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 Author Thread: a young beautiful wife with a much older husband
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
a young beautiful wife with a much older husband
Posted: 10/21/2009 1:44:40 PM
44 is old? Damn I'm f***ed!
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
The girl I was seeing, wont talk to me after the party at her house, any advice?
Posted: 10/7/2009 9:32:37 AM
I don't know, my guess is because you showed up late.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Need a little help...
Posted: 10/6/2009 3:15:13 PM
I've been on here a little over a month myself. I'm finding out that one needs to get over their rejection issues to be successful at online dating. I'm almost there, but I need a little more work.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Is my boyfriend intrested in men?
Posted: 10/1/2009 4:26:39 PM
Hmmmm. Could be. Does he watch dancing with the stars?
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 71 (view)
 
....i do......but he doesnt
Posted: 10/1/2009 10:50:06 AM
Congrats Anna, Good luck, you'll be a happier person.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 56 (view)
 
She is barely legal, He is 48
Posted: 9/30/2009 5:57:33 AM
After raising a daughter, whenever I see a 19 year old woman I think to myself "damn, I bet her room is a mess"
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
....i do......but he doesnt
Posted: 9/29/2009 2:53:02 PM
What happens if things don't work out? Is he willing to move you back? Things you need to ponder....
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Dating someone who doesn`t have children. Does it work for you?
Posted: 9/29/2009 5:20:40 AM
Yep been there, I raised my daughter and she's out of the house now. Last summer I dated a woman who hadn't had any children. After a few weeks I invited her to dinner so she could meet my daughter and she declined, then proceeded to to want to bail on seeing me all together. Whenever I spoke about my daughter or mentioned that I was putting her through school her eyes glazed over. When I see profiles of women with pictures from exotic places, or doing "the thrillseeker" things like skydiving or bungee jumping, I can usually tell they haven't had children 80% of the time.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 29 (view)
 
I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me.
Posted: 9/28/2009 4:13:12 PM
^^^^^^What he said plus I'll add, I need to find me a woman who make me happier than being single.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 273 (view)
 
what is child support meant for?
Posted: 9/27/2009 8:46:55 AM

Similar story here in the UK. However, I've had a dig around the net and not come across a single female having been incarcerated for not paying her CS. How is it in Missouri?


I've never heard of it here in the states. My ex owes me and can't get her drivers license until she pays me a substantial amount. In a lot of cases women who lose custody of children go on to have more, thus gaining sympathy from the courts.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 270 (view)
 
what is child support meant for?
Posted: 9/26/2009 10:24:01 AM
My ex was given the minimum support ordered in my state ($150.00 per month) In the 14 years I had custody she paid a total of $600 bucks. She now owes me thousands and can't get a drivers license. Child support can be like herpes, It may never go away.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
bein in love with more then 1person
Posted: 9/26/2009 10:06:56 AM
i blam teh genurashen of teh ttxt for all teh mispelld word and bad puncshashun
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
why do guys keep u hanging on instead of ending it?
Posted: 9/26/2009 7:12:34 AM
He's expecting everything to be ok when he gets back, he's got you in an emotional frenzy while he's gone. If you wouldn't have contacted him once he would probably would be the one wondering right now.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Somebody actually voted to keep this? But no shet though.
Posted: 9/25/2009 5:27:49 PM
Pedophilia maybe?
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Nasty children- how to overcome?
Posted: 9/24/2009 4:58:54 PM
The nose is the best place, works every time.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
when it comes to being a father wanting to see his kids the system is BROKEN
Posted: 9/24/2009 4:50:26 PM
OP,

If the child authorities in your area have been called on your ex you need to look into this further. Hiring a private investigator can really pay dividends in the end in the courtroom. Your children should be seeing an unbiased counselor. If she is doing things that are getting the authorities involved then there are probably a lot more incidents going unnoticed. I was involved in the same scenario years ago and believe it or not most courts want to place children in the safest environment. You have to be a little ruthless, but if you're the better parent then they belong with you. If my daughter would have stayed with her mother it would have been devastating.

