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 Author Thread: He is great, but his kids are awful
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 69 (view)
 
He is great, but his kids are awful
Posted: 3/18/2010 10:17:33 PM
Sounds like the kids need a good spanking. They are just kids and you can reel them in if he gives you the leeway to do so. Give them a spanking 5 times a day until they stop acting like brats!
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 74 (view)
 
can a guy 30 or older get away with wearing a hat backwards?
Posted: 3/18/2010 7:06:08 PM
I like to wear a hoodie and worn out jeans, hang out at the 7-11 and mumble to women as they enter and exit "ya lookin'?" So far I've gotten away with it.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why would a guy NEVER put a pic of him and his gf on FB
Posted: 3/18/2010 6:01:17 PM
Pretty clear he doesn't want anyone to know they are seeing each other.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
when a woman says we need to take a step back and talk
Posted: 3/18/2010 5:48:31 PM
I think she's gonna tell you she's been having an affair.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Why would a guy NEVER put a pic of him and his gf on FB
Posted: 3/18/2010 5:43:29 PM
If his facebook says he's in a relationship with your girlfriend, I'd say it's safe. If not, well, facebook is a good place to meet people.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Deodorant, perfume and cologne: Do we really need 'em?
Posted: 2/16/2010 4:41:05 PM
As for the deodorant thing, I hadly ever wear deodorant. I work a blue collar job and it makes no sense to wear underarm deodorant to prevent your body from sweating when you're working in a way that makes you sweat. On my days off I still won't wear deodorant unless I'm "going out."

For girls shaving I prefere no hair but if a girl has hair on her legs, armpits or anywhere else, it wouldn't bother me. I kinda like how women's hair grows in so thin and soft. Oh and, Even if a woman is completly shaved, she's not going to look like a child.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
CREATIVE PUNS FOR EDUCATED MINDS
Posted: 2/15/2010 5:04:17 PM
My favs from the list:
I wondered why the baseball kept getting bigger. Then it hit me.
If you drink, don't park. Accidents cause people.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Armageddon
Posted: 2/15/2010 4:48:28 PM
Col. Sharp: Get off...the nuclear...warhead.
Rockhound: Just wanted to feel the power between my legs, brother.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
kudos to anyone who can name the movies from which these quotes came
Posted: 2/15/2010 4:44:55 PM
"No one can eat 30 eggs." - COOL HAND LUKE (and it's 50 eggs, not 30 )

It's also "Nobody ever ate 50 eggs."
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What is going on here?
Posted: 2/15/2010 4:13:45 PM
I have the opposite problem. I am intelligent and witty around women if I know they are not availiable, I'm a moron if they are datable.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
How much information is too much?
Posted: 2/15/2010 4:01:23 PM
How about "I'd rather not talk about it, do you like spinich dip?"
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 109 (view)
 
Bachelor's Degree superiority complex...
Posted: 2/13/2010 10:32:38 PM
I think in bussiness a lot fo people who don't have degree's are threatened by people with degrees. Be them men or women. Mostly because the people without degrees think education isn't a measure of intelligence and the people with degree's think intelligence isn't a measure of knowledge. Both are correct.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Harder to involve one's self with women with male teens versus female teens?
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:33:45 PM
Father's usually have a diminished role with teenage girls and a heightened role with teenage boys. Your kids don't want some stranger for a dad but they still likely need some male guidance on becoming a man. I grew up with my biological dad and it was a war zone in my home when I hit puberty. If I had those battles with someone who wasn't my biological dad I'm certain I'd have shown even less restraint in those battles. Say, instead of veiled threats, assault.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
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You like this girl now what?
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:11:44 PM
I doubt her friend helping without knowing where you stand and she wouldn't be encouraging you to ask her friend out if her friend wasn't going to say yes. So you know you're gonna at least get a shot, just slow down on the "I like her soooo much" crap. You've never dated her, and she's never dated you, wait till you know what it's like to be with her before you decide you're in love.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
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Am i coming on to strong
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:02:46 PM
I think my reaction would be surprised "umm, thanks" and then if I liked you back I'd think about how to go about asking you out... and I'd throw away the burger and fries after you left, that crap'll kill you.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Credit card rejected on first date.
Posted: 10/4/2009 3:50:08 PM
You have "rich" in your name and you have one credit card. You just blew your cover.


