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 Author Thread: underlying cause....physical attraction
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
underlying cause....physical attraction
Posted: 5/7/2006 6:43:06 PM
Personality and common interests are what attracts Mister Ed to his friends. They also usually have some good, common "horse sense".
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Lying
Posted: 5/7/2006 6:34:54 PM
Mister Ed is sorry to hijack this thread but, Carrie, do you know where Mister Ed can get some Jimmy Choo's? He would need four of them.

Btw, Mister Ed hates liars as much or more than a hot branding iron!
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Girlfriend Honks
Posted: 5/6/2006 9:28:42 PM
Mister Ed doesn't know any fillies who honk, but he knows plenty who whinny - LOL!!
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
short women/tall men
Posted: 5/6/2006 9:14:02 PM
Mister Ed is 6'7" (or, just under 20 "hands" ). Many, many years ago, Mister Ed fell in love with a little filly who was only 4'10". Several years after that, he married one who was 6'1/4". Mister Ed has little issue with height.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
I spewed on my date
Posted: 5/4/2006 11:18:13 PM
OP - Mister Ed has never been to Morocco. However, he thinks that if you want to have any chance of dating this woman again, you should graciously pay the cleaning bill.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Why men wont date independant women
Posted: 5/4/2006 10:58:37 PM
Whoa there, Dustin! How does this make Mister Ed co-dependent? Mister Ed does not want a filly who is so clingy and needy that she cannot be alone for any length of time. That sounds like the opposite of co-dependent.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Why men wont date independant women
Posted: 5/4/2006 10:45:22 PM
Mister Ed's idea of an independent filly is:

- one who doesn't need to be joined at the hip 24x7
- who is able to occasionally go off and pursue her own interests and hobbies by herself (and let her stallion do the same)
- and who will not feel neglected or think this means Mister Ed doesn't love her
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 59 (view)
 
What sends shivers down your back?
Posted: 5/4/2006 12:53:09 AM
Hmmm. . . Mister Ed is starting to get shivers down his back just reading these posts!
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Over Stepping Boundries....
Posted: 5/4/2006 12:40:46 AM
Mister Ed agrees that sounds like a stalker. The only time Mister Ed has ever tracked anyone down was when he was a member of a posse.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Has anyone NEVER had a ONE NIGHT STAND?
Posted: 5/3/2006 4:56:02 PM
Mister Ed has never had a one night stand. He will only associate with a filly who wants to get to know him and be with him for a long while.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Listen to the excuse, or write him off?????
Posted: 4/30/2006 7:38:53 AM
I agree with most of the above - he sounds like a loser, move on. . .
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
you're ok?
Posted: 4/23/2006 9:34:09 PM
Well, he might not have meant any harm. If his buddies looked like they were 12, maybe they really were just some clueless young dudes, who were either very shy/naive or didn't really know how to express themselves?
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Phone Numbers in 1st Emails
Posted: 4/23/2006 9:25:33 PM
Yes, it strikes me as either desperate or incredibly naive/too trusting.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
DATING = DRAMA
Posted: 4/23/2006 12:11:59 AM
Sizzle ^^^ his daughters sound like spoiled brats, and you are better off without this guy.

