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 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 312 (view)
 
Oral Sex Disgusts Me
Posted: 2/18/2019 3:22:36 PM
Oral, between two people who know and respect each other is amazing. Love is the supreme!
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Depression and POF
Posted: 2/18/2019 3:10:32 PM
I woke up today about 10 am. In between meals, pet and house related tasks and family communications, I have been drawn back here in a kind of addictive way. I haven't moved from my bed pretty much all day and I know that I am suffering depression for a number of reasons that my pride will not allow me to share with strangers. Can anyone relate? Can you share your stories? Will the other POF participants be supportive or judgemental?
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 91 (view)
 
Creepy profile pictures and it's just getting worse.
Posted: 2/18/2019 2:46:54 PM

Shirley, being shy may have had a lot to do with how you were treated. There is a tendency to assume shy people are stuck up.


ontheotherhand is absolutely right. I realized this many, many years ago and it has nothing to do with any level of 'perceived attractiveness. People who lack self confidence continue to be bullied. I sense a kindred spirit in you.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Why do men change?
Posted: 2/18/2019 2:36:36 PM
Huh...? I just know I had a meaningful and enjoyable conversation with a man who became an idiot. I was disappointed. Period. It comes with the OLD territory. I get that. Doesn't negate the disappointment.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 97 (view)
 
What are things you see in dating profiles that will make you sadly skip past them?
Posted: 2/18/2019 2:32:18 PM
He feels he is unattractive and I don't think he is. I prefer a taller man but there are plenty of short girls who might be attracted if he were not so determined to put himself down. No man or woman is ever attracted to someone who thinks negatively of him/her self unless they think they are below anyone's standards. Sad.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Hey guys and girls please review for my sanity
Posted: 2/18/2019 2:04:31 PM
OP. For some reason or angle, your face seems to be extremely elongated and unflattering. I'm thinking they are just bad selfies, but if they are actually true representation of your physical self, I'm sorry to have brought this up although you are not unattractive. Your 'About Me' is skimpy and does not offer any reason or option for further contact.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 306 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/18/2019 1:41:03 PM

One question can be though: Is there anything wrong with being a 'slut'? It's a highly relative term -- but in general, one who is Just Fine with casual, consensual sex as often as they'd like?


That could be a truly interesting 'NEW THREAD'.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 240 (view)
 
Women Don't Know What They Want
Posted: 2/18/2019 1:32:08 PM
I am sorry to say that I believe that these forums should be entertaining and sometimes even questionably confrontational which makes them interesting to those seeking an outlet for boredom or depression.....but these long convoluted posting by a couple of guys are just tiresome. Is it just me?
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Women always wanting men quite taller than them
Posted: 2/18/2019 1:14:54 PM
[quote\Am I the only one who thinks that the very premise of this thread is completely untrue?

Women only ask for tall. What they want is a man who can project a sense of presence. Like Carly Simon used to say, "You walked into the party like you were walking onto a yacht." If a man can do that then it doesn't matter how tall he is.

Take it from a cripple. Women are much, much more forgiving of physical defects than a man would ever be. Height included. Different women are impressed by different things but they are hardly ever physical things.

Back on topic. I'm not sure of what you are trying to say here although you seem to imply that in spite of height or physical deficiencies that the objective manner of "presence" is a key factor. Hmmmm.....if that is the statement, I'm inclined to agree. Any man with whom a woman feels any kind of chemistry is going to be further intrigued by a self confident and independant personality with a definite 'air of presence'.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Women always wanting men quite taller than them
Posted: 2/18/2019 12:58:49 PM

BTW: My cleavage looks good from EVERY angle.


