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 Author Thread: frequent sex in a LTR over the duration?
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
frequent sex in a LTR over the duration?
Posted: 10/11/2012 9:27:24 AM

What I'd like is more frequent higher quality sex. The problem is I'm involved with someone who's determined to leave me unable to move or speak when he's done with me, but we don't live together so it doesn't happen as often as either of us would like.


this is quite fun. happens almost every night unless her joint pain is flaring up.. lets the guy know he has done his job and done it well... whats even better is you start to talk right after and i have exhausted her so much she passes out in mid sentence lol. one time was scary though she almost blacked out one time just from the intercourse wasn't anything else involved something about she couldn't take a breath and she made me stop until she could breath again but then of course we started right back up lol.
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Fake it or Make it?
Posted: 10/8/2012 10:48:27 AM
as far as a man faking i have read that a man can orgasm without ejackulation. but you still have the throbbing when getting off so i would say the only way a guy could get away with this is if he was small enough that she was unable to feel this throbbing anyway.
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
first time with someone new?
Posted: 10/8/2012 8:50:17 AM
I have read that pretty much the gernal consensus is that the first time with someone knew especially if on a first date it is not very good..... I know I know probably gonna get bashed on the whole have sex on first date sorta thing but with her and i it had just click and still together going strong 4 months later! And yes she knows I come here for the forums. Unlike most stories I read about with sex with a new partner isnt that great in this instance it was incredible and has gotten even better since. To be honest with you I never knew it could get this good but to the question I have for everyone now that the background to the question is set.

Has anyone else experienced a partner for the first time especially if it is the first date and find it well above average?

I would like to thank everyone in advance for sharing thier experiences!
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Does a squirting orgasm affect fertility?
Posted: 9/24/2012 9:20:57 AM

if we decide to try one day i hope you are right lol. we were thinking because of there being so much that it might wash my cum out of her.


Since you aren't "trying" to concieve,and assuming she is on birth control to avoid an unplanned pregnancy,
why would it matter if her squirting was "washed out" of her?

Irresponsibility and ignorance are not two signs you are ready to become parents.


first condoms are in play. Nothing that I said implied we were going at it unprotected. We had the general thought that since she squirts so much not knowing where it comes from wether it would wash the semen out of the vagina or not. I am sorry if you got the wrong impression from my question it was just a curious thought that both of us had.
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Question for Squirters???
Posted: 9/13/2012 6:36:32 AM
I know i am not a woman but my gf is and is able to achieve these wonderful orgasms. unfortunately for her she can not bring herself to squirt. She also has said with most previous relationships she has be able to hold it and and therefore not squirt. Lucky for me though no matter how much she tries to hold it in I bring her to that kind of orgasm multiple times in one session :-)
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Does a squirting orgasm affect fertility?
Posted: 9/11/2012 2:00:24 PM

Since you are (hopefully) depositing your semen in her vagina, and since female ejaculate comes from the urethra, the only semen that will be washed away will be near the opening to the vagina.


that makes a lot of sense thankyou so much i wasn't sure where it acually came from.
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Does a squirting orgasm affect fertility?
Posted: 9/11/2012 1:43:43 PM

its hard to miss with a scatter gun


if we decide to try one day i hope you are right lol. The reason we both asked is that there is so much that comes out and she has multiples sometimes 20 seconds apart. One night a few weeks ago we drench 2 couch cushions there was so much of it that came out. one night there was a really long one that i would says was continuous for over a minite. we were thinking because of there being so much that it might wash my cum out of her
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Does a squirting orgasm affect fertility?
Posted: 9/11/2012 1:18:20 PM
Serious question here today! Does a female's squirting orgasm decrease a man semen to fertilize the egg?

Question arose last night when my girlfriend and I were just done and she said " I wonder if we were to try and have a kid one day if the squirting would pose any problems." And in thinking about this she brings up a valid point and I am unable to find anything through web searches to answer this directly. The only things that come up is how a regular orgasm will acually help with semen travel. Part of the reason this has arised is she thinks that it will flush my cum out of her becasue there is a lot and it is repeatidly happening. sometimes as close as 20 seconds apart. I also did a thread search and did not find anything. If anyone has some insight please feel free to comment!
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Younger man attracted to maturer women
Posted: 8/28/2012 1:29:19 PM
Oh, and kirb ....it's a GIVEN that an older woman would be happy? Let me guess your age...


