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 Author Thread: How do men feel about women with silver hair?
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 227 (view)
 
How do men feel about women with silver hair?
Posted: 8/26/2011 11:02:10 AM
It's actually sexy on some women, and I don't really have a problems with it. I think hair styling is more important than color. I notice a lot of older women cutting their hair too short to look almost like a man's haircut. This only looks good on some women, but not most. Most probably do it for ease of care, but maybe they should reconsider.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Confused about You're too old for me responses from women
Posted: 8/26/2011 10:55:09 AM
I know plenty of women who date men 5+ years older than themselves. Whoever said that went out a century ago is misinformed.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 59 (view)
 
What do they see when they look in the mirror?
Posted: 6/30/2011 7:20:10 PM
[jamtart27 =are we not told by all the style gurus to think positive and play up our good points? ignore the wrinkles put on your rose coloured specs and stop worrying and if someone points them out to you shame on them for not having more in their life. whats wrong with knocking off a couple of years if it makes you feel better or adding a few years if it makes people think you look good for your age ( does anyone actually do this)]
No, I actually tell the truth in my profile. I'm afraid if I don't, I'll end up getting someone I don't want. Looking in mirrors, I don't see any wrinkles but I do see about 5-10 lbs I should lose.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 220 (view)
 
45+ men and fashion
Posted: 6/30/2011 7:07:49 PM
Painting with a mighty broad brush there. You see a couple men at the mall poorly dressed, and voila all men need to shape up.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
SUGGESTION: Track how many times a user has unread/deleted emails
Posted: 3/9/2010 3:45:15 PM
You know Cannesgirl, I hear you. However you have to understand that the men are doing most of the work. I mean let's face it, who is chasing whom? You walk into the supermarket and get to throw whatever fancies your attention into your basket...pretty easy. We have to make and place the product on the shelf. Now I doubt all women are like you, and some like to play their ego games online. Something is needed to level the playing field. Many of the ones who don't want players, or those looking for sex are the same one's who are flashing their racks and bikinis in their profiles. So we have a mixed message thing going. I think you can understand that.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Chemistry matches along with user selected preferences?
Posted: 3/9/2010 3:18:31 PM
I asked once about having the chemistry value placed in the profiles, which would be simple. Haven't seen it happen. I'd like to know how they arrive at chemistry. Met someone that was 100%, and it didn't seem that way.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Criteria: Heavy Drinkers
Posted: 3/9/2010 3:16:21 PM
Three drinks or more a week doesn't make an alcoholic. That would mean everyone in Europe is an alcoholic.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 977 (view)
 
why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 3/9/2010 2:49:04 PM
Lil hippie, before you judge men, go check your photos out and tell us what your intentions are by showing off your legs, and putting out that lil sexy look. I suppose plutonic in nature, eh? So while you show off the bait purposefully, you judge the men who want to enjoy it.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Why is Virginia Beach so boring!
Posted: 3/5/2010 1:46:36 PM
I wouldn't say it's boring, but it's a fair drive from the Peninsula. If it weren't for the HRBT, I would likely drive there more often.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
New Eharmony Post, Wait til you read this!!!
Posted: 3/5/2010 1:41:39 PM
Commercials cost money.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 172 (view)
 
Dating in Your 50's - Is It Tough?
Posted: 2/28/2010 6:09:21 PM
Cool dog, Miami.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 169 (view)
 
Dating in Your 50's - Is It Tough?
Posted: 2/28/2010 10:36:00 AM

I'm a quick study and a good judge of character--but my dates have left me thinking there are simply not any normal, ethical, smart, financially solvent men over 50 out there.


Vintageblonde, I looked at your profile. Where did you get that glamour shot photo? I'll bet it took you hours to get ready for it, which you undoubtably do for your dates, right? Your "good" judge of character has apparently failed you and brought you some bums, which is likely a reflection of yourself. So maybe you shouldn't be spreading that outrageousness perspective of yours around here as though it's gospel. It's not gospel and not every man is like you say. Making excuses later for your extreme opinion doesn't change the fact that that's how you feel and think.