I don't know how this got into a discussion of height but I will say that enormous breasts that hang near to the waist when unencumbered have never appeared attractive to me. A photo of a very large breasted woman will be flat chested lying on her back until you look under her arm pits.....lol.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What should I do now?
Posted: 2/18/2019 12:41:57 PM
Ummmm....yes.
Move on. He is clearly not into you but rejection sucks. Sorry.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why do Single mothers push men away?
Posted: 2/18/2019 12:37:09 PM
Raising children on your own is a tough go. I know because I did it. I had a 2 year rebound common law relationship early after my divorce and after that, although I dated and my children met these men, knew we were dating, had dinner with him in our home but that man never appeared in the morning for breakfast. I never lived with anyone again until my children were grown about 10 years later. I must say however, that the few men I dated were respectful of my choices and even helped out when I asked them to. They would have done much more but I was a proud and independant woman who was not a 'user'. I just tried to put my children first and it has paid off. They remember me as a great mom in their childhood and teenage years. Makes me very happy and satisfied with my choices. I just don't think a 'blended family' would have worked for us. My first priority would have always been my children and that is not really fair to the man I would love.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Broken heart over lost friend and how strange grief can be
Posted: 2/18/2019 12:17:14 PM
I'm sorry that you have had to deal with such personal loss and the cat being the final 'straw' completely relates. Such a cruel, violent death to an innocent is hard to bear. Please feel free to continue to share your healing journey. You are in my prayers.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Guilty of overthinking or something else..?
Posted: 2/18/2019 12:09:30 PM
Is it possible that she expected sex and that because it didn't happen, she thinks that you are not into her? Many insecure girls would feel rejected. You may have a keeper here. Persist.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Blocked
Posted: 2/18/2019 12:03:27 PM

I have a sarcastic personality so I messaged someone that had their job as "Big Investing Firm" everything seemed to be going well so I made a statement "Do you play with money all day?" as a way to get the conversation started? being MYSELF as too say


I too, have a sometimes weird sense of humor. IMO, it was a playful conversation starter intended as a way of showing interest in her job.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 10 (view)
 
A friend with high expectations?
Posted: 2/18/2019 11:57:42 AM
We can't help if we can't see his profile.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 198 (view)
 
Dating Etiquette of 21 century ADULTS
Posted: 2/18/2019 11:47:12 AM

Well....the "diseased stranger" from anywhere will be dressed a lot like you so yes. It's a pretty big gamble.
And you bring it into this thread, because thats the kind of crazy narcissistic b*tch you are. And you call ME a drama seeker? LOL


YOU brought prostitution into this thread and you know what I think of your photos. No slur on you GG, just your pictures.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Male SEQ/EEQ???
Posted: 2/18/2019 11:42:28 AM
^^^I totally understand.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What did he mean I didn't think you toward that direction
Posted: 2/18/2019 11:19:17 AM
I agree with Inicia. Really though girl! Run on sentences, no punctuation. You are obviously very intelligent but don't make it so hard for us....please!
But OP? You made your move and he played dumb. Can it be any more clear? He helped you dodge a bullet. To quote Inicia....."Drop it".
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Creepy profile pictures and it's just getting worse.
Posted: 2/18/2019 11:07:44 AM
No words....just so far off topic.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 304 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/18/2019 10:33:04 AM

"Slut-shaming. Is it wrong or realistic?

Let's look at word."shame". It means to make someone feel bad about something. I agree that in a perfect world men wouldn't treat women a certain way or look at them in a primarily sexual way based on how they are dressed. But we don't live in a perfect world. We live in a world filled with men, some who are sexual predators and some who are just horny and looking for easy sex where they can get it. And a woman wearing sexy clothes with cleavage readily displayed and hooker boots is a sign that she is an easy and willing sexual target. You might not like it, say it is wrong, spout off feminist ideals but the truth of the matter is that is the way the world is. And the image you project is what you will attract. Clothes say a lot about you. And when I, as a woman, see another woman displaying her bosom and dressed a certain way, I believe she is trying to get noticed for her body. And I view her as lacking self-respect. She is using her body to get her what she wants rather than her mind.


