Notice: Forums will be shutdown by June 2019

To focus on better serving our members, we've decided to shut down the POF forums.

While regular posting is now disabled, you can continue to view all threads until the end of June 2019. Event Hosts can still create and promote events while we work on a new and improved event creation service for you.

Thank you!

          

Show ALL Forums
Posted In Forum:

Home   login   MyForums  
 
 Author Thread: Would Anybody have sex if they met today on the net ?
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Would Anybody have sex if they met today on the net ?
Posted: 1/7/2013 12:53:43 PM
Certainly! If you both agree thats what you want why wait?
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 49 (view)
 
How does a woman become good in bed?
Posted: 1/6/2013 1:06:47 PM
(quote) I know what gets me off but most guys aren't willing to do it. I wish I could experience orgasm from more of a range of stimuli but I can't - I can only get it from oral. (/quote)
I am assuming he was one of the guys who was not willing to give you oral?
If that is the case HE was the one who was not doing enough for YOU! I find the best way to get a woman to respond favorably is to stimulate her the way she needs to be stimulated....after that everything just falls into sync without any concious effort from either one of you. In reading through the thread I have discovered you have already had one guy that did that for you. I am betting you never had any complaints from him! So my advice is find a guy who is willing to please YOU and the rest will take care of its self. It is as important that he pleases you as it id for you to please him.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
FWB dilemma
Posted: 12/26/2012 1:59:10 PM
(qoute) It's not fair to ask her to be sexual exclusive. That is for committed relationships. (/quote)

I agree, if you feel wierd about her having unprotected sex with another partner simply wear a condom when you have sex with her.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 171 (view)
 
Gangbang
Posted: 12/26/2012 1:11:10 PM
(quote)Could you imagine the last guy? He would need to tie a board to his ass just to keep from falling in. (/quote)

But how would you know if you havnt experienced it?
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Watching your partner have sex with someone else
Posted: 11/21/2011 10:10:22 AM
Sharing with others can be a great experience if all parties are comfortable with it.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 265 (view)
 
girls with high sex drive
Posted: 11/21/2011 10:07:49 AM
I love a woman with a high sex drive and I am not afraid to share them
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
why is my boyf communicating with his ex??
Posted: 12/10/2007 1:01:07 PM
First of all you are invading his privacy by going into his email acount behind his back.
Secondly if he is jealous about you its a sign that he is insecure.....maybee a perfect match for you???
First of all you need to work on your own insecurity then maybee move on and start fresh.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
do small chested girls have a chance?
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:53:48 PM
You have a chance, you are very beautiful.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 82 (view)
 
using a sex buddy for sperm?
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:50:48 PM
Ask him..If its OK with him then there is nothing horrible about it.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Are too many favorites a turn off?
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:41:21 PM
Not a turnoff for me but christi66 makes a very good point in post # 5 if there is no contact you can allways remove yourself
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
How to when you're on top....
Posted: 11/22/2007 10:25:01 AM
I dont think it means you are lazy at all. diffrent positions work better for diffrent folks. If you are with a guy that insists you be on top have him show you the best way to please him. The bottom with your legs wrapped tight around your partners waist is a great position, if you offered me that position I would not be complaining!!
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
He doesnt want oral from me..
Posted: 5/30/2007 12:39:01 AM
I cant beleive that most everybody who has posted thinks that every guy likes oral no exeptions.
I am like your boyfreind, I prefer giving oral to receiving it. If you wanted to relax me when I am stressed out I would much rather have you climb on top of me and sex me up then giving me oral.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Why is it when women are on top, it seems like men come almost immediately?
Posted: 2/26/2007 9:32:10 AM
I see some of the women who responed say it is doggie style for them. My theory is when your knees are bent (which they would be in both these positions) it tightens your **** up creating more sensation,thats why your guys cum faster......I find once I have cum the first time I can last much longer, maybee try another postion first, then get on top for the next round. I think you will find it makes a huge diffrence in his staying power if he has cum at least once in the 2-6 hours previous to your getting on top.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 133 (view)
 