I didn't mean it in that sense. What I ment was if they were happy with him and the age gap and I stated it was a given since if they were not happy they would be with that person. I am sorry if it came off the wrong way.

thx TD625 I posted a reply before i read you post. I appreciate that you helped to clear up what i was saying
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Younger man attracted to maturer women
Posted: 8/28/2012 11:21:01 AM

Now back to finding what I am looking for...a sugar momma who is actually younger than I am and has amazing good looks, a Ph.D. from an excellent school and an awesome personality. Now does anyone know where I can find this one-in-a-million lady? Anyone? Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?


If you find her hows about floating me a couple thousand to prove you found her?
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Younger man attracted to maturer women
Posted: 8/28/2012 11:09:38 AM
There is no normal. I say that in the fact what is actractive to one person may not be to another. As long as you are happy that is all that matters. Well the female counterpart would also be happy but that is a given lol. But with this post you will have negative responses from people telling you its wrong and that you shouldn't do it ... yada yada yada just because they are to close minded to see that what they are atracted to is not the same that someone else maybe atracted to. point is you need to continue with what you feel is right for you!
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Did you ever pay for Internet Porn or are you only looking for the free stuff?
Posted: 8/21/2012 10:22:46 AM

What exactly is file sharing? Why do so many of u have no pic? I like making my own vids. If I watch them it's. Like its not me. Guys like them. But not only im sure lol. I used to have a friend who'd send me kinky clips from some sites. Ill look at the still pics of some kinky.stuff. I think I may look at that literotica. I am s big reader lol. I don't masturbate to the clips or pics. I just like to look at it.


would you be willing to share these homemade works of art?
 KIRB32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Bareback Sex!
Posted: 8/20/2012 8:38:22 AM

Plus the added benefit of being able to last longer will impress your lady!


This is not the case for everyone I myself acually last longer bareback
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Has anyone told you that you turned them into a nympho?
Posted: 7/13/2012 5:50:54 AM
I would like to thank everyone for there responses. The post that brought up about the true definition of a nympho thx for that I can tell her the true meaning and see if she still considers herself one lol. Another post I would like to single out is the one I quoted below.


I can say that a man had turnned me into a nympho before. If your past includes boring unfulfilling sex then........... when you meet some one who shows you what the body is capable of you turn into a nympho.


I think this is exactly where she is coming from. She had told me that she never thought that it could feel so good. So I believe this post is exactly where she comes from. She even went so far to say just last night that is she never had sex with anyone else that is more than fine by her lol.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Has anyone told you that you turned them into a nympho?
Posted: 7/12/2012 1:33:37 PM
So this is a first for me. The girl I am currently seeing told me that I turned her into a nympho and all she think about is the next time we have sex that is all that is on her mind. Now fair you I am not that large in the department probably around average size. Just the first time I have ever been told this and wonder how often this happens. thx for any input!
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
How many women acually get off this way?
Posted: 7/5/2012 10:26:22 AM

I remember my first neck kissing orgasm was out with my husband & his friend came up behind me pushed my hair out the way & kissed me - wow instant orgasm - & neither man had a clue thank goodness lol


Got question about this.... I know I would never go up to a friends wife and kiss her on her neck. Just kinda wondering why your husbands friend felt the need to?
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How long is the recovery time for men between orgasms?
Posted: 7/2/2012 11:12:35 AM
Well I can only accound for myself seeing as you know I am not into men... Usually for me when I get off I can keep going. The current woman I have been seeing the past week has been amazed by this. I get off a second time in about 20 to 30 min after the first and from that point just keep going w/o oragasm after that unless take an hour break or so but as long as she wants it I keep going without... Now there are on a few occasions where after my first it get extremely sensitive and hurts really bad in this case in about 5 min I am good to go. The currently woman I am seeing says I am going to kill her lol.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
why would someone do this in such a shor time
Posted: 6/28/2012 1:06:51 PM

Can someone help me with this sentence?

We did not even kiss and that is fine with me when looking for an acual.


TIA


sorry left out the word "relationship" I would edit original post but it does not give me that option
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
why would someone do this in such a shor time
Posted: 6/28/2012 12:57:23 PM
Triumph thx for the input and you do bring up a pretty valid point about the whole online for fwb type thing. Think i might just give up on the whole online thing and just stick around for the forums as on a slow day at work these forums can be entertaining.