Congratulations! You spelled it out as it is although unfortunately. You aren't also one of those "mangy mutts", are you? LMAO

I can cite a related example. Years ago, my very attractive cousin and I went out for a night of dancing. Her clothing consisted of a little floral top exposing much bust and all midriff with very short bright yellow shorts and red high heels. I was dressed much more conservatively, in finger tip length shorts, an T-shirt exposing nothing but my shoulders and arms with cute flat heeled red shoes. My cousin and I too, having been painted with the same perception brush had to ask the bartender for help in getting rid of a number of young men that would absolutely not leave us alone in their desperate attempts to brush up against us, hold us to dance even after our refusal, and so on. I actually smacked one guy across the face when he grabbed me in an inappropriate way. The guys were given the boot but really in my opinion, my cousin wanted men to notice her body and they did, in a disrespectful and negative way. I never went out with her again. Just not my thing.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 303 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/18/2019 10:17:18 AM

"The shaming language in this post is quite vivid. To say it is anything else is being willfully blind. You may not have come right out and called this poster a slut but its quite clear that is what you're suggesting."


Well it is NOT quite clear to me that I am suggesting anything of the sort.
You'll notice that the post referred to is made up of portions of several posts, not just one. Nowhere have I suggested that the photos in debate actually define the woman.

1. I refer to myself in terms of self respect and confidence. I don't diminish her's. I convey sympathy for her that she feels this photo display is a necessary representation of what she believes is necessary in order to feel beautiful. Sad actually, when her beauty is so obvious.
2. There is nothing but truth in my comment about her photos being suitable for the 'back pages' and would garner a lot of calls. I have not labelled her a "hooker".
3. I would not dress that way in public . She complains that she is contacted by men who only want a sexual encounter and in spite of being told by many posters that the photos are the reason for the complaint, she continues to stridently defend them. Knowing that every poster has taken a look suggests that she is attention seeking and thus should get over herself.
4. Many TV shows and movies often depict an "escort outfit". Think 'Pretty Woman', and her attire and posturing in her photos would be entirely comparable. I have not called her an escort.
5. No one that I can recall and specifically myself throughout this thread directly called her any 'slut' branding names in spite of her continued insistence and exaggerations that they have, and encouraged by another poster.
6. The word "silly" was never attributed to her self professed atheism but I offered to pray for her in the hope that she comes to terms with her initial complaint and the potential reasons for it which many posters have tried to provide in their own ways, and to present her beauty in a way that will attract a different kind of man. Unfortunately she refuses to consider these aligned opinions as anything but judgemental from a bunch of jealous "hags" although many men expressed the same observations.

I cannot recall one instance in this thread where someone referred to GG as a sinner.

Reading back over this thread and review of her profile....I could honestly believe that she is much younger than her stated age but almost like a teenager when she insists belligerently that "I won't relent one single inch". Although other posters claim to know of her, her entire dialogue would be completely understandable to me if this were true.

One poster is fanning the flames and enjoying the fire! I think there is an online word for that type?


By GG - Message 218 "Really whI think the fact that the type of man attracted to me, is NOT the type of man I am into, is part of my problem. I have a really curvy body and that attracts shallow types looking for a romp; I couldn't be more turned off by the idea of a meaningless roll in the hay with someone who uses appearance as their main measuring stick. People like that gross me out, and so I ignore 99% of my messages because that is what tries to contact me."


'
^^ By Inicia - Message 219 "Do an UGLY Betty type makeover-Could help ya out!! Or as others choose hide photo and only pursue those you are ?would be interested in dating..You will stop fielding shallow messages and can generate some powerful first messages to those who intrigue you..Bit more work and touches our ego center lol but can change up the energy.y make the complaint in the first place?"


GG does not seem to understand that she herself is using her own appearance as her "main measuring stick". I don't always interpret Inicia's enlightening posts without careful review but in this case, it was fairly easy. GG doesn't understand that Inicia in a very nice and humorous way, is also confirming that the photos will continue to attract the type of man that gross GG out. Inicia suggests that GG show some "UGLY Betty type" photos or hide her photos to discourage the 'rompers' and to show them to only those she would be interested in dating. She even suggests potential rejection when she says "Bit more work and touches our ego centre". GG doesn't interpret the subtlety so following posters make caring but futile efforts to help her understand. Still, GG is happy with Inicia's recommendations although they aligned with every other comment. LOL. Go figure!