Good Luck
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
How (not?) to end a relationship
Posted: 9/24/2009 4:16:45 PM
Parting gifts are the best way to go "Rice-a-Roni the San Francisco treat!"
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Have you ever risked it when the pic just didn't do it for you?
Posted: 9/24/2009 1:18:35 PM
I looked at your photos, you do photograph well. I think it's a thing alot of us have when looking at our own photos.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How (not?) to end a relationship
Posted: 9/24/2009 9:57:07 AM
When it ends without an explanation it usually means there's someone else, maybe not in your case, but usually.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
EX-GF callls after 14 months.She wants to now be friends again!
Posted: 9/24/2009 6:47:36 AM
She's rebounding back. You gave yourself time to get past it, which is a good thing, she didn't. More than likely she'll use you as an emotional prop until the next dude that catches her eye comes along. At least take some time to mull it all over.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Is it possible to resolve issues from your last relationship within your new relationship?
Posted: 9/24/2009 5:16:38 AM
May be possible. I think people need time to relearn the art of being single. New relationships can act as a mask and make you put unresolved issues on the back burner. If the new relationship fails those unresolved issues come right back to the surface. People are different, but those are my experiences.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Long Story - What to do
Posted: 9/24/2009 4:50:26 AM
Walk away, if there are no kids involved there is no reason for him to be around. You can invest more of your self in this and find the pain worse if you put more time into this. She truly isn't over him. The fact that the dude was at her place is creepy. Was he following her? He might have been outside your place the whole night. I'd walk.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Would you rather be 'right' or be 'happy'?
Posted: 9/23/2009 7:51:36 PM
I'm content with being rappy.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Is it healthy to check out other people online when your dating someone?
Posted: 9/23/2009 7:05:02 PM
What can we do to get these 2 kids back together?
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 137 (view)
 
why do men always have to look at other women!!
Posted: 9/23/2009 3:23:37 PM
Looking at women in the company of another is a learned art.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
How do you get over it all?
Posted: 9/23/2009 2:33:15 PM
When my daughters mother left me for another man I was devastated. When she left him 6 months later for another man I was like "haha". When she left that guy for another man 1 year later I said "I have to get my daughter out of there" Which I did. What seems like a loss now will surely seem like a blessing down the road. Trust me on this.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Is it worse to get rejected for your looks or your personality?
Posted: 9/23/2009 1:45:55 PM
edit: I mean better than. Being rejected for your posting skills is worse than either.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Is it worse to get rejected for your looks or your personality?
Posted: 9/23/2009 1:45:08 PM
Hmmmm.... I think being rejected for looks is worse. Someone saying "You're hot, but your personality sucks" would be worse than someone saying "You seem like a nice guy, but I'm looking for someone better looking". That's high school 101.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Patrick Swayze's view of relationship/love
Posted: 9/23/2009 11:01:32 AM
He kept his marriage alive by never putting his baby in a corner.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Commit to a pot smoker?
Posted: 9/23/2009 7:56:02 AM
I can only give my opinion to pot as a former 20 year user. I used it because it put me in a state of comfort. I was highly productive even though I used it everyday. The anger came from having the cloud of comfort being removed from my control. The hassle of getting it, my ex ****ing about it and the people you had to deal with getting it really taxed that security I felt when I had it. I'm not against the legalization of it because alcohol creates many more problems and more heartache than weed. I quit after 20 years I began to feel more comfortable without it.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How do you get over it all?
Posted: 9/22/2009 5:51:25 PM
Unfortunately that's the way it goes. You have to learn to adapt. Your kids know the difference between mom and step mom, although they may test you on it at some point. Just be the best parent you know how to be and you will be fine.
 Walygatr
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Move/Betrayal
Posted: 9/22/2009 5:18:08 PM
I was in a long distance relationship about 6 months ago. They rarely work as the one person relocating is gonna feel like a fish out of water. Maybe it works for some, my opinion is it's a real challenge.
 
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