guys who don't like blowjobs
Posted: 2/26/2007 9:17:33 AM
Javen2 makes a good point. You should not be surprised that he would rather give oral then receive since you feel the same way. I myself would rather give oral then receive it, I just enjoy the feel of a well prepared hot **** much more than somebody going down on me but thats just me.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 190 (view)
 
do women want 2 men? would many men be willing???
Posted: 2/3/2007 1:42:24 AM
Very good question, I am a third in a Polyamoruos relationship (Two guys one woman) and I have to tell you, the guys who say they could not participate with another guy present dont know what they are missing! The woman in my relationship has a very high sex drive and it is respected and truly a good thing for all of us involved. I say If you ever get a chance to try it with two guys that truly respect you you will not regret it.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
tell me what you think
Posted: 12/17/2006 12:41:07 PM
I am assuming you are asking what we think of you? your personality? I just responded to your "high sex drive" post so you allready know that I think that is a good thing.
you are a very pretty girl who shouldnt have any trouble finding a guy but by reading between the lines on your profile it seems you have been getting some nasty remarks from guys? If I was you I would just ignore those who dont have anything positive or intelligent to say to you because I am guessing they are not the kind you would want to have a relationship with anyway.
I think you should follow your instincts on others and let your heart lead the way but not to the extend that you relie soley on somebody else for your happiness because if they decide to move on for whatever reason you will be left reeling. best of luck to you.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Polyamory
Posted: 3/9/2006 12:06:27 PM
Thanks for the insight Poly Pal, you have a great way of getting your point across tactfully.
I wish could comunicate my thoughts as well as you can.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Questionable Occupations
Posted: 3/8/2006 10:55:01 AM
I would eccept it even if it was nude.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 3:52:59 PM
if he is a true fiend he would not consider you a hoe, he would respect you for sharing your passion with him.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Polyamory
Posted: 3/5/2006 9:29:50 PM
iwarrior said:
I don't think it's healthy. Based on what I've seen, the polyamorous relationship usually involves two people(both male or both female) loving one person of the opposite sex. The two people are only in love with that one person and they compete for that person's love. The one person being polyamored by two has an ego trip over it and gets off on the two other people competing for their attention and love. The two other people have low self-esteem.



I have been in a polyamory relationship and none of what you said reflects on my personal experience other than two males loving one female, love and respect all the way around.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
open/dating/polyamory relationships
Posted: 3/5/2006 7:53:34 PM
Thankyou sinnergirl for starting this thread, I believe that polyamory relations are more nateral then monogamous ones or there would not be so many people falling in love with others when they are not suposed to. I dont beleive that society in general is willing to accept polyamoly because they feel its wrong to love more than one person at a time. I would also like to thank polly_freind for the links she shared with us. keep spreading the love!!!
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Polyamory
Posted: 3/5/2006 7:32:08 PM
Ms Ali, thanks for bringing the subject up, it is quite clear from reading other members posts on the subject that they do not have a clear understanding of the polyamory that you and I embrace.
I have known for years that it is possible to love and respect more then one person at the same time and to treat all as an equal.
In my opinion polyamory is more natural then monogamy which causes so much conflict and confussion when those who practice it (cause they are taught from childhood its the only way) step outside the rules of whats established by society to be OK.

for those of you who are wondering if she made this word up or otherwise dont understand the true meaning of it, type it into a search engine ie google or altavista sometime and research it with an open mind, you may be surprised at how realistic it really is of course bearing in mind that its not for everybody.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Are you threatened by a Bi girlfriend?
Posted: 3/5/2006 3:50:40 PM
I would welcome it and would want her to share her experiences with me. I think the "she oviously hasnt met a guy like me" attitude is wrong. my take if it makes her happy go for it, it doesnt matter who is making her happy, Im just happy that she is adventurous enough to follow her needs.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 95 (view)
 