Have a lovely day!
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 235 (view)
 
Women Don't Know What They Want
Posted: 2/17/2019 10:51:17 AM

Very succinctly put. I was a bit taken aback that my post was questioned in message 184.


Hello White Rose.
I was the use of the word "crass" that surprised me. Very strong word and seemingly very judgemental coming from a woman who posts I always enjoy and respect. Sorry.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 92 (view)
 
What are things you see in dating profiles that will make you sadly skip past them?
Posted: 2/17/2019 10:27:55 AM

Yet based on your dealbreakers that you mentioned here, you wouldn't date him because of his height (5' 4").


I said he was quite attractive and he is and may very well meet someone's preferences. I did not say mine so why would you just try to diminish him more?
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Why do men change?
Posted: 2/17/2019 9:44:52 AM

I am pretty darn perceptive.



I don't want to be condescending - but that line is repeated in these forums ad nauseum by women who were all fooled or misled in some way.


My talent of perception has served me very well over the years. I'm very rarely surprised by anyone but that guy was dang good! Still can't believe it. Still convinced it was a personality change or someone hacked his account....like a teenage son or someone. Blew me away although days later, I have heard nothing further so I have to assume he realizes he was BUSTED and has moved on to more naive fish.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Why do men change?
Posted: 2/17/2019 9:39:16 AM

then later meeting a male member of the congregation unrelated to the church who reported his interest in sharing my corrupt worldly ways he heard about from my witnesses.


I'm glad you clarified. So it was actually a man you knew from college unrelated to the church who had been told about the things you shared in your church related meetings. Awful. Meetings like that are supposed to be confidential and not sources of gossip. I'm sorry that happened to you.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Wish we could warn each other about bad dates
Posted: 2/17/2019 9:19:01 AM

Hmmmm, I must be doin' sumpin' wrong. I've never lost a man INSIDE my home. ...................Now outside, a few have wandered off when I suggested, "Hey take a hike".


Oh.....holding my stomach, coffee all over. Tooooooo funny. Thank you for that!
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 89 (view)
 
What are things you see in dating profiles that will make you sadly skip past them?
Posted: 2/17/2019 9:04:31 AM

Because there's no normal, sane woman on earth looking for a man who looks like me. I am the complete antithesis of the prototypical physically attractive man.


I don't get this. I checked your profile and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you appearance. I think you need to give yourself more credit.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Women always wanting men quite taller than them
Posted: 2/17/2019 8:57:39 AM
I simply feel more feminine holding the hand of a man who is even just slightly taller than I. Pretty sure I'm not the only one. Good thing there are a good number of short, shorter, tall and taller people out there in the pool.....lol.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 195 (view)
 
Dating Etiquette of 21 century ADULTS
Posted: 2/17/2019 8:49:20 AM

I dont lay down with men unless I know they are man enough to handle any consequences that results of such activity. Talk is cheap. Worth is proven through action. A man needs to earn my respect and trust to lay down with him. If he doesn't want to earn it, he can always go buy it from a diseased stranger down town Chicago and gamble with his health for all I care.


Well....the "diseased stranger" from anywhere will be dressed a lot like you so yes. It's a pretty big gamble.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Male SEQ/EEQ???
Posted: 2/17/2019 8:41:21 AM

Rise above do not entertain the scum of a babbling foolish liar, mere dirt and dust upon your heal/heel, shake it free in dignity and walk away. FISHY DANIMAL FIRIENE three (some) in the eleven at least (1983 resurrected Term) perpetuated use in mid 90's thirty years


Yak!!!!! I'm lost and Ms Micki, I'm beginning to feel I might be crazy....lol.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Male SEQ/EEQ???
Posted: 2/17/2019 8:28:36 AM
By Rise Above....