I have one credit card too and I could buy a car on it. Since when did lots of credit cards mean you have means?
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
bodybuilding advice
Posted: 9/8/2009 6:34:21 PM
The best way to get size is with few reps lifting nearly your max weight.

Do something like 10-8-6-6. Where you lift 10 reps of 1/2 weight as a warm up, 8 reps of enough weight that you can do 8 but you couldn't do say 12, like the 8th is getting hard. Then do as much weight as you can lift 6 times, twice. If the first time you finish 6 and know you can do more, increase the wieght so you have a very hard time getting the 6th one done, if you can only do 5, that's good too, at least you're pushing hard. If you've been going for 5 years I assume you already have your different workouts for different body parts but as one user said, lay off on the cardio. Maybe just a 10 min at start of work out to get the blood flowing (and reduce likelyhood of injury). Since it's just plain healthy I would still have 1 cardio day each week... what good is looking good in the mirror if you have a heart attack?

This is a good way to build mass but personally as someone who gains mass easy and wishes he had smaller lighter muscles (for speed in sports) I do things different.

For getting rid of the fat, that's just purely about diet. Lowering carbs a lot and restricting them to before workouts helps (a small portion of carbs with breakfast and lunch, work out between lunch and supper and then avoid carbs for supper which should be focused on protein, vitamins and fibre (meat and greens).

Not sure I know what those suppliments are but just a protein shake after each workout is all I've ever used when working on muscle development.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
am i just an idiot for going with my gut?
Posted: 9/8/2009 1:55:41 AM
I think it's immature to be giving an ultimatum. If you think a break is a good idea, take a break... what kind of girl would actually listen to a guy that tried to control them like this so early in a relationship? You're gorgeous and not going to have any trouble finding interested men when you want the attention.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Experiences with cuddle guys
Posted: 9/8/2009 1:50:15 AM
I guess I'm #2. Honestly, I was just thinking of cuddling when I got started.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 149 (view)
 
What Would Do If Your Date Said To You, I'm Use To Dating Someone Better Looking Than You?
Posted: 9/8/2009 1:32:56 AM
I'd poor my water in their lap... "I'm used to dating people in dry clothes, Good night."
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
A Womans opinion
Posted: 9/8/2009 12:45:19 AM
I liked it.
Messages this short may not be posted
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Perhaps a dumb vehicle question:
Posted: 9/7/2009 11:15:42 AM

gtomustang has a strong point here. There are no zero emisions vehicles.


An electric car has no emissions.


A fully electric car has to get a charge from somewhere.


What your talking about here is not zero emissions but carbon neutral. An EV can be carbon neutral if it charges with clean energy or if it charges up on the grid, it uses something like 15% of the pollution of a gas car. A diesel engine running on vegetable oil is also carbon neutral.


If you have a lower emission vehicle then you had before it seems a reasonable compromise.


Depends on if it's a prius or an SUV doesn't it. Her "lower emission" vehicle has 300 hp and an $80 fuel tank (at my pump prices anyways, it's 81 liters).
Big difference between making a compromise for the environment and "ah, **** it, we're all gonna die someday anyways."


A bicycle is very efficient

Yea, unfortunately they are only "low-emission" if the peddler is a woman.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Perhaps a dumb vehicle question:
Posted: 9/6/2009 11:28:10 PM
Zero emissions means it doesn't use gas so you might have sounded kinda dumb but I'm sure he knows that most people don't keep track of green technology and won't hold it against you. I'm interested what makes something qualify as a PZEV though, sounds like it's just marketing to me.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Female sexuality
Posted: 9/6/2009 12:10:38 PM

I am interested in your OPINIONS. I'm not interested in a FWB relationship.


Nobody cares about your need to keep this issue at arms length, we're just answering your question as you asked it.

I don't think it would be impossible for a FWB to turn into a real relationship but I think the nature of a FWB is usually that one or more of the people involved have already decided they don't want a relationship with the other one but they are willing to have sex with them. Like, they dated briefly, didn't like the person that much but the sex was decent.... Never heard of people negotiating a FWB relationship without having had sex already so the hotel idea seems out of place to me.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Would you leave a relationship because you wanted marriage and your SO didn't?
Posted: 9/6/2009 2:07:02 AM
I know and really respected a girl who did this. She wanted to settle down and start a family and the guy liked to party on the weekends and wasn't ready to get married. Girl moved out and broke it off with a guy she loved. Takes a lot of character to do that in my opinion. Said girl is now happily married to another guy who wanted the same things as her.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Child support...
Posted: 9/6/2009 1:53:12 AM
A fair amount is his share of what you would spend on your child. If your disability provides you with say 20k and he makes 80k then 80% of what you spend on your child is a fair amount of child support. I think the courts are broken and you will get much more than this if you don't care about fairness.

