difference...you either like them of not!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Fellow men, have you felt this way also??
Posted: 4/22/2012 4:45:02 PM
Dear Grant, In the beginning, I really did not think a child in my circumstances or dreams was a good idea BUT the inevitible happened and I had a son. That was the BEST thing that ever happened in my life. He kept me going when everything in my life was becoming a challenge.....because you HAVE TO! He gave me unconditional love a child gives when things are not the way you wish. For me, he helped me through difficult times because as a mother, you have to do what you have to. I never thought having a child would give me such strength to grow. I can just tell you how it was for me.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Photo's and SUNGLASSES
Posted: 4/22/2012 4:26:24 PM
HELLO.....IS ANYONE OUT THERE?
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Should I feel slighted?
Posted: 4/8/2012 6:51:39 AM
Yes, I would have felt the same way. It's like whomever he was persuing didn't work out.......NEXT!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Are paid online dating sites any different?
Posted: 3/25/2012 7:56:48 AM
Good one Paderic!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Are paid online dating sites any different?
Posted: 3/25/2012 7:48:26 AM
In my experience, a paid site was not much different. My son though met a wonderful woman on-line and were married last year after dating for 6 years. So, there is hope....there are diamonds out there...it's weeding through the rough.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
no sex
Posted: 3/25/2012 6:48:36 AM
I agree as well. It is very wrong to make such a decision without involving your wife. Menopause can change her sex drive or maybe you need to be a bit more attentive. Honour your union.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 100 (view)
 
My boyfriend is having an affair with Playstation 3..I never see him anymore
Posted: 3/11/2012 5:46:58 PM
Lose the power cord or don't pay the electicity bill.....it will show priorities....hell with seduction........
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Cultural difference / competition or not ?
Posted: 3/3/2012 10:41:48 AM
I totally agree......
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 65 (view)
 
MA'AM
Posted: 2/25/2012 8:57:51 AM
Ma'am or ladies are fine with me........hate being called "you guys".
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 29 (view)
 
What's the weirdest thing you ever ate?
Posted: 2/25/2012 8:23:51 AM
Hmmmm....cottage cheese with bosco comes to mind....YUK!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Feeling Hurt....Is This Justified ?
Posted: 2/25/2012 7:10:23 AM
HAVE A TALK WITH HER! Better yet, maybe you should go dancing with her. The best of both worlds!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
ROMANTIC VALENTINE'S DINNER
Posted: 2/13/2012 6:11:55 PM
RASCAL!........GOOD PLAN........
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
after 2 weeks....
Posted: 2/13/2012 5:31:34 PM
Good luck....I hope things turn out for you both!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Any great tips on visiting New Orleans, weather, sights, places to stay and music?
Posted: 1/29/2012 6:54:32 AM
The best hotel that I found was the Monteleone on Royal Street. Everything is within walking distance in the French quarter from here. I think we paid $99/night during the week and $119 for weekend. Book your rooms online as they seem cheaper and have specials. Also, go to the website New Orleans Online......you get good deals through that website and a discount coupon booklet. I agree with going to Mr. B's and Mothers for some cuisine. We ate there for lunch for our main meal of the day and for supper just snacked here and there. Pat O'Briens for a Hurricane is wonderful but be careful, they are potent! Supper cruise on the Cajun Queen(?) on the Mississippi Delta at sunset was memorable. Have fun but be careful......DO NOT GO TO THE GRAVEYARDS ALONE OR SMALL GROUPS....great area for muggings. A down side that I found was everyone had their hand out for a tip whether the service was adequate, suboptimal or wonderful.
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Cant find a date
Posted: 6/26/2011 5:39:06 PM
I agree.......keep your nose to the grindstone and work at school and caring for your baby. You need to emerge as your own person who can stand on your own two feet. Keep busy by bettering yourself and keep a kind but watchful attitude and I am sure a wonderful relationship will surface when you least expect it. Best wishes!
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Training and relationships x
Posted: 6/19/2011 5:07:48 AM
I suppose you have to decide what is most important to you. There may be a diamond in the rough out there.......
 RERE1026
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Am I being too sensitive?
Posted: 2/27/2011 3:30:16 PM
I think, there are aged ancestors who can answer your questions better....even your church. Do not use this forum for an answer. If she is acting this way now....it will probably the way it will be from now on....save your self the pain. Do you not want to be the priority like she would be to you?
 
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