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 Author Thread: Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 170 (view)
 
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 8/2/2006 8:05:52 AM
some guys give out their cell number because they work alot and aren't home as much..easier to get ahold of them i think....no reason to jump to conclusions.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Meeting jerks..........
Posted: 8/2/2006 8:05:13 AM
He sounds like an ass you better off w/out him sis, you are pretty
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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No Show(ers)
Posted: 7/31/2006 5:27:21 PM
Perhaps this thread has been done a million times but I feel the need to vent so forgive me if I rattle on...I had this man chat with me for hours about how things were going so poorly in his life- we spoke on the phone in great length then he asked if it would be proper to meet me for dinner so I said, sure why not? I was planning on going out with some friends so I cancelled my plans- he really sounded like he needed someone to talk to. Well, I get myself all dressed up, hair done, etc..and this guy is a no show. To make matters worse, I NEVER got a call, an email..no explanation...there is no excuse for that. This was the first time I ever had someone no show...I guess I got to get use to it eh?
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Buying condoms
Posted: 7/31/2006 5:23:55 PM
I think I'd be more embarassed to get an STD than to buy condoms
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Racism Is Still Alive
Posted: 7/27/2006 3:32:34 PM
I recently went out with a guy I met here on POF mainly because my friends told me it was about time I "got out" so I did...The entire time I was with this guy all he could do was blame the world's problems on every minority group. He would talk about how dirty hispanic people or black people were but his place was covered in dog hair and smelled like urine! He claimed to be "slightly" overweight but turned out to be over 500 pounds....I don't know how people can judge others when their life is so out of control. I didn't realize how narrow minded people still are in this day and age...
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
When do you remove your dating profile?
Posted: 7/18/2006 8:32:38 AM
I met someone special here on POF that I'm hoping will turn into a relationship- I still enjoy chatting but made sure my profile is CLEAR that I'm only looking for friendship...I love to talk, what can I say?
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Sneeze vs. Orgasm
Posted: 7/17/2006 12:43:53 PM
sneeze close to an orgasm...yeah right you need to change the men that you are with if you got THAT comparison
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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38-year old man with a 17-year old girl - what is that?
Posted: 7/17/2006 4:03:23 AM
I am a former cutter ( a little over a year now)- i suffer from bipolar disorder and serious depression and I HATE it when people use labels to excuse horrible behaviour....HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING WAS WRONG..plain and simple. Maybe he suffered from depression or bipolar disorder, who knows..but neither would make you sleep with an underage person....is that the new excuse for cheating on our spouses now, I have a disorder? come on now.. I have made alot of mistakes in my life and they were because I MADE POOR JUDGMENT CALLS not because of my disorders!
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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My Ex : Five weeks from Separation to Suicide.
Posted: 7/16/2006 11:07:01 PM
I won't say that I know what you are going through because I do not. I will say that you are a strong man to be sitting here talking to us about your most horrible experience. I don't know what I could say that could make you feel any better- I am so sorry for your loss and I will keep you in prayers- God is the only one who can give you the strength to carry on..
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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another newbie
Posted: 7/16/2006 2:07:23 PM
Hello and welcome..hope you have a great time here!
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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califonia give me a Hollar!!!!
Posted: 7/16/2006 2:06:09 PM
I am wayyyy on the other coast here in Jersey but it's nice to see you here ----hope you have a wonderful time here...
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Would you ask for a clean bill of health before intimacy?
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:55:50 AM
you should always ask and any decent person would tell the truth!
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Just introducing myself.......
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:34:44 AM
welcome..enjoy the site!
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Brand New To POF
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:33:53 AM
You have to be able to weed through the good and the bad but there are some most wonderful people on this site! good luck hon
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Can you be converted?
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:27:53 AM
My faith is strong and I could NOT be converted. I think if your faith is weak, then you can be easily converted.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Help: In Times Of Doubt and Sorrow
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:22:33 AM
Hi, my name is Krissi and I recently suffered the loss of a wonderful man in my life- his name was Ron. He died in less than a week from a bad infection leaving me and my children lost..His death has opened my eyes to so much, helping me to grow spiritually. I am now back in church where I feel I belong and God has helped me with the strength I need to make it from day to day. Can anyone offer me some Bible verses to comfort me in this time of sorrow...I hope someday to be reunited with him in Heaven...is there any verses that you know of that promise this? Thankyou ever so much. I want to thank everyone who has been kind to me, the friends I have made on this site---God bless.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Do you think it is wrong to have your adult child in court??
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:13:18 AM
I have never had this happen to me but I feel sorry for those children involved...In my opinion a child should NEVER be in court...There is no reason the judge can't properly get their thoughts in the chambers away from the parents~! That way, the child doesn't have to feel like he is hurting one parent or the other...Hell, the child would feel intimidated in court I would have to think...that is just wrong.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Discovering your friend had sex with the same person you did
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:11:00 AM
Yeah that happened to me once wayyyy back in highschool...we both laughed for hours talking about how much he sucked in bed he tried the same cheesey pick up lines on both of us
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 51 (view)
 