And 80k isn't rich where she lives. Sounds to me like the guy is a laborer that works very long hours and is gonna get screwed over into paying so much child support he is supporting his child and whatever future illegitimate children show up.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Holding Grudges
Posted: 9/5/2009 7:30:48 PM
Time heals all wounds but if you were a****in the past and aren't sorry about it now, she has every right to think you're still a**** After 15 years, it's not like she's still wounded, she just wants to know if you're the same ***hole she remembers you being.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
long distance relationships?
Posted: 9/5/2009 7:25:33 PM
I know many millwrights as well as some machinists who don't need to travel for work. Your career path has nothing to do with your travel, it's not like you're an airline pilot. If you're ready to settle down for a long term relationship just take a job in your home town.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Competitive sports.
Posted: 9/5/2009 7:13:43 PM
I would play with kid gloves even if it were a non-contact sport and if she manages to beat me, I'd be very impressed and extra attracted to her for it. If on one particular play she faked me really good and made me look bad I might hustle a little to make up for lost pride but that's as far as I'd let my ego go.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Waiting a week to respond to e-mail
Posted: 9/5/2009 7:01:07 PM
My one week rule goes like this: I check my my email once every week.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
The classic..........can I pop round yours with a bottle of wine?
Posted: 9/5/2009 12:07:39 PM
Did they say, "Can I come to your house and push your ankles behind your ears?" Your assumption may be off a bit. Why not just suggest meeting somewhere public than lecturing them on how relationships are supposed to progress?
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Just after the chase?
Posted: 9/4/2009 5:33:53 PM
Maybe you just need to go after happily married women. You can fall in love with them while they use you as a sex toy.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
girl tattoos
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:51:06 PM

I see tattoos as self mutilation, forced image manipulation, and insecurity


Weird, when I see a girl with a very stand out tattoo I see confidence. If it's a tramp stamp she loses points for sure but if she has her sleeve tattooed I think it shouts confidence. It takes confidence to stand out, insecurity leads to trying to blend into the background.

A butterfly on the ankle is kinda neutral. It's hidden so doesn't show much about confidence, maybe says something about unoriginality but since you can get a tattoo in one night and it lasts a lifetime, I'd try not to over analyse.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
The gentleman's club?
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:39:10 PM
In my opinion girls who are very against strip clubs are worried about their own body. They are afraid of how their body will compare to the dancers. As far as STDs goes, you have no reason to worry, you have just as much chance of getting an STD downloading porn.

On the other hand, I think a lot of guys would be a little uncomfortable with their girlfriend going to a ladies night. "Oh crap, those stripper guys are gonna have bigger penises than me!" Heh.

If you find out your guy likes to get a massage once a week, you should probably worry.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Dom or Sub?
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:25:01 PM
Another vote for neither. I prefer balance. I might get into some kinda acting job if a sexy outfit were involved though. Now that I think of it, I especially dislike it if a girl is too submissive... like no needs / desires of her own. Makes them just a step above a sex doll.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
It seemed to be going well, then BAM!! dumps me via text message
Posted: 9/3/2009 8:33:22 AM
And why do you think it's an excuse? Seems to me he did all the hard work and then bailed out for the good stuff. Not the typical path a liar takes.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Is this cheating?
Posted: 9/2/2009 10:44:14 PM
His intuition was correct in not telling you he still talks to his ex(s). You found out and went off the deep end. Lying and not being forthwith aren't the same thing. When you are in a relationship do you go around telling the other person everything you can think of about yourself that they might not like? You don't wanna hear it but you're the one with security issues, his only issue is he likes a girl that is ridiculously jealous.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
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Is this cheating?
Posted: 9/2/2009 2:59:32 PM
Telling an ex girlfriend she is sexy is not cheating... not by a long shot. It's not even flirting. I think of my ex's like sisters and giving them a compliment has no loaded intentions other than letting them know I think they look nice or whatever. He's being honest and trustworthy and you're being a paranoid controlling insecure brat, at least that's my take.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Explain This One!
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:09:57 PM
Sounds like he's a social moron to me. Sounds like you are too, no offense. Why would you give him a second thought if he's not interested? Find someone who is interested and forget you ever met him.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
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Can someone explain the socks-with-sandals phenomenon?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:01:11 PM
It's a fashion taboo but what a European girl told me is that when she first arrived she thought, "wow, Canadian's have terrible fashion sense." but then after being here a while she started to like that Canadians are really relaxed as far as fashion goes and she never felt judged. Socks with sandals is more comfortable since you can get a chill in Canadian evenings even in the summer. The European girl even started wearing socks with sandals herself after being here a year.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Is size 14 really the average size for a woman in America?
Posted: 8/25/2009 6:52:02 PM
That's why I find average kinda misleading. In Canada also obesity is an issue and I think the average Canadian is overweight by a-few-extra-pounds.