As for me, all my relationships except for the last one have been drama-free. I much prefer it that way.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
What to do when they won't take no for an answer?
Posted: 4/23/2006 12:06:49 AM
Well, I find it interesting that the first item on your list is "Must be single". Yet you list yourself as "Separated" which, in my book, is definitely NOT single.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Smart Women
Posted: 4/22/2006 6:00:19 PM
I love intelligent women! In fact, they are essential for me. I can't date someone if I don't respect them intellectually. This doesn't mean they have to be a Rhodes Scholar or a math professor, but they do need to have something on the ball, be fairly aware of what's going on in the world and be able to carry on a halfway-intelligent conversation. Good common sense goes a long way, and a quick & sharp wit just can't be beat! Very sexy.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
First Kiss
Posted: 4/22/2006 5:53:21 PM
At the end of my first date with my former wife, she walked me out to my car and, just before I turned to leave, she leaned over and gave me a quick peck on the lips. Our lunch date had gone well, we had great conversation, but nothing remotely sexual or romantic had taken place. Her kiss was perfect because it let me know that she was interested, but it was done in a way that was completely proper. At least I knew where I stood, which I very much appreciated.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
What does Don't want kids really mean ?
Posted: 4/16/2006 12:32:13 AM
I interpret "Don't want kids" to mean they don't want to have any (or any more) kids. Since this site doesn't provide a category for "Would you date someone with kids?", if you'd prefer not to date someone with kids, maybe it would be good to mention that in your profile?
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 90 (view)
 
A question of purposes
Posted: 4/14/2006 6:48:36 AM
Yes, I believe that is the key ^^^^ don't take each other for granted, stay in the relationship, don't put it on "autopilot" and don't become complacent. A relationship requires care and feeding, just like a garden. If you let it go, and don't tend to it, it will wither and die.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
What ratio of the people out there do you consider desirable enough to date?
Posted: 4/13/2006 6:21:58 AM
According to Seinfeld, it's only about 5%. The other 95% are "undateable".

(sorry, I couldn't resist!)
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
How do you know if your being used?
Posted: 4/13/2006 6:20:17 AM
You should just take things slowly. I know this is really extreme, but my last g/f and I didn't even have a heavy make-out session until we'd been dating for six weeks. If a guy is seriously interested in you, he'll hang around. If he's just trying to see what he can get, he probably won't want to spend that much time. Good luck to you.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How to tell a man that you are not interested after meeting.
Posted: 4/13/2006 6:12:10 AM
I agree with the above -- I'd rather know where I stand, and I don't want to lead anyone else on. I've not been on an on-line date for quite a while but when this happened in the past, I would tell them I enjoyed meeting them but that I was afraid it wasn't a "love connection" (a play on the old TV dating show). It usually got at least a smile, and we parted on good terms.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Why do men say long term, one on one, and run when they find it?
Posted: 4/12/2006 9:56:55 PM
Another possibility could be commitment issues. He's attracted and interested -- until it reaches a point where more is expected of him. He then starts feeling his fears of commitment rise up -- he's unable to reconcile the attraction he feels for you vs. the fear of staying in the relationship, so he bails out.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Funny books recommendations
Posted: 4/10/2006 10:25:38 PM
"High Fidelity" by Nick Hornby had lots of moments for me.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Do you think Nascar can be considered a Sport?
Posted: 4/10/2006 10:18:59 PM
I just don't understand the attraction and popularity of NASCAR.