They just don't tell you the unflattering things at first.


I didn't see you volunteer anything negative about yourself in your profile. You need to step up, don't you think if you're going to complain about the men you've met?
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 213 (view)
 
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 2/27/2010 5:42:25 PM
Ted, you're doing wrong. Ladies, if you're very wealthy, send me your email address. j/k
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 120 (view)
 
Girls: do you let a guy cum inside you? Or always with a wrapped tool?
Posted: 2/27/2010 5:21:35 PM
I love see people that are educated about this stuff. Nice post Kaylie.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 342 (view)
 
The shaving craze
Posted: 2/27/2010 5:04:11 PM
I never thought about decorating it. That's a new one.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Learning to not go for the Assholes
Posted: 2/25/2010 4:38:45 PM
I know what you mean brother, and I think you've described something more than a theory. The woman that you've described will probably be the first to criticize your theory.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
First Date Test: How to tell it's thirty minutes?
Posted: 2/25/2010 4:30:44 PM
I guess I'm ignorant, I just don't think about using trickery on a date. I can't remember going on a date where I couldn't stand the other person so much that I had to have a way to check out after 30 minutes. It's just not me. It's sounds rather childish and cowardly to me anyway.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 272 (view)
 
short women/tall men
Posted: 2/25/2010 4:24:31 PM
I find that there is little choice for tall men, since there are so few tall women. Most of the women I come across are less than 5'5". I'm not complaining, because it's not that important, but taller is kind of cool for some reason. I think being proportionate is more important than height.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 193 (view)
 
Disappearing Act - How Did You Feel?
Posted: 2/25/2010 4:04:51 PM
This doesn't just happen after a couple of dates, it happens right here after some amiable message exchanges. People just poof.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 503 (view)
 
Is sex as important to you as it once was?
Posted: 2/16/2010 2:31:09 PM
Yup, just as important as it always was.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 40 (view)
 
what's with women going to the toy box instead of the real thing
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:16:50 PM
Awesome question OP. Great way to bring out the bitter ones, with their put downs and pithy answers. I'm amazed when I read some of the answers the some women give, and then read their profiles. The bitter and mean-spirited ones are usually the first to the scene to try and put you in your place. It never fails.

 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Things I have experienced that are unpleasant when meeting someone...
Posted: 7/23/2009 3:46:01 PM
OP, your problem is your own profile. Good luck.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Define your terms, separated or just in another room
Posted: 7/23/2009 3:35:59 PM

"You want to stop by my house? You want to meet my kids? You want to meet my ex? "

Sorry, I don't want to be dragging into that ongoing drama. I have tried giving it my best try many times, and again and again, the baggage/drama is more than I want to be part of. Granted people won't drop their children nor should they, but until they are grown many people may not want to be part of that ongoing situation.

"If they had been separated for five years before the divorce, do they need time to get past it? "

Unfortunately, many people never get past it. They either hold grudges for the rest of their lives which they transfer to each new partner, or they have no trust for the opposite sex in general which makes them unavailable emotionally.

I watched my parents for decades (yes decades, they died still separted, after separting when I was a teen) refuse to deal with a divorce letting the feeling for each other fester year in and year out so that eventually it ruled their future as well as their past.

The poor women who was my fathers gf for more than 20 years had to put up with all the whining. I wouldn't have started dating him in the first place.

I don't care if someone is never married, separated, divorced or widowed, if they haven't come to terms with their past issues and moved on to create a stable single lifestyle they won't be dating me. Anyone who dates them does so at their own risk.

Transitional relationship..............pass.

"I think people separated or those recently divorced have much to offer. The relationship skills learned from years of compromise and negotiation are still fresh and not clouded over with the cobwebs of autonomy. "

Sadly some my buy the above statement. Get serious......... if you had relationship skills you wouldn't have become separated.

