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 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
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To all the women I'd like to communicate with...
Posted: 3/13/2019 8:02:28 PM
ghost just trying to get you to spend money
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 49 (view)
 
What are things you see in dating profiles that will make you sadly skip past them?
Posted: 12/30/2018 5:22:39 AM

A second wife since June, 2018 when asking for a review is pretty impressive. Congratulation


june 2018 is when I came back to the site after number 2 as when I married I left the site and as I stated before I now find the fishing not worth the time here
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 40 (view)
 
What are things you see in dating profiles that will make you sadly skip past them?
Posted: 12/26/2018 6:43:05 PM

Women will also see it as shallow for you to set your age filter to "Younger than 20" when you're supposedly 51. Not that it will get you anywhere, since you can't contact women outside the site imposed +/- 14-year age restrictions[/quote ]

it's not nor does it matter as my profile is hidden anyway and has been for quite some time now as while this site is where I found my second wife I have found it is now a disappointment but I occasionally find the forums amusing in its display of the self-righteous
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 37 (view)
 
What are things you see in dating profiles that will make you sadly skip past them?
Posted: 12/25/2018 9:07:27 PM
Cliche pictures that say things like if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best etc.
Pictures at bars or any mention of how they like their booze I don't drink and have no desire to compete with a sailor named Jerry or being the cheap uber
Any mention of god or church
Any mention of the desired height as although I fall into the percentage of those over 6ft I see it as shallow as me stating a cup size ( bet that would go over well)
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 11 (view)
 
review and opinions please
Posted: 6/16/2018 6:50:29 AM
naw I wasnt thinking they were fine just explaining why I used them
they are however a trick to not do a selfie in a bathroom lol
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 9 (view)
 
review and opinions please
Posted: 6/15/2018 7:01:01 PM
well unwilling to have a single job would apply lol as I don't do jobs as most folks think of them lol

Logistics would be the general field (my little corner is highly specialized) but now I'm working on being semi-retired but as I said it is tough to fit in a blurb and I want to avoid gold diggers as they would be disappointed but I'm far from a bum.

The nature of my business is up and down and I'm done trying to conquer the world and don't need nor want million dollar years anymore my best year was 1.6 and it was the loneliest time in my life as you could never know why someone was being your friend or why a gal was flirting with ya and my type A workaholic life style has a lot to do with why I'm back on POF and I have changed much because of that result an epiphany if you will that being "The Man" is not all its cracked up to be and if it was easy to find these forums I wouldn't have even said this.
I also could see trying to explain this could be seen as whining about something that most would consider good fortune and I am not its just I figured out that he who dies with the most toys is still dead and I would much rather get a smile out of a gal because I made her laugh then the fact that she has a silly handbag to show off

I'm going for a nice simple life and want to find someone who is good with that and I guess that is why I wanted this review as it isn't about finding a woman as that isn't all that hard it is about finding the right kind of women as that may not even be possible and I wanted to know how the bait on the hook was being perceived .
I also hate the fact that some categories such as income require me to answer were you gals have a prefer not to say option
I will have to give due consideration to the advice given and make some changes
Hope that made some semblance of sense and thanks again
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 7 (view)
 
review and opinions please
Posted: 6/15/2018 1:52:52 PM
[Your photos could be better. Don't do group photos. Your first 2 shots are too far away. Your 4th shot is too close up.]

the first to are because one of the things we hate as guys is shots that do not show the whole you so to speak and while I also tend to despise group shots this one I is targeted to a specific niche as well as the other thing is there is a lot of misleading by guys and gals on this site and one of the things I have heard complaints on is that POF height tends to be greatly exaggerated and so I thought it was kind of a truth in advertising thing
the last one is I might not know much but I know to thank my mother for my blue eyes and it was just to show them off but I do think that maybe some others are in order and I shall definitely consider some revamps

thank ya all for your time
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 6 (view)
 
review and opinions please
Posted: 6/15/2018 1:37:54 PM
Chronically unemployed not sure how you get that as that is far from the case lol
What I do for a living just doesn't fit neatly in a blurb and if I tried it would lead to misconceptions I don't want
Perhaps I should remove them as I didn't think I had any messaging restrictions as Im happy to chat with anyone but that would be the same as my search criteria ....so thanks for pointing that out and I will correct that
It is also the same as what I'm looking for I find there to be no good options as if I meet the right gal long-term would be wonderful but that said that gal would really need to have some special qualifications and so I'm not planning on such but that doesn't mean that I cannot find value in other relationships ........Honestly I find the idea that anyone sets out looking to get married on here kind of creepy as I do with most of the criteria that is available to choose from.

Thank you for the reply as that was what I am looking for was other folks perceptions I'm not sure how to tweak it but now at least I have an idea of what to tweak
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
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review and opinions please
Posted: 6/14/2018 8:35:24 PM
Struggling isn't the word it more question of what fish the bait has attracted
and it may be something else but a few opinions are can always be helpful
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 1 (view)
 
review and opinions please
Posted: 6/14/2018 11:19:39 AM
just looking for some feedback and as POF keeps telling me this is to short the rest is pointless filler or I could go on about asking what changes I could make that would stem the tide of drunken cat ladies etc
 2fuzy
Joined: 7/11/2017
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Is it really that bad
Posted: 6/14/2018 10:50:38 AM
my .02 but what the hell do I know its not bad the pics are good in other words not the usual cropped shots from goofy angles that are pointless anyway
However I can only tell you things from my point of view and I would be looking for more of what makes you tick in your about section its mostly fluff yes contrary to what others have said guys do look there and fluff is slightly better then Just ask
 
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