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 Author Thread: How long do you wait to delete that number.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 33 (view)
 
How long do you wait to delete that number.
Posted: 1/20/2013 10:50:10 AM
when u delete them soon it shows their unimporatnce in your life
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 32 (view)
 
How long do you wait to delete that number.
Posted: 1/20/2013 10:48:27 AM
oh less than 3 weeks especially if you see them online the day after a great date and a promised phonecall. You are the "just in case I find noone that is better" when they call 3 weeks later and you ask "who is this they are not happy" but so it goes
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 162 (view)
 
Dating in our 50's
Posted: 1/17/2013 8:43:53 AM
This was my delusion too. I thought we were grown ups by age 50 but for most men that is not so. I agree the chemistry needs to be there but are we really expected to hop into bed with somone after a 2 hr. date? I think not but I keep hoping that there is at least one guy out there that feels like I do. Slow it down, get to know each other and have fun and that will make sex fantastic and lasting instead of a booty call. I am glad to know that it not only happens to me though.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Discrepancy in income - your thoughts/experiences?
Posted: 1/17/2013 7:51:38 AM
I have been there too many times to count. Most men I have met inflate their jobs and all like to travel, have fun, fine dining etc. etc. but for most that is a pipedream. I am like you, have been self supporting for many years and surely don't mind paying my way, but I do object to paying for both of us. If you are struggling to even afford even a simple date you have no business being on a dating site. If I had a dollar for everytime a man wants to just hang out at my house on date two I would no longer have to work. I also feel that at our age people should be a little more solvent. College 35 yrs. ago was very cheap and attainable for almost everyone and allows and easier life now. Grants and loans were easily gotten and yes you repay them for many yrs. but it was the best money borrowed. I am always amazed how many guys my age have no house but rather a cheap apartment with reject furniture and messy. It tells me that there in no pride in ownership and this way of thinking follows other things in their life.
If this makes me sound like a snob you are wrong. I have worked very hard for what I have, there were no short cuts and I just want to meet someone that is at about the same station in life, otherwise you are deluting youself. It is rare that men and women from different socioeconmic groups and culturs actually make it in the long run no matter how nice they are.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Probability and online dating
Posted: 1/2/2013 10:52:10 AM
it will just like for us women
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is she worth the effort?
Posted: 1/2/2013 10:50:03 AM
you are wasting your time
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 36 (view)
 
What is a man to provide for you?
Posted: 1/2/2013 9:49:16 AM
By saying most women want a provider may nor always depend on the income but it does make a difference. There are some of us out there who are looking for a true partner in all aspects. Women with a professioanl degree have more disposable income than ever before and we want certain things in life that we can share with a partner like trips, dinners out, etc. but not always want pay both ways because our date has fallen on hard times and cant afford to do anything but stay home. Dont get me wrong, I love staying home and being with my guy but where will that be? At my house or his apartment? Everyone in our age group could afford college back in the 70's and 80's it is because you chose not to go and get an advanced degree We also want a partner that supports us emotionally as we will support them when times are good and not so good. We need to be trustworthy and reliable and be emotionable to our partner and not stress over all the stupid things that life throws our way. It boils down to are you emotionally, physically and emotionable to be there for your partner or just not ready. Think hard on this one or else you are wasting your time.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Has this happened to anyone else on a first date??
Posted: 1/2/2013 9:23:52 AM
she may haveTourette's syndrome also and that is not a mental illness but uncontrollable ticks
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 213 (view)
 
SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/2/2013 9:20:12 AM
you are a very wise person to publish this along with Andy Rooney who was always a no nonsense kind of guy. Here is to 50. We are hopefully comfortable in our own skin and appreciate our sexuality. We are no longer worried about everyone liking us or us pleasing everyone because we know that is an impossibility, but heaven help the men that do please us both in and out of the bedroom.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 196 (view)
 
Online dating working for you?
Posted: 9/26/2012 2:58:06 AM
his message is very clear, he has moved on.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 84 (view)
 