However, since the site has the answer "a-few-extra-pounds" available I think the girl is just being dishonest if she puts size 34 waist down as "average." As a guy (and I think the same standards apply since we're in the same country) I put average to mean I'm not overweight but don't quite have a six pack so I think "athletic" might be a stretch.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
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single mum, not ready made family x
Posted: 8/25/2009 6:46:13 PM
Just to fulfill your whims? Some sorta boy toy.


Hey, some of us want to be a boy-toy.

To the OP, if a girl has kids it's almost an instant strike out for me. Mostly because one day I'd like to have kids.. not raise some other guys, but have my own. I think single dad's are much more accepting because they are in the same boat as you.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
imposssible climax
Posted: 8/20/2009 12:20:30 PM
You said you can only orgasm with your own hand, have your tried taking his hand in yours and using it to pleasure yourself? If you can get off like that, there are sexual positions you can use (sitting down, both facing the same way for example) where you can do that while having sex. Taking steps like this might eventually lead to you being able to orgasm without even helping his hand or even orgasm without his hand there at all one day.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 86 (view)
 
How do we Unlearn behavior?
Posted: 8/20/2009 11:22:05 AM
You are unlearning already. That is, you've already associated the unfavorable result with your actions and you going to start making better choices in the future. You say you're only interested in emotionally unavailable men but I suspect you are starting to be less so and eventually will be turned off by them as you will associate your past (and possible future) failed relationships with them. When you recognize a fault in yourself you want to change, the change automatically begins.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Where do you draw the line with people too busy to date?
Posted: 8/20/2009 11:07:07 AM

If she thinks you're worth anything, she'll make time for you. If she's already told you her life is going to be busy, then she's letting you know that thus far she doesn't think you're worth making time for.


Doubt that. Fact of the matter is that dating is just not the first priority of a single mom with three kids. I think the fact that she asks for patience is because that's what it would take to stick around while she is juggling work and motherhood.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
what's with the one sided conversations?
Posted: 8/20/2009 10:57:37 AM
They are likely getting 20 messages per day and replying to them all. As another user once wrote "women are like rock stars on the internet."
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Approaching ladies when out with their friends
Posted: 8/19/2009 6:44:48 PM
Always happy to get hints but I think I'd feel like I was still in high school if I asked her girlfriends for help.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Is sensuality acquired or are you born with it?
Posted: 8/18/2009 8:27:21 PM

Just another no picture person telling the picture people how to look better when they meet ...


My picture is up, not that I am welcoming a who's sexier contest... I was just being helpful in trying to answer the OP's question about how someone who isn't naturally sexy to become more so. If anything, I should take my own advice in that I'm the opposite of mr.cosmo, I don't pay attention to fashion and 1/2 the time I leave the house in a holey undershirt and bed head.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Is sensuality acquired or are you born with it?
Posted: 8/18/2009 6:49:53 PM
I think what the op is talking about is "sexy" not sensuality.

Girls who are graceful, dress nice, smell nice, etc, are sexy. I don't know how hard it is to learn later in life but I think most girls learn it in their teens.

I think it can be learned but I think it would be excruciating to learn later in life... I doubt this girl wants to start reading those girls magazines or have her friends over for makeover parties.

I think one way to start caring more about self image though is to put some extra mirrors up. Force yourself to be more in touch with what you look like.
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Need some advise on a new relationship / thing
Posted: 8/18/2009 6:25:10 PM
I think taking a break for a month might be a good idea and then try a fresh start after the rebound effect has worn off a bit.
 
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