I can't speak for the three of them but it's obvious you lied though any of the three can and hopefully do respond because my interpretation of what they meant in their posts might be wrong


I can't speak for the other two but you did not misinterpret me and I suspect that goes 3 ways but again, I can't say. You are certainly vehement in that the poster in question is a "liar". I don't have the same history, but from thread to thread, her posts often contradict and are always difficult to decipher. She seems to be very literate so we have suggested options to help make her posts more understandable but that just seems to fuel some unseen fire. Oh Well. Keeps it interesting and BTW....I too googled SEQ and EEQ before my initial response. I'm 58, and it seems my memory card has been swiped clean of those terms as well.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 10 (view)
 
What did he mean I didn't think you toward that direction
Posted: 2/17/2019 8:00:36 AM
The OP put it out there. The next step is his. The question is.....will he take it? Who knows but you tried. Good for you.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 297 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/17/2019 7:38:10 AM

then some total morons on here took it for three pages calling me a whore, slut, say I have no self respect, am stupid, damaged, blah etc.

I'm with Ms. Micki, Basil, White Rose and several others. No one referred to anyone in this thread with those names and labels although someone did suggest that you were doing better than any "troll". I'll go with that one.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Did you get any Valentines?
Posted: 2/17/2019 7:28:53 AM

Going to see one of my favorite Blues singers at a nice intimate club that serves the best crab stuffed mushrooms!!


My favorite. I hope you stuffed yourself so you ate one for me. They are hard to find these days.....those mushrooms that is.
I received a lovely card from my daughter and text messages from my sons. They are all so sweet!
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Would you rather I lied about it?
Posted: 2/16/2019 10:26:23 PM
I don't lie but I don't spout out my life story in a couple of meet sessions either. The biggies can wait and evolve or never appear during the process of getting to know one another. By biggies, I mean parts of your past that you may feel are none of his/her business. Lies by omission? Different scenario. I guess it would depend on what they were and if they were deal breakers for you.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 295 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/16/2019 10:12:11 PM
Thank you Basil and Ms Micki. No one called her names. They may be in her head....sadly. I already said and will say again that I feel sorry for her. I will add her to my prayers, in spite of being the atheist she claims to be. Everyone is worth saving. We can only offer our opinions which may seem judgemental to her. I don't think any of us meant it that way. We were just responding to her original complaint that only men who are interested in sex contact her and we tried to offer solutions based on what we saw in her photos and profile. We can't make anyone change unless they want to. Sadly.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Why do men change?
Posted: 2/16/2019 9:57:33 PM

BTW SIS does he know you post in these forums? Can he find them? Will he read this after intimately sharing a confidence of faith in prayer with you?


Yes. I told him that I enjoyed the forums and told him how to get here and I don't believe I have ever posted anything that would label me as any kind of 'alternative' personality?
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Why do men change?
Posted: 2/16/2019 9:49:34 PM
Thank you all. I think my last comment "????Personality change?" pretty much stopped him in his tracks. Haven't heard anything further.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Creepy profile pictures and it's just getting worse.
Posted: 2/16/2019 9:45:43 PM
Wow. Cat fight is on but I can definitely opine that one is cattier than the other and I will continue to support the other kitty. I think everyone knows to whom I am referring.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Why do men change?
Posted: 2/16/2019 11:08:49 AM

You don't really offer very much evidence that his personality changed. Less than respectful why? Did he threaten you? Did he call you names? From they way I read your post, the one and only thing that indicates change to you is his hinting at phone sex.