Are you on some kind of crusade or something? If you don't want to date someone separated then don't. Maybe you're still around here because of your lack of relationship skills. And if you're in a relationship, maybe you ought to go pay some attention to it. You bitterness is a real turn off to people trying to learn something here. And speaking of holding grudges, sure looks like you might have issues. Sorry, but I call it like I see it....like you do.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Spill the beans...What makes you a freak in bed?
Posted: 7/17/2009 6:35:49 PM
Hey bunny28, you knockers are falling out of your avatar.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
trust
Posted: 7/17/2009 6:23:36 PM
Robert....say good bye to her today! I mean it, don't put yourself through a relationship like that. I hear what you're saying, but you have to leave. You WILL be miserable, if not today in time you will. Let her go, NOW.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 262 (view)
 
Hello
Posted: 7/17/2009 6:13:25 PM
Hi, I'm Bryan. Been on the forum for just a little while, but just found this one for Va. I hope to meet someone compatible in my area.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How many Women out here Love SEX?
Posted: 7/15/2009 7:03:19 PM

vanbunny - Hey
well from my point of view from hearing and talking and being in ltr myself, is most women who are attracted to thier significant other are usually very sexually active with thier partner. There is absolutly nothing wrong with a healthy sexual lifestyle. I believe it brings a couple closer together to be able to share that intimiacy. I also believe that couples who lose there "spark" are alot more likly to cheat, become annoyed with the other and I believe that it tears people apart and I also believe that alot of reason for divorce is that people seem to spend more time fighting then love making and spending that intimate time together. everyone has busy schedules everyone has stress everyone normally ends up with children but I dont believe for any of these reasons to be a excuse not to have that intimatcy with eachother. Its funny if you think about it people will rather go to couples councelling instead of jumping in bed and gettin dirty. I believe jumpin in bed and reflaming that old spark would probably do alot better then talking to someone about not having that spark..... Don't you?.... so all i have to say is good for you to be able to show your partner that you are still attracted to them as its a confidence boost for everyone... and YES there are plenty of women like you ....and Yes there are plenty who aren't.....

Smartest thing I've ever heard from a 20 year old. Very perceptive.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Older Guy
Posted: 7/14/2009 7:07:43 PM
I wouldn't be interested in an 18 year old. For one thing my daughter is older than that. Secondly, what would we have beside great sex, not that great sex is bad. But you can't be in bed 24/7. We wouldn't have anything else in common, maybe not even the same version of the English language. And she probably wants children one day, which I'm done with. It would be negligence on my part.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 190 (view)
 
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 7/12/2009 12:24:01 PM
Cher needs to correct the age in her profile.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Problems with the finish.
Posted: 7/12/2009 5:38:28 AM

Have you covered it in cream and plastic wrap yet? lol


Could you be anymore childish, probably. Could you just leave the thread, this is for adults.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Daily Beer Drinking
Posted: 7/11/2009 1:44:44 PM
Well maybe you should have made that clear. That's not the way it came across to me. It sounded like you married up an alcoholic and then had five kids.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Daily Beer Drinking
Posted: 7/11/2009 4:48:54 AM
jlc, you made a lot of dumb decisions, like have 5 children with a known alcoholic. Then you blame him for everything. What about you?
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 68 (view)
 
How Good Do You Have To Be To Get Into Heaven?
Posted: 7/10/2009 7:20:38 PM

I've been told that I won't go to Heaven unless I'm a good person. So just HOW good do I have to be in order to just barely get into Heaven? (Any EXTRA "goodness" on my part would be a waste of effort. )

Similarly, how BAD can I be and still NOT go to "the other place"?

Well MISTER LOGIC, have you read the Bible to find out? Don't you think that what you were told was rather shallow, and deserved more research to confirm? So either you are trolling, or too lazy to dig into the Bible yourself to find the answer.