HypnoticEyezzz
trust me I have been running far and far getting ready to get a plane tick to fly away from her. Just was trying to get some sort of understanding of this and I guess the general idea is can't under crazy lol.

reading a lot of these replies has helped to lift some of the down feelings i been having with this whole situation
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
why would someone do this in such a shor time
Posted: 6/28/2012 12:00:46 PM
Pinky

You don't have to buy it because its the truth. I have not met someone for a one night stand and I won't. Not looking to see how many women I can sleep with. Hell not even actively looking to find something just changed the profile and removed picture. We all know how many people are going to send someone a message looking for an ie w/o a pic. plus i think i even have my profile hid not sure of that though.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
why would someone do this in such a shor time
Posted: 6/28/2012 10:18:34 AM
to "U make it entertaining"

Come here looking for sex... you're gonna meet a lot of crazies!


As I stated in my post at this time I was not coming her to look for sex. It is because of this incident that I dropped trying to look for an acual relationship and my profile is what it is today.


Thankyou to all other replies that helped with insights from personal experiences. I really appreciate it!
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
why would someone do this in such a shor time
Posted: 6/28/2012 9:29:38 AM
Let me explain my profile before people get into to well you are just look for sex when this incident is what acually led me to go the route of just find a fwb instead of branching out into a relationship right now.

With that said. Met a girl on here a short while ago. We had 3 dates over the span of 1 month. They were good dates, she seem to be a great and stable person but I just was not feeling it. We did not even kiss and that is fine with me when looking for an acual. It was 6 months before my ex and I had sex I do not mind waiting at all. Back on topic when I told her that I was not interest in pursuing further she went crazy about why did i even message her and why is she not good enough and just on and on. well the last corespondance was supposidly from her parents that she attempted to kill herself by downing a bottle of pills. I say supposidly because it was a text message from her phone but why after only 3 dates with someone no kiss or anything of that sorts would someone try to kill themselves or even think they are in love in such a short time. I could maybe see a teenage have suck quick false hopes but she was in her 30's?
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
How many women acually get off this way?
Posted: 6/28/2012 8:56:37 AM
I am asking this since this is the first time I ever came accross a woman that can have multiple orgasms just by kissing/biting her neck.

Does anyone know other women who can get off this way?

Women if you can please share!
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
First Orgasm.
Posted: 6/25/2012 1:50:58 PM
gee I feel really dumb I did not know what a rainbow party was but now that I have looked at it any know where an adult rainbow party is being held as it sounds like fun lol
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Masturbation
Posted: 6/25/2012 10:11:32 AM
for g spot stimulation they make special toys that should hit the spot just right
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Sex. Multiple People, Etc.
Posted: 6/22/2012 7:23:20 AM
Another thought is she likes me enough to keep me around until she finds the person she wants to be in a relationship with, which is something I will not be a part of. Anyone think there may be validity to that thought?


This is typically what a fwb is there for. Another reason people go with fwb type situations is because they are to busy for a traditional relationship but enjoy the benefits. You did state she was a very busy woman so this may be why she wanted to start off as just friends and if everything clicked well when he life became less busy she would then want to take the next step to an official relationship.