So I spoke on the phone to a man who was everything I would have dreamed in spite of never having met him before. He attends church every week, he is involved in charity projects, he prayed with me about something I confided I was upset about, we briefly discussed previous relationships, neither showing any bitterness to the X's. All in all, I was excited about hearing from him again but received these disjointed POF messages, although he had my cell #. Did he simply confuse me with someother POF lady?
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 289 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/16/2019 10:49:54 AM
Now GG.
You just don't make any sense.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 278 (view)
 
Casual blowjobs
Posted: 2/15/2019 5:44:40 PM

No woman likes giving blow jobs why would they! They are conditioned to lie about liking it because they cave into the male ego thing. A woman gets no pleasure out of giving a man a blow job and I think men that want a women to do this are just completely selfish egotistical ballbags that think we have to serve them and if a man ever asked me to do this I'd bite so hard he'd never ask me again


But you'll let him go down on you in a second....right?
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Male SEQ/EEQ???
Posted: 2/15/2019 5:36:52 PM

I consider myself a fairly intelligent person (even in here), but I honestly can't follow most of what you type in here.
Paragraphs are our friends, as is punctuation when trying to communicate.


Thank you. I was beginning to fear it was just me. The poster to whom we refer often makes no sense at all with sentences running into each other with only a hyphen to change the topic and then several topics in the same 'sentence' with a jumble of words strung together in a way that leaves us in a position to try to dicipher the meaning. Yay!!!! I'm not stupid. (Sigh of relief)
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 270 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/15/2019 10:11:17 AM
Finally, I can thank those who said some really nice things to me. You know who you are.

Regarding the woman in the 'escort' outfit, I'm done here. Your initial complaint is in total contradiction to your responses to the construction criticism that many offered. Carry on and enjoy!

P.S. I've never had a profile under a different user name, Miss Sock Puppet.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 256 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/14/2019 8:18:21 PM

Not that Mdme. B needs me to take up for her, but your post, Shirley, does back up some of what she says.
Your words are reminiscent of another former poster who was also blonde & very opinionated. ? Sock Puppet alert?


??? It is easy to make a couple of statements. Care to explain?
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why do men change?
Posted: 2/14/2019 8:12:02 PM
Thank you everyone for your responses to particularly to Grover for your sympathy.
P.S. To answer some questions.
He is my age and no, I will not speak with him again. Life is too short to try to figure people out who I've never even met. No time, no inclination. He had his shot and he blew it....figuratively, literally? Who knows? LOL. Move on.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Why do men change?
Posted: 2/14/2019 8:03:57 PM
Thank you everyone but I never would have imagined that this man would have switched personalities so completely and I am pretty darn perceptive.
Just disappointing. I'm sure I am not the only one who has experienced this.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
Msg: 254 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 2/14/2019 7:58:45 PM

I find it extremely sad to see fellow women pull out the sexist trope that a woman must not have self respect or is damaged if she has cleavage or a short skirt on.

uhhh.....if it were that simple I would agree with you but your photos would be terrific in the back pages and you would get lots of calls. I was a damn fine looking woman at 43 having had 3 children but I would not have been caught dead dressed as you are outside of the bedroom or a Hallowe'en party. Get over yourself. There is more to a woman than a enormous set of ta tas and skimpy clothing. I receive lots of messages but none as disrespectful as those you describe in your mailbox. You reap what you sow and guess what? I am not the slightest bit jealous because we can all do what you do, should we want to get down in that ditch. Dress slutty and complain that only pervs want to date you. Oh Boo Hoo. I've lost patience with you. Carry on attention seeker.
 SurelyIamShirley
Joined: 7/22/2016
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Why do men change?
Posted: 2/14/2019 11:38:43 AM
This is kind of a response to a poster who questioned why female bashing on line was so much more prevalent that men bashing? Well, I did a thread search and that does seem to be true.
I had a lovely phone conversation with a man just the other day. OMGosh. We had so much in common! We laughed, we prayed, we shared our lives. That same night, this man seems to have undergone a personality change because his comments to me on POF were less than respectful when he is clearly hinting about phone sex. Please understand that we have never met. To all the haters who will jump in and accuse me of having led him on, I assure you that I did not and I have nothing against phone sex with my SO or someone I have gotten to know well enough to trust. Truth is, I was really disappointed in the change in him. Was he smoking too much MJ as he admitted he does occasionally...was he drinking....was he simply horny? I am sure that he enjoyed our phone conversation as well. Why would he then sabotage what might have led to something very nice?

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