My former father-in-law wasn't a big fan of racing. He used to say that if he wanted to see a car race, he could just get a lawn chair and set it up next to the freeway - LOL!!
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Man & Woman Cum At The Same Time..
Posted: 4/10/2006 10:11:15 PM
I agree ^^^^ (msg 58) I've always thought simultaneous orgasms were highly overrated. I prefer to satisfy my partner first (and I really like watching her when she gets off), then it's my turn. It's easier for each one of us to concentrate on our own pleasure that way, and I find it much more enjoyable.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Does perfume really work?
Posted: 4/9/2006 12:29:41 PM
Any ladies' opinions on Drakkar Noir?
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Does perfume really work?
Posted: 4/9/2006 12:25:37 AM
My first serious love wore a perfume called "Jungle Gardenia", and I could never ever smell that scent again without immediately thinking of her. Unfortunately (or maybe FORTUNATELY?), it's no longer available.
 mistered67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
not a girly girl could it go wrong?
Posted: 4/5/2006 7:00:25 AM
I really prefer a woman who's a combination of both. My previous girlfriend would do things like go hiking with me, and wasn't afraid to get dirty. But I also loved the fact that she was a real girly girl in the way she took care of herself, doing her hair and makeup, etc. She was very soft & feminine in that way.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Is dating multiple prospects acceptable to you?
Posted: 4/2/2006 11:14:51 PM
A few times in the past, I've tried to date more than one woman at a time -- I mean casually, when first getting to know them -- and it just didn't work for me. I had trouble focusing on them individually. Even though there was no exclusivity expressed or implied, I just felt I wasn't being fair to either one of them. I've learned I'm basically a "one-woman-at-a-time" kind of guy.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Prison Penpals
Posted: 4/2/2006 9:27:07 AM
Several years ago, I lost contact with a long-time friend of mine. I then found out he was in jail, but he initially lied to me about the crime he had committed. I did some investigating and found out he was really in for something else -- a sex crime which I found morally reprehensible. He continued to deny the charges to me -- this even after he had plea-bargained it down to something lesser. He was eventually sent to prison for a few years. Because of our prior friendship, I tried to support him while he was there, wrote to him, sent packages and even visited him once. However, after he was released, I terminated our friendship. The crime he had committed was something that I just could not accept.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Do you have to be in love to marry?
Posted: 4/2/2006 9:11:49 AM
But I think part of the reason arranged marriages may last longer is because of the cultural expectations placed on the participants. It's pretty ingrained in them to accept this part of their life. That said, however, I know of one arranged marriage that has gone thru some serious ups and downs -- so even that doesn't guarantee success.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 704 (view)
 
GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 4/2/2006 9:02:54 AM
I agree ^^^^^ Sex is not the biggest part of a relationship but it's very important to me that my partner and I be compatible and in synch with each other in that area. I would really want to know that before commiting to marriage.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What is up with the sex obsessed women on PoF?
Posted: 3/31/2006 10:18:49 PM
WHERE ARE ALL THESE WOMEN AND WHY AREN'T THEY HITTING *ME* UP FOR SEX?!?!?!
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Profile Advice
Posted: 3/31/2006 7:24:51 PM
It's been a long time since I met someone in person whom I hadn't first seen a picture of. In that instance, it worked out great, as I found her very attractive. Howver, I no longer initiate contact to profiles without pics. And I always have a pic posted before I post a public profile or I contact someone (my present profile is an exception, as I'm not looking to date right now). Otherwise, it's just too awkward if it turns out you're not attracted to them, or they to you. I've been on both sides of that situation, and neither one is any fun. How many of you enjoy telling someone why you're no longer interested in talking with them? And have you had that suddenly done to you? Ugh.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Not interested..would you like to be told?????? And if so, HOW?
Posted: 3/30/2006 10:28:12 PM
Yes, I always like to know where I stand, so I'd prefer to be told in a nice way. Whenever I've met someone in the past, and I realized it wasn't going to happen, I'd usually tell them as we were saying our goodbyes. Either that, or send them an e-mail shortly after, thanking them for meeting me and telling them that they were very nice but that I just wasn't feeling the chemistry that I was looking for.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
How to tell people we met online?
Posted: 3/29/2006 11:22:18 PM
Besides, you could just as easily make a mistake like that (marrying too soon) with someone you met off-line. One should still be careful and use common sense when meeting someone on-line -- probably even more so since it's so much easier for people to pretend to be someone they're not.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
How to tell people we met online?
Posted: 3/29/2006 10:32:26 PM
I met my former girlfriend on-line, and we told everyone how we met. These days, lots of people are meeting this way. It's not just a bunch of sleazy pick-up artists. For people who work in the type of job where they don't meet the public, it's a great way to expand one's horizons.
 MisterEd67
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Whats the biggest height difference you would do?
Posted: 3/29/2006 7:34:31 PM
I'm 6'7". Height is not an issue with me, and has never been a problem. The shortest woman I ever dated was 4'10" (I'm sure *that* looked a bit odd!) and my ex-wife was 6'-1/4". Lots of tall guys (me included) seem to be attracted to shorter women.
 
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