The answer is a single word, you figure it out.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
How long can the earth, or mankind last ?
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:44:50 PM

I find it very annoying that 'somebody' has to inject their religious crap into every single discussion here. Geez...give it a rest! This is the 'science/philosophy' forum...not bible study class or the religion forum. I believe that any talk of god or religion is off topic in this forum according to these definitions.
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---> Philosophy is the study of general and fundamental problems concerning matters such as existence, knowledge, truth, beauty, law, justice, validity, mind, and language. Philosophy is distinguished from other ways of addressing these questions (such as mysticism or mythology) by its critical, generally systematic approach and its reliance on reasoned argument. The word is of Greek origin: φιλοσοφία, philosophía, "love of wisdom".

---> Science (from the Latin scientia, meaning "knowledge") refers to any systematic knowledge-base or prescriptive practice that is capable of resulting in a prediction or predictable type of outcome. In its more restricted contemporary sense, science refers to a system of acquiring knowledge based on scientific method, and to the organized body of knowledge gained through such research.
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To the topic at hand, I'm quite sure the planet will survive until it is swallowed up by the sun. As for humans, in the long term, if we dedicate enough resources to the most important endeavor, which to my mind is space exploration, there's no reason to think that mankind can't survive well beyond the expiration of Earth...in some form.


You just demonstrated your own ignorance with you own post. Religion is philosophical. Since you obviously haven't read the Bible, you wouldn't know how much wisdom, and expression of love for wisdom it contains. BTW, she can discuss her religious beliefs in here if she wants to.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Is a world revolution inevitable ?
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:34:51 PM

Over the past few years the concept of politics has been troubling me.

Why do we really need to elect a group of beaurocrats that upon advertisement, we think closest interpret our thoughts onto statutes and laws?

Why can't I vote on what effects me directly? An argument from someone could be that due to other commitments and time, they would prefer someone else to make those important choices for them, but I am still left begging the question what about me? What about my choices on each and every issue that concerns me?

At first I would doubt my argument by classing it as selfish, but the more I think about it, the more I understand that the disillusionment is amongst nearly everybody I meet. The inherent struggle I would describe as utopia and collective freedom vs. dystopia and superfluous freedom; imposed choices by a few.

The last thing I would prescribe is to riot for your freedom, as through past the the term of instability it would most definitely cause, at best the vacuum of power would only bring forward a different set of disguises. Things must evolve via current local constitutional rules.

When you think something is wrong or not quite right, do you not act on it to make the correction?

"One day one will be many, and everyone will stand up and offer people true freedom, they will dispense with choices imposed by the few."(...sir, would you like any pickle with your cheese?)

Why can't we not only vote on each law, but even collectively dictate the law to be debated by secure encrypted e-mail? Why not by phone or text?

I think therefore I am? No, I think, I act, I make decisions, I choose; therefore I am.

I am not a socialist, not a conservative or of middle way, I am an individual and so are the other 6,763,556,999 people on this globe. Stand up and defend your right of being, of collective choice...think, act, decide, choose....live

With time, is a worldwide revolution inevitable ? We are ever increasingly collectively uprising against many forms of oppression... will we ever see an uprise against politics itself?

A simplified version of the above would be:
If politics is an oppression, and all oppressions have eventually lead to revolution, how long will it be before we experience a true political revolution?

The Founder of the United States studied all that and found that history proved that pure democracy doesn't work. They setup a republican form of government in which the people would send representatives to speak on their behalf. As one of the youngest countries on earth, we have one of the oldest governments on earth. List the countries that you know of that have had the same government for 240 years? Good luck.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Travelling faster than the speed of light..
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:23:51 PM
Where are the ladies? This is the first thread I've been in without any ladies.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Honesty in search
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:51:15 PM
Read my profile, it's the truth and I say what I'm looking for. Appearance is important, not everything, but important nonetheless.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
just gave up
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:40:38 PM
Not all women, but many obviously don't realize the effort that many men put into this, simply because men do the chasing and women do the choosing. Many don't understand the constant rejection faced by most of us after sending out hundreds of emails on various sites trying to get someone to respond and just at least exchange some emails. I can't tell you the number of times I've seen women post how they get hundreds of emails a week. How many of you men here (and be honest) get hundreds of emails a week? How about a hundreds over six months? How about ten in a week...how about one in a week? How many of you pay for your membership? I know I usually do, occasionally I don't. You know how many times I've seen woman admit in their profiles (on various sites) that they don't have a paid membership? Now I've gotten some replies on this site from some nice ladies, but nothing promising yet. We'll see.