How do you all define aging gracefully?
Posted: 9/26/2012 2:41:36 AM
Aging gracefully is a mind set .You have to be happy with your self and how you look. If you are obsessed about every wrinkle it will be a miserable life.Inner confidence comes through and makes you just as beautiful as a 25 yr, old but you have to believe it. Nobody is perfect but with age comes wisdom and life experience and I would not want to be 25 again. Being 50 something is a great time of your life. Usually your career is set and the kids are grown and on their own. A time to be selfish a bit after yrs of doing for others.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 40 (view)
 
What are your intentions for being on this site?
Posted: 9/26/2012 1:54:14 AM
Well alot of people say they are looking for a long term relationship but I have not found this to be true . Most guys want a bootycall preferbly the first evening or the second.It has been dissapointing but I am not losing hope. If someone actually tells you they want to take it slow and you are interested in them that is great, maybe they are a keeper.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 12 (view)
 
should the first meeting be a date or just a....
Posted: 9/26/2012 1:21:33 AM
call her and talk. I hate it when i give guys my number and then they wait days to call. Talking on the phone is very different than emailing back and forth. and you seem interested. Be urself because eventually you will have to be anyway. good luck to you.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Does a shaved pussy itch?
Posted: 9/26/2012 12:59:07 AM
use veet
it takes off everything in no time at all and just rinses off in the shower shaving gives you bumps and can get itchy when it grows back like any hair
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 628 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 9/26/2012 12:50:51 AM
not an aquired talent. it just means u peed while having an orgasm. Men seem to think it is a big deal but really just a mess.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Am I to picky or critical? :help:
Posted: 9/8/2012 10:51:37 PM
he is a looser run...
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Do You Google?
Posted: 9/8/2012 10:13:22 PM
try this app "Been Verified"
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 55 (view)
 
losing erection
Posted: 8/25/2012 1:19:11 AM
try getting a****ing for him they can work wonders and then stimulate him slowly without the pressure of actual sex but just stimulation to hopefully increase his confidence. Compliment him in suttle ways and what he is able to achieve then and not press further. Next time u get together change the scenery like a bathtub with bubbles and candles and mutual stimulation but go no further again enjoy him and hopefully all the previous self defeating thoughts may leave. It takes a while to correct what was lowering his self esteem There are other ways to bring you to a climax without actual penetration and if he can achieve that that may hep too. He needs to know that he can satisfy you the other will follow. It is all about being creative and patient and understanding but never show pity that he is unable to achieve his erection at that time
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Has this happened to anyone else on a first date??
Posted: 8/11/2012 11:50:27 AM
Maybe she has Tourtette's syndrome
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 39 (view)
 
dating scams what are they
Posted: 8/11/2012 11:24:20 AM
Here are a few red flags right off the bat
He sends you a long letter which appears generic and starts with Hello Dear. No one talks like that in the U.S
He is always a widower who lost his beloved wife in a tragic accident
His child is never being raised by him but is in the U.K instead
He usually only has one pic which looks like a professional photograph.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 138 (view)
 
Emotionally Unavailable = Scared
Posted: 8/11/2012 9:38:47 AM
You are dead on, could not have said it better myself.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 16 (view)
 
I'm confused!!
Posted: 8/11/2012 7:43:55 AM
honey run
the italians are very sexy and charming and their mommas have let them get away with any behavior and that will never change,so unless you want to be the convenient, easy girl delete him.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Emotionally Unavailable = Scared
Posted: 2/22/2010 6:41:43 PM
why are peopl on dating sites if they are emotionally unavailable or are happy to be single or like you just angry at life??
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Emotionally Unavailable = Scared
Posted: 2/22/2010 6:36:23 PM
I agree with you 100% I have been on a few sites in the last few years and I have come to the conclusion that most of the men are very emotionally unavailable or just downright dishonest. If you do actually meet one they want a mom, a lover or someone just to support them. I too have alot to offer but have never met one yet that comes close to actually being a long term mate . There has to be another way to meet quality guys and if you find one let me know.
 bella0800
Joined: 1/1/2010
Msg: 49 (view)
 
its over....
Posted: 2/22/2010 6:21:33 PM
you joined the site jan.6 and you posted this jan. 10th so this happened in 4 days? He is the reason you do not bring home guys until you know them pretty well.
 
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