I got served today.....
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:02:57 AM
You need a very good lawyer but if you have been raising this child for so long I don't see why any judge in their right mind would change the living situation so long as you are meeting the child's needs..I must commend you for being a single father; it seems like you care very much..I'll keep you in prayer..good luck.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Got my Girl to stop sucking her thumb!
Posted: 7/14/2006 6:09:36 PM
I don't want anyone to laugh but sometimes at night when I'm alone I still suck my thumb ok go ahead and laugh
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Video Games..You Tell Me..
Posted: 7/14/2006 5:38:56 PM
Very well put. It just seems that my 9 year old is ultra sensitive to things. My other children can sit and watch horror movies like they are watching a cartoon I just need to take extra time with him to help explain to him that these movies, games are not real...thanks for your responses everyone.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Is Daycare Bad?
Posted: 7/14/2006 2:47:28 PM
My children have never been in day care. I'm sure there are some very good day care centers in the U.S. but in the area where I live I have heard HORROR STORIES..and would not send my child to one. I will sacrifice and stay at home if i have to....
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Would you date a woman with a special needs child?
Posted: 7/14/2006 2:46:30 PM
My youngest son is 5 years old and will be 6 in September. He will be attending kindergarden this coming school year and being evaluated. They are not sure if he's hyperactive, ADD..or just delayed. He doesn't speak in clear sentences, throws tantrums when he is frustrated, throws food..acts in a typical 3 year old behaviour at times. My fiance accepted him along with my other boys as though they were one of his own. There are some wonderful men out there who will accept the good and the bad...I would personally date a man with a special needs child, I love children...and the ones with special needs are gifts from God
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Video Games..You Tell Me..
Posted: 7/14/2006 2:44:27 PM
I have four sons ages 11, 9, 8 and 5 years old...I would say that I'm blessed because none of them have any medical problems as of yet and I'm very thankful for that but I do have a problem that maybe some of you have experienced..My children have recently got into video games which I found was a good way for them to spend their time on rainy days, etc...now I can't get them away from the tv! I wasn't aware of the warnings on some of these video games and their father allowed them to play "Mature" video games ..He claims, as does my children, that it's fake blood and violence but I wonder if they could be the source of my 9 yr old son's nightmares...He is a very shy, sensitive boy ..am I over reacting or do you think I should cut out alot of the video game time....it seems to me that alot of kids are getting too hooked on them..thankyou.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Dating a pregnant woman?
Posted: 7/14/2006 2:37:55 PM
I think when a woman is pregnant she should be focusing on her child, her health, etc. When she has the baby and her hormones get back in check then she should be looking for someone to share her life with..When you are pregnant there is so much going on...
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Will be single mother at 19
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:46:47 AM
You have alot to deal with at such an early age. I know right now it seems hopeless but your child will bring you so much joy and with the strength every woman has inside her you will make it..God bless
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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How Do you Stop Loving someone who Stopped loving you?
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:36:55 AM
I don't think you can "make" yourself stop feeling the way you are feeling..time will help do that.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Two years for WHAT?!?
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:36:26 AM
Some people invest 20 or more years and lose it all...who knows what makes people do what they do..just be glad you didn't lose another year.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 112 (view)
 
No one likes the gothic evil guy aka Me
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:35:37 AM
there are alot of people out there into goth- i'm sure if you look in the right places you will find the one for you..to each their own.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 95 (view)
 