In general I don't know the answer, but something just doesn't seem right or just.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Is inexperience likely to put you off a man?
Posted: 7/10/2009 3:53:03 PM
Astrophil, just tell all your females friends this. They'll be fighting over the chance to get you hook-up with someone. Women are all about relationships, and love the intricacies of that stuff. Let them work their magic on you. All you have to do is make yourself look presentable. Dump the geek clothes and get your hair cut.

 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 185 (view)
 
Breast Augmentation over 45
Posted: 7/10/2009 3:33:48 PM
I'm not into breast augmentation. But if she wants to..... Honestly, I would never ask my woman to do something like that. God made her the way she is, and some things can't be controlled. Fitness, weight, and health can, but not genetics.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 113 (view)
 
How far would you travel for a love affair?
Posted: 7/10/2009 3:30:40 PM
When I was really young I drove 40 miles each way to see my girl friend; of course she made it worth it.

Msg 17: So you're the one I saw standing at the corner. But I just don't do that. j/k
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 501 (view)
 
Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married?
Posted: 7/10/2009 3:25:10 PM
Msg 640, you're too funny.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Do Women Know If She Will Sleep With You In 10 Secondes?
Posted: 7/10/2009 3:07:25 PM
I guess we can now conclude beyond a shadow of a doubt that women actually do think with their vaginas when first meeting a man. So when a women tells you that you think with your penis, let her know she's a hypocrite.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 7/10/2009 2:49:38 PM
Amount of time doesn't matter, number of times does.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Poll for the guys, smell and taste of a woman's special part versus age
Posted: 7/10/2009 2:46:24 PM
After 22 year marriage, I can tell you, no change.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
how long should youdate before you know if this is the one for you
Posted: 7/9/2009 2:00:52 PM

i have been exclusive for 18 months.
he says he loves me etc etc. but does not want to talk about marriage. period
but i do...i want to find someone who loves me and i love and who wants to build our lives together. how long do i wait for my b.f. to want to be more than b.f. g.f?
he admitted he likes it this way and might not want it to change....
i love him..
should i just move on/???
i dont want to get back into the dating scene again. but i also would rather do it now than in 5 or 10 yrs or months.

help..
and why does he get so annoyed when i bring up the subject? he says that it will have to be him who brings it up...but maybe he never will.

Well kailania, somehow I think you already know the answer to a large extent. You need to ask him point blank, if he wants to marry or not someday. If he doesn't answer satsfactorially, then tell him you will walk if you don't get a plain yes or no. If he says yes, then ask him what he needs to determine a schedule. He might be concerned about another marriage, if the previous one failed. I don't know. Best wishes.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Using a phone during sex? Is this really bad?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:48:21 PM
It was wrong, period.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Foul language in profiles
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:46:06 PM
Foul language doesn't belong in a profile.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Are women who don't need men likely to ever find one and be happy?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:18:17 PM
I think a lot of this is word play and pride. 'Need', 'want', etc... some people don't want anyone to think they have a dependent bone in their body. So they don't need anyone, or are trying to prove they can live/survive without someone. Whatever, I'll admit I need a woman, otherwise I wouldn't be here. When your shoes wear out, do you say you need a new pair, or do you say you want a knew pair; then go barefooted to prove you just want them? Sure I can 'survive' without a woman, but survive is barely making it. I'd rather do more than just survive.
 vapeninsula
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Making Love Outdoors - At One With Nature
Posted: 7/8/2009 7:25:45 PM
Yeah, I've done it.
 
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