socks on or off?
Posted: 2/28/2006 6:25:19 PM
off, I dont recall ever not having time to get toally nude
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
afterwards
Posted: 2/28/2006 4:44:12 PM
I havnt but have been with a woman who did, just an emotinal release.......
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Would you date an ex-con???
Posted: 2/27/2006 6:50:30 PM
Wow!! folks in this forum sure do know how to judge, I say if he has paid his debt to society he deserves another chance untill he proves otherwise. I Bet you run into people on any given week who have a clean record that are more wicked then he is, just because somdody has a clean record does not make them a saint.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
wants to be a sex queen (then is to shy)
Posted: 2/26/2006 8:02:53 PM
medic6996, Wow!! your post is really conflicting with your profile but if you really want to follow through with your post send me a message and tell me so. I only live half an hour away from you depends where in Calgary you live and I am willing to help you work on your shyness. I am very sensative to others needs and will take as much time as you need to feel comfortable with me, you dont have to worry about my reaction to your request because I have read your post and I allready know about your fantasies and how you are not sure you can go through with them but I am here offering to discuss them if you give me a chance.
See? that was not so hard was it? the balls in your court now.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 57 (view)
 
threesomes advice please
Posted: 2/26/2006 7:13:04 PM
bobpops wrote: i know this sounds terrible but the only way a man will not have problems with a threesome is if the the 3rd party is a woman. also, you must ask yourself, if i want to have sex with someone else, do i really love my husband?

speak for yourself bobpops, I have been involed in a MFM 3 some and it was very exelerating for all three of us, I wish my wife was open minded enough I would love try it with her and have absaloutly no hesatations about it.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
A Threesome Relationship?????
Posted: 2/26/2006 6:46:44 PM
aman442 wrote: The funny thing is that I broke up with one of them because on the nights I was with the other, she was cheating on me with a guy named Carry.

but why should you expect her to be monogamous to you if you were not for her?
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Is It Wrong To Misrepresent Yourself In Order To Get Laid?
Posted: 2/26/2006 2:07:49 PM
I feel it's wrong to missreprsent your self for any reason.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Threesomes gone wrong
Posted: 2/26/2006 2:01:30 PM
sounds to me like girl # 1 gave up to quickly, afterall it was HER place and the guy aranged to go there with HER, The guys ***k was not the only thing she could have focused on.
With all that said it does not sound like it was very well planned, when I think of FMF action I see the two girls pleasing each other with the guy joining in ocasionally since one guy being the sole pleaser of both women is not going to last to long.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
A Threesome Relationship?????
Posted: 2/26/2006 1:07:09 PM
**Cresent** was your sexual relationship a factor in the "fallout" or was it somthing else?
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
A Threesome Relationship?????
Posted: 2/26/2006 1:03:33 PM
you mean three people living together and being monogomous amongst each other? dont know, never tried it but three people participating in sex at the same time may be more comon than you think, lots of folks may not admit to it because it is considered taboo by many but I have participated in a threesome that was mutually enjoyed by all three of us and we all agreed that it was better then sex between two could ever be. I say dont knock it till you've tried it.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Public nudity....
Posted: 2/26/2006 10:48:27 AM
I think public nudity is great in an area designated for it..streaking? fun to watch but i wouldnt have the nerve..... I have had sex in a public place meaning places where we COULD have been seen and found it quit exiting
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
does anyone here have to be aroused alot before having sex?
Posted: 2/26/2006 9:29:13 AM
for me it depends on the woman Im with.
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Could you let your girlfriend/boyfriend be bi-sexual
Posted: 2/24/2006 6:47:25 PM
I would be absaloutly open too it, I dont think its sick just personal prefrence
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
I Will Try To Help
Posted: 2/24/2006 2:24:19 PM
Thanks for your help
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
I Will Try To Help
Posted: 2/23/2006 6:06:22 PM
Thanks for your tips. I made some changes hope this clears it up
 dreamer3269
Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
I Will Try To Help
Posted: 2/22/2006 10:34:46 AM
Hi there fellow Canadian!! could you please rate mine?
 
Show ALL Forums