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 Author Thread: Minutes or hours? How long should it last?
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Minutes or hours? How long should it last?
Posted: 7/28/2012 4:02:31 PM
part of good sex is knowing when to stop!
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Near our breaking point.
Posted: 7/26/2012 10:19:04 PM
to be or not to be. lol...
you must be real stupid not to marry this girl. what are you afraid of? if you cant even move in with her after 3 years then it wont work. everything else may be good but if thats a problem then yall need to break up and move on. sounds like you guys need to talk about what the real problem is and saying that you dont know what the real problem is, is bs. im with the woman. dude you need to man up or move on! simple as that.
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
What men do
Posted: 7/26/2012 1:15:02 PM
It depends on what type of crazy we are talking about. great sex will trump crazy as long as we continue to get the great sex. the relationship will last for as long as she can stay in the bedroom.
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Is it OK to suddenly not wanting to be with anyone?
Posted: 7/18/2012 4:52:59 PM
it is ok with suddenly not want to be with anyone.

anyone looking for love will not find it because no one knows what the hell they are looking for. the best thing you can do is find out what you dont want and that will weed out a lot of people. but usually when we find out what we dont want it is because we are depressed from the previous relationship. then we aim to change...err.. better ourselves and you become content with the new you or the old you. some people just move on to the next person and start the cycle all over again.
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Girlfriend's wild past eating me alive, HELP!
Posted: 7/18/2012 4:36:34 PM
men fall in love with prostitutes an strippers but it all falls apart when they realize they are prostitutes and strippers. they are nice women thats part of the act. im not saying your women is a prostitute, but of course, she is going to be nice, i havent met a slut thats not nice. i do believe people can change but they have to change first before you can accept that. womens sex numbers are usually higher than men's. the real number that is. whatever a woman tells you, take it and multiply it by 5.
this will eat you up the whole time your with her.
btw. why cant i find a woman that likes women too?
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Guys- kiss after oral foreplay?
Posted: 7/18/2012 2:19:30 PM
as long as its not a one-night stand type of woman.
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Best Condoms
Posted: 7/17/2012 1:43:57 PM
trojan. anything with spermicide.
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
playing hard to get
Posted: 7/16/2012 5:36:20 PM
define your relationship with him. try to get to know him better. if he doesnt have another woman, he just may be scared of a relationship. when women play that game with me i just do whatever it takes to make them talk about anything. you would be surprised how much people can tell you what you want to know without them knowing it. what im trying to say is dont try to make your conversation about your relationship. make it about whatever he is into and you will find out what it takes to make him open up.
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Vibrators and Orgasms
Posted: 7/16/2012 5:17:32 PM
most women that i know that usually dont cum from actual sex what i do is play with it while your having sex. i have a couple other tricks but if i share those then they wouldnt be my tricks. but from what i learned about women, some have orgasms from their clit and some have them from penetration. if you have orgasms from the clit then either your self or your partner should "strum the guitar" while having sex. its always good to tell your partner what you like and dont like. just be nice about it.
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Virgin at 24
Posted: 7/16/2012 5:10:15 PM
go for it. unless your waiting on marriage.
if your just scared then do everything else first. self pleasure is always good. get some toys. round the bases. do oral on each other. rent some porn. have an orgasm before you have actual sex!
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 30 (view)
 
he says he wants more, but doesnt show it?
Posted: 7/16/2012 4:34:37 PM
renay. you will understand about the "immature" comments when you get older. they werent trying to be negative towards you they were just speaking from experience. i did some things when i was a teenager and i can honestly look back and say that i was stupid or immature. its just how life goes, so dont take it personal.

yes, dump that dude. i would personally make him look like a fool. you know, play him. whatever you do, just dont let him talk. if he calls dont answer. if he emails or txts, delete it. ...a car? having sex in a car more than once is never a good thing. you can have sex with plenty of guys and even the scumbags will treat you better than he has. if you ever get into a relationship and you feel that your not getting anything out of it... find a exit strategy.

no offense, but it does sound like you confused sex with love. most of us have, more than once. when you do fall in love you will find that out. good luck to you. and if you need help making him look like a fool, hit me up.
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 157 (view)
 
Hooked on having a FWB?
Posted: 7/16/2012 3:57:14 PM
i do want to add that people dont just have fwb relationships to avoid commitment. when you say that your bf/gf there is a general set of rules (or commitment) that is only defined by society. when you have a fwb you guys make the rules of the commitment. good thing is, just making the rules tells you a lot about the other person (if you pay attention).
 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 156 (view)
 
Hooked on having a FWB?
Posted: 7/16/2012 3:47:42 PM
FWB is great. just about everyone i read is correct. but what you guys have to understand is that in a fwb you guys make the rules. its not just about sex unless you want it that way. if any of you have had a relationship that didnt last and you were having sex during that relationship, what makes it any different than a fwb. i will tell you what, you were probably depressed afterwards. there are different types of fwb relationships and as long as you guys define the rules as you go, both of you will be happy. and yes, i have seen them turn into more than fwb. seems like when people hear fwb they focus in on the benefits part and not the friends. but really a marriage should be friends with benefits if you think about it. lol
 
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