BBW With Broken Heart!
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:23:43 AM
it's a narrow minded man who judges based on looks alone. that is all i can say.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What happened?
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:22:55 AM
maybe he was unsure about what he wanted- confused, has another girlfriend..who knows? You deserve to forget about him and move on!
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Who knows? Only time
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:21:36 AM
They say that time heals all wounds ...I don't think you ever "get over" it like some people will have you believe but I think you can move on to live a very happy life..good luck.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
I still love him even though I don't plan on going back.
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:20:03 AM
Drugs do horrible things to nice people but hoping for a change will only hurt you...HE is the only person that can make that change no matter how much you hope and pray. Good luck!~
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Is cheating in the family?
Posted: 7/12/2006 7:18:23 AM
I wouldn't say it's something that you inherit but I'm sure living in that enviroment with people who cheat on one another could influence someone but ultimately it's up to "you".
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
should I tell him I know he was playing me?
Posted: 7/12/2006 1:03:01 AM
Three words: just walk away.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Oh Gawd My Heart ( be nice)
Posted: 7/12/2006 1:01:43 AM
Well, move on and find what you deserve out of life. Sometimes we hang onto someone hoping to change them, don't...good luck!
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Is this normal?
Posted: 7/12/2006 1:00:39 AM
I'm glad you are getting out of that abusive situation! He sounds like a jerk and would do anything to make you look bad...good luck with your future..without him!
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Trouble letting go.
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:58:14 AM
Sometimes we meet that special someone that changes us forever...How easy it is for us to judge, you made alot of mistakes but you are man enough to admit them which I think is a good step to changing...You will find someone special to share your life with just remember from your mistakes, she wasn't the one..good luck
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Nightmares....
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:55:34 AM
i have horrible nightmares that's why i'm sitting here at 4am instead of sleeping alot of it is my fault though- try not to eat anything past 7pm for some reason when I do the nightmares are worse...try taking your medications as scheduled- keep things to a routine.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Just Wondering...
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:52:16 AM
I am 33 years old, not incredibly old and I'm wondering....what happened to men and women just "hanging out"? It seems anymore when you ask a man to dinner, out for a few drinks or to the movies it is "ass"umed that there is sex involved? Where did THAT come from? I remember back in the late 80s/ early 90s groups of guys/ girls going out for drinks, singing and having a good time....do people do that anymore? just wondering.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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I Still CRY at Night ALONE!!
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:48:53 AM
You sound like a man with a very good heart to still care about someone who probably isn't worth crying over...be strong for your children and you will find someone...good luck.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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when girls say they need space
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:47:19 AM
That's one thing I never understood..My fiance use to tell me, "if you ever tell me you need space then i know it's over" which makes sense because people think you can get space from time to time ..sleep with other people and it's ok......I was glued to his side like a puppy
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Opinions wanted.
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:45:49 AM
she was using you, move on.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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My wife left me for my brother after 15 years of marriage.
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:45:05 AM
That is difficult to understand why someone would "keep it in the family"..geesh, there are so many men out there, she couldn't find someone who wasn't related to you? I'm sorry you are going through this difficult time but know it's only a "time" and you will find someone who respects you, just keep your chin up...good luck
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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why does he think i want to split up the family
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:43:32 AM
I don't know why you care what he thinks but just sit down and tell him how much he hurt you, MAKE him see..good luck.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 166 (view)
 
When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:42:40 AM
count your losses and move on. good luck.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
I could never understand people who commit suicide over heartbreak..........until now.
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:41:16 AM
The thought has crossed my mind a few times but you have to think of the things you DO have to live for, your children, your family and friends..and also, you must think of what that person would want you to do...they'd want you to live on
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Uh oh.....damn women and their feelings......
Posted: 7/12/2006 12:40:21 AM
Yes, anything is possible....it's difficult, however, with the distance...very difficult.
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Love can be cruel
Posted: 7/11/2006 12:14:07 PM
I'm sorry to hear that you never had your chance with her, is there any way you can remain friends?
 KrissiNJ72
Joined: 5/19/2006
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My Soulmate Has Passed Away.
Posted: 7/10/2006 9:02:57 PM
thankyou everyone for your kind words. I got my children into counseling, they are going to play football very soon and I got them in a church summer camp to keep them busy...As for myself, I'm back in church where I belong and keeping my mind busy. each day gets easier and i pray for all of you who have gone through a loss..thankyou.
 
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