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Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 118 (view)
What age difference is best?
Posted: 10/30/2012 3:07:56 PM
I flipped through this whole post to see if anyone would credit where the age/2 +7 came from and no one did. Did not a one of you read "Little Women"? As for the dying age women tend to live longer then men 3-5 yrs but a corrallary is that if a mans wif is more then 7 to 14 years younger then him, he will live longer. What is amusing to me is that more then 14 years doesn't make a difference nor is the reverse true.
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 41 (view)
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 10/4/2012 3:08:12 PM
9 months is nothing try 9 years. I have been tempted to become a monk except doesn't celibate mean no oneism?
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 102 (view)
Masturbation...How much is Too Much???
Posted: 10/4/2012 3:02:02 PM
This is too rich, a post on oneism. LMAO
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 214 (view)
Average size for MEN - Women’s TURN
Posted: 3/21/2012 11:57:06 AM
Wow I am not even close to average I am 46" 32" 36" 17" collar

The Ladies:

64 percent of women are pear-shaped, while 30 percent are "straight," which means they have little perceptible waist.
Black women have larger measurements than other women, but they are most likely to have the classic hourglass shape.
Women over 36 are the most likely to have bigger hips.
Black women older than 55 have smaller hips than those ages 45 to 55.
The fashion industry assumes these standard measurements for a woman: 35-inch bust, a 27-inch waist, and 37.5-inch hip. In the real world, women ages 36 to 45 actually average:

White: 41-34-43
Black: 43-37-46
Hispanic: 42.5-36-44
Asian: 41-35-43
The Gentlemen:

Older men have trimmer thighs than younger men.
19 percent of men are considered portly.
An additional 19 percent of men have "lower front waists." (That means they have to look under their belly to find their waist.)
Men who are over 45 are the most likely to have bellies.
The fashion industry assumes the average man is a traditional 40 regular, which means 40-inch chest, 34-inch waist, and 40-inch hip, with a 15.5-inch collar. In the real world, men ages 36 to 45 actually average:

White: 44-38-42
Black: 43-37-42
Hispanic: 44-38-42
Asian: 42-37-41
About 51 percent of men and 38 percent of women said they were "about the right weight" when asked their perception of how much they weighed. Meanwhile, 10 percent of men and 21 percent of women faced the truth and acknowledged they were "quite a bit overweight."

This came from the following site
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 213 (view)
Average size for MEN - Women’s TURN
Posted: 3/21/2012 11:43:39 AM
The true average for men is 5"9.25" 170 pounds (and to add in the innuendo size 5.5" to 6.5" long and 4"to 5" around). Any one who differs is not average. Average is not opinion but statistics.
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
If you were mentally disabled, would you want to get
Posted: 3/20/2012 5:45:24 PM
Just to keep some of you up to date "Charlie" is the movie base on the short story "Flowers for Algernon" An a radical surgery give an extremely intellectual challenged man the IQ of a genuis but due to a flaw in the surgery he eventually reverts back to the man he was before the surgery.
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 49 (view)
Prove it!
Posted: 3/19/2012 4:14:59 PM
I personall would be worried about identitiy theft is anyone tried that with me.
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 69 (view)
On dating a sexual abuse survivor...
Posted: 3/17/2012 12:50:49 AM
I suppose at this point this is an antique tread in computer life. I have always wondered why the enourmous disbelief when people hear about abuse. Do you really think people are looking for sympathy? ie the sympathy card one poster mentioned.
I was sexually abused when I was four, trust me it wasn't sex. I tell people early because some people can't deal with the issue, some don't want to. There are still things that can cause issues for me. Interestingly enough women seem to have a harder time believing then men. The reading I have done say this is because they can't picture a woman, a nurturer doing such a thing becuase they wouldn't. I can't tell you how many times I have been told that I was luing about it.
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 207 (view)
Sex and Dating late 30s and early 40s
Posted: 3/14/2012 5:17:48 PM
Yeah ther was a lady 80 miles from me bragging that she dated over 400 men from POF just for dinner and drinks. She estimated that each guy spent more then a $1000 dollars, She figured she was ahead by $400,000. She said it was okay "because all men suck and all they want is sex" I wish I could remember where I heard or read that.
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 758 (view)
Expain the phrase My children are my top priority?
Posted: 3/14/2012 3:27:33 PM
I agree with Strider. Can you even say you are ready for a relationship in which you wish to be someone elses priority if that person isn't yours. I understand that children are a responsibility that you already have, and that things come up that have to be dealt with. Simply put it makes it harder to have a relationship with adults but you have to make time for it.
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