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 Author Thread: Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
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Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/3/2013 11:16:26 AM
Be_enchanted I am very vocal about what I like and don't like and really appreciate the same from my partner. I'm just amazed at times the lack of knowledge. Maybe it's just that they have had poor partners in the past
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
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Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/3/2013 11:06:15 AM
I ask the same question when I encounter women that don't have any skill at giving a blowjob. How can they go through life without realizing how inept they are? There is just too much information out there on how to for one not to know or learn new techniques (or tried and true methods). It's a deal breaker if she won't give oral!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 166 (view)
 
Male Multiple Orgasm
Posted: 2/3/2013 8:20:02 AM
I have experienced it before but usually it's with a new partner. Something about how exciting it is in the begining that makes me able to respond quicker and more often. If it settles into a routine relationship then three ejaculations would be pushing it.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 267 (view)
 
Penis Names
Posted: 12/27/2012 2:00:04 PM
Bighead Mushroom
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Do guys still believe in the 3rd date rule???
Posted: 12/21/2012 6:18:00 AM
My rule of thumb is the first date and most of the dates I've had from POF confirm that rule.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Bareback Sex!
Posted: 12/19/2012 11:45:08 AM
I prefer not to wear a scuba suit. There is no doubt that it feels so much better going bare but until I'm sure you're clean my mans suiting up!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 155 (view)
 
INCREASED sex drive for women in their 40's
Posted: 12/19/2012 8:35:27 AM
Thank God for women in their forties!!! It's nice to be rode hard and put to bed wet...
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Step Brother/Sister = Sexual Gratification? Is it wrong???
Posted: 12/18/2012 2:44:14 PM
Perfectly fine to do. I live down South....if she ain't good enough for family, she ain't good enough for no one.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 193 (view)
 
but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows?
Posted: 12/14/2012 5:19:51 PM
I neevr thought of it that way Brandywine2012. I think I will start interviewing more candidates for the "job" Hopefully they will be very adept at****tation
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Injuries During Sex
Posted: 12/8/2012 10:08:19 AM
In a frenzy of passionate (or wild) sex I inadvertenly pulled out to far. When I thrust myself back in I slipped and missed and bent the shaft in a very ackward position. Sore but finishing the deed nothing seemed to be wrong. When I awoke the next day I had a lump on the side of my shaft the size of a marble. Freaking out I paid a visit to my physician. During the exam process she let out a little chuckle and proceeded to ask if I had sex lately. I told her what happened and she laughed again, and said....be gentle next time. Don't try and break it off. What you have is a hematoma and should disappear within a few days. I'm glad my doctor enjoyed my pain!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
dirty talk
Posted: 12/6/2012 3:07:40 PM
^^^ Accabella reading your post give me an erection!!!!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 268 (view)
 
Penis Pride
Posted: 12/4/2012 6:50:47 PM
^^^bella rf I'm only 9 inches and not at all good in or out of bed. I hate talking about it....
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Guys mentioning sex too soon
Posted: 12/3/2012 7:39:33 AM
Love notes ^^^ The title of this forum is: sex AND dating not sex OR dating. There are other forums on here that deal with just dating issues. I see this forum as a platform to discuss sex and dating issues together. Not as separate issues That to me means that sex is part of dating dance. So as far as I'm concerned if you can't talk about sex early on, then you aren't someone that's going to be of interest to me. To each their own view. Next.....
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Guys mentioning sex too soon
Posted: 12/3/2012 6:23:14 AM
3ffervescent.....only if it had graphic pictures lol
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Guys mentioning sex too soon
Posted: 12/2/2012 6:34:33 AM
If she can't talk about sex then I don't want to have anything to do with her. It's funny reading all the comments from women who say its such a turn off. That's just plain BS or a shield to hide behind. It's like the statement women give "I don't usually have sex on the first date" I wish I had a dollar for every time I heard that! Admit it, they are just as curious about having sex as we are. They just don't want to be called sluts for doing so. It's natural. Who wants a sexless realtionship?
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 58 (view)
 
The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/30/2012 5:10:08 PM
lol...that made me think of strawberry yogurt ^^^ (I keep fruit on hand for a reason!!!)
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/28/2012 2:42:14 PM
^^^ ha ha ha.... It doesn't matter to me whether she swallows or spits as long as she will suck it.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 49 (view)
 
First time having sex, anyone ever do something that made you go, WTF!?
Posted: 11/27/2012 7:26:03 AM
Thats really sad if he didnt know he was in and had to ask. I be that was a WTF moment lol
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 40 (view)
 
How soon is too soon for SEX
Posted: 11/26/2012 4:58:09 PM
If anything,men like sexual women and some even like them forward.

Yes, please!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 11/26/2012 11:16:14 AM
theres nothing wrong with a little finger action on the clit during penetration either...
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
is masturbation or porn cheating
Posted: 11/26/2012 7:29:41 AM
Where are my glasses?
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
is masturbation or porn cheating
Posted: 11/26/2012 5:56:57 AM
I agree ^^^

I masturbate almost daily without any recourse or remorse. Nothing can replace the feelings of a partner but when I feel the need I'm not going to chase her down or find a hook-up just to get relief. Hey, try mutual masturbation with your SO. It will give you an idea of how to pleasure them. I think more people masturbate then will admit it. Theres that stigma that "your go blind" if you play with yourself. lol My God, grow up and enjoy your body. If it feels good, do it!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 172 (view)
 
Big vaginas-fact or fallacy?
Posted: 11/24/2012 6:19:22 AM
Fact! That's why they make poligrip for use as a backup lube...
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Woman doesn't like penis's and semen, would you date her?
Posted: 11/22/2012 4:47:24 PM
I'd have to say hell no...
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 333 (view)
 
Hair pulling during doggystyle
Posted: 11/22/2012 1:45:03 PM
I am so glad some women enoy it. Long hair is a turn on. Thank God for women like FancyFace4u and Christy!!!!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Bareback Sex!
Posted: 11/21/2012 6:45:46 AM
^^^ Where can I adopt a bullie?
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Strangest Places
Posted: 11/20/2012 5:42:10 AM
The strangest place for me was a stall in the womens room at a local bar. My favorite was a 4th floor balcony. She held onto the rail. I flipped her skirt up to her back and took her from behind while we watched people walking down below. What a rush of being caught
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Best Condoms
Posted: 11/18/2012 6:15:12 AM
I just learned something. Thanks Bebedeleau! I didn't know this "Trojan Magnums are the same length as regular Trojan condoms, they do have a slightly larger girth." My thinking on the magnums was for length and not girth which is something I have struggled with using regular condoms.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Women receiving oral slutty/selfish?
Posted: 11/17/2012 1:18:50 PM
I didn't know that was your Aunt.....
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 240 (view)
 
Penis Pride
Posted: 11/17/2012 1:14:46 PM
^^^ You ARE very attractive....
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
mens bulges
Posted: 11/13/2012 9:38:04 AM
^^^ I need a hug lol
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
mens bulges
Posted: 11/13/2012 8:09:17 AM
What's wrong with revealing a bulge? Maybe they won't admit it but women do look.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 698 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 10/31/2012 11:29:23 AM
^^^ it is a wonderful experience isn't it? It's such an unexpected pleasant surprise that drives me over the edge
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 125 (view)
 
Penis Pride
Posted: 10/25/2012 8:49:57 AM
Have him send a picture next time...lol ^^^
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Oral better then sex?
Posted: 10/9/2012 10:29:31 AM
^^^^ that sucks lol
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Religion and sex....
Posted: 10/8/2012 2:01:14 PM
I dated a good "Catholic" girl for several years. Mass every Sunday. She was adamant we couldn't live together if we weren't married. She would wake me up at 4am and send me home. Another quirk of her religion was contraceptives. They were forbidden for procreation reasons. She would not have sex if I wore them. I still laugh at how her religious views played into our sex life. It didn't make a bit of sense to me. The whole idea of sex only within the confines of marriage was ignore completly. I suppose it was her way of being able to hold her head up and church and not feel like she had sinned. It didn't matter to me. I got laid. It was learning to adapt to the rules.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Cameltoe- a question men need to ask!
Posted: 10/6/2012 12:09:35 PM
^^^ uncooked chicken...I love it!!!!!
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Where?
Posted: 10/3/2012 8:29:22 AM
Wherever the heat of the moment strikes me to shoot it... It's not like a plan but more of an "ahhhhh" moment!!! Could be anywhere, anytime and quite possibly followed up with an encore performance.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 149 (view)
 
Do men over 40 REALLY want sex all that much?
Posted: 9/23/2012 2:23:40 PM
Why not before and after the Tango Spitfiree?
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 1213 (view)
 
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 9/23/2012 2:22:20 PM
^^^ now you got me thinking about it...I love how slippery it makes the kiss
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 618 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 9/23/2012 12:34:42 PM
Gotta love a squirter. You know youre playing or hitting it right when they start to squirt. Talk about instant feed back and no fake orgasm
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Balls during bjs
Posted: 9/23/2012 11:44:34 AM
^^^ that's why I keep my balls shaved. That should be hint enough I like them played and sucked on. Come on...give them a little tug ;)
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Just for fun sex......
Posted: 9/22/2012 5:44:44 PM
a booty call does sound nice right about now ^^^
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 195 (view)
 
A debate about blowjobs
Posted: 9/22/2012 1:36:27 PM
Can't say I have ever had a "bad" blowjob. There have been some where the talent was exceptional!!!!
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Eyes wide...shut?
Posted: 9/22/2012 12:09:41 PM
I keep mine wide open, lights on! I want to see everything and take mental pictures to relive later...who needs to watch porn to masterbate when you have personal mental images to enjoy!!!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 141 (view)
 
Do men over 40 REALLY want sex all that much?
Posted: 9/21/2012 7:57:26 AM
I'm 58 and don't have any problems getting an erection at all. I stopped smoking and cut back on my drinking. Now it seems I'm hornier than I ever was. Never realized that changing those two aspects of my life would boost my libido so much and give me a harder, firmer erection without having to take the little blue pill.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Balls during bjs
Posted: 9/21/2012 7:40:30 AM
Sounds like someone knows how to handle them ^^^^
 mab54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Balls during bjs
Posted: 9/21/2012 5:55:23 AM
Wish more women would ask that question more often. I enjoy having my balls sucked, tugged and treated a little rough while Im getting a bj or a handjob. The sensation is very intense and when it cums look out!!!
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 201 (view)
 
good body or face?
Posted: 9/20/2012 6:34:34 PM
Good God...are those real ^^^^ redsox322?
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 200 (view)
 
good body or face?
Posted: 9/20/2012 3:03:40 PM
Isn't that what a bag or pillow case was intended for? Of course you can always turn out the lights... lol just kidding
 
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