just my thoughts
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Sex. Multiple People, Etc.
Posted: 6/21/2012 9:15:16 AM
I say she was looking for a steady fwb which is why on first date talk as being friend and build on the and second date you had sex. When you mentioned she was your girlfriend probably felt your were getting attached and wanted to be serious when she was just looking for a good time and doesn't want to have multiple partner/one nighters.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
FB and POF
Posted: 6/18/2012 7:08:55 AM
He still contacts you because she is probably just another fwb just like you
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Shaking before sex
Posted: 6/15/2012 8:15:27 AM
Atomic I just wanted to thankyou for making my slow ass day at work by reading your profile and I gots to say I had a good laugh. Tried to message you directly but your mail settings won't allow me to. But thankyou!
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
procedure for making dates am i right to feel this way.
Posted: 1/27/2012 11:48:45 AM
I am not trying to be a playa just on the account I use for acually dateing I am recieving messages from 5 women strongly interested in 3 and i only made first contact with one of them. I am extremely surprised as to recieving so many messages especially since 4 out of 5 they made first contact. I am a generous and caring guy and don't like to hurt people. I never expected messages like this especially with my weight issue but it happened and now don't know exactly what to do. I have made plans with one of them but dont know what to say to the others as to why i have not asked them out.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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procedure for making dates am i right to feel this way.
Posted: 1/27/2012 11:38:26 AM
Lets say you are chatting with a couple women/men. Is it proper to only make plans to go out with one at a time. I feel this is proper because I don't want to be one of those guys that make multiple dates and if one realy clicks have to cancel the others because I am sure it would hurts some peoples feelings as I feel this would hurt me a bit. Am I correct on this or is it ok to make multiple dates and end up maybe hurting someone?
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Confused help please?!?!?!?!
Posted: 1/27/2012 11:26:25 AM
thx for all the input the chatting was through phone she a big texter and it was pretty much four days straight of texting other than work and sleep and discussed a lot. after i posted here she did starting logging in hear again. so i pretty much gave up told her that i felt either i was getting the run around or our schedules are to incompatable for us to be able to have a relationship as even on her days off she stated she was unable to do anything when i got off of work.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Confused help please?!?!?!?!
Posted: 1/23/2012 11:56:25 AM
Thankyou for all the replies it has been very helpful and giving me a lot to think about. One other thing I might add is that she has not been logged in to her account since we started talking.... Does this have any added meaning to anything or just wishfull thinking?
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Confused help please?!?!?!?!
Posted: 1/23/2012 11:06:05 AM
she does know my schedule and when i am free. it has been a long time since she been in a relationship and her last one was an abusive one. Could this be the reason for her wanting to talk more before going out?
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Confused help please?!?!?!?!
Posted: 1/23/2012 10:56:27 AM
Well I have been chating with a women quite a bit for about a week now probably more like 4 days. We seem to be hitting it off very well and all and at one point she even stated she was very interested in me. So I finally build up the nerve to ask her out and she said yest but because of our schedules not very good timing. I suggest that when i get off from work on one of her days off we can do something at that time. She never really responded yes or no but when I asked her if she would like to go out sometime she said yes. Am I missing something here or should I just be patient and wait?
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 152 (view)
 
Please help me understand my ex gf reason for breaking up with me. Is she serious?
Posted: 1/17/2012 8:31:48 AM
anyone say bipolar? one minite she wants this then next she wants that
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 621 (view)
 
over 30 and still living at home
Posted: 1/17/2012 6:20:19 AM
I am going to be 29 in march and just had to move back home because my ex ended up cheating on ment and we broke up. It upsets me that looking at things it will be about 4 years before i can afford to be out on my own unless I find a better paying job. I do give them about 300 a month to help with the bill but until I get my car paid off just cant afford to move out on my own. It takes two incomes anymore. I even own my own house and thought about when the lease is up with my tenant to move back in there but with the loan on that house and all bills with gas for car and food I would not be able to do it with my car payment. Trust me I don't enjoy being back at home I feel out of place you can say but at this point in time I have no other option. I am looking for a better paying job I hope all goes well in that field and if i do I may just end up buying another house becasue the one i do own is a small house and it about an hour away from family and it suck not to see my family that often because I can't afford gas.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 130 (view)
 
Serial texters
Posted: 1/17/2012 6:08:42 AM
Not everyone likes talking on the phone. Personally after work i cant stand to talk on the phone but that could be because that is what i do for 8 hours at work. If I have to I will but i prefer not to.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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How bad is my profile?
Posted: 1/16/2012 5:51:16 PM
Thankyou for all the feedback. I think I may end up ditching this profile because I mistaken messaged someone that was set to intimate encounter and i did not notice that and I half the users on here have set that can not contact if had messaged for intmate encounters before and reading the profile of the person other than the section that said intimate encounters and nothing in there about me or first date in regards to that. I thankyou you all for your input and will use these tips on my new profile. Maybe i will ask for another review with new account and see if i took all the advice and correctly used it.
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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How bad is my profile?
Posted: 1/16/2012 1:30:46 PM
Really how bad is my profile? Just curious. Would appreciate anyones input especially from a lady since after all that is what i am shooting for here. I have it setup as dating but nothing serious because i recently got dumped and cheated on and dont want to jump into any serious but if things are going well I would definately consider going the next step to serious. thankyou in advance for any replies!
 kirb32
Joined: 3/26/2006
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Should I Date or Should I Wait
Posted: 1/16/2012 10:39:52 AM
In my opinion I would not let it hinder you dating. If a guy doesn't want to date you or has something to say because of your condition he is not worth your time or effort. Anyone one should want to be with someone because of who they are and not looks. It might be easy saying this with me being fat but even if someone does have the looks now and date for that what happens in year from now as we get old those looks may go away. Also you never know when an accident will take place that could affect that. This is just my honest opinion and it may be easier for me to have that outlook being fat but thought I would throw my 2 cents in which is probably only worth half a cent!
 
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