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 Author Thread: Why is it so important for you know when we had sex last?
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Why is it so important for you know when we had sex last?
Posted: 7/17/2012 8:19:07 PM
No, that is not why we ask. We really want to ask if you're a loose woman whose been nailed by a zillion guys. Would that question go over well? Angry women are such a turn-off.
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From a woman's POV (point of view) this question says "hey if she isnt getting any then I stand a really good chance of getting some".
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Texting all the time, at our age?
Posted: 7/17/2012 8:16:16 PM
Our age? I can do anything a 35 year old can do still. I will not limit myself by age until I can no longer keep up.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 87 (view)
 
It's getting serious...Should I ask for a pre-nup?
Posted: 7/17/2012 8:14:05 PM
yes yes yes yes yes, did i make that clear? get a pre-nup. Protect yourself. You know what a commissioner or a judge is? It is a stranger that says what you worked for all your life, well, it is no longer yours. It can happen that way, trust me. And more advice, no joint bank account that 1 signature can use it. been there too.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 459 (view)
 
bald guys
Posted: 7/17/2012 8:09:26 PM
her loss, don't like my lack of hair? bye.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 113 (view)
 
Middle aged man, new Camaro
Posted: 7/17/2012 8:07:38 PM
No. Would it be any better if you were in a caddilac? I think not. Just be real and drive your camaro
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 144 (view)
 
Would you date someone who admitted to previous affairs
Posted: 7/17/2012 8:04:11 PM
I guess that would depend on how long ago they did that and if they knew they messed up. A deal breaker for me is a smoker.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 97 (view)
 
skirt length when over 50
Posted: 7/17/2012 8:01:42 PM
A couple inches above the knees I would think.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Online dating working for you?
Posted: 7/17/2012 7:59:00 PM
I would rather meet a lady on my own, where is the question?

I have even thought of wearing a t-shirt that says, "single, hit me up".
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
What is so wrong about wanting a relationship?
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:50:55 PM
cause thay aren't the right guy for you.

all guys want one if she's the right girl
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Question
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:50:04 PM
I think it makes no difference and am amazed anyone would.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Guys, What Are The Things You Do..?
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:48:58 PM
A) all the way and I would have more respect and like her even more.

And what would I do, I would be on time, i would be attentive but I would not be her whipping boy.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Did you think life would be like this at 50?
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:46:49 PM
Gee, could I have predicted the lady I married would be a C ? and steal $, kids, and if she could have my life?

No, I had no idea I'd be in the position I am in now.

If I would have written out 100 different scenarios I could have NEVER seen this one. If I listend to a guy tell me a story like mine 20 years ago I would have satthere and thought poor **stard, thank god I am married to S**** it won't ever happen to me.

No, you never know what is in the other person's head. And that's why no matter what, I will never marry again without a pre-nup. And all it would have to say is that a divorce would be 50-50 no matter who contributed what, we split it.

May the commissioner who F'd me die a horrible death.

not that i'm bitter :)
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 168 (view)
 
ED over 45
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:42:20 PM
yeah, it is a little scary to hear. I know 1 friend uses viagra or cialis but beyong that I don't know(he's 65 I think). It isn't like guys ask one another, hey, does it still get hard? :)

I think it is a good incentive to exercise, keep your weight down, and eat healthy.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 185 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:38:11 PM
For a man, younger women.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Do woman need family more than men?
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:35:09 PM
Well, commissioners & judges sure think so. No, imo they don't.

Did you know single men die younger? We play harder and eat worse without a family to help keep us in line.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 57 (view)
 
too much in debt?
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:32:17 PM
yes i would, how's her rack?
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 287 (view)
 
Do women cook anymore??
Posted: 12/13/2009 9:31:38 PM
They microwave
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Workout Routines for Real People
Posted: 11/15/2009 11:11:03 PM
calf exercise too and a few abs as well, too much in 1 day!!
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Workout Routines for Real People
Posted: 11/15/2009 11:10:14 PM
Seems you are leaving a lot of things out. How about working from largest muscle to smallest.
chest - bench & incline
back - pulldowns
shoulders - seated press & side raises. NO SHRUGS, large traps are gross and sloope your shoulders.
arm - bicep & tricep
legs - squat, extensions, curls)hamstrings)


lot for 1 day, and I suggest 12 to 15 reps, good form. 2 or 3 sets is enough.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Female hair loss
Posted: 11/15/2009 11:03:28 PM
happens to many women at menopause, that's all about hormones.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
The L Word
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:59:41 PM
cause he loves you, NSA never works, people develop feelings and that's as it should be.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 119 (view)
 
Starting a family aged 50+
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:54:52 PM
hey know it all, loosing is wrong. the word is losing. Selfish huh? you judge us and yet many younger men are awful parents.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Did you think life would be like this at 50?
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:53:01 PM
no, i thought 50 was old when i was 20, now i don't think that way.

I have a few aches but otherwise, no difference yet, i guess that means when it does start downhill it will be a faster trip?

oh, eyes, my f'n eyes do drive me nuts, that's my #1 gripe at 50!!!
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
cheated
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:46:26 PM
Look at it this wat, are you more miserable with her knowing this or without her. I already know thw answer so try to move on and forgive but with the stipulation it is/was a 1 time event.

If you ever think marriage, get a prenup as judges don't give a crap about infidelity.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 118 (view)
 
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:42:24 PM
AWESOME!!!, but she is stilll legal :)

Teach her...
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Mouth Shut or Tattle?
Posted: 11/15/2009 10:38:42 PM
drop her a not anonymously.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Lack of Kids
Posted: 10/9/2009 11:00:35 PM
some people just can't have kids as well as not choosing to. I wouldn't read too much into it, I just try to take people 1 at a time. SHould I base my feelings towards all women based on what me ex did to me?

Ha!, if i did that i'd make jack the ripper look like a wuss.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 10/9/2009 10:57:47 PM
no big deal, i dread 60 and i am a long way from it.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 145 (view)
 
Do you wonder when to say I love you?
Posted: 10/9/2009 10:56:57 PM
I usually say it about the 3rd or 4th thrust.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 40 (view)
 
pre-nups
Posted: 10/9/2009 10:55:10 PM
Absolutely. Things change and the one that loved you so much suddenly no longer does and then theirs the attorney putting BS in her head and a judge or just a commissioner that decides what to do with your assets.

You'd have to bea an idiot not to have a pre-nup, especially if you have already been screwed once.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Would this be a deal-breaker for you?
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:27:50 PM
depends what she looks like. so-so, bye-bye. hot, not a problem.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 58 (view)
 
What does it mean when a woman says...
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:26:39 PM
It most likely means she has cheated on you.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 48 (view)
 
do women from different countries act differently
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:26:06 PM
I sure hope so, hope they aren't all like US women.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 77 (view)
 
should I tell His wife he's cheating?
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:44:31 AM
Yes you should.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Does this make me a cougar?
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:40:51 AM
you should think it's a dead end road. that guy will end up with a 22 year old wife and kids.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Need guys helps. He wants to wait.
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:51:57 PM
Have you felt wood? maybe he has a reason, maybe he has 1" or maybe it doesn't work. Be nice to him, he has an issue cause I can tell you this as a normal man, that is NOT normal.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Dealbreaker? How to handle in casual dating??
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:46:02 PM
#1, deal breaker. #2 now irrelevant but ...my response, at least he was honest.
 ninjaeleven
Joined: 7/15/2009
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Eight year age gap ok?
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:41:57 PM
8 years is not much/ Sure it's okay. It wouldn't work for me now but at 24 sure. My problem would be staying with that gap for the